Father Comes With The Message Of Getting Everybody To Fulfill Their Potential

In Jin Moon
December 12, 2010
Lovin' Life Ministries

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Good morning, brothers and sisters. How is everyone? It's such a beautiful, rainy day this Sunday morning, but I'm delighted to see all of you once again. We just had a lovely 40-year tribute for all the members who have walked the walk with our True Parents for the last four decades on Friday here at the Manhattan Center. We were honoring the old-timers who have been on the forefront of the American movement here, sacrificing themselves, giving their sweat, blood, and tears to build this movement, this lovely community that we call our home.

As a member of the True Family, it was such an honor for me to spend an evening with the elders of the American church, composed of some 80 Japanese brothers and sisters, some 50 Korean brothers and sisters, and 50 American brothers and sisters, being honored for their lifetime achievement.

I used the word achievement in my thanks to them because truly what they have accomplished in their life of faith was to be the kind of a protective environment that supported our True Parents through the time of the wilderness. These honorees achieved and accomplished what the disciples of Jesus Christ were not able to do. When Jesus went the way of the cross, he suffered a very lonely death. None of his disciples were there to say, "Please take me instead. Please crucify me instead. Please save my savior, the son of God." Not one of his disciples was there in a position where they would sacrifice themselves to save their lord.

But those who were honored on Friday evening were the incredible, courageous brothers and sisters who through their lives of faith were there to say, "You're not going to take our True Parents. Please take me instead. With our faith and with our lives we will support, we will work, and we will walk together with our True Parents."

It is because of their foundation of faith that our True Parents are still here with us today. Now that we're coming out of the wilderness era on the basis of their foundation and looking toward the glorious settlement era when we can express ourselves in excellence, not just internally but also externally, this is the time when we need to celebrate the achievements of these great soldiers of God and brothers and sisters of God.

As we look toward the future and toward building a skyscraper that will be miles up into the sky, it's also important for us to remember where we come from. Just as we know that whenever we look at a building, as high as it is in height, so it is deep in the ground as well, we must be anchored in our faith and in our pride in knowing what our heritage is and what kind of tradition we come from.

I called the evening "Honor Our Tradition." The acronym turns into HOT, so we were honoring the hotness of our movement. It is my intention, as we go forward in our life of faith manifesting all that is glorious within us and building that great skyscraper for God that we will at the same time deepen our understanding of who we are and deepen our foundation.

Although people usually expect that I will give the keynote speech at our large events, for this event, we also presented a selection on video of testimonies by some of the honorees. I would like to take this moment to congratulate the video editing team of Toshi and Koichi and a lot of volunteers who put together a collection of testimonies into a DVD. We have a lot more testimonies to share with all of you, but we had limited time. The honorees had a taste of all the different testimonies. It was so moving, the personal stories that they shared with the audience about our True Parents.

One German sister talked about how she was asked to be one of the first Europeans to come and work in the American providence. Her name is Clara. She was so amazed that when she arrived at the airport, guess who the welcoming committee was? It was none other than Father and Mother. Clara's testimony about seeing their faces greeting this European group, welcoming the Europeans to America so that they can begin their work together -- these are the kind of stories that need to be shared with our children and our grandchildren.

These kinds of stories really moved me so much that I was struggling as I was thinking, "How am I going to get through this speech without crying?" I saw a lot of pictures of people I know -- they all looked younger. I was preparing the collection of testimonies that will be put into a 40-year tribute book, and I mentioned on Friday one testimony I came across was from a brother named Ron Pine, who was cycling around the country with Hell's Angels. Somehow he met a brother who was riding a bicycle who needed some help. They struck up a conversation, and that's how he came to find God.

I asked myself, "What would Ron be doing now? Would he still be with Hell's Angels? I wonder where he would be working, what his family would be like? I wonder what Clara would be doing had she not come as that first group of missionaries to America. What would she have done in Germany? What kind of family would she have raised? What kind of a life would she have had?

But because they met True Parents, both Ron and Clara have become part of our worldwide family, and it doesn't matter where they came from -- either Hell's Angels or Germany. Here we are together, sharing this amazing time of the breaking news with True Parents. I thought, truly God works in mysterious ways each and every day of our lives.

At the dinner Ron came up and finished the part of his testimony that didn't make it into the book. He said, "You know, when I was 15, I told my father when we were sitting on the front porch of our house, "I am going to meet the Second Coming in my lifetime. I am going to meet the messiah in my lifetime." About a decade later, after he left Hell's Angels to join the Unification movement, his father reminded him. "Do you remember when you were 15, we were sitting on the porch and you declared to me that you were going to meet the messiah in your lifetime?" Yes, he did. And yes, you and I, we all met this Lord of the Second Coming, the messiah, our True Parents.

I looked out into the audience and saw all these old-timers enjoying each other's company: Some of them have not seen each other for many, many years. Because of the magic of technology, not only were 200 gathered here, but we could celebrate that lovely evening with all of America. It was really a family affair -- –for the younger generation to honor the older members, to honor the "hotness" in our elders, and for the Abel, the True Family to honor the Cain, which is the First Generation. This was in the spirit of wanting to work together, in the spirit of reconciliation and unity. Despite whatever we have gone through, it's our desire to honor each other in the life that we have been given and recommit ourselves to march on until we build the Kingdom of God that we're waiting for.

When I thought about all the different brothers and sisters whom I have known over the years, and I know the personal testimonies of many of them -- both their hardships, trials, and tribulations and their days of glory and triumph -- I had to meditate about the evening after the event and think about how difficult it must have been to follow our True Parents for the last four or five decades.

But because they were absolutely dedicated in wanting to live a life of faith, somehow they persevered. I was thinking that just as I go out of my way each day to find five or ten minutes of beautiful silence when I can commune with our Heavenly Parent, many of you no doubt have had beautiful silent moments with our Heavenly Parent, when you found yourself emptying the cares of the world, turning yourselves into an empty vessel and a pure receptacle of the message, or the beauty of the universal languages of music and love that our Heavenly Parent wants to share with us.

One of the most difficult things I have found in my life of faith is that many times when we're dealing with our modern day life with our ideal spouse, our ideal children, and hopefully our ideal job, it's like dealing with a huge monster every day. I'm reminded of the story of David and Goliath. In a metaphorical sense Goliath can be symbolic of all our insecurity, anxiety, and worries -- all the things that cause fear in everyone.

Many times I've experienced my own Goliath in my life of faith, and I'm sure you have as well. But every time I'm confronted with a Goliath-like obstacle or difficulty or conundrum I need to work through, I'm reminded of this story in I Samuel. Here is a ruddy-complexioned handsome boy who feels called to fight the Philistine giant who brings shivers to everyone who hears his name. But armed with faith in God and the knowledge that God is with him, what does David do? He approaches King Saul and says, "Let me fight Goliath."

What David does is quite proactive. He asks Saul, "Let me fight Goliath." Of course Saul laughs and says, "Goliath sends shivers down the spines of the strongest, most experienced soldiers, and you, little boy, want to fight Goliath?" David insists he wants to fight Goliath, that as a shepherd he has fought lions and bears, and with the strength of God he chased them away and destroyed them, so with strength and faith in God he will get rid of Goliath.

David asks, but he's also seeking the opportunity to fight Goliath, to look at the things that cause fear and not just be petrified but to actually be proactive, to ask permission to go after it. In the face of his youthful exuberance and innocence, or maybe King Saul just wanting to test this young person, King Saul allows him to go.

What does David do? He articulates exactly what he's going to do. He tells Goliath he will destroy him because he is armed with faith and the power of God, and he will chop off his head. Of course, Goliath laughs at him. Goliath is huge, a crushing giant. David is a young boy, probably looking like a scrawny teenager, just holding onto a few pebbles and a sling. He must have looked funny, just as we look funny when we're being crushed by our own demons. Maybe God is looking at us, saying, "Mmmmm," and maybe smiling and hoping we can be victorious like David.

But what does David do? Even when King Saul offers David the king's own bronze helmet and coat, David shakes it off, saying, "I'm not accustomed to this. I will go as I am." David goes as he is. He refuses to carry all the worldly layers that people might want to put on him. When you're fighting your Goliath, you have to be honest with yourself. You have to go as your truthful body.

David's taking off the armor, going as he is, represents something we all need to do in this place that we may designate as the place we want to commune with God, to explore, understand, and overcome our difficulties. We have to go as we truly are, shedding the external layers and external armor that many times we carry around. Some of us may say, "I'm not afraid," but maybe we're fooling ourselves. Maybe we can fool other people, but it's very difficult to fool ourselves.

David declares to the Philistines and to Goliath, "This is what I'm going to do. I am going to destroy you." Then instead of just standing, he charges the enemy line. He's a very engaging fellow. He's proactive; he's seeking. Then what does he do? With a sling and a rock, he knocks Goliath out.

When I think about this story, it very much reminds me of Matthew 7:7, where it says, "Ask, and it shall be given to you. Seek, and you will find. Knock, and it shall be opened unto you." What David was doing with his demons, this Goliath-like demon, was shooting it down, destroying it with a rock and a sling. The rock is symbolic of the rock of faith and the slingshot can be seen as something that supports and propels our faith forward.

Armed with faith in God and knowing that he is here to believe, he goes ahead. He seeks the permission of the king. Then he seeks his enemy, and he knocks him down with his faith. When the Good Book says, "Ask, and it shall be given to you. Seek, and you shall find. Knock, and it shall be opened unto you," God is promising his children that, just like David, if we are armed with faith in Heavenly Parent and True Parents, all we need to do is to be humble and in a position where we are asking.

When we ask, it's because we want to invite something in. When we invite God in, it shall be given to us. All the things that we need will be given to us. That sentence is a reminder in my mind to tell myself, just believe. "Ask, and it shall be given to me." When we invite God into our life, there are so many things going on all around us, even in our life of faith, even when we're blessed children. We're dealing with the church, dealing with our friends, dealing with our family, and dealing with things on the Internet.

I just heard a report about one Second Gen returning from a workshop in Los Angeles. It was there that the knowledge of all these bad things on the Internet was shared with other blessed children. This perplexes me. Here we are coming together to learn about our community, God, and True Parents. Why do we bring into such a holy place this kind of knowledge that dirties the minds of our young people? We have to be cognizant and not arrogant in our knowledge of certain things. When we claim to know something, do we really know? Were you there? Have you talked to that person? Do you know the person in question? How do you really know?

When we think we know something that others do not know, it makes us feel powerful, so we want to act like Goliath unto these seemingly feeble-minded people who don't seem to know anything. In our knowledge, we become arrogant: "Let me tell you a thing or two about these people." It puts them in a position where they get a lot of attention for a while.

But when we find ourselves in that position, seemingly armed with this knowledge that we have just learned, we, as faithful people wanting to be someone who honors God and True Parents with our lives, have to ask ourselves the question, "What kind of a person do I want to be?" The Bible says, "Ask, and it shall be given to you." What are we asking? Are we asking for God just to solve all our problems? Or are we inviting God in so it shall be given to you, the fuller faith and stronger knowledge of who God and True Parents are? These are the questions we must ask ourselves.

In the sea of fear and all the static going on, how can we stay vigilant and true? There's an interesting story Reverend Jenkins shared with me when I met with him a couple of days ago to discuss the new vision for ACLC. Rev. Tanya Edwards, the beautiful wife of Rev. Jesse Edwards, was visiting our True Parents at East Garden. She has one of those faces that look very angelic to me -- beautiful bright blue eyes, kind of roly-poly cheeks. But her eyes have a hint of sadness, and it reminds me of something I saw in a dream a long time ago. To me she's a very angelic presence.

When Father first met her, he said to her, "Your faith is like a kindergartner's." Mrs. Edwards said, "What? I am not a kindergartner." Father said, "Your faith is like a kindergartner's." She said, "What do you mean?!" She had some difficulty digesting what Father really meant. I said, "Reverend Jenkins, don't you realize that our True Father gave Mrs. Edwards the highest compliment? Father has often said that in order to go to the Kingdom of Heaven we must be childlike -- pure, innocent, practicing the words 'just believe.'"

The child just believes in the parents. The child just believes in God because he or she has yet to be contaminated by all the static in the air. Father was giving Mrs. Edwards the most profound compliment because he probably looked at her face and saw that angel that I see, like a child, like someone in kindergarten.

When Reverend Jenkins shared that with Mrs. Edwards, she was so inspired. Again she realized how True Father doesn't just look at the externals of a person. He was seeing her heart and soul, her inner self. He saw what I saw.

"Ask, and it shall be given to you": To put yourself in the position of asking is to put yourself in the position of a student, like a child asking, beseeching, inquiring, and requesting of a parent. We need to be childlike in that simple frame of mind, no matter how static-y or how complicated our life might get. It's important to keep pure and innocent in our faith, in our love of God and True Parents, and just believe.

The Bible goes on, "Seek, and you shall find," not "it shall find you." The Bible says, "Seek, and you shall find." The verb seek is very interesting because it means "to go after." It means "to discover, to find." What David did in engaging the enemy, Goliath, was very proactive. It was something he did not have to do but he wanted to do because he was moved and inspired in knowing that God was with him. He was propelled by his own faith in God, and he wanted to defeat what was terrorizing his people.

David went after, sought after, his demon, his Goliath. What the Bible is asking us to do is, instead of just sitting idle and being crushed by the weight of all the static, all the information that we don't know how to digest, to be proactive in engaging our fears, our demons, our Goliath, not because we have to but because we want to. David was not seeking his own glory; he was seeking the enemy because he wanted to relieve his people of this terror.

When the Bible says, "Seek, and you shall find," it's a reminder to live our life in a certain way. It's asking us not to just sit idle and be crushed. It's asking us to grab our life, grab the horns of destiny within our hands, and do something about it -- and not for personal glory, but just like David who was serving his community, living the philosophy of serving others. He was thinking about his people.

It's a reminder for all of us in our community to serve, and to seek and conquer our own demons and burdens that are crushing us, because we want to continue to serve and to bring glory not just to our families but to our communities, our nation, and our world. It's an invitation for us to practice living for the sake of others, just because.

The Bible says, "Seek, and you shall find," because it is within our hands. It's within your hands. When you decide, when I decide, to serve, we are acting as the agent of change that will help us find exactly what we need to defeat, overcome, and go through challenges to be the kind of individuals we would like to be.

When the Bible goes on and says, "Knock, and it shall be opened unto you," it does not say, "Knock, and it shall be opened into you," or "It shall be opened over you." It says, "It shall be opened unto you," like an incredible grace when we realize in our moment of beautiful silence that, no matter what we are going through, God is with us each and every moment of our lives.

The Bible says, "Knock." The Bible doesn't say to crush the door, and it will be opened unto you. The Bible doesn't say to explode, and it shall be opened unto you. The Bible doesn't say to destroy it, and it will be opened unto you. It says, "Knock." It's reminding us again how we need to be childlike.

Whenever we approach our parents' room, wherever they might be, we never approach to destroy: "Mom, I'm here," BOOM. We don't stand there wanting to explode it open because we want a dramatic entrance into our parents' room. We don't barge in the door. We treat that door with respect and quietly knock on it, honoring who is behind the door.

When I think about this, it reminds me of the story a friend of mine once shared with me. He went on a Boy Scout outing with his son, spending a week or two outdoors. They were in the mountains with a beautiful lake, so there was a great deal of canoeing and water sports. One day everybody decided to get into their canoes and go to the other side, perhaps to prepare a campfire. Everybody got in a boat and pushed off.

My friend's son realized there was a whole convoy of boats going toward the other side, and, being young, he said, "Dad, it's a competition. Let's win." They paddled like mad, and others started wondering, "Is this a competition?" Then everybody started racing. With their head start, my friend and his son reached the other side first. As the other boats were coming in, his son was whooping, "We won! We won!" The last boat that arrived was paddled by his dad's best friend. The boy ran up and yelled, "We won! You lost!" He was competitive, and he fought a good fight across the lake. He won, and he wanted to let the last boat know that he was the victor.

His father's friend quietly turned to him and said, "You won, did you? We had the longer trip," meaning they were enjoying their trip. That's when the boy suddenly couldn't say anything.

When we think of "Knock, and it shall be opened unto you," I think many times we are barraging God: "Help me!" We are exploding in front of God, not realizing that in front of God we have to honor our Heavenly Parent with our presence, that we should respectfully knock and it will be revealed to us. It reminds me of the importance of just breathing. Matthew 7:7 reminds me of my own philosophy to just believe. Ask, and it shall be given to you. Just believe. Seek, and you shall find. Serve others, love others, and you will find exactly what you're looking for.

What are we looking for? We are looking to experience the heart of God. It's when we love each other, not because we want something at the end of the rainbow, but because we want to experience the heart of God, we want to love, just because. It's a reminder to practice our own philosophy, just because we want to experience the heart of God.

When the Bible says, "Knock, and it shall be opened unto you," it's a reminder to me to just breathe. I always remind myself, "Before you go into your parents' room, take a moment of silence." I know I'm going to be in my parents' presence. I knock respectfully, but before I knock I always remember to breathe -- and I take deep breaths: "One, calm. Two, again calm. Three, again calm yourself." And then I knock.

This Bible passage reminds me that in all things in life sometimes when we take things too seriously or try to do things too desperately or too quickly, when it's not time yet, then we end up frustrating ourselves more than we really need to. When I remind myself, "Just breathe," it's my mother's voice talking in the back of my mind. "Just breathe, let it pass. Let things be." Or in the words of the Beatles, "Let it be."

Knowing that we are armed in the faith and the love of our Heavenly Parent, we need to just believe that things will turn out fine. Invariably, and in due time, they do. When we face what is seemingly crushing and insurmountable, as long as we remember to just breathe, just believe, and love each other just because, it helps us through the difficult moments.

We realize that just as David slew the great monster Goliath with his faith, we can do the same with the support of those who love us -- our family and maybe our friends and community -- if we are armed with our faith. We can do the same as David if we decide just to believe and to practice that in our daily life knowing that God is with us and we are breathing together with God every step of the way, not being destroyed or exploded by all of our problems or by not knowing where we are.

In understanding that we have a Parent in heaven and, more important than that, we have our True Parents here working with and guiding us, we realize that the only thing we need to do is concentrate on our unity with our True Parents, being together in heart and mind, and understanding that they're hoping for a revolution of heart in their children so we can experience the heart of God in an ideal family. That's a beautiful thing.

I'm thinking of Father's speech of September 11, 1977, "The Heart of Reunion," in God's Will and the World [pp. 423–435]. Father had been away for 70 days or so, and when he saw the members again, he was so happy. He talked a lot about the beauty of East and West, and why the West needs the Eastern culture. He talked about how the West is like the high noon culture where everything is bright and glorious. But in order for the Western culture to continue to grow and be great, it must understand that the high noon of a culture comes after it has gone through the darkness, the deep mysteriousness of midnight, and the culture is moving again toward the midnight. Everything is in a cycle.

Father talked about this beautiful relationship of East and West, which is unique to our community. One of the things he shared with the brothers and sisters is his definition of what an ideal family is all about. He said that an ideal family is not symbolic of uniformity and regimentation. Those two words very much reflect our understanding of a religious life in the time of the wilderness. We were like soldiers. We had to be regimented. We had to be put in uniforms literally so we could stay coalesced and focused in the huge, dark wilderness.

But Father was saying that an ideal family is really a family where the most important thing is harmony resulting not from uniform, regimented people but from people in their distinctive ways and roles. Harmony is made more beautiful when East and West unite. They're like polar opposites, like night and day.

Father talked about how when we're thinking about creating an ideal world, it doesn't mean everybody is going to be the same. It means that some of you will be redheads, some will be blonde, some will still have black hair. Some of us might be white, some black, some might be yellow. But an ideal family is a place where we can all come together in harmony and in love, keeping the distinctive and unique values that make us who we are.

That speech was an incredibly profound one for me. As we move forward into this millennium of peace, it doesn't mean we're all going to be boring in our sameness and uniformity. We need to develop our divine potential; we must exercise our divine creativity. We must allow the signatures of our distinctive roles to be left behind as something beautiful for our children and grandchildren to share.

Just as the great honorees from Friday's gala have left their signatures by sharing their testimonies with us, they have left something beautiful behind. I will never forget Mrs. Ang's personal testimony about the blessing and about how she was so afraid that Dr. Ang was not going to show up when he was really, really late to the blessing. But one of the most beautiful things she conveyed to all of us during her interview was that the main thing she remembers from her blessing was her husband's tears falling on her hands, drop by drop. These are the kind of stories, the testimonies that will be carried and shared with our children and grandchildren.

What we were celebrating on Friday was not just lifting up the elders but everything that our community is and will be. Father talked in his speech "The Heart of Reunion" about how America is representative of the autumn season, the harvest season. This is the country of plenty. This is the country that everybody wants to come to. But Father warned the American people, saying, when you know you are in autumn, you are looking to the winter before you see spring.

Father comes with the message of true love, with the message of trying to get everybody to fulfill his or her true potential. Father says he comes armed with love and faith, but also armed with a certain amount of discipline. Some discipline is needed in autumn for human beings to have enough to eat through winter, to face spring. Some fruit needs to be turned into marmalade so we can enjoy it throughout the winter. Some cucumbers need to be pickled so we can still enjoy the crunch of a cucumber in the dead of winter.

Father talks about the importance of discipline in preparing ourselves to be the strong seed in the springtime that God will grab with his hand and sprinkle all over the fertile ground that he has prepared. That is what God wants for all his children.

We are living in a country representative of autumn. There is so much of everything. There's a lot of technology, money, and fashion -- a lot of whatever you want in this country. But we must be prepared to meet our winter, knowing that there is a spring ahead.

I was reminding the honorees on Friday that because they have gone through their 40 years of winter and because of their discipline and sacrifice, they kept our True Parents alive, something that Jesus' disciples could not do. It's an amazing accomplishment in and of itself. But this is the time of spring, when God is waiting to sprinkle all of us into his fertile ground so that we can revel and enjoy prosperity and we can actually enjoy loving life, truly celebrating life with each other.

Brothers and sisters, our True Parents are coming back to America once again, and I hope you can join with me in sending them a lot of good ol' American loving. With that in mind, have a lovely Sunday and a beautiful week. Thank you.

Notes:

1 Samuel, chapter 17

1: Now the Philistines gathered their armies for battle; and they were gathered at Socoh, which belongs to Judah, and encamped between Socoh and Aze'kah, in E'phes-dam'mim.

2: And Saul and the men of Israel were gathered, and encamped in the valley of Elah, and drew up in line of battle against the Philistines.

3: And the Philistines stood on the mountain on the one side, and Israel stood on the mountain on the other side, with a valley between them.

4: And there came out from the camp of the Philistines a champion named Goliath, of Gath, whose height was six cubits and a span.

5: He had a helmet of bronze on his head, and he was armed with a coat of mail, and the weight of the coat was five thousand shekels of bronze.

6: And he had greaves of bronze upon his legs, and a javelin of bronze slung between his shoulders.

7: And the shaft of his spear was like a weaver's beam, and his spear's head weighed six hundred shekels of iron; and his shield-bearer went before him.

8: He stood and shouted to the ranks of Israel, "Why have you come out to draw up for battle? Am I not a Philistine, and are you not servants of Saul? Choose a man for yourselves, and let him come down to me.

9: If he is able to fight with me and kill me, then we will be your servants; but if I prevail against him and kill him, then you shall be our servants and serve us."

10: And the Philistine said, "I defy the ranks of Israel this day; give me a man, that we may fight together."

11: When Saul and all Israel heard these words of the Philistine, they were dismayed and greatly afraid.

12: Now David was the son of an Eph'rathite of Bethlehem in Judah, named Jesse, who had eight sons. In the days of Saul the man was already old and advanced in years.

13: The three eldest sons of Jesse had followed Saul to the battle; and the names of his three sons who went to the battle were Eli'ab the first-born, and next to him Abin'adab, and the third Shammah.

14: David was the youngest; the three eldest followed Saul,

15: but David went back and forth from Saul to feed his father's sheep at Bethlehem.

16: For forty days the Philistine came forward and took his stand, morning and evening.

17: And Jesse said to David his son, "Take for your brothers an ephah of this parched grain, and these ten loaves, and carry them quickly to the camp to your brothers;

18: also take these ten cheeses to the commander of their thousand. See how your brothers fare, and bring some token from them."

19: Now Saul, and they, and all the men of Israel, were in the valley of Elah, fighting with the Philistines.

20: And David rose early in the morning, and left the sheep with a keeper, and took the provisions, and went, as Jesse had commanded him; and he came to the encampment as the host was going forth to the battle line, shouting the war cry.

21: And Israel and the Philistines drew up for battle, army against army.

22: And David left the things in charge of the keeper of the baggage, and ran to the ranks, and went and greeted his brothers.

23: As he talked with them, behold, the champion, the Philistine of Gath, Goliath by name, came up out of the ranks of the Philistines, and spoke the same words as before. And David heard him.

24: All the men of Israel, when they saw the man, fled from him, and were much afraid.

25: And the men of Israel said, "Have you seen this man who has come up? Surely he has come up to defy Israel; and the man who kills him, the king will enrich with great riches, and will give him his daughter, and make his father's house free in Israel."

26: And David said to the men who stood by him, "What shall be done for the man who kills this Philistine, and takes away the reproach from Israel? For who is this uncircumcised Philistine, that he should defy the armies of the living God?"

27: And the people answered him in the same way, "So shall it be done to the man who kills him."

28: Now Eli'ab his eldest brother heard when he spoke to the men; and Eli'ab's anger was kindled against David, and he said, "Why have you come down? And with whom have you left those few sheep in the wilderness? I know your presumption, and the evil of your heart; for you have come down to see the battle."

29: And David said, "What have I done now? Was it not but a word?"

30: And he turned away from him toward another, and spoke in the same way; and the people answered him again as before.

31: When the words which David spoke were heard, they repeated them before Saul; and he sent for him.

32: And David said to Saul, "Let no man's heart fail because of him; your servant will go and fight with this Philistine."

33: And Saul said to David, "You are not able to go against this Philistine to fight with him; for you are but a youth, and he has been a man of war from his youth."

34: But David said to Saul, "Your servant used to keep sheep for his father; and when there came a lion, or a bear, and took a lamb from the flock,

35: I went after him and smote him and delivered it out of his mouth; and if he arose against me, I caught him by his beard, and smote him and killed him.

36: Your servant has killed both lions and bears; and this uncircumcised Philistine shall be like one of them, seeing he has defied the armies of the living God."

37: And David said, "The LORD who delivered me from the paw of the lion and from the paw of the bear, will deliver me from the hand of this Philistine." And Saul said to David, "Go, and the LORD be with you!"

38: Then Saul clothed David with his armor; he put a helmet of bronze on his head, and clothed him with a coat of mail.

39: And David girded his sword over his armor, and he tried in vain to go, for he was not used to them. Then David said to Saul, "I cannot go with these; for I am not used to them." And David put them off.

40: Then he took his staff in his hand, and chose five smooth stones from the brook, and put them in his shepherd's bag or wallet; his sling was in his hand, and he drew near to the Philistine.

41: And the Philistine came on and drew near to David, with his shield-bearer in front of him.

42: And when the Philistine looked, and saw David, he disdained him; for he was but a youth, ruddy and comely in appearance.

43: And the Philistine said to David, "Am I a dog, that you come to me with sticks?" And the Philistine cursed David by his gods.

44: The Philistine said to David, "Come to me, and I will give your flesh to the birds of the air and to the beasts of the field."

45: Then David said to the Philistine, "You come to me with a sword and with a spear and with a javelin; but I come to you in the name of the LORD of hosts, the God of the armies of Israel, whom you have defied.

46: This day the LORD will deliver you into my hand, and I will strike you down, and cut off your head; and I will give the dead bodies of the host of the Philistines this day to the birds of the air and to the wild beasts of the earth; that all the earth may know that there is a God in Israel,

47: and that all this assembly may know that the LORD saves not with sword and spear; for the battle is the LORD'S and he will give you into our hand."

48: When the Philistine arose and came and drew near to meet David, David ran quickly toward the battle line to meet the Philistine.

49: And David put his hand in his bag and took out a stone, and slung it, and struck the Philistine on his forehead; the stone sank into his forehead, and he fell on his face to the ground.

50: So David prevailed over the Philistine with a sling and with a stone, and struck the Philistine, and killed him; there was no sword in the hand of David.

51: Then David ran and stood over the Philistine, and took his sword and drew it out of its sheath, and killed him, and cut off his head with it. When the Philistines saw that their champion was dead, they fled.

52: And the men of Israel and Judah rose with a shout and pursued the Philistines as far as Gath and the gates of Ekron, so that the wounded Philistines fell on the way from Sha-ara'im as far as Gath and Ekron.

53: And the Israelites came back from chasing the Philistines, and they plundered their camp.

54: And David took the head of the Philistine and brought it to Jerusalem; but he put his armor in his tent.

55: When Saul saw David go forth against the Philistine, he said to Abner, the commander of the army, "Abner, whose son is this youth?" And Abner said, "As your soul lives, O king, I cannot tell."

56: And the king said, "Inquire whose son the stripling is."

57: And as David returned from the slaughter of the Philistine, Abner took him, and brought him before Saul with the head of the Philistine in his hand.

58: And Saul said to him, "Whose son are you, young man?" And David answered, "I am the son of your servant Jesse the Bethlehemite."

Matthew, chapter 7

1: "Judge not, that you be not judged.

2: For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and the measure you give will be the measure you get.

3: Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?

4: Or how can you say to your brother, `Let me take the speck out of your eye,' when there is the log in your own eye?

5: You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye.

6: "Do not give dogs what is holy; and do not throw your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under foot and turn to attack you.

7: "Ask, and it will be given you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.

8: For every one who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened.

9: Or what man of you, if his son asks him for bread, will give him a stone?

10: Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a serpent?

11: If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him!

12: So whatever you wish that men would do to you, do so to them; for this is the law and the prophets.

13: "Enter by the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the way is easy, that leads to destruction, and those who enter by it are many.

14: For the gate is narrow and the way is hard, that leads to life, and those who find it are few.

15: "Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep's clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves.

16: You will know them by their fruits. Are grapes gathered from thorns, or figs from thistles?

17: So, every sound tree bears good fruit, but the bad tree bears evil fruit.

18: A sound tree cannot bear evil fruit, nor can a bad tree bear good fruit.

19: Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire.

20: Thus you will know them by their fruits.

21: "Not every one who says to me, `Lord, Lord,' shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of my Father who is in heaven.

22: On that day many will say to me, `Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?'

23: And then will I declare to them, `I never knew you; depart from me, you evildoers.'

24: "Every one then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house upon the rock;

25: and the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat upon that house, but it did not fall, because it had been founded on the rock.

26: And every one who hears these words of mine and does not do them will be like a foolish man who built his house upon the sand;

27: and the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell; and great was the fall of it."

28: And when Jesus finished these sayings, the crowds were astonished at his teaching,

29: for he taught them as one who had authority, and not as their scribes.

Let it Be

The Beatles (Lennon/McCartney)
From the album Let It Be

When I find myself in times of trouble
Mother Mary comes to me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be.
And in my hour of darkness
She is standing right in front of me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be.
Let it be, let it be.
Whisper words of wisdom, let it be.

And when the broken hearted people
Living in the world agree,
There will be an answer, let it be.
For though they may be parted there is
Still a chance that they will see
There will be an answer, let it be.
Let it be, let it be. Yeah
There will be an answer, let it be.

And when the night is cloudy,
There is still a light that shines on me,
Shine on until tomorrow, let it be.
I wake up to the sound of music
Mother Mary comes to me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be.
Let it be, let it be.
There will be an answer, let it be.
Let it be, let it be,
Whisper words of wisdom, let it be 

Rev. In Jin Moon's Sermon -- Sunday, December 5, 2010

December 7, 2010
Unofficial notes: Andrew Compton

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1) The "reading" was a clip from Youtube "A Lost Generation." (If you read it backwards -- the same passage will give a totally different meaning)

A lost Generation

I realize this may be a shock but
happiness comes from within
is a lie, and
"Money will make me happy"
so in 30 years I will tell my children
they are not the most important thing in my life
My employer will know that
I have my priorities straight because
Work
is more important than
family
I tell you this
once upon a time
families stay together
but this will not be true in my era
this is a quick fix society
experts tell me
30 years from now I'll be celebrating the 10th anniversary of my divorce
I do not concede that
I will live in a country of my own making
in the future
environmental destruction will be the norm
no longer can it be said that
my peers and I care about this earth
it will be evident that
my generation is apathetic and lethargic
it is foolish to presume that
there is hope

And all of this will come true unless we choose to reverse it.

there is hope

it is foolish to presume that
my generation is apathetic and lethargic
it will be evident that
there is hope
it is foolish to presume that
my generation is apathetic and lethargic
it will be evident that
my peers and I care about this earth
no longer can it be said that
environmental destruction will be the norm
in the future
I will live in a country of my own making
I do not concede that
30 years from now I'll be celebrating the 10th anniversary of my divorce
experts tell me
this is a quick fix society
but this will not be true in my era
families stay together
once upon a time
I tell you this
family
is more important than
Work
I have my priorities straight because
My employer will know that
they are not the most important thing in my life
so in 30 years I will tell my children
"Money will make me happy"
is a lie, and
happiness comes from within
I realize this may be a shock but
A lost Generation

2) In Jin Nim welcomed everyone. It's been a while since she's seen us. They spent a lovely Thanksgiving weekend with True Parents in Las Vegas. She got to meet our West Coast members once again. True Parents gave their hearts in addressing those who attended the world assembly 2010.

3) True Father's heart as a True Parents of mankind is to invest in his children, his eternal sons and daughters, so they can become great men and women of God.

4) In Jin Nim is realizing more and more as True Father visits us more often, and more often in Las Vegas, she asked members, why Las Vegas of all places? Father wants to change Sin City into the shining city on the hill.

5) Why do people come to Las Vegas? They want to win the jackpot. They want to experience their luck. It seems like our True Parents keep bringing us to Las Vegas to remind us that we are all jackpot winners! Are we not?

6) We Have our True Parents with us -- knowing that they want America and our American movement to be great, they want our American sons and daughters to be that incredible son and daughter who can usher in the new millennium. To know that they are here at this time together with us -- sharing the breaking news and encouraging everyone around the world to think of ourselves as belonging to one family, and to let everyone into this family of God through the process of the blessing -- by being blessed to someone who is different, with a different background, race, or religion -- encouraging all of us to respect where we come from, but at the same time learn how to live and love together as a family. This has been the most important message that our True Parents have brought to the world -- and to be experiencing it at this time is incredible.

7) When In Jin Nim got back they had to prepare for Sunday's service -- and when she visited the band after their rehearsal she bumped into Dave Hunter and his wife Mitsuru and their new baby they call Little Dave. This was the first time she had the chance to meet him up close and personal. She asked if she could hold him for a while. The members at love and life are very proud of Little Dave -- they heard that Mitsuru would be expecting while working at love and life -- and it's a beautiful thing that they could welcomed this baby as a part of our worldwide family. Now everywhere she goes Little Dave is with her and he is such a bright spirit and so cute. In Jin Nim thought Dave and Mitsuru weren't bad, but Little Dave is a definite improvement.

8) Little David was so engaging. He is talking his own language, googly googly. He was making eye contact with In Jin Nim and gave her a big smile and looked at others and looked back at her and give her another big smile. Babies respond to a woman's voice because it's so close to what they're used to hearing from their mother. When In Jin Nim was holding him he was a bundle of delight and energy. She held him facing his parents, but when he heard her voice he kept looking back and up at her.

When In Jin Nim was thinking about how precious Little David is and about all the new blessed children that are being born and new members that are being born into the Lovin Life Ministry -- she was thinking what kind of generation are they going to be a part of? And so she wanted to share that YouTube clip (A lost Generation) with us this morning.

9) It poignantly expresses something that is very important for all of us to think about as human beings. It starts out, we are a lost generation, telling us what we're not going to be and what were not going to do -- it is very pessimistic, how a young person going through a difficult time in their life might look at the world -- a generation that will put work before family, that will not understand the value of the children, that will lead to divorce, all these things that are so depressing. In Jin Nim has often said that when she hears that someone is lost, it means someone who is lonely, someone who is a lonely orphan seeking some kind of understanding or truth.

10) Many times young people feel lost when they cannot find their center or their core, or an understanding or a relationship with God. The interesting thing is that when you see the video clip it's almost like a litany of all the reasons that we are a lost generation. She did not alter the text. She did not alter anything. But just by changing the perspective, by changing the direction of the same message, it becomes empowering and incredibly inspiring and hopeful.

11) Instead of understanding this page of words as a declaration of the lost generation, a generation that is lonely like an orphan, constantly seeking, never satisfied because they don't have the truth, instead of a lost generation -- when we change the direction, a different way of looking at exactly the same thing, we have single handedly turned a depressing and hopeless message into one that is inspiring and promising, that eludes to a generation that is not lost, but one that is found in God and in the understanding that we really are His children and Her children. In understanding what an incredible time this is to be living with our True Parents here -- we realize that instead of understanding ourselves as being a part of the lost generation we can change that way of thinking by simply looking at it from a different perspective and realize that we are not lost -- but in God and True Parents and in each other would become a generation of peace.

12) Over the last year or so at Lovin Life, In Jin Nim has defined what generation peace is all about. She has said over and over, by taking the word peace and understanding it as an acronym -- starting off with the letter -- understanding who we are as a children of the Heavenly Parent, but not just as children but understanding the profundity of having our True Parents here with us. And the letter E, understanding that we are their eternal sons and daughters. Eternal, meaning that we are divine human beings, that we have incredible worth, and that we have an incredible reservoir of true love that once tapped into we can do extraordinary things with. And the letter A, understanding that our philosophy is that of altruism, living for the sake of others. Not dying for the sake of others, but truly living, truly been empowered, celebrating the life that we've been given, understanding the importance of the letter C, the need for compassion in this cold modern world. The importance of empathy, able to put ourselves in someone else's shoes, and truly loving somebody -- not because we have to, but because we want to.

13) Through the beautiful touch and healing of words of encouragement and nurture that we can share with one another, we can become stronger in our emotional makeup and spiritual and physical makeup -- which leads us to the final letter E, which stands for the excellence of both internal and external -- meaning that we are internally excellent in terms of our life of faith and our understanding of who we are and what we need to do. We are not a lost generation swimming and drifting on an endless sea with no direction. We have a clear direction and purpose in our life. We know what we need to do. We know that we need to seize the moment, to seize each day and make it worthwhile. Because, one step at a time we are going towards that beautiful world that we are going to call our own -- the world of peace.

14) Knowing that we are internally excellent, we need to manifest that internal excellence outward through the different ways that we can affect the people in our lives, in our professions -- through our ability to care for, and our ability to guide or teach and leave a beautiful signature on this world that is uniquely us, that is uniquely you, that is uniquely me. In this process we can go through the stages of perfecting ourselves individually, and then find ourselves in the context as a couple in a marriage, dealing with all the obstacles and issues that arise, but understanding that life is a process of growth, it is an opportunity to grow and deepen who we are -- then we approach every difficulty with a grateful heart and we approach every obstacle with the excitement of learning something new, knowing that, regardless of how painful the process might be, in the end we will be holding a wisdom nugget that we can share with our loved ones and with our children. And it will be something they can share with their children, and so on and so forth.

15) When In Jin Nim thought about this generation of peace and how she would like to see Little Dave grow up to be a member of that generation of peace -- someone who lives their life as part of this One Family Under God, someone who looks at his brothers and sisters of different faiths and still loves them as his own, someone who wants to do good things, not just because he will be rewarded by his mother, but just because he wants to do good things, someone who wants to inspire others to do better, and encourage those around him to grow and to prosper, and, at the same time, become that excellent man and a father and a son of God. This is what In Jin Nim as the senior pastor wishes upon Little Dave, and it is what she wishes upon all of us. This is what our True Parents and our Heavenly Parent want for all of us.

16) If we are going to be members of the generation of peace, and we believe that the most important thing in the universe is true love, and we as human beings have this incredible opportunity to experience true love and to share the love with the rest of the world -- how do we exist as an individual in the context of the family, how do we exist as a spouse in the context of marriage, how do we exists in the context of this community, like our own, and truly practice love in our daily life? How do we go about loving each other, so that each day week can work on ourselves, so that we can hone our skills, and make other people better than what we are? And how do we go about truly being the kind of person that could be the spark of a wonderful imagination, the spark for the source of unity in the family, the spark that excites young people to dream of all that they would like to accomplish in their world.

17) As a mother, In Jin Nim has often thought about this. How do you go about practicing love on a daily basis? We have an understanding of where we would like to be, where we would like to go, but in a practical sense how do we apply what we believe and actually exercise and practice day-to-day what we want to be and how we want to carry ourselves out through the course of the day?

18) One of the things that In Jin Nim realized in her life of faith and also in her family, is something that she calls the three points. Whenever she is confronted with a situation that is difficult, that is pressing, that is crushing, she reminds herself of these three points.

19) The first point comes from her mother, many years ago. Her mother is an extremely elegant woman, a woman of few words, but when she speaks there is an incredible amount of wisdom. In Jin Nim remembers a long time ago they were spending a summer in Gloucester at Morning Garden. Father spent the summer their tuna fishing. While her father went fishing, In Jin Nim would normally accompany her father, but when she was not feeling well she would stay and keep her mother company. She remembers one time spending time with her mother -- at the house there were other ladies anxious to spend time with her mother. There was one lady in particular. She wanted In Jin Nim's mother's guidance.

20) She said to True Mother, "our True Father always teaches about the importance of true love and that we have to practice true love. I really want to practice true love in my life of faith and to my family, but I'm finding it extremely difficult. I have a very difficult relationship with my husband and with my children." She started to talk about some of the difficulties. In terms of character she seemed to be polar opposites to her husband. The wife always felt that she needed to teach her husband, but the husband felt so patronized that he was being taught by woman, his wife, so he'd react more violently -- which made her react even more firmly -- and there you had a major recipe for disaster. When she talked about her husband she brought forth a list, like the list you saw on YouTube earlier. She went down the list reciting all the things that her husband did wrong.

She even put a check on how many times he did something wrong. She was a fantastic record keeper. Her records covered several years of their marriage -- the checks were like a computer digital printout. She remembered to the day, to the minute, how many times he did it, if it got worse. In Jin Nim thought to herself, "She should get a job with the NFL, keeping score." This woman had an encyclopedia of knowledge of the scoreboard of their marriage. Not only did she have a list for her husband, she had one for her children as well. She was reciting to T Mother all the things that they were doing wrong, asking her what she should do. In Jin Nim's mother listened very quietly, very attentively, giving her full attention -- nodding her head, seeming to agree with all that the woman said. And so the woman went on, spurred on by T Mother's nods. When she was done, after about one hour, In Jin Nim's mother was very quiet. She was pushing T Mother with her words -- "you tell me what I should do. You give me an answer. My family has so many problems I don't know what to do."

21) In Jin Nim's mother said something very simple. (At that time In Jin Nim did not understand the full extent of what profound advice it was.) In her family, they used to joke about different music and composers -- they would humor themselves when they would enjoy classical music -- and in her family they would call a shopping list –Chopin Liszt (putting the names of 2 composers together). So, In Jin Nim's mother turned to the woman and told her to put away Chopin's Liszt. And the woman asked what is that -- and In Jin Nim's mother said the same thing, put away Chopin's Liszt. And the woman looked totally puzzled and asked what is Chopin's Liszt? In Jin Nim then told the woman -- put away your list.

22) The woman became angry and said, "Is that the advice you have for me, put away my list? How else can I explain all the problems of my family?" And she took In Jin Nim's mother to task and In Jin Nim's mother again said put away your Chopin's Liszt. This woman was not satisfied because she did not get the answer she wanted. She wanted T Mother to call in her husband and children and reprimand them for the atrocities that they had committed. But In Jin Nim's mother was throwing it back at her, because T Mother wanted to guide and support this woman to be a good mother. T Mother is not going to take the place of this woman, as the mother and wife in the family. By saying, "get rid of the list" she was telling the woman to get rid of all your grief and complaint.

23) By not getting involved and reforming the family by her own hand -- something that she as a mother should be responsible for -- in a way In Jin Nim's mother was respecting this woman's position as the wife and as a mother to her children by saying "Start by getting rid of all the negativity, start by realizing that you as the mother and wife have a responsibility to turn the negative list into a wonderful shopping list that can supply the family with the necessary ingredients for the family to be a grand and glorious feast." This is what In Jin Nim's mother was saying. She was asking this woman, don't keep score, don't hold onto lists that will bind you to something negative, that will make your family heavy with burdens.

She was saying really rid yourself of your cares, of the burdens of your family, to realize how important you, as the mother, to stand in the role of a true mother and true wife, and instead of going over the negative list -- as the lost generation and youth of our country tend to do -- thinking themselves as lost and hopeless, the world as dirty and ugly -- instead of doing that her mother was saying -- reverse it. Instead of reading your list of atrocities, maybe you should create a shopping list, a wonderful list that can be beneficial to your family. Maybe this shopping list can include a special time with your daughter that is having difficulty in school, possibly hand knitting socks for your son, just to let him know that his mother truly cares and thinks about him, and wants him to be warm and protected against the elements, knowing that he is going to make her proud. This was the kind of message that In Jin Nim's mother was trying to share with this woman.

24) One of the lessons In Jin Nim learned from her mother is that she does not micromanage. She is the True Mother, but she is not going to do your work for you. She will provoke you to think. She'll give you guidance that will provoke you to look at the same text in a different way. She'll be the one instrumental in urging you to read the same text from a different angle. But to read, is something that you have to do, you have to read it. And this mother had to be the mother. This wife had to be the wife.

25) After being married for 27 years, when In Jin Nim thinks back on some of the wisdom nuggets that her mother shared with her and the other sisters in the room, she realized that so much thought and care and concern went into what she was saying. Because, she was trying to humor them at the same time she was trying to encourage this woman, you can do better if you stop reading the negative text. In a way, we are our worst enemies, in that we brainwash ourselves up for failure, to be miserable, in the same way that the youth of the world are indoctrinating themselves to think pessimistically about their world, to be hopeless about their world -- by reading a litany of seemingly factual realistic words -- while at the same time damage is being done to how we think and perceive our world. Instead of being empowered and inspired many times we feel that we are victims of our situations and environment -- and that is something our T Mother was trying to encourage this woman not to do.

26) She would encourage her children over the years, don't keep score. Scorecards are wonderful when you play sports, but when it comes to human relationships, loving relationships, it is not a good idea to tally up points -- who did what and who did not do what.

27) One of In Jin Nim's best friends growing up, her favorite song was the Janet Jackson song, "what have you done for me lately." She used to go around when they went out, and sing to her husband, "what have you done for me lately?" There was never a question. or even a joke, "what have I done for you lately?" All this understanding of entitlement, of what everyone else is supposed to do for you, without asking yourself, "what can I do?"

28) And this leads us to the second point. The first being -- don't keep score if you want to practice love in your life. If you want to invite love into your relationships it is not a good idea to tally points against each other. The other thing that our T Mother would say, is always think of the other first.

29) For mothers who have toddlers, one of the first things toddlers do is to take something with their hand and lead it to their mouth. There is an African proverb that says, " the hand always knows the way to the mouth." We should always be like the hand knowing where to go when it concerns God. Meaning, regardless of where we are in life, even in pitch black darkness -- when the hand has a delicious morsel of food -- it knows how to take it to the lips. But when our True Parents ask us to put somebody first, before ourselves, what they are asking us is -- can we be the kind of people, who without thinking -- takes that piece of delicious morsel, and before it naturally and instinctively comes to our mouth -- he goes to the mouth of our children, and our siblings, or better yet goes to the mouth of our True Parents or to the mouth of our Heavenly Parent, in heaven.

30) In Jin Nim always thought that one of the interesting things about being human -- is that our birthdays are such huge celebrations. It doesn't matter where you're from, birthdays are a huge celebration, and it becomes "your day." If you think about it, the day that you were born, is of course the celebration of your birth, but if you really think about it -- how are we going to honor God and True Parents and humanity with the way we live our lives -- our birthday could be a wonderful day, when, instead of remembering what we want for our birthday gift, taking, or seizing that moment, to reach out and thank our Heavenly Parent up in heaven, "Thank you for this life!" My birthday is the day I thank God that I'm alive, thank God that I'm living at this precious time with our True Parents. A birthday is the day that I have the chance to not just thank my God up in heaven, and thank our True Parents who brought my parents together so that I could be born, in a way, a birthday is a time that we can say thank you also to our parents. It is a day where we should be celebrating our parents, and thanking them for the life that they have afforded us, for the opportunity that was given to us.

31) Just as we can read the same text, The Lost Generation, from different viewpoints, forward and reverse, but something as simple as a birthday -- if we are truly living for the sake of others, putting others first, our birthday, something that belongs to us, becomes the most precious day when we can use our most precious moment to give something back -- by giving back a heart of gratitude to our parents.

32) Can you imagine, teenagers in the audience, what you would do to your father and mother -- if on your birthday you got up and the first thing you did was to say "Good morning to your father and mother, I love you, I am so grateful for this life you've given me, please accept my appreciation and gratitude." Can you imagine what that would do? What that would do to other people, even those outside our community, if their teenage boy, their son or daughter came back to them -- and said to their father and mother, I did not get to greet you this morning because I was in a rush, but today is my birthday, this is my day to honor God and to honor you and to thank you for my life. Can you imagine what that would do to that family? Just that simple, small, gesture of putting others first? A simple gesture and action that expresses what you're feeling inside in such a short snippet of time, but can you imagine what that would do? That would be like a nuclear explosion in the family, it would be the beginning of the revolution of heart that we're talking about.

33) These small gestures, of taking the same family, the same text -- we are not talking about a major recall here, we're talking about a repositioning of our mental ability to see and understand what we are in the context of our families. It is basically deciding to see things, not negatively, but in a positive way.

34) And to see things in a positive way doesn't mean that everything is "Oh Hallelujah!" It doesn't stop us from dealing with our families. We are still on our way to creating "I deal" families. Positive thinking does not mean that will not suffer disappointment, or pain, or be miserable. Positive attitude or way of thinking is like a guide or environment that we create for ourselves. So despite stepping on a nail, we can cleanse our wound, get up and continue on and think, thank goodness it wasn't my leg or my buttocks, thank goodness it was not my right hand that I need to write with -- and so on. It's the way we approach our lives that determines what kind of environment, what kind of family, and what kind of country we are going to have.

35) These examples, what In Jin Nim calls the wisdom nuggets from her mother, are incredibly important because it is that simple difference in wanting to look at things slightly from a different angle or perspective that vastly changes our human experience. A simple thing as a birthday, where the individual becomes king, you take that precious day and turn it around and you say, before I celebrate my awesomeness -- I celebrate the awesomeness of God and my parents and our True Parents and thereby change your world.

36) Another point our True Mother would say to her children over and over again -- do not just not carry around a scoreboard, and to make sure we put others first, she would always say try to find a way to serve -- discreetly without much fanfare.

37) She asked them to do things for people you love without seeking reward. Without -- "Good job you vacuumed the apartment! Oh how wonderful you clean the bathroom!" It's not waiting for things like that, is not waiting for congratulations, it's not waiting for the carrot which tells you that you are awesome and wonderful. It is finding ways to do something discreetly, not expecting any reward, but doing it just because.

38) Not taking out the garbage because you know your mother will be so happy if you do it, not pulling the door open for your father and mother just because you want to hear your parents say, "what a fine gentleman, what a fine young lady you are", but doing it just because. This gives you an innate sense of pleasure knowing that you are caring for the people you love, knowing that you are serving the people you love, and knowing that even if they never realize how much you love them, maybe not even in this life time. One day they'll realize, maybe in spirit world when we have a chance to review our life here on earth, then they might realize, "wow my mother really, really loved me, or that brother really cared for me but he never wanted recognition, he never wanted accolades or fanfare." It is that kind of serving, living for the sake of others that is truly beautiful.

39) In Jin Nim remembers growing up in a big family with many brothers and sisters. Because True Mother was so busy she was given responsibility to take care of her siblings younger than her. That was an incredibly difficult responsibility -- and she fell short so many times. How can you be a substitute mom to your siblings who are in dire need of parental love. You are never enough. You'll always be in the way. Many times the resentment that is heaped up, because your parents are not there, is thrown at you because you are the substitute mom.

40) Being in that kind of environment was richly rewarding in a sense -- In Jin Nim felt having gone through taking care of her siblings prepared her to be a mother to her own children. Despite how difficult it might have been, she was able to garner bits of wisdom nuggets here and there that helped her on her journey to be a mother to her children.

41) As a mother we always encourage our children to think about service, serving other people, doing things just because -- not because you want to be rewarded. In Jin Nim remembers her daughter, she only has one, so she is very precious. When she was a little girl True Parents wanted her and Justin to travel with them around the world. So they were gone a good chunk of the year. They were enrolled in kindergarten in Korea so In Jin Nim did not see them for a long, long time.

42) She remembered her daughter -- she does not know if this was spurred on by her teacher or nanny, but she continued it after she left kindergarten -- she would write, whether or not it was her birthday -- but especially her birthday -- she would write notes to her Oma (which means mother in Korean) -- but many times In Jin Nim was not there to receive it -- but nevertheless she kept on writing letters and making pictures for her Oma. So, even though In Jin Nim was not there and did not know how much her daughter loved her, and missed her, and wanted her there -- when she went to Korea to bring her back she found all these drawings and notes that she wrote to her mommy, who she could not see for a long time. This is something that In Jin Nim did not ask her to do.

She did it because it was in her heart. Even though she was a little girl -- all the words and language were "mother I want to take care of you, I want to make you yummy food," all these words of care and nurture. She seems like a mom even though she was a kindergarten student. In Jin Nim remembers how that made her feel -- when it was not spurred on by her, she did it nonetheless. She never knew when she was going to get them, but it did not matter, she seized the moment to do something beautiful because it was an expression of her heart -- and when In Jin Nim thinks about that, it reminds her of how many times she fell short, how many times she wanted to say something to her parents, but did not write it down or turn it into a beautiful card. When In Jin Nim thinks about her daughter and what she did, it makes you want to be a better mommy and a better daughter.

43) These little acts of kindness and service were not done -- to be told "you are such a good daughter" -- it was something which came naturally out of her. She naturally wanted to take care of somebody. In Jin Nim realizes how life altering it was for her as a mother -- so can you imagine, if we as a community, as members of our own individual families, started expressing a little bit more, or started expressing, even in a discreet way, by a note or card to let each other know how much we matter to each other. Can you imagine what that would do to a family, to a couple, or to a community?

44) When In Jin Nim thinks about our True Father teaching that we have to have this experience, this revolution of heart -- when we think about the word revolution, it sounds so huge, so incredibly out there, so aggressive, a mighty force to reckon with -- but when he talks about the revolution of heart what he is talking about are those wisdom nuggets, simple shifts in the way we view ourselves, the way we view our lives, the way we understand our family to be.

45) So, if In Jin Nim were to get all grief stricken and create a complaining list as to how difficult it is to be a public person, that litany would be endless. It takes a simple shift in her way of thinking to say that public life is incredibly difficult, but if we approach it with a grateful heart and understand that you as an agent of change make the change in yourself and thereby change other people, you realize what a gift it is. What is initially seen as burdensome, as something that is troubling and too painful to overcome or to work through, actually becomes an invitation for us to be a little more creative and perhaps to read it in reverse, to take a fresh look at the same situation through a different angle or through a different perspective.

46) When Chris Allen sang, "a miracle called us" -- we are always waiting for the miracle. But it is Rumi who said, the joy of being human is uncovering the call, the treasure within that you already are. It's we, as divine human beings that have incredible potential, incredible potential to change our lives simply by deciding to be that agent of change and to look at the text in a different way. Our lives, that we go through on a weekly basis, and sometimes it is tough, but sometimes it is wonderful, but all of these are exercises in helping us become that great human being that God would like to see all of us become.

47) In Jin Nim asked the brothers and sisters in Las Vegas and on the West Coast -- you know many times people look to In Jin Nim as the senior pastor and ask her to solve all their problems -- but just as True Mother threw it right back at this woman and said "You stand up, you deal with your problems, but I will be there with you every step of the way." That is In Jin Nim's job as the senior pastor. It is not to do your job as the parents of your children or as the spouse to your spouse, but to stand here together with you telling you and sharing with you that we can do it together.

48) A community like ours affords people who come to Sunday service a lot of advantages -- we have a social network, we have lots of different groups, seeing old friends is always wonderful. But our church is not just a social network, it is not just a time to gather together and feel good about ourselves. It is really the chance for us to share the breaking news with the rest of the world.

49) Instead of looking at In Jin Nim as the senior pastor, asking "please solve our problems and fix everything for us." In Jin Nim would like to ask us, "Please think about what you can do for the sake of the community and not always what the community can do for you." We need a good reciprocal relationship on all different levels -- and that needs to exist between the congregation and the minister, between father and mother, between brothers and sisters, and even between the best of colleagues. There has to be a sense that we're all breathing, not just inhaling all the time or exhaling all the time. We as a movement need to breathe. "I need to exhale you need to inhale, you need to exhale I need to inhale." We have to work together.

50) What In Jin Nim would like to do in her life is to leave behind a beautiful generation, a generation that can call itself Generation of Peace. That is the desire of every parent, to leave that beautiful generation behind knowing that the world is in good hands, that our children will not kill over racial differences, over religious differences, over differences in economy, and so forth. We need to know that our children will reside in and experience true love. We need to know that they are here to substantiate true love, true life, and true lineage. We need to know that they will go on to try their best at building the ideal families and we need to know that we are going to leave behind a community that is supportive, that empowers each congregant to try their best to be better than who we are, to be better than our neighbor.

51) We need to know that we are a group of people that is willing to put service first -- meaning, even if we are never acknowledged for our good works we are satisfied and we are grateful simply because we could do the little act of love that we have the opportunity to share with others.

52) So, brothers and sisters this is an exciting time -- and for In Jin Nim, as a mother and as your senior pastor, she feels like our True Parents desperation in wanting the world to recognize the value and preciousness of the blessing that is being shared with all of them -- is something that we should not hold just within our own community, it's something that should be encouraged and something that should be shared.

53) Many great men and woman have lived great lives, honorable lives, waiting for the Second Coming, for Jesus to return, waiting for an understanding of how to live their life, the life of faith, but you and I we are the lucky ones, maybe because we had great ancestors, but we have this opportunity to be like the disciples of Jesus Christ -- and unlike the disciples of Jesus Christ who were not there when Jesus was crucified on the cross, who could not give up themselves to save Jesus, we need to be the kind of people to protect our True Parents, and not just protect them but celebrate them with our lives every day that we live.

54) Brothers and sisters our True Parents are back in Korea finishing up the third leg of the World Assembly, celebrating God's providence of universal peace and the Abel UN. True Parents are calling all nations to think of themselves as belonging to one family under God.

55) Just as Chris Allen sang "Miracle Called Us" -- when In Jin Nim hears the word miracle, with an Asian understanding of things -- it sounds like "Me" "Rocker" . Once we decide to be that agent of change we need to be our own rockers, our own miracles and be that shining example for our country and for the rest of the world. And when we gaze upon the mirror, instead of seeing our own unworthy reflections we need to be looking at the face of God. The reflection we need to see back through the mirror is the reflection that God would see when he gazes into our eyes. When God gazes into our faces God sees love, life, and lineage. These are the precious gifts He wants us to experience in our lifetime. And God, as our Heavenly Parent, wants us to be successful in everything that we do.

56) If we can unleash ourselves from our own bondage that we put upon ourselves -- keeping ourselves feeling hopeless, worthless, riddled with fear, so that we cannot accomplish what we need to do -- well, the only thing we need to say is that I am that agent of change, I am that eternal son or daughter of God, I am going to decide to be successful, to be that person who dares to read the text backward and realize that we want to be a generation of peace.

57) Brothers and sisters, instead of waiting for God to do all the work, we have in our hands the ability to create our own miracle, to be the reflection that God wants to see when he gazes into our faces, and it is within our hands to set our hearts on fire. Because, it is the fire of true love that is going to blaze across the universe and really bring about the millennium of peace that we waiting for, that we are so wanting, and have been dreaming about.

58) Brothers and sisters, let's go and start the week with a heart of gratitude, with our hearts on fire with the revolutionary spirit of true love and in the small things that we can do, let's think about becoming that spark that can be the start of something extraordinary just as the re-shifting, or understanding how powerful we can be when we see our own birthdays at the day when we can honor God and our True Parents and our parents. It's that simple re-shifting or repositioning of our minds that can totally change the outcome, the kind of life that we are living and that we will have.

59) Brothers and sisters the miracle is within our hands! Have a lovely weekend a beautiful Sunday and God bless! 

I would like to leave behind a beautiful Generation of Peace

In Jin Moon
December 5, 2010
Lovin' Life Ministries

Good morning, brothers and sisters. How is everyone? It's been a while since I've seen you. We spent a lovely Thanksgiving weekend with our True Parents in Las Vegas, and we got to meet our West Coast members once again. Our True Father gave his heart in addressing those who attended the World Assembly 2010. Father's heart as the True Parent of humankind is to invest in his children, his eternal sons and daughters, so they can truly become great men and women of God. I'm realizing this as Father visits us more and more often, especially in Las Vegas. I told the congregation there that I've often wondered, why Las Vegas?

Of course Father wants to turn Sin City into a shining city on a hill by injecting a little bit of heaven. But people come to Las Vegas to win the jackpot, to experience their luck. It seems that our True Parents keep calling us to Las Vegas to remind us that we are all jackpot winners. We are, indeed, are we not?

We have our True Parents with us, and, knowing that they want America and our American movement to be great, they want our American sons and daughters to be outstanding people who can usher in a new millennium. They are here at this time together with us, sharing the breaking news. They are encouraging all of us around the world to think of ourselves as belonging to one family and to come into this family of God through being blessed to somebody who's from a different background, race, or religion. They are therefore encouraging all of us to respect where we come from but at the same time to learn how to live and love together as a family. This has been the most important message our True Parents have brought to the world. To be experiencing it at this time is an incredible thing.

When we were getting ready for Sunday Service, the band had to rehearse; after rehearsal I bumped into Dave Hunter and his beautiful wife Mitsuru with their new baby, "Little Dave." This is the first time I had a chance to meet Little Dave up close and personal. I had a chance to hold him. At Loving' Life we're terribly proud of Little Dave because we heard Mitsuru would be expecting while she was working for Lovin' Life Ministries. To have the baby come and to be able to celebrate him as part of our worldwide family are beautiful things. And it continues as we see Mitsuru now as a wonderful mom, taking Little Dave along with her everywhere she goes. He's such a bright spirit, and so cute.

I thought Dave and Mitsuru weren't back with us yet. But they are, and it's a definite improvement. Little Dave is so engaging. He has just started eating cereal and solid food. He's goo-gooing and talking his own language that we don't understand, but communicating nonetheless. He kept making eye contact with me. Chris Alan was seated on my left, and the baby was sitting on the other side, looking at all of us. He would stop and look at me and give me a big smile, and then look at Chris Alan and others and then come back and give me another big smile.

Chris turned to me and said, "I think he found somebody he likes." Babies respond to women and, I think, to a woman's voice because it's very close to what they're used to hearing from their mom's voice. Little Dave was a bundle of delight and so much energy. I held him facing his parents, but because he could hear my voice from the back, he kept on bending backward. Chris Alan was laughing because it looked like Little Dave was doing a backward dive into my bosom. That's what they're used to, right? They want nourishment and comfort and to feel loved. When I was thinking about Little Dave and what a treasure he is, as well as all the other blessed children in our midst and all the new members being born into Lovin' Life Ministries, I was thinking to myself, what kind of a generation is he going to be part of?

I wanted to share this You-Tube clip this morning because it poignantly expresses something very important for all of us to think about as human beings. [www.youtube.com/watch?v=hKzxV0QLhRo] It starts out, "We are a lost generation," and it conveys a whole litany of things that we're not going to be or do. It's a pessimistic look at how possibly a young person going through difficult times might be looking at his or her world. "I'm a part of this lost generation, of this generation that's going to put work before my family, is not going to understand the value of my children, and is going to factor in my divorce even before I get married." All of these things are so depressing.

I've often said that when I hear that a child is lost, to my ears it means that child is lonely, an orphan seeking some understanding or truth. Many times young people feel lost when they cannot find their center, or core, or an understanding, or their relationship with God. But the video clip is a litany of all the things making this a lost generation. I did not alter the text. I did not alter anything, but just by reversing how we read the text, just by changing the perspective or direction of the same message, we change a negative message or understanding or indictment of the lost generation into something that is extremely empowering, inspiring, and hopeful.

Instead of understanding this page of words and letters as almost a declaration of a lost generation, a generation that is lonely like an orphan, constantly seeking, never satisfied because it doesn't have the truth, when we change the way of looking at exactly the same thing, we can turn a pessimistic, depressing, and hopeless message into one that is inspiring and promising. Now the message alludes to a generation that is not lost but one that is found in God, in the understanding that we are his and her children, and that this is an incredible time to be living with our True Parents. We realize that instead of understanding ourselves as belonging to the lost generation, we can change that way of thinking simply by looking at it from a different perspective and realize that we are not lost. In God, in True Parents, and in each other we become a Generation of Peace.

Over the last year or so at Lovin' Life, I've defined what Generation Peace is all about by understanding the word peace as an acronym. We are children of our Heavenly Parent, P, and also of our True Parents. And reminds us that we are their Eternal sons and daughters, with eternal meaning that we are divine human beings having incredible worth and a reservoir of true love that, once it's tapped, we can do extraordinary things.

In the letter A, we see our philosophy of Altruism, living for the sake of others -- not dying for the sake of others, but truly living, being empowered, and celebrating the life we have been given. We understand the importance of and the need for Compassion, C, in this cold, cold modern world. And so we recognize the value of empathy, being able to put ourselves in someone else's shoes and loving somebody not because we have to but because we want to.

Through the beautiful touch or healing of words of encouragement and nurture that we share with one another, we can become much stronger in our emotional, spiritual, and physical make-up. The final stands for Excellence of internal and external -- meaning we are internally excellent in terms of our life of faith and our understanding of who we are and what we need to do. We are not a lost generation drifting on an endless sea with no direction, but we have a clear direction and purpose in our life. We know what we need to do. We know that we need to seize the moment, seize each day and make it worthwhile because, one step at a time, we are going toward that beautiful world we're going to call our own, the world of peace.

Knowing that we are internally excellent, we need to manifest our internal excellence outward through the different ways we can perfect people in our lives, through our professions and our ability to care, guide, or teach. In this way we can leave a beautiful signature on this world that is uniquely us, uniquely you and me. In that process we go through the stages of perfecting ourselves individually and then when finding ourselves in the context of a couple in a marriage, working on that marriage and dealing with all the obstacles and different issues that arise. As we understand that life is a process of growth and an opportunity to grow and deepen who we are, we can approach every difficulty with a grateful heart. We can approach every obstacle with the excitement of learning something new, knowing that regardless of how painful the process might be, in the end we will be holding a nugget of wisdom that we can share with our children and they can share with their children, and so on.

Thinking about this Generation of Peace, I also think about how I would like to see Little Dave grow up to be a member of that Generation of Peace, living his life as part of one family under God, somebody who looks at his brothers and sisters from different faiths and still loves them as his own, somebody who wants to do good things, not because he will be rewarded by his mother, but just because he wants to do good things, and somebody who wants to inspire others to do better, encouraging those around him to grow and prosper and, at the same time, becoming that excellent man, that excellent father and son of God.

As the senior pastor, this is what I wish upon Little Dave, and this is what I wish upon all of us. I know that this is what our True Parents and our Heavenly Parent want for all of us.

If we're going to be members of this Generation of Peace, believing that the most important thing in the universe is true love and that we as human beings have this precious opportunity to experience true love and share that with the rest of the world, then how do we exist as individuals in the context of a family? How do we exist as spouses in the context of a marriage? How do we exist in the context of a community like our own and practice love in our daily life? How do we go about loving each other, so that each day we can work on ourselves and hone our skills at making other people better than we are? How do we go about being the kind of person who can be the spark of a wonderful imagination, the spark of unity in the family, or the spark inciting young people to dream about all they would like to accomplish?

As a mother, I've often thought about this: "How do you practice love on a daily basis?" We have a conceptual understanding of where we would like to be, where we'd like to go, but in a practical sense, how do we apply what we believe and actually exercise and practice day to day what we want to be? How do we want to carry this out throughout the day?

I use in my life of faith and in my individual family what I call the three points. Whenever I am confronted with a situation that is difficult, pressing, or crushing, I remind myself of these three points. The first came from my mother, many years ago. She is an extremely elegant woman, a woman of few words, but when she speaks, there is a profound wisdom behind her few words.

A long time ago we spent the summer in Gloucester at Morning Garden, the beautiful house Father bought for the movement there. He spent summers there fishing for tuna, and I accompanied him almost on a daily basis. But on some days when I was not well, I was given permission to keep my mother company. One time when I stayed behind because I was not feeling too well, there were many ladies at the house who were eager to spend time with Mother. One in particular wanted her guidance. This woman said, "Father always teaches about the importance of practicing true love. I really want to practice true love in my life of faith and in my family. But I have a difficult relationship with my husband and with my children."

She started to describe some of the difficulties, first with her husband. It seems their characters were polar opposites, so he would do things that would really irk her. In wanting to return that in a loving way, the wife always felt she needed to teach her husband. Then, because the husband felt patronized at being taught by a woman, his wife, he would react more aggressively, which made her react even more firmly. There you had a major recipe for disaster.

When she talked about her husband, she brought out a list, almost like the list you saw on YouTube earlier. She went down the list, reciting the things that her husband did wrong. She actually put a check on how many times he did something wrong, canvassing several years of their marriage. She was a fantastic record keeper. The checks were almost like a computer printout. She remembered to the day the exact incident, how many times he did it, and whether it got worse or turned into something else.

I thought to myself, she should definitely get a job working for the National Football League, keeping score on all the plays. This woman had an encyclopedic knowledge of the scoreboard in their marriage. Not only did she have a list for her husband, but she had a list for her children, as well. She was reciting what they had done and how often, and asking, "What should I do, True Mother?"

I remember Mother just listening very quietly, very intently, giving the woman her full attention and nodding her head. Because Mother was nodding, seemingly agreeing with all the atrocities, the woman just kept on going, spurred on by Mother's silent nods and concern. When the woman was done, about an hour had gone by, but Mother was very quiet. The woman was almost pushing Mother with her words, "What should I do? You tell me. You're the True Mother. You tell me what I should do because my family has so many problems. I don't know how to solve this. You give me an answer."

Mother looked at her once again, nodded, and said something very simple. At that time I didn't fully understand what profound advice it was. To appreciate it, you need to know something about our family. We used to joke about all the different character types and music preferences we have, and Mother, of course, likes certain types of composers. I have brought this habit of joking about music and musical preferences into my own family. As a classically trained person, and with my children also being classical pianists, we have many ways to humor ourselves when we're enjoying classical music.

In advising the complaining wife, Mother took two composers' names and stuck them together. In the family we would call a shopping list a "Chopin Liszt." Mother simply turned and said to the wife, "Put away your Chopin Liszt." That's all she said.

Frédéric Chopin and Franz Liszt

This woman inquired, "What is a Chopin Liszt?" Mother repeated, "Put away your Chopin Liszt." The woman looked totally puzzled, "What do you mean, Chopin Liszt?" I interjected, "Put away your shopping list. Put away your list."

This woman got angry and blurted out, "That's the advice you have for me, put away my list?! How else do I explain all the problems of my family?" She was taking my mother to task. My mother again quietly said, "Put away your Chopin Liszt." Of course this woman was not satisfied because she did not get the response from True Mother that she wanted. I think what she wanted was for Mother to call in her husband and children and reprimand them for all the different atrocities that they had committed.

But basically Mother was throwing it back at the woman. She's the True Mother, wanting to guide, nurture, and support this woman to be a good mother. True Mother was not going to take the place of this woman in her role as the mother and wife in the family. By saying, "Get rid of the list," what Mother was saying was, "Get rid of all your grief and your complaint." By not getting involved with the family herself, something that the woman as the mother should be responsible for, Mother was respecting this woman's position as the wife and the mother to her children. True Mother was saying, "Start by getting rid of all the negativity. Start by realizing that you as the mother and the wife have a responsibility to turn that negative list into a wonderful shopping list that can supply the family with the necessary ingredients for the family to be a grand and glorious feast." That was what my mother was saying.

She was asking this woman not to keep score, not to hold on to lists that would bind her to something negative and make her family heavy with burden. She was saying, "Relieve yourself of the cares and burdens of your family. Realize how important you are as the mother, and stand in your role as your family's true mother and true wife." Instead of going over the negative list, the way the lost generation and youth of our world tend to do, thinking of themselves as lost and hopeless and the world as dirty and ugly, my mother was basically saying to reverse it. Instead of dwelling on a list of atrocities, the woman should think about creating a wonderful list that can be beneficial to her family.

Maybe the list could include extra time with the daughter who is having difficulty in school or hand-knitting socks for the son, just to let him know that the mother, caring and thinking about him constantly, wants him to be warm and protected against the elements and that she knows he is going to make her proud. This was the message True Mother was trying to share with the score-keeping woman.

One of the things I learned very early on from my mother is that she does not micromanage. She is the True Mother, but she is not going to do your work for you. She will provoke you to think. She will give you guidance that will provoke you to look at the same text in a different way, or she will be the instrumental one urging you to read the same text from a different angle. But reading is what you have to do. This mother had to be the mother; this wife had to be the wife.

After being married for 27 years, when I think back on the wisdom that True Mother shared with me and other sisters in the room, I realize that so much thought, care, and concern went into what she was saying. She was trying to be humorous, calling a shopping list "Chopin Liszt," but at the same time she was trying to encourage this woman, "You can do better if you stop reading the negative text."

We can be our worst enemies in that we can literally brainwash ourselves for failure and misery, just as the youth of the world are indoctrinating themselves to think pessimistically and be hopeless about the world by reading a litany of seemingly factual or realistic words that is damaging how they think and how they perceive the world. Therefore, instead of being empowered and inspired, many times they feel they are victims of their particular situation or environment. That is what True Mother was trying to encourage this woman not to do.

Over the years Mother encouraged us not to keep scorecards. When you're playing sports or yute, a scorecard is wonderful. But when it comes to human relationships, loving relationships, it's never a good idea to tally up points on who did what.

When one of my best friends growing up got married, her favorite song was Janet Jackson's, "What Have You Done for Me Lately?" Whenever we went out, it was kind of a joke when she would sing this song for her husband. She would provoke him like this, "What have you done for me lately?" There was never even a question of what have I done for you lately. She was projecting this understanding of what everyone else is supposed to do for her, without asking herself the question, "What can I do?"

The first point is, Don't keep score if you want to practice love in your life. If you want to invite love into relationships, it's not a good idea to tally up points against each other.

The other thing that True Mother would say is, "Always think of the other first." Those who have or have had young children know that one of their first motor skills is to grab something with their hand and bring it to their mouth. There's an African proverb that says the hand always knows the way to the mouth.

We should always be like the hand, knowing where to go when it concerns God. Regardless of where we are in life, even in pitch-black darkness, when the hand grabs onto some morsel of food, the hand invariably knows how to take it to our mouth. When our True Parents ask us to live for the sake of others, to put somebody first before ourselves, what they are asking us is whether we can be the kind of people who, without thinking, take that delicious morsel and, before it naturally and instinctively comes to our mouth, offer it to the mouths of our children, our siblings, or better yet, our True Parents or our Heavenly Parent.

I've always thought one of the most interesting things about being human is that birthdays are such a huge celebration. It doesn't matter where you are from; birthdays are a huge celebration, and it becomes like your day. Of course, the day that you were born is a celebration of your birth for your family, but if we think about how we're going to honor God, True Parents, and our own humanity with the way we live our lives, a birthday could be a wonderful day of remembering what we want and seizing that day to reach out and thank our Heavenly Parent for this life. My birthday is a day that I thank God that I'm alive, that I'm living at this incredibly precious time with our True Parents.

A birthday is the day when the Second and Third Generations have a chance to thank not only our God up in heaven but also to thank our True Parents, who brought your parents together so that you could be born. A birthday is a time when you can say, "Thank you," to True Parents, and to your own parents. It's really a day when we should be celebrating our parents and thanking them for the life and opportunities they have afforded us. Just as we can read the same "lost generation" text from many viewpoints -- and this one in particular we read it forward and we read it in reverse -- but if we are living for the sake of others, putting others first, something like our birthday that belongs to us then becomes the most precious day when we can use our most precious moment to give something back -- a heart of gratitude to our parents.

Can you imagine, teenagers in the audience, what you would do for your father and mother if on the morning of your birthday you would wake up and the first thing you would do is to say, "Good morning, Father and Mother. I love you, and I am so grateful for this life you have given to me. Please accept my full bow of appreciation and gratitude." Can you imagine what that would do for other people, even outside our community, if their teenager came back home and said, "I was in a rush this morning, but today is my birthday. This is my day to honor God and you and to thank you for my life."

Can you imagine what that would do for a family? That simple small gesture of putting others first and expressing what you are feeling inside, would, in such a short snippet of time, be like a nuclear explosion in that family. It could be the beginning of the revolution of heart that we talk about. We're not talking about a major overhaul here; we're talking about simple repositioning of our mental ability to see or understand what we are in the context of our families. It's basically deciding to see things not negatively but in a positive way.

Seeing things in a positive way doesn't mean everything is easy and, "Hallelujah!" It doesn't stop us from dealing with our families. We are still on our way to creating ideal families, so positive thinking doesn't mean we will not suffer disappointment, pain, or misery. A positive attitude or way of thinking is like the guide or environment we create for ourselves. If we step on a nail, we clean the wound, get up, continue on, and think, "Thank goodness it wasn't my leg or my buttocks. Thank goodness it wasn't the right hand that I need to write with." It's the way we approach our life that determines what kind of environment or family or country we're going to have.

These examples of wisdom from my mother are extremely important because it's that simple difference of wanting to look at things from a different perspective that vastly changes our human experience. A simple thing like a birthday, that precious day when the individual becomes king or queen, can be turned around if we decide that before I celebrate my awesomeness, I will celebrate the awesomeness of God, my parents, and our True Parents, and thereby change their world.

Another point that True Mother would say to us over and over, in addition to "Make sure we put others first" and "Don't carry around a scoreboard," was "Try to find a way to serve discreetly, without much fanfare." She was asking us to do things for people we love without seeking accolades, such as, "Oh, great job, honey. You finally vacuumed the apartment"; without seeking, "Oh, this is wonderful. You actually tidied up the bathroom before you left." It's not waiting for congratulations or for the carrot that tells you that you are wonderful; it's finding ways to do something discreetly, not expecting any reward, but doing it just because.

This point of guidance means not taking out the garbage because you know your mother will be so happy if you do it, or not holding the door open for your parent just because you want to hear your parent say, "What a fine gentleman!" or "What a fine young lady you are." It means doing it just because it gives you an innate sense of pleasure, knowing that you are taking care of and serving the people you love, and that even if they never realize how much you love them -- maybe even in this lifetime -- one day they will realize it, maybe in spirit world, when they have a chance to review their life on earth. Then they might realize, "My mother really, really loved me." Or, "That brother really cared for me but he never wanted recognition, accolades, or fanfare."

It's that kind of serving and living for the sake of others that is truly beautiful. I grew up in a big family with many brothers and sisters, and because our True Mother was terribly busy, I was given the responsibility of taking care of the siblings younger than me. That's an incredibly difficult responsibility, and I know I fell short many times because, how can you be a substitute mom to your siblings who are in dire need of parental love? You are never enough. You will always be in the way.

Many times the resentment that is heaped up in not having your parents there will be thrown at the substitute mom. But being in that kind of environment was richly rewarding in the sense that having gone through taking care of my siblings better prepared me to be a mother to my own children.

Despite how difficult it might have been, I was able to garner bits of wisdom here and there that could help me along my journey of being a mother to my own children. As mothers, we always try to encourage our children to serve other people, doing things "just because," not because we want to be rewarded.

I remember when my one daughter was little, my parents wanted Ariana and Rexton to travel with them all around the world. They were gone for a good chunk of the year and were enrolled in kindergarten in Korea, and I did not see them for a long time. I remember one thing in particular about my daughter. I don't know if it was spurred on by her teacher or her nanny, but she continued this even after she left kindergarten: She got in the habit of writing beautiful little notes to Omma (meaning mother in Korean), and many times I was not there to receive it. But nevertheless she kept on writing letters and making many drawings for Omma.

Even though I wasn't there (and I never really realized how much my daughter missed me or wanted me there), when I went to Korea finally to bring her back I found all these drawings and notes that she wrote to the mommy that she could not see for a long time. I didn't ask her to do this. She did it because it was in her heart. Even though she was a little girl, the words and the language that she used was, "Oh, Mother, I want to take care of you. I want to make you yummy food": all these words of care and nurture. She seemed very much like a mom, even though she was a kindergartner.

I remember how that made me feel. It was not asked of her to prepare something like that for me, but she did it, nonetheless. She never knew when I was going to get it, but it didn't matter. She seized that moment to do something beautiful because it was an expression of her heart.

When I think about that, I am many times reminded of how I fall short because every time I want to say something to my parents, I don't necessarily write it down and turn it into a beautiful card. But when I think about what my daughter did, it makes me want to be a better mother, too, and a better daughter to my mother.

These little acts of kindness and service weren't done to get approval and a compliment for thinking about other people. They were something that naturally came out of her, wanting to take care of somebody. I realized how life altering that was for me as a mother. Can you imagine if we as a community, if we as members of our respective families, started expressing more, even in the form of a little note or card, to let each other how much we matter to each other, what it might do for a couple, a family, or a community?

When I think about our True Father talking about a revolution of heart, it sounds so huge, so incredibly out-there, a mighty force to reckon with. But what he's really talking about are those simple shifts in the way we view ourselves, in the way we look at our lives, in the way we understand what our family is.

If I were to create a list of complaints of how difficult it is to be a public person, that litany would be endless. But again, it takes a simple shift of my thinking to say that public life is incredibly difficult, but if you can approach it with a grateful heart and an understanding that you as an agent of change can make that change in yourself and thereby change other people, you realize what a gift it is. What is initially seen as burdensome, something troubling, something too painful to overcome or work through actually becomes an invitation for us to be a little more creative and perhaps read it in reverse. Or we may take a fresh look at the same situation from a different perspective.

When Chris Alan sang the song, "Miracle Called Us," I reflected that we're always waiting for the miracle. But it was Rumi who said that the joy of being human is uncovering the call that we already are, the treasure within. It's the treasure within that we already are. We as divine human beings have incredible potential to change our life, simply by deciding to be an agent of change and by deciding to look at the text in a different way. Our lives that we live on a weekly basis, sometimes tough, sometimes wonderful, are mere exercises in helping us become those great human beings that God would like to see all of us become.

Many times people look to me as the senior pastor to solve their problems. But just as True Mother gave it right back to this woman and said, "You stand up and deal with your problems, but I will be there with you every step of the way," that is really my job as the senior pastor. It's not to do your job as parents of your children or as the spouse of your spouse but to really stand here together with you and share that we can do it together.

A community like ours affords people who come for Sunday Service a lot of advantages. We have a social network here. We have different groups. Seeing old friends is always wonderful; catching up is always wonderful. But I challenged the West Coast members that our church is not just a social network, and Sunday is not just a time to gather and feel good about ourselves. It's really a chance for us to share the breaking news with the rest of the world.

Instead of looking at me as senior pastor to be the person to fix everything for you, I would like to ask you to please think about what you can do for the sake of the community and not always what the community has to do for you. We need a reciprocal relationship on all levels: between the congregation and the minister, between a father and mother, between brothers and sisters, and even between the best of colleagues. There has to be a sense that we're all breathing together, that it's not just inhaling all the time or exhaling all the time. We as a movement need to breathe. I need to exhale, you need to inhale; you need to exhale, I need to inhale. We've got to work together.

What I would like to do in my life is to leave behind a beautiful generation that can call itself a Generation of Peace. I think that's the desire of every parent: to leave that beautiful generation behind, knowing that the world is in good hands, knowing that our children will not kill over racial differences, over religious differences, over differences in economy and so on.

We need to know that our children will reside in and experience true love. We need to know that they are here to substantiate true love, true life, and true lineage. We need to know that they will try their best to build ideal families. And we need to know that we're going to leave behind a community that is supportive, that empowers all of us to try our best to be better than who we are, to be better than our neighbor. And we need to know that we are a group of people willing to put service first -- meaning even if we are never acknowledged for doing good works, we are satisfied and grateful simply because we could do the little acts of love that we have the opportunity to share with others.

Brothers and sisters, this is an exciting time. For myself as a mother and as your senior pastor, I feel our True Parents' desperation in wanting the world to recognize the value and preciousness of the blessing that is being shared. It's something that we should not just hold within our own community; it's something that should be encouraged and shared.

Many great men and women have lived great lives, honorable lives, waiting for the Second Coming, waiting for Jesus to return, waiting to have an understanding of how to lead their lives in faith. But you and I are the lucky ones. Maybe we had great ancestors. But we are the lucky ones that have this opportunity to be like Jesus' 12 disciples. And unlike the 12 disciples who were not there when Jesus was crucified, who could not give up themselves to save Jesus, we need to be the kind of people to protect our True Parents, and not just protect them but celebrate them with our lives every day that we live.

Brothers and sisters, our True Parents are back in Korea, finishing the third leg of the World Assembly, celebrating God's Providence, Universal Peace, and Abel UN. Our True Parents are calling forth all nations to think of themselves as belonging to one family under God. Just as Chris Alan sang, "Miracle Called Us," "miracle" sounds like "me-rocker." Once we decide to be an agent of change, we need to be our own rockers, our own miracles, those shining examples for our country and for the rest of the world.

When we gaze in the mirror, instead of seeing our own unworthy reflections, we need to be looking in the face of God. The reflection we need to see when we look in the mirror is the reflection that God would see when he's gazing into our eyes. When God looks into our faces, God sees love, God sees life, and God sees lineage. These are the precious gifts that he wants us to experience in our lifetime. God as our Heavenly Parent wants us to be successful in everything that we do.

Let's unleash ourselves from our own bondage that we put upon ourselves, keeping ourselves feeling hopeless and worthless, keeping ourselves riddled with fear so we cannot fully accomplish what we need to do. The only thing we need to say is, "I am that agent of change, I am that eternal son or daughter of God. I am going to decide to be successful. I am going to decide to be that person who dares to read the text backward, and becomes part of a Generation of Peace and not of a lost generation."

Instead of waiting for God to do all the work, we have within our hands to create our own miracle, to be that reflection that we want God to see when he gazes into our faces. It is within our hands to set our hearts on fire. It's the fire of true love that is going to blaze across the universe and really bring about the millennium of peace that we're waiting for and so wanting.

Brothers and sisters, let's start this week with a heart of gratitude, with our hearts on fire with the revolutionary spirit of true love. In the small things we can do, let us think about becoming that spark that can be the start of something extraordinary. Let's for example, reshift our understanding to simply see our own birthday as a day when we can honor God, True Parents, and our parents. It's that simple shift of our minds that can totally change the outcome of the kind of life that we're living to become the kind of life that we will have.

The miracle is within our hands. So please have a lovely weekend and a beautiful Sunday. God bless.

Notes:

A lost Generation

I realize this may be a shock but
happiness comes from within
is a lie, and
"Money will make me happy"
so in 30 years I will tell my children
they are not the most important thing in my life
My employer will know that
I have my priorities straight because
Work
is more important than
family
I tell you this
once upon a time
families stay together
but this will not be true in my era
this is a quick fix society
experts tell me
30 years from now I'll be celebrating the 10th anniversary of my divorce
I do not concede that
I will live in a country of my own making
in the future
environmental destruction will be the norm
no longer can it be said that
my peers and I care about this earth
it will be evident that
my generation is apathetic and lethargic
it is foolish to presume that
there is hope

And all of this will come true unless we choose to reverse it.

there is hope

it is foolish to presume that
my generation is apathetic and lethargic
it will be evident that
there is hope
it is foolish to presume that
my generation is apathetic and lethargic
it will be evident that
my peers and I care about this earth
no longer can it be said that
environmental destruction will be the norm
in the future
I will live in a country of my own making
I do not concede that
30 years from now I'll be celebrating the 10th anniversary of my divorce
experts tell me
this is a quick fix society
but this will not be true in my era
families stay together
once upon a time
I tell you this
family
is more important than
Work
I have my priorities straight because
My employer will know that
they are not the most important thing in my life
so in 30 years I will tell my children
"Money will make me happy"
is a lie, and
happiness comes from within
I realize this may be a shock but
A lost Generation

What Have You Done For Me Lately

What's up girl?
He stood me up again
Again?
Mmhmm
Well what's up with this guy?
Do you really like him that much?
Yes honey, I love him, he is fine,
he does a lot of nice things for me I know he used to do nice stuff for you,
but what has he done for you lately?

Used to be a time when you would pamper me
Used to brag about it all the time
Your friends seem to think that you're so peachy keen
But my friends say neglect is on your mind
Who's right?

What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah

Used to go to dinner almost every night
Dancin' 'til I thought I'd lose my breath
Ahh
Now it seems your dancing feet are always on my couch
Good thing I cook or else we'd starve to death
Ain't that a shame?

What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah

I never ask for more than I deserve
You know it's the truth
You seem to think you're God's gift to this earth
I'm tellin' you, no way

You ought to be thankful for the little things,
but little things are all you seem to give
You're always putting off what we can do today
Soap opera says, you've got one life to live
Who's right, who's wrong?

What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah

Get with it
Uh, let me know, and from the front
Let me know, and let me know from the
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah (yeah ha)
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah (yeah)
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah (yeah)

(No oh oh, no oh, yeah, mmmhmm
Da di da di, da di da da
Da
Mmmhmm
Yeah-e-yeah-e-yeah ha ha, hey
Mmmhmm, yeah ha ha)

What have you done for me lately? (lately)
Ooh ooh ooh yeah
(Uh, uh, uh, da di di da, di da di da, a di do da da, yeah)
What have you done for me lately?
Ooh ooh ooh yeah
What have you done for me lately? (lately)

This is wild, I swear 

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In Jin Moon
November 28, 2010
Las Vegas, NV

On Nov. 28, 2010, Rev. In Jin Moon spoke to the Las Vegas congregation about music being a universal language that has the ability to unite all types of people, and to move people's hearts. Rev. Moon shares her personal experience with music, and how it has helped her feel alive during hardships she has undergone, including the passing of her elder brother. Following this reflection, Rev. Moon touched on the philosophy of living for the sake of others, and how it is really not a sentence implying for us to be miserable for the rest of our lives. "The whole point of restoration is to get to a place where we are restored, where we are celebrating life, and where we are living life, not dying for the sake of others."

Good morning, brothers and sisters. Happy Thanksgiving weekend, and happy Sunday morning. We of the Lovin' Life team are delighted to be with all of you here in this beautiful city of Las Vegas. It was truly such an honor for members of my family and me to accompany our True Parents when our True Father gave us such a wonderful speech at the World Assembly celebrating the era of universal peace, God's providence, and the Abel UN. Father is encouraging all the countries of the world to think of themselves as a family centering on God.

This is a very special time for all of us here. I know that our True Father and True Mother are fervently and furiously doing their best to spread the breaking news of why they are here, what they would like to do as the True Parents, and what we as the children of the world need to do to bring about the world of peace that we have all been waiting for.

Every Sunday morning I get up thinking, "How can I be the vessel or conduit through whom God, our Heavenly Parents, can share his and her message with our brothers and sisters? How can I be a good and pure conduit of our True Parents so our brothers and sisters can feel their love and urgency, and also their dedication to each one of us?' I find myself feeling somewhat unworthy at times.

Last night, when I saw all the families coming out onto the dance floor and celebrating their life with each other, I couldn't help but have tears in my eyes because we are a movement that has struggled, sacrificed, and suffered for many years. But in the spirit of Thanksgiving, this is an era when we live under the direct dominion of God, meaning that we stand in the position of original sons and daughters, just as Adam and Eve were meant to be before the fall.

When Heavenly Parents created their first son and daughter, just as I as a mother look upon my children and hope for them the greatest love, happiness, and prosperity, they wanted the same for Adam and Eve, and for all of us as well.

But we know that because of the process of indemnity that had to take place since Adam and Eve fell away from God many years ago, the children of the world have been suffering; they have been lost and wandering in the wilderness for many years. But with the advent of True Parents, a man and woman standing in the position of perfected Adam and Eve joined together in the Blessing of holy matrimony, and also standing as the True Parents of humankind -- something that Adam and Eve were supposed to accomplish many years ago -- we have the opportunity through them to inherit the true love of God, enjoying our participation in true love, true life, and true lineage.

Yesterday after a wonderful celebration, where I felt like I was watching a constellation of moon, stars, and the sun, I felt as if I were experiencing what the Good Book says in I Corinthians [15:41], "The sun has many splendors and so does the moon and so do the stars, and the stars differ from one another in splendor, but nevertheless they are all beautiful." When I look at our community, I see young and old, big and small, thin and wide, and a lot of young kids full of energy as well as an elderly group that is young at heart, with bodies slow to follow. Nevertheless, everybody is so beautiful, having such splendor and divinity.

It was like watching a marvelous show in a planetarium, where you lie back in your chair and look at the planets, the stars, the sun, and the moon from all different angles, and you realize how wondrous, beautiful, and awesome life is. I was not reclining in my chair last night, but that's what I felt like. The constellation of the heavens was there in the room, in our own community with all different races, backgrounds, religions, and economic classes represented and harmoniously enjoying the moment together.

I was not only delighted to see our brothers and sisters, the First and Second Generations, out there on the floor shaking their booty, but I was tickled pink because I saw our continental director, Dr. Yang, out there, too. He's a Korean leader who has such presence -- when he enters the room, you can see it. He was joining in the festivities, and he walked out there together with my personal assistant, Kevin Yoon. I've known Kevin for a long time but I've never seen him dance. And I've known Dr. Yang for a long time, but I haven't seen him boogie, either. But the two of them slowly made their way out there, jiggling to the rhythm of the band.

And, you know, Korean people are not the most flexible. They tend to be quite rigid approaching the dance floor. But the closer they got to the band, the more their limbs started to become fluid, and I saw our continental leader bopping along just like the group of teenagers standing next to him. I said, "Is this not the Kingdom of Heaven?"

I felt once again the profundity of the universal language that we call music. Music has the ability to unite all kinds of people. It doesn't matter where you come from, what you're like, or what character type you're like. We could take, for example, Dr. Yang as one extreme and my daughter, who's a fluid, gold-medal ballroom dance winner, as the other. They're very different people, but the music of the Lovin' Life band united them and all the people in between together in a common rhythm, and hopefully in a common form -- for those who have taken good lessons from my daughter. All were just enjoying the festivities and each other. We all were allowing the universal language of love and music to flow through our veins so we could experience the beauty of being alive, of being human, and of being a man or a woman at this amazing time. Seeing and feeling all that was profoundly inspiring to me.

Music has affected me significantly throughout my life. Being born into a public family, with heavy expectations put on us from a very young age -- and this goes for all my siblings in the True Family -- and always feeling like we're never good enough, or wondering how we could ever accomplish what people expect of us, has made a strong feeling of failure predominant in life for my siblings and myself for a long time. Sometimes the crushing weight of this burden can be so overwhelming that it's totally petrifying, so we don't know how to take the next step.

But for me -- and I know for my older brother [Hyo Jin Moon] in particular, who loved music and was a fantastic musician -- the universal language of music was lifesaving. In my own life of faith, music has been something like an old friend, a great, worn-out leather glove that you turn to winter after winter, regardless of whether you get new gloves or not. Music has been a constant friend, a constant supporter, and a constant comforter.

When I wrote the song "One by One" many years ago, I was trying to deal with the loss of my brother. When he passed away, the grief was so crushing, I could not even imagine living another day without him, going another day without him, or simply breathing another day without him. In a public family like the True Family, where we grew up so much on stage, so much in the public eye, always being scrutinized and judged, always receiving constructive criticism, while our parents many times were not there to be our security blanket or to tell us we were doing a good job, we tended to rely on each other for strength and comfort, like many brothers and sisters do.

But when I lost my brother and realized that I no longer had him to be with me on a daily basis, someone I could call up when I was confronted with an issue or particular problem, I found myself totally petrified. I could not move, I could not go on, I did not want to get out of bed. I have a piano in my Boston house called Chocolate Velvet. I call it Chocolate Velvet because it's a Steinway D, a huge, a nine-foot piano, with a glorious sound, so smooth and rich it's like chocolate. You're listening to these keys being played, but they feel like velvet on your ears.

I heard Chocolate Velvet call out to me in my moment of being petrified, and it begged me to play its black and white keys. I was so overcome with grief that I did not want to move, I did not want to get up, I did not want to do anything. It was the power of music, the power of Chocolate Velvet representing the invitation for creativity, that just seemed to attract me like nothing else.

I got to the piano and started to play, and I was so sad. People who know me tell me, "You're the minor sort" in that I tend to like sad songs; I don't really like happy songs. So I started playing around in A Minor, and then all these feelings started to happening, feelings I had kept repressed, that I could not express to anybody because I felt like nobody could understand me. When I started to play the piano, slowly this inhibition began to wear off: The music started to flow, and the words started to flow.

When it turned into a song, it turned into a great source of comfort for me. When I heard Chris Alan sing it today -- and he sings it beautifully, doesn't he? -- I am reminded of that time when I was so stricken with grief that I could not move. But I am also reminded of the beauty of the universal language that carried me through such an difficult time by allowing me to participate in my own divinity and create something beautiful out of something that seemed hopeless and made me feel like I did not want to live another day without my brother. Music made me feel alive.

I always bring the Lovin' Life band because music has the ability to move people's hearts. Regardless of what language we speak, we can all understand that this is a happy song, this is a sad song, or this is a thought-provoking song. But all in all, we realize that music is something beautiful, moving, and alive, something that was created out of nowhere through a person's creativity. We realize once again how beautiful our lives are.

Regardless of how miserable I find myself, I remind myself that we have within our hands the ability to create something beautiful out of nothing. And I also remind myself that, unlike our brother Jesus, who never had the opportunity to find his beautiful wife, build an ideal family, and celebrate life with his brothers and sisters in a community like ours, we are blessed to be able to live the life that even our brother Jesus Christ could not live.

Yesterday at the Thanksgiving dinner, Ambassador Zakhem was sitting with me at the head table. I found out that he used to be a ballroom dance instructor many years ago. He was delighted to have Ariana seated there, and he's the one who approached her and said, "How about the dance floor?" Out they went. It was my first time to meet him. He's a former ambassador who worked under President Reagan and George Bush, senior. He's an accomplished man with a political record that he can be proud of. But I was terribly moved by his introduction of True Father because he came out not as a politician and somebody who's seasoned at speaking in front of people, but as a sincere man who simply came out and said, "I want to speak from my heart." He did just that, and he touched every one of us.

I could tell that this man didn't just talk the talk but walked the walk. He understood how incredible it is to be in the presence of our True Parents. When True Parents were walking out, he came to greet them and bid them good-bye. Mother turned to him, and in her hand she held a corsage she had taken off my father's lapel a moment before. When Ambassador Zakhem said, "Thank you for the event; it was wonderful," my mother turned to him with a smile and handed him Father's corsage.

The look on this man's face! He turned into a beautiful little boy, and he accepted this gift so beautifully, realizing how precious it was for him to have Father's corsage. When I saw him at Thanksgiving dinner at the end of the day, he still had the corsage with him. By then he had it in a plastic container, and he showed it to me.

Do we need people like that to remind us how precious True Parents are? If former ambassadors are hanging for dear life onto Father's corsage in a plastic container, how much more so should we be knowing that we call them our parents, our father and mother? If Jesus had had the chance 2,000 years ago to find that beautiful wife and have that beautiful family, he would have started doing what my father is well known for. Jesus would have started blessing people, encouraging people from different races, backgrounds, and religions to look beyond their limitations and barriers and to understand that we belong to a common humanity and that our common parent is God, our Heavenly Parent. Yes, Jesus would have started blessing people 2,000 years ago.

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What our True Parents are doing is the fulfillment of what Jesus would have done. Can you imagine: Here we are in Las Vegas, where everybody comes hoping to be a jackpot winner. Yesterday on the way to my hotel room, I veered away and went through the casino. One small woman playing a $25 jackpot slot machine looked terribly serious and terribly conservative. But just as I was passing, she hit a jackpot. The transformation from before and after was striking: from a conservative, dowdy, quiet, serious woman staring at the machine to an excited and happy woman who looked like a pep rally cheerleader at a major football game after hitting the jackpot. She was on fire! To everybody who walked by, she called, "I won! I won!" The machine was ringing off the hook, so we did know. She had so much power that she grabbed people walking past her. "I won! I won!" Somebody walked by and said, "You are really lucky." She turned around and said, "It's not luck. I was here at the right time. I made it happen." She was beaming.

When I saw her, I thought, "All of our brothers and sisters who attended the World Assembly are like jackpot winners. All of us have hit the spiritual wealth jackpot in our True Parents." I think it's interesting how Father keeps on holding these assemblies in Las Vegas. It's almost as if he wants to remind us that all of you are jackpot winners. Don't ever forget that.

When I saw the before-and-after transformation that took place in this woman, it was a reminder for me to understand how incredible it is to have our True Parents. We've been following them for as long as five decades, and the initial spark that made us open our eyes to realize who they are, what we need to do, and how we need to work together to build this world of peace was incredibly bright and powerful in the beginning. Over the years, though, we started having material and family concerns, maybe wondering why it's taking so long. Some of us may have forgotten how incredible it was, that first moment when we realized who our True Parents are, that first moment, just like hitting a jackpot that takes you from one type of person to another. Sometimes we forget.

But, as the Bible reminds us in Amos 9:13, the Lord warns us that the day is coming. The Bible is asking us to be prepared, to be ready, because the day is coming. And what does the Bible say? It says, "The day is coming, declares the Lord, when the reaper will be overtaken by the plowman."

What is a reaper? Somebody who reaps the harvest. In the autumn, when the crops have grown to their full height -- and I'm visualizing beautiful, majestic cornfields -- the reapers are those who harvest a plentiful crop. But the Bible says that the day is coming when the reaper will be overtaken by the plowman. A plowman is somebody who plows the fields, preparing them for planting. But the one who harvests, the reaper, will be overtaken by the plowman.

The text goes on further to say, "The day is coming when the reaper will be overtaken by the plowman, and the planter" -- the one who sows the seeds -- "will be overtaken by the one treading grapes." It goes on to say, "The new wine will drip from the mountains and from all the surrounding hills."

This verse reminds our community that we need to be prepared because what we think is the harvest that we are ready to reap might not be what God wants. We might think that the purpose of our life is to seek money, knowledge, and power. We might think that the purpose of our life is to seek material wealth, to amass material fortune, possessions, abundance, and so on. But the Bible says that it doesn't matter what you are ready to reap because you have to be ready to be overtaken by the plowman, somebody who will till the field and prepare it for the crop that God wants to share with all of us.

The Bible is saying to be prepared but also to be flexible because what we once thought might not be what God intends. We have to be totally united with our True Parents during this time because they are God's representatives -- our guides, our teachers, our father and mother -- who will help us stay the course, who will help us be prepared and ready, and who will help us be flexible as the ones who tread the grapes planted by the planter that God might bring from somewhere that we might not expect.

When our community was introduced to the concept of the Woman's Federation for World Peace, there was a great deal of shock, right? Our brothers wondered, "What about subject and object? Aren't men subject and women object?" But the Divine Principle teaches that we have God as our center, our head; a man and a woman on either side, truly honoring, respecting, and working with each other in the spirit of love, come together and create beautiful families. I know that a lot of brothers wondered what the Women's Federation was all about.

Then here comes what Father proclaims as the Pacific Rim Era. What are we going to do when Father starts putting women in positions of power? What is the community going to do? Maybe a lot of ministers in our faith thought that district leaders, ministers, and pastors should be brothers. But what about when Father asks sisters to be district leaders, pastors, or your senior pastor? I am sure it was terribly shocking for a lot of people.

But our Heavenly Parent, through the wisdom and guidance of our True Parents, was preparing and readying us, but also asking us to be flexible. Many wonderful things are going to be taking place, many wonderful surprises that have yet to be revealed. It's a call for us to be firmly committed and firmly united with our True Parents.

The Bible asks us not just to watch from the sidelines, not to just think about the new wine that will be dripping from the mountains. That new wine will be coming from the one who treads on the grapes. It might look like the person bringing the new message is someone who's trampling on the existing understanding of what we ought to be. Maybe it's challenging our concept of who we are. But in the process of trampling on the grapes, a process of destruction, there's a potential for construction. There's potential to make something new. And what God ultimately hopes for is to create this new wine that will drip from the mountains to flood and grace our world. This new wine will be like the spring of life.

Our True Parents are like the spring of life in this parched desert of Nevada. The whole of humankind has been thirsty for this water of life, this new message -- an understanding of love, of who we are as God's sons and daughters and what we need to do with our lives. We have been waiting to partake of the spring of life, this fountain of youth that people have so longed to possess throughout all time.

But if we think deeply about it, brothers and sisters, by our True Parents giving us the ability to experience true love, true life and true lineage, the right to inherit the true love of God, and the authority to build ideal beautiful families, we do live forever. When we partake of the spring of life that our True Parents are raising all of us with, we do live forever in the hearts and minds and beauty of our children, our grandchildren, and our great-grandchildren. The beauty of who we are gets carried forth one generation after another.

When Father is compelling all of us to dream and imagine -- and not only to dream and imagine but also to actually take an active role in building an ideal world -- he is challenging us to build the Generation of Peace. This "new wine" is a generation who understands that God is our common parent, that we are God's eternal sons and daughters, having divine value and personal destinies we need to fulfill, and that we need to live our lives for the sake of others, living -- not dying, not suffering for the sake of others but truly living, loving, and celebrating.

Had Jesus found a wife and had an opportunity to have children, the concept of Christian piety would have been vastly different. But because Jesus never had a chance to take a bride or have a family, our concept of being devout and holy means someone who gives up family life and love in order to seek a life of faith. But in our True Parents we realize that that's not what our Heavenly Parents wanted for their children. No parent in this world wishes for his or her child a life of suffering, misery, pain, and denial.

What we as parents want is for our children to be fulfilled, empowered, successful, and prosperous, even if we have to give our own life, even if we have to sacrifice ourselves. We want for our kids all of these things, and that's exactly what our Heavenly Parent wants for all of us. Our Heavenly Parent does not want us to be miserable, suffering, and living in pain. He wants us to accomplish, establish, and substantiate our own divinity, our own beautiful signature in this world by creating our own wonderful, ideal family. God wants us to be happy.

A couple of weeks ago I was talking about the significance of 10/10/10, and how truly profound it was that we have our True Parents, the Lord of the Second Advent, the Messiah of this world presiding over the October 10, 2010, blessing as the True Parents of humankind. This date will not happen again for another thousand years. Our True Parents were here to capture that date as the True Parents of humankind, to usher in a thousand years of peace.

We are living in the direct dominion of God. We have our True Parents with us. We have them proclaiming to the world that they are here to help us all inherit the true love of God by encouraging us to go through the Blessing of holy matrimony. Only by grafting onto this original olive branch of the original olive tree do we really have a chance at becoming one family, as a part of God's lineage. It's an incredible time.

It's so wonderful because this -- the 10/10/10 blessing -- is the first time in the history of our movement for Father to declare that under God's direct dominion our children should be encouraged to seek their own spouse. After talking about this, I received a long, elaborate e-mail from a Japanese brother, saying it was not his understanding that people should be happy in marriage. He said that in his marriage he has been suffering for 30 years, struggling and miserable, but he is living for the sake of others, sacrificing himself for the sake of others.

He was saying that he resented the fact that I was celebrating that we stand in the position of God's children, just as Adam and Eve would have done in the Garden of Eden, that now God has a chance to partake of our happiness and our children's happiness. For some reason it made this gentleman, who has suffered for such a long time, quite angry and furious. He was preaching to me, "We have to suffer."

I understand where he's coming from. I understand his sacrifice. I understand his willingness to suffer for the sake of others. But the philosophy of living for the sake of others is really not a sentence for all of us to be miserable for the rest of our lives. Yes, we have to go through a period of indemnity. Yes, we have to go through restoration. But the whole point of restoration is to get to a place where we are restored, where we are celebrating life, and where we are living life, not dying for the sake of others.

We should encourage our children to live life for the sake of others. But that also means taking care of themselves, being responsible for the choices that they make in life, and being excellent inside, in their life of faith, as well as being excellent outside, in the external manifestations of their faith, through their calling. They might be called to be great musicians, doctors, or professors, or the next president of the United States.

It's good if we as a community understand that, yes, we've suffered in the time of the wilderness. But this is the time of settlement. This is the time when we need to grow as a family and community. This is the time when we need to shine in our respective areas of expertise and our children should be called to dream, to be great -- not only like Mother Teresa, but as great as Albert Einstein, if our children are talented in mathematics or science. Maybe they're called to be great doctors who can find cures for cancer or AIDS.

Instead of just watching, instead of just listening, and instead of just sitting on the fence, this is a time when we need to be treading on the grapes. We need to do more than hear the train coming. Many men and women of history have heard the train coming. Many have not only heard the train coming, they have seen it approaching. Many brothers and sisters have not only seen or heard the train, they have also seen it pass by.

But are we going to let this train pass by, or are we going to get on the train? This is the time of the breaking news, the time when we should not be sitting on the fence. This is the time when we should be actively engaged in our life of faith. Don't just come to church for social camaraderie; be involved. Don't just come to see your friends, but come to touch somebody. Share the breaking news with your classmates, your colleagues, or different members of your families. Don't just enjoy the community for what it offers you; think about what you can offer your own community.

Every one of us is that agent of change. Don't just look to your senior pastor to do all the work that needs to be done in the church. I cannot do it without you. I need your support; I need your active involvement. So come and start treading the grapes with me, brothers and sisters, and get on the train.

Starting from this beautiful city of Las Vegas, let the spring of life flow. Let the waters of life -- the waters of true love, true life and true lineage -- flow into every American here in this great country. Let the waters flow through our community by helping our children to dream -- and not just to dream, but to make their dreams reality. I feel it is an incredible honor for me to be living at this time, when I can put in my two cents' worth, to raise up the beautiful treasures of our community, our Second and Third Generation.

Brothers and sisters, this is not a time to be sitting idle or listening to the train go by. It's time to get on board. It's time to understand how important it is to have our True Parents. It's time to realize that you have been winning the jackpot every day of your life. So one day at a time, realizing that each day is a day of huge jackpot winnings of spiritual wealth, how should we be as human beings? How should we be as children? We should be grateful and truly humble before God, who has given us so much.

So God bless all of you. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving weekend.

Notes

1 Corinthians, chapter 15

1: Now I would remind you, brethren, in what terms I preached to you the gospel, which you received, in which you stand,

2: by which you are saved, if you hold it fast -- unless you believed in vain.

3: For I delivered to you as of first importance what I also received, that Christ died for our sins in accordance with the scriptures,

4: that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day in accordance with the scriptures,

5: and that he appeared to Cephas, then to the twelve.

6: Then he appeared to more than five hundred brethren at one time, most of whom are still alive, though some have fallen asleep.

7: Then he appeared to James, then to all the apostles.

8: Last of all, as to one untimely born, he appeared also to me.

9: For I am the least of the apostles, unfit to be called an apostle, because I persecuted the church of God.

10: But by the grace of God I am what I am, and his grace toward me was not in vain. On the contrary, I worked harder than any of them, though it was not I, but the grace of God which is with me.

11: Whether then it was I or they, so we preach and so you believed.

12: Now if Christ is preached as raised from the dead, how can some of you say that there is no resurrection of the dead?

13: But if there is no resurrection of the dead, then Christ has not been raised;

14: if Christ has not been raised, then our preaching is in vain and your faith is in vain.

15: We are even found to be misrepresenting God, because we testified of God that he raised Christ, whom he did not raise if it is true that the dead are not raised.

16: For if the dead are not raised, then Christ has not been raised.

17: If Christ has not been raised, your faith is futile and you are still in your sins.

18: Then those also who have fallen asleep in Christ have perished.

19: If for this life only we have hoped in Christ, we are of all men most to be pitied.

20: But in fact Christ has been raised from the dead, the first fruits of those who have fallen asleep.

21: For as by a man came death, by a man has come also the resurrection of the dead.

22: For as in Adam all die, so also in Christ shall all be made alive.

23: But each in his own order: Christ the first fruits, then at his coming those who belong to Christ.

24: Then comes the end, when he delivers the kingdom to God the Father after destroying every rule and every authority and power.

25: For he must reign until he has put all his enemies under his feet.

26: The last enemy to be destroyed is death.

27: "For God has put all things in subjection under his feet." But when it says, "All things are put in subjection under him," it is plain that he is excepted who put all things under him.

28: When all things are subjected to him, then the Son himself will also be subjected to him who put all things under him, that God may be everything to every one.

29: Otherwise, what do people mean by being baptized on behalf of the dead? If the dead are not raised at all, why are people baptized on their behalf?

30: Why am I in peril every hour?

31: I protest, brethren, by my pride in you which I have in Christ Jesus our Lord, I die every day!

32: What do I gain if, humanly speaking, I fought with beasts at Ephesus? If the dead are not raised, "Let us eat and drink, for tomorrow we die."

33: Do not be deceived: "Bad company ruins good morals."

34: Come to your right mind, and sin no more. For some have no knowledge of God. I say this to your shame.

35: But some one will ask, "How are the dead raised? With what kind of body do they come?"

36: You foolish man! What you sow does not come to life unless it dies.

37: And what you sow is not the body which is to be, but a bare kernel, perhaps of wheat or of some other grain.

38: But God gives it a body as he has chosen, and to each kind of seed its own body.

39: For not all flesh is alike, but there is one kind for men, another for animals, another for birds, and another for fish.

40: There are celestial bodies and there are terrestrial bodies; but the glory of the celestial is one, and the glory of the terrestrial is another.

41: There is one glory of the sun, and another glory of the moon, and another glory of the stars; for star differs from star in glory.

42: So is it with the resurrection of the dead. What is sown is perishable, what is raised is imperishable.

43: It is sown in dishonor, it is raised in glory. It is sown in weakness, it is raised in power.

44: It is sown a physical body, it is raised a spiritual body. If there is a physical body, there is also a spiritual body.

45: Thus it is written, "The first man Adam became a living being"; the last Adam became a life-giving spirit.

46: But it is not the spiritual which is first but the physical, and then the spiritual.

47: The first man was from the earth, a man of dust; the second man is from heaven.

48: As was the man of dust, so are those who are of the dust; and as is the man of heaven, so are those who are of heaven.

49: Just as we have borne the image of the man of dust, we shall also bear the image of the man of heaven.

50: I tell you this, brethren: flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God, nor does the perishable inherit the imperishable.

51: Lo! I tell you a mystery. We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed,

52: in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, and the dead will be raised imperishable, and we shall be changed.

53: For this perishable nature must put on the imperishable, and this mortal nature must put on immortality.

54: When the perishable puts on the imperishable, and the mortal puts on immortality, then shall come to pass the saying that is written: "Death is swallowed up in victory."

55: "O death, where is thy victory?
O death, where is thy sting?"

56: The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law.

57: But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.

58: Therefore, my beloved brethren, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that in the Lord your labor is not in vain.

Amos, chapter 9

1: I saw the LORD standing beside the altar, and he said: "Smite the capitals until the thresholds shake,
and shatter them on the heads of all the people;
and what are left of them I will slay with the sword;
not one of them shall flee away,
not one of them shall escape.

2: "Though they dig into Sheol,
from there shall my hand take them;
though they climb up to heaven,
from there I will bring them down.

3: Though they hide themselves on the top of Carmel,
from there I will search out and take them;
and though they hide from my sight at the bottom of the sea,
there I will command the serpent, and it shall bite them.

4: And though they go into captivity before their enemies,
there I will command the sword, and it shall slay them;
and I will set my eyes upon them
for evil and not for good."

5: The Lord, GOD of hosts,
he who touches the earth and it melts,
and all who dwell in it mourn,
and all of it rises like the Nile,
and sinks again, like the Nile of Egypt;

6: who builds his upper chambers in the heavens,
and founds his vault upon the earth;
who calls for the waters of the sea,
and pours them out upon the surface of the earth --
the LORD is his name.

7: "Are you not like the Ethiopians to me,
O people of Israel?" says the LORD.
"Did I not bring up Israel from the land of Egypt,
and the Philistines from Caphtor and the Syrians from Kir?

8: Behold, the eyes of the Lord GOD are upon the sinful kingdom,
and I will destroy it from the surface of the ground;
except that I will not utterly destroy the house of Jacob," says
the LORD.

9: "For lo, I will command,
and shake the house of Israel among all the nations
as one shakes with a sieve,
but no pebble shall fall upon the earth.

10: All the sinners of my people shall die by the sword,
who say, `Evil shall not overtake or meet us.'

11: "In that day I will raise up
the booth of David that is fallen
and repair its breaches,
and raise up its ruins,
and rebuild it as in the days of old;

12: that they may possess the remnant of Edom
and all the nations who are called by my name,"
says the LORD who does this.

13: "Behold, the days are coming," says the LORD,
"when the plowman shall overtake the reaper
and the treader of grapes him who sows the seed;
the mountains shall drip sweet wine,
and all the hills shall flow with it.

14: I will restore the fortunes of my people Israel,
and they shall rebuild the ruined cities and inhabit them;
they shall plant vineyards and drink their wine,
and they shall make gardens and eat their fruit.

15: I will plant them upon their land,
and they shall never again be plucked up
out of the land which I have given them," says the LORD your God. 

In Jin Nim's Message In Las Vegas

November 28, 2010
Unofficial notes

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These are abbreviated notes from a brother in Las Vegas.

Our True Parents are working fervently and furiously to share the good news that True Parents are here. In this era we in the position of Adam and Eve before the fall. Just as we stand as parents and want the very best true love and happiness fir our children so did God for Adam and Eve. Each child like a sparkling star in splendor. Like Corinthian in the bible. Young old small and tall all races backgrounds coming together line the constellations.

When I saw all young people dance at our Thanksgiving party I thought they are shining like the stars. Dr. Yang joined them. Music unites all together. Love and music.

For me music affected my life so deeply. Born into a public life with high expectations we grew up feeling we could never reach the high expectations we felt so often like failures. My older brother Hyo Jin was saved by music. When I lost him I felt so crushed I was like a petrified forest. Then I felt my piano call to me and I played and a song came out of me "one by one."

People say I like minor cords sad songs.

Our brother Jesus was unable to have a lovely bride.

I was so delighted to sit with Ambassador Zackam at dinner his resume is very distinguished but he did not speak as a politician he spoke from the heart I was so moved and so was mother she handed him Father's corsage he was so delighted.

If Jesus could have found a bride he would have gone on to bless couples like True Parents. We are so blessed to have attended the world assembly with True Parents

Amos chapter 13 says the day is coming when the reaper will be overtaken by the plow man. The planter who sows the seeds will be overtaken by the one who harvests and the hills will know with new wine. It is saying what you think that you should devote yourself to making money and the concerns of your life may not be what God is going to harvest in you. So be ready. Be flexible many wonderful things and wonderful surprises may be coming.

When Father created WFWP many brothers might have thought "what? Father is putting women in charge then what if Father puts women as senior pastors and leaders".

God is creating new wine which will flood and grace our world. We have been waiting for the spring of life. True Parents are bringing that Spring of Life.

Father is calling us challenging us not to just dream but to create, to build this new world to live not die for the sake of others. Parents want his children to be fulfilled empowered to be happy not to be suffering. We are called to actually build a generation of peace.

On 10/10/2010 I was so amazed thinking we are part of God's family God's lineage right now it will be 1,000 years before another 10-10-10 comes we can have 1,000 years of peace on Earth if we share the blessing the good news True Parents have brought.

We went through a period of indemnity but this is not the time to watch and listen not to just hear the train pass by.

Are we going to get on the train? Don't just come to church for social community think of yourself as an active agent of change. Touch someone share the good news our True Parents are here you have been hitting the jackpot everyday.

We should be grateful. We should be humble.

Thank you God. Thank you True Parents. 

As We Come Together As A Community, Let Us Put Aside Our Differences

In Jin Moon
November 21, 2010
Lovin' Life Ministries

On November 21, 2010, Rev. In Jin Moon spoke to the Lovin' Life Ministries congregation about the importance of not being crushed as we try to be "superhuman" taking care of everyone else around us, but instead to remember the divinity within and how special and precious each of us are, having been given the opportunity in life to leave something beautiful behind. Rev. Moon also shared how she learned in her life, with the encouragement of her mother, that if we can dream, visualize, and see what we want to achieve in our minds, then we can make it happen in our lives.

Good morning, brothers and sisters. Please have a seat. How is everyone this morning? You've heard the great news that True Parents are coming [to New York], right? They're on their way, and we will spend a fantastic evening with them tomorrow night. I hope all of you can participate in the event and show our True Parents how much America loves them and appreciates the privilege of having them in our lives.

As I was thinking about the message that I wanted to share with you this morning, I came upon several e-mails. As Dave Hunter mentioned earlier, this is the start of the Christmas holidays, so a great deal of planning and scheduling takes place. For many parents, there's a lot of running around to get things done to make sure that everything is in order so that when the festivities hit, they can have a great time together with their families.

This is actually a wonderful time for families, but at the same time there's a sense of urgency -- and, I think for a lot of mothers in the audience, almost a sense of desperation -- because we want to get it right for the holidays. The children are expecting so many things, and we don't want to fall short. So we put a lot of stress on ourselves, hoping to be the best mom or the best supermom.

I got an e-mail from a lovely lady who has a beautiful family. She is walking the road of motherhood and self-discovery, trying her best to balance work and family. She is struggling to balance the rigidity and inflexibility of some of her scheduling with a desire to be flexible all the time for her children, her spouse, and her relatives.

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Supermom

This is a highly accomplished woman, very capable in her job, and doing her best as a mother. Just like many of us in the audience who have children of our own, she wants to be Supermom, almost an action hero type of person, a mother who can be 10 places at the same time, making sure that right before her child falls, she's right there to make sure the child doesn't fall. Or just as her distraught child runs home from school, she's waiting at the front door with a plate full of cookies. This is the image of motherhood that we may put on ourselves: We want to be there for everybody whom we love.

But this mother was severely "burned out," as we say. Here she was, trying to live her life for the sake of others, going out of her way to take care of everybody all around her, but she didn't realize that perhaps she was forgetting to take care of herself. In so doing, she found herself in a state of panic with the holidays approaching, all the relatives coming in, and all the expectations that she wanted to fulfill. It was a "senior pastor SOS" e-mail. When I read her message, she reminded me a lot of what I used to be like.

When we are growing up and trying to be our best, many times we want to be superhuman; being human is just not good enough. We don't realize how special and precious we are. Instead of learning to appreciate who we are and then taking it to the next step, we keep taking step after step after step without taking time to appreciate the preciousness of who we are as divine sons and daughters. When we forget to remember the divinity within or how special and precious we are, having been given the opportunity in life to make something beautiful and leave something beautiful behind, we can easily degenerate into feeling worthless, with no meaning to the world.

I found myself in that situation many times: I felt I was going out of my way taking care of everybody, but when I was by myself, I felt incredibly worthless. I asked myself, "What is the meaning in life when I'm feeling tired and burned out all the time?" That's when a lovely voice in the back of my mind grew louder. It was the voice of my mother, reminding me what a beautiful child of God I am, that I am a divine being.

When we were much younger, we sometimes had to follow True Father on his speaking tours or at workshops, and all our toys would be left behind. We wouldn't have our favorite things with us. We would come to Mother and say, "Father is giving a long speech. Can we go out and play?" Sometimes she would let us go out and play. We would run around a bit, but invariably after tiring ourselves out we would go back to Mother and say, "We don't have our favorite things. We want to go back home."

Mother used to tell us the same thing over and over again. She would say, "But you have so many toys." We'd say, "But Mother, we have no toys." She said, "Yes, you do. You have so many toys." We just looked at her. Had she gone bonkers, or was she trying to tell us something profound? We said, "Mother, we didn't bring anything." Then she'd say, "Yes, but you brought yourselves. What about all those friends, all those toys that I see you drawing, that I see you creating, that I see you making up in your mind? What happened to those little stories that you write, that you love to read to your brothers and sisters? Aren't they all your toys?" She would say, "You have a lot of toys. Now go play."

She would usher us out, and many times we'd decide this was a call for us to write stories or draw. What she was asking us to do was to take stock of who we were. Here we found ourselves in the middle of a long speech by True Father, and we wanted to go out and play with our familiar playthings that we left behind at home. Mother didn't use the word imagination or say, "Use your creativity to amuse yourself; create the toys that you want to play with." But that was exactly what she was asking us to do.

She was challenging us not to complain: "Even if you don't see what you want, you are still a divine being." She was indirectly telling us that as long as we could tap into our ability to create and imagine, we could creatively take ourselves out of the situation: "If you find yourself in a situation where you have no toys, you can, with the ability of the divine within to imagine, create your own personal playthings that you have a hand in making." So from when we were a very young age, our True Mother has encouraged us not only to see what we don't have, but if we don't have something, to create something out of nothing, something better than we had before, that could amuse us for endless hours.

When I think about this sister who was totally burned out and so overcome by all the things she had to do that she felt crushed and demoralized, I see myself, and I realize that at various points in my life I was exactly that superwoman wannabe. I realized that this simple message that Mother gave to me many years ago about imagination and our ability to create tells us that we can get ourselves out of the rut we're in because we have ability to imagine.

A lot of great men and women have done just that. They were born into poverty, with few prospects except for a life of misery and maybe certain failure and death. But by tapping into the divine, by discovering God along the way and realizing that they have infinite potential to be the kind of people whom they would like to be, by understanding that they are God's children who have been given the divine gifts of the ability to imagine, dream, and visualize, these people who seemed set for certain failure have pulled themselves up by the bootstraps and turned themselves into great men and women.

They could do this because regardless of where they were or what the situation was, they were able to exercise their creativity, to dream and visualize what they wanted. Then they started implementing that visualization into something substantial in their lives so they could be the kind of people they wanted to be. For instance, a great athlete like Michael Jordan already knew what he wanted to be. He visualized it. Regardless of what dire circumstances or obstacles were set in his path, nothing stopped him.

The same goes for our True Father. He was born in the remote hills of North Korea but became one of the great religious leaders and the True Father of humankind. At a very young age, even with nothing to his name, he knew exactly what he needed to do after Jesus Christ anointed him at the tender age of 16. Jesus asked this Korean teenager to fulfill Jesus' mission -- instead of being crucified, to live and find a wife, become the True Parents of humankind, establish a true family, and be a great model and guide for humanity in helping all people realize that regardless of where they come from or what their backgrounds might be, they have a personal destiny they need to substantiate in their lifetime. This was the message given to our True Father. Ever since he was 16, he has visualized and dreamed what he needed to do, and one step at a time he has put it into motion.

When I think about the mother who sent me that e-mail, it reminded me of myself, being in the rut of wanting to be a Supermom being there for everybody. But not having the physical means to do so, I found myself hitting a brick wall. That's when I realized my Mother's wisdom again: "Imagine yourself out of the situation."

She has taught me a lot of lessons along the way. One of the simple lessons she gave us when she encouraged us to visualize and imagine was that she also would say, "Children, remember to breathe. You have to breathe." Remembering her words later, I would say to myself, "We have to stop what we're doing and take a moment to breathe." As we go about our day doing so many different things, we do not realize that we're not exhaling all the time, nor are we just inhaling all the time. There's a give-and-receive action that's taking place with us and the universe. We are inhaling and exhaling 20,000 liters of air per day.

Just as we give and we receive, just as we live for the sake of others and go on living for the sake of others, there has to be a moment when we're giving, giving, giving but also breathing in. When I feel totally confounded by a mountain of work or the weight of the holidays approaching and want to imagine myself out of this supermom conundrum, I remember how my mother always encouraged us to breathe, to stop, to rest, to take stock of where we were, and to feel ourselves as a human beings again, not as robots or people who facilitate things that need to be done in the home. We need not to just think of ourselves as somebody who executes the things that need to be done in the course of the day but to remember ourselves in our simplest state of being: simply inhaling and exhaling.

Then she would also encourage us to take stock and rest a little bit, just as at the end of a long day we need to sleep to be healthy for the next day. So we rest and take stock. Just as beautiful photographs need to go through processing in the darkroom, a quiet place where different solutions await them before the pictures can be brought out onto paper for all of us to enjoy, human beings, likewise, regardless of how faithful we want to be in our lives, can't always be exhaling, exhaling, exhaling. Sooner or later we need to inhale, and we need to rest. We need to take stock of where we are.

Then the next thing we need to do is to visualize what we want, that is, have an image in our minds of where we want to go. The supermom in the rut needs to take a moment, maybe go to a spa for three hours, and think about the day. If she can only get nine out of ten things done, so be it. Maybe a fantastic relative of hers might show up and actually pick up the last piece and make it a glorious holiday. We try to do everything ourselves and think that the world is going to fall apart if we're not there.

Often my children want me to figure everything out for them. Many times they ask questions like, "Mother, what should I do about this? Maybe I can go to Boston for this, maybe I can go to Chicago, maybe to New York." I know that the child already knows the answer of what might be the best trip for them, but they're making me give a command about what to do. As we mature in our motherhood, what we do more and more is to allow our children to think through their own questions and arrive at the answer themselves.

At HSA, people who work for me write long e-mails asking obvious questions that they already know the answers to, but I simply don't respond. They know the answer, they've thought about it, they will come to the conclusion, and they know that the answer they will arrive at is the answer I would like to see. But sometimes they want to take a shortcut. They want somebody in the position of authority to say, "Okay, you can do the easier way."

But when you've thought it through, you realize that the answer to your question is obvious. A wise mother will sit back and allow you to answer your own questions. Many times I do the same here at HSA. When I remember my mother asking all of us to take stock, she was very good at not answering all the questions. She was very good in terms of having us children think it out, work it out, learning to walk on our own.

As we were growing up, we were not the most malleable group of children. Mother encouraged all of us to have opinions, thinking or feeling our way through. We had different ideas, plans, and goals. Coming together as a family was a very difficult thing. But what she did was incredible in that she has created a family of very different types of people. We represent all different character types, all different shapes and forms, so that when we come together it's almost like many different nations coming together.

We're not a cookie-cutter family. Because Mother appreciated our unique gifts from God and allowed us to tap into our divinity, our ability to create, imagine, and dream, we can do so, no matter how difficult the obstacles in our path. For that, I am eternally grateful for my mother.

Here she is, imploring all of us, as the first step in the course of this process of imagination, to rest, to breathe, to take stock and look at what we need to do: "Don't be so overburdened, don't feel demoralized. You are just experiencing another process on the road of life."

She would encourage us to visualize where we wanted to go and what we wanted to be, just as Michael Jordan could visualize exactly what he wanted to be. We all have the ability to be successful, to find incredible love, to prosper in things that are emotionally, physically, and spiritually wonderful. This is what God wants for all of us. Many times we are our own restriction, with patterns of negative thinking, saying to ourselves that we cannot do this or that: "I'm not strong enough, not fast enough. But this is a restriction we put on ourselves."

If we can dream, visualize, and see it in our minds, then we can make it happen in our lives. Our mother would push us on, to rest, become healthy again, then start visualizing, dreaming, and having goals and aspirations that we would like to see happen in our lives. Then she encouraged us to do something about it -- implement it, go about it.

When we as human beings go about our business in our daily lives, there are many ways that we can better our lives. The imagination process can take place in the confines of our own room. It can change our whole understanding of family, ourselves, or our world. We can make a breakthrough discovery, as many scientists have done, and change the world.

Emily Dickinson

I'm a huge fan of the great American poet from Amherst, Massachusetts, Emily Dickinson. She was a master in mixing comedy and satire to deal with the themes of death and immortality that run through all her work. This frail-looking woman was such a recluse that toward the end of her life she never left her room. Even the friendships that she had over the years were all through correspondence. She very much lived within herself.

She wrote a fantastic little poem many years ago [Summer's Obesquites] that is a parody on the Trinitarian understanding of baptism. Matthew 28:19 describes Jesus imploring his disciples to baptize the nations in the name of the father, the son, and the holy ghost. Jesus was urging everyone to share the good news of Jesus wherever they went. We hear this "Great Commission" often being repeated.

What Emily Dickinson did was not only charming and intelligent but also extremely poignant. She took the text from Matthew, "In the name of the father, the son, and the holy ghost," and wrote a poem, using the same beginning and ending: "In the name of," and "Amen." But she totally changed the nouns, and therefore changed the whole feeling of the concept of Trinity.

She was a very well educated woman, very well read and well versed in Scripture. I am sure that as a woman she probably had approached religious life as many of us, including myself, have done. In the verse from Matthew we have the concept of baptism, and the way we baptize the nations of the world is by issuing this statement, "In the name of the father, the son and the holy ghost." I am sure Emily Dickinson, when she read these lines, must have asked herself, "Where do I fit in? Where is the mother? Where is the daughter? Will the holy ghost have a form? Will it be male or female?"

When I hear those words, that's what's going through my head, and when various sisters, mothers, and women of the world read those words, I know they feel exactly the same thing. The concept of the Trinity for a lot of women is a very cold, archaic, patriarchal, and male-based concept. There is no mother. There is no sister. There is no warmth.

But what Emily Dickinson did was that she rewrote this with a hint of parody and, as a lot of literary critics have said, with a hint of blasphemy. She replaced the three nouns -- father, son, and holy ghost -- with bee, butterfly, and breeze. So Emily Dickinson's rewritten version of the call to baptize the world reads, "In the name of the bee, in the name of the butterfly, and in the name of the breeze, amen." It's important to understand that she's writing with a sense of humor, comedy, and parody. What she is doing is actually provoking us to think, to visualize this call to baptism and understand it in a totally different way.

She's saying, "This is what we are called to do, to baptize the world. But, you know, I'm feeling a little lack of the feminine spirit here. What if I were to use words that come from Mother Earth, from the things we experience?" Instead of the knowledge of the Trinity as something archaic, old, and patriarchal, what about bringing symbols of spring into this scriptural, rewritten, Emily Dickinson version, bringing symbols of spring and new life, like bees. You see bees in the springtime going from flower to flower. You know that winter has melted; you know it's time for new life, time for pollination.

She brings the beautiful concept of butterflies flying around: a symbol of beauty, something that's light and airy but inspiring at the same time, something that moves. When we are moved, we say, "I have butterflies in my stomach," right? We feel something.

In the Father, we don't have any sensory experience. We have the words the Father, the Son, the Holy Ghost, but none of these words convey sensory experience. In Emily Dickinson's version, you have the concept of spring: the bee, the butterfly, the breeze. You can actually hear the bee buzzing. You can see the butterfly is fluttering. You can feel the breeze that is caressing everything about your being.

What she was visualizing in this quiet room that she allowed herself to be confined in, she was seeing a whole new way of understanding religion, something different from the old, male-dominated concept of Trinity in which the holy spirit, the aspect of the feminine, has no form. She spun it around and brought in a feeling of spring: the sensory, experiential themes. She leaves us with the last word. Breeze is a noun, but also it can be a verb.

There is a feeling of movement. We can accept not just the old understanding of Trinity, but we understand Trinity as something experienced through nature or an appreciation of Mother Earth. It's a way to be more in tune with where we are and who we are.

I feel that Emily Dickinson wrote this little poem because she was yearning for the feminine, yearning for an understanding of where she fit in with the universe. At the same time, as you read it, you don't realize you are getting stung by this beautiful and seemingly sweet poem. Because it's so charming, you don't realize the sting until you're done reading it and you think about it.

The sting is there, to provoke us to think of something that's missing in the concept of the Trinity. Emily Dickinson was dealing with something that all we women have had to deal with in our life of faith. That's why for me sharing this breaking news with the world that the True Parents are here is an incredibly profound reality. Emily Dickinson was toying with an idea bordering on the limits of blasphemy, really tackling this question of where women fit in as mothers and daughters. I have felt the same way, and women of the world have felt the same way.

But with our True Mother in place, in the form of the True Parents, we have incredible breaking news in that we can feel represented. We feel validated; we know that we can be great women of God, just as our fathers and our brothers can be great men of God. That is a great blessing for all of us, brothers and sisters.

When we're thinking about welcoming True Parents tomorrow, we need to be mindful that many times we lose sight of how precious we are because of all the things that are going on. But if, like that supermom, we stop for a moment, take a breath -- inhale and exhale -- and realize that regardless of what situation we're faced with, we can always visualize and dream our way out, then we can be the agent of our own changed life. We can make the decision to say, "This is what I would like to see happen," and then implement it every day.

As we approach the holidays burdened by many things going on, please rest assured that our Heavenly Parent is with us always, and also our True Parents are here with us. No matter where we are in life, no matter how frazzled or demoralized we might feel, we can always come back to the simple things in our life of faith -- love for God, our Heavenly Parent, and love for True Parents, who are working with us every day. Then from that core, as we believe in ourselves as divine beings who can be the agents of our changed lives, we have the ability to be anything that we can dream ourselves to be; we have the ability to accomplish everything that we visualize ourselves accomplishing.

All the things that make our life seem hopeless and impossible go away when we stop, rest, and give ourselves the space in that dark room -- of our bedroom, our prayer room, or a moment of silence -- to realize how special we are and allow ourselves to exercise our blessed given ability to dream and visualize. Then everything that we can see in our minds can become a reality.

When our True Father preaches to the world that the peaceful world we are waiting for is right around the corner, I very much believe that. He has often said that we are holding a peaceful world within our hands. I am a firm believer that we need to work on ourselves, taking the time -- while living for the sake of others -- to take care of ourselves so that we are always ready for the next day and always ready to see the face of love.

Many times I take love as an acronym, and instead of a loving and caring, organic person coming at you, sometimes the person who comes at you may be loud-mouthed, L, organic, O, vituperative, -- just wanting to fight it out with you -- and E, and incredibly energized bunny ready to do battle. Sometimes our loved ones come at us like loudmouthed, organic, vituperative, energized bunnies ready to do battle.

I know how the supermom feels: "Here comes my love -- loud-mouthed, organic, vituperative, energized bunny Number One child." Sometimes you feel absolutely overwhelmed. But when you do, remember to give yourself time to imagine, to be creative and dream again, just as True Mother reminds us. Take that step back. Close the door. Go into the bathroom and say, "Do not disturb Mommy for five minutes." Even when I went into the bathroom, my children would find me, so what I had to do was go into my closet. They would say, "Mommy, come out of the closet." But that's how I found my space.

We all need that. I remember sometimes people I grew up with actually said, "How can you do that? How can you give yourself five minutes like that? You need to live for the sake of others. You need to give everything."

Many times I took their advice, but then I found out that I was dying for the sake of others, and I was really no good to anybody, not even to myself. That's when I went back to listening to the voice in the back of my mind, which was my mother, saying, "Breathe, child. Breathe. Inhale. Exhale. Rest." So now my children know when I say, "I'm going into my closet," that means, "Mommy had a tough day and let's just chill until Mommy comes out because she will be a much better mommy when she comes out."

We have this understanding in our family; many people may laugh about it, but it works for us. I want to encourage you to find your own closet. It's okay. Give yourselves the space to take care of yourselves. When we do, then we can give more and more.

In this community that we call our own, people are so beautiful but very different. As we celebrate our time with True Parents tomorrow, let's try to come together in the revolution of heart and in the understanding that we have something precious within our midst. That small woman from Amherst, Massachusetts started something in a very few lines that has moved the hearts of lots of young women, lots of women literary students all over the world, and also me. That poem moved me immensely, and I started dreaming of a life of faith where women were duly and honorably represented. For me as a student of religion to experience it unfolding in my lifetime through the great work of True Parents and the beautiful, simple, and elegant work of our True Mother is incredibly exciting.

As we come together as a community, let us put aside our differences and realize that, just as that tiny woman started a revolution of heart because she provoked us to feel what we thought about God, Jesus Christ, and the holy ghost, our True Father and True Mother also want us to realize and feel how precious we are and what a great opportunity it is to live our lives honoring God, True Parents, and each other. And they want us to know that in living such lives we can help to usher in a great and loving peaceful world that we all so want and have all dreamed of for so long.

Once we know we can visualize it, we know that this reality is within our hands. So, brothers and sisters, as we come to the end of this year, we need to think about what this year was all about. It's an incredible time for all of us as we are coming to the end of another year together with our True Parents, when we are actively participating in making a remarkable history, and not just history but providential history.

Brothers and sisters, please have a beautiful Sunday and know that just as Ben sang so beautifully before the sermon, every time you wake up, you are so beautiful to me. This is what God is saying to all of us. "Take your rest, child, at night, and the next morning when I see you, you are so beautiful." That is how God sees you. That is how True Parents see you, and that is how the True Family sees you.

We've got a lot of great work to do, right? But our True Parents are coming, so what are we going to do? We're going to give them the greatest round of applause and let them feel our love, let them feel the spring dawning in America, let them experience not just the beauty of the bee and the butterfly but also the breeze, the caress, the love, and the care that we are sending their way. Can we do that? Thank you.

Notes:

Summer's Obesquites
Emily Dickinson

The Gentian weaves her fringes --
The Maple's loom is red --
My departing blossoms
Obviate parade.

A brief, but patient illness --
An hour to prepare,
And one below this morning
Is where the angels are --

It was a short procession,
The Bobolink was there --
An aged Bee addressed us --
And then we knelt in prayer --

We trust that she was willing --
We ask that we may be.
Summer -- Sister – Seraph!
Let us go with thee!

In the name of the Bee --
And of the Butterfly --
And of the Breeze -- Amen!  

Sermon Notes, November 21, 2010

Andrew Compton
November 21, 2010
Sermon Notes

1. In Jin Nim began by greeting everyone, announcing that True Parents are on their way. She encouraged everyone to participate in the Monday night event and show them how much we love them.

2. We are privileged to have them in our lives.

3. As In Jin Nim was thinking about the message she would give to us this morning she came across several e-mails. This is the start of the Christmas holidays and parents are running around trying to get everything done, preparing to have a great time together with their families. This is a great time for families, but also a sense of urgency and desperation, wanting to get it right. Children have high expectations and we don't want to fall short, we want to be a super mom.

4. The e-mail In Jin Nim received was from a lovely lady with a beautiful family, on the process of going down the road of motherhood and self discovery, trying her best to balance work and family, dealing with the rigid schedules, at the same time trying to be flexible for her family, her spouse, and relatives.

5. This is an accomplished woman, very capable in her job, but just like many of us who have children, she wanted to be a super mom, an action hero type of person, in 10 places at the same time -- if her child falls on their knees -- she is right there. Before her child runs home, distraught because of something at school, she is there at the front door with cookies.

6. This is the image of motherhood we put on ourselves. But this mother was severely, severely burned out. She was trying to live her life for the sake of others, going out of her way to take care of everyone around her, and she didn't realize that she had forgotten to take care of herself. So, she found herself in a state of panic with the holidays approaching, all the relatives coming, many expectations she wanted to fulfill -- it was a senior pastor SOS e-mail.

7. When In Jin Nim read the e-mail, she reminded In Jin Nim of what she used to be like. Sometimes, when growing up, when they (she and her siblings) wanted to be their best, many times they wanted to be nonhuman, a superhuman. They didn't realize how precious and special they are.

8. Instead of learning to appreciate who we are and then taking the next step, we keep taking step after step without taking the time to appreciate the preciousness of who we are as divine sons and daughters. When we forget to remember the divinity within, how special and precious we really are, having been given this opportunity called life to really make something beautiful, to leave something beautiful behind in this world. We can so easily degenerate into thinking that we are a worthless piece of garbage, "I don't mean anything to the world."

9. In Jin Nim found herself in that situation many times when she felt like she was going out of her way to take care of everybody, but when she was by herself she felt incredibly worthless. She asked herself, what is the meaning of life, when I'm feeling tired and burnt out all the time. That is when a lovely voice in the back of her mind came up in volume, it was the voice of her mother. It was her mother reminding her what a beautiful child of God she is, that she is a divine being.

10. When In Jin Nim was a child, one of the things her mother encouraged the children to do -- many times they had to follow True Father on his speaking tours and their toys were left behind -- they would come to their mother and asked if they could go out to play because father was giving a long speech. And sometimes she would let them go out and play -- and they would play but then they would come back to their mother and tell her they don't have their toys, their favorite things and they wanted to go home.

11. Their mother used to tell them the same thing over and over again. She said, "But you have so many toys." And they said, "Mother we have no toys." And she said "Yes, you have so many toys." They looked at her wondering if she had gone bonkers or if she was telling them something profound. They had not brought anything. But she told them, you brought yourself. She asked them, "What about all those friends, all those toys I've seen you drawing, creating, making up in your mind, the stories that you wrote and love to read to your bothers and sisters? Aren't they all your playthings, your toys? You have lots of toys now go play."

12. They would go out thinking that this is a call for them to write the stories or to draw, but what she wanted was for them to take stock of who they are. Here they are in the middle of a long speech by True Father and they want to go out and play with their playthings, things that they are familiar with. What their mother was saying -- she did not use the word imagination, use your creativity to amuse yourself, create your own things, create the toys you want to play with, but that is exactly what she wanted them to do.

13. She was challenging them to not complain. If you don't see what you want, you are a divine being. As long as we can tap into our ability to create, to imagine, she was indirectly telling the children that you can creatively take yourself out of the situation that you're in. If you find yourself in a situation where you have no toys, with the ability of the divine within, with the ability to imagine, with the ability to create, we can create our own personal playthings that we have a hand in making.

14. From a very young age In Jin Nim's mother encouraged them to see, not only what they don't have, but how to create something out of nothing, something better than what they had before, that can amuse them for endless hours and keep them entertained.

15. When In Jin Nim thinks about the sister who was totally burned-out, overcome by the weight of the world, overcome by the things she had to do, who felt crushed and demoralized -- In Jin Nim sees herself in that woman -- at various moments in her life she was there, she was exactly that superwoman want-to-be -- she realized the simple message that her mother said to her many years ago, this message about imagination, our ability to create, to get ourselves out of the rut we are in because we have the ability to imagine.

16. This was when In Jin Nim started thinking -- a lot of great men and women have done just that. Lots of great men and women have been born to die of poverty, with very little prospects. In a way they were born to a life of misery, to certain death, or certain failure. But these people, somehow by tapping into the divine, by understanding or discovering God along the way, realizing that they have infinite potential to be the kind of people that they would like to be -- they realized that by understanding who they are, that they are God's children, and realizing that they have been given this divine gift, the ability to imagine, to dream, to visualize. These people who seemed like they were set for certain failure, picked themselves up by the boot straps and turned themselves into great men and woman of the world. It is because, regardless of what the situation was, they were able to exercise this creativity, this ability to imagine through dreaming, the ability to visualize what you want and start implementing that visualization into something real, something substantial in their lives so that they could be the kind of people that they wanted to be.

17. For example a great athlete like Michael Jordan already knew what he wanted to be. He visualized what he wanted to be. Regardless of what dire circumstances or obstacles were in his path, nothing stopped him.

18. The same goes for our True Father. He was born in the remote hills of North Korea to become one of the great religious leaders and the True Father of mankind. At a very, very young age, even with nothing to his name, he knew exactly what he needed to do. After being anointed by Jesus Christ at the tender age of 16, when Jesus Christ asked him to fulfill his mission.

19. And what was that mission? That mission was for Jesus not to have been crucified on the cross, but to live and find that wife, become the True Parents of mankind, establish a true family, be a great model and guide for humanity in helping them realize in every man and woman regardless of where they come from or what their backgrounds might be, that each and every one of us has an incredible personal destiny we need to fulfill and substantiate in our lifetime. This was the message that was given to our T Father.

20. Ever since he was 16 he visualized, he dreamed, and imagined what he needed to do and one at a time he put it into motion.

21. When In Jin Nim thinks about this woman, or about herself, being in this rut wanting to be a super mom, being there for everybody, but not having the physical means to do so, she often found herself hitting against a brick wall. That is when she realized her mother's wisdom again, her mother's wisdom nugget, imagine yourself out of the situation. She has taught In Jin Nim a lot of lessons along the way, but one of the simple lessons that she encouraged the children to do -- when she encouraged them to dream and visualize and imagine, she would say "Children, remember to breathe, you have to breathe."

22. In Jin Nim would say to herself, as she would say to that superwoman wana-be, we have to stop what we're doing and take a moment to breathe.

23. We go about our day doing so many different things, we just don't realize that we are not exhaling all the time or inhaling all the time, but there is this give and receive action that is taking place with us and the universe. We are inhaling and we are exhaling 20,000 L of air a day.

24. Just as we give and we receive, just as we live for the sake of others and we go and go and go for the sake of others, there has to be a moment when we are giving, giving, giving, but also when we are breathing in.

25. When we feel totally confounded by this mountain of work, by the weight of the holidays approaching us, we have to imagine ourselves out of our rut, out of this super mom wana-be conundrum. In Jin Nim's mother always encourage them to breathe, to stop, to rest, to take stock of where you are, to feel yourself as a human being, not just as a robot, someone who just facilitates things in the home, someone who executes the things that need to be done in the course of the day, but to remember ourselves in our simplest state of being, simply inhaling and exhaling.

26. And then she would encourage them to take stock, rest a little bit, just like at the end of a long day when we sleep before we are ready, healthy, and glowing for the next day. So we rest and take stock, and just as beautiful photographs, regardless of how beautiful we take them, they still need to go through the process of traveling through the dark room. They have to enter a dark room, a quiet place, where different solutions await these photographs before the pictures can be brought out on the photographic paper for all of us to enjoy.

27. Likewise human beings, all of us, regardless of how faithful we want to be in our lives, we can always be exhaling, exhaling, exhaling, sooner or later we need to inhale. We need to rest. We need to take stock of where we are.

28. The next thing we need to do is to visualize what we want. Have an image in our mind of where we want to go. The super mom in the rut needs to take a moment, maybe spa for three hours, and take a moment to think about her day, and that she can only get 9 of 10 things done, so be it. Maybe a glorious relative of hers might come and pick up the last piece and make it into a glorious holiday.

29. We always try to do everything ourselves and think the world is going to fall apart if we are not there. In Jin Nim doesn't know how many times as a mother, her children wanted her to figure everything out for them. Many times they would ask her questions, "Mother what should I do about this? Should I go to Boston for this, or Chicago, or New York? And you know that the child already knows the right answer, but they are making you give them a command as to what you want them to do.

30. As we mature in our motherhood what we do more and more is to allow the children to think through their own questions and arrive at the answer themselves. Many times, even at HSA, people who work for In Jin Nim send her long e-mails asking obvious questions they already know the answers to, she simply will not respond. They know the answer, they've thought about it, they will come to the conclusion, and they know the answer they will arrive is the answers she would like to see. But sometimes you want to take a shortcut. You want someone in a position of authority to say "Okay you can do the easier way." But when you thought it through you realize that the answer is obvious in your question, so a wise mother will sit back and allow you to answer your own questions -- and many times In Jin Nim does the same at HSA.

31. When In Jin Nim remembers her mother, asking all the children to wait and take stock -- she was very good at not answering all the questions. She was very good at having the children think it out, work it out, learn to walk on their own.

32. When the lot of them grew up, they were not the most malleable group of children. Because their mother encouraged all of them to have opinions and think their way through, feel their way through. They had different ideas, different plans, different goals, and coming together as a family was a very difficult thing, but what she did was incredible in that she has created a family of very, very different types of people. In a way they represent all the different character types, all different shapes and forms, so when they come together it is like the world of different nations coming together. We are not like, as when you create a cookie-cutter and all the cookies are the same.

33. Her mother raised them in such a way that she appreciated their own unique gifts. She allowed them to tap into their divinity, their ability to create, to imagine, and to dream. We will do so, no matter how difficult the obstacles are in their path, for that In Jin Nim is eternally grateful to her mother.

34. So here she is, imploring all of them, as the first step in the course of this process of imagination, to rest, to breathe, to take stock and look at what you need to do. Don't be so afraid, overburdened, feeling demoralized, it's just another process in this road of life.

35. Then she would ask them, and encourage them, to visualize where they want to go, what they want to be, just as Michael Jordan could visualize exactly what he wanted to be. We all have the ability to be successful, to be loved, to find incredible love, to prosper in things that are emotionally wonderful and physically wonderful, as well as spiritually wonderful. This is what God wanted for all of us and many times we are our own restriction, with patterns of negative thinking, telling ourselves we cannot do that, I'm not tall enough, we can't do that, I am not fast enough, can't do that.

36. These are the restrictions we put on ourselves. If we can dream, if we could visualize, if you see it in your mind, then we can make it happen in our lives.

37. In Jin Nim's mother would push them to rest, get healthy again, then start visualizing, dreaming, start having goals and aspirations that you would like to see happen in your life. Then she encouraged them to do something about it. To implement it, go about it.

38. In Jin Nim realized that when we as human beings go about our business and our lives, there are many, many ways we can change or better our lives. This imagination process can take place in the confines of our own room, we can start changing our whole understanding of our family, ourselves, of our world, or we can make a breakthrough discovery as many scientists have done and change the world.

39. When In Jin Nim thinks about something as tiny as, for instance -- this great American poet Emily Dickinson (In Jin Nim is a huge fan of her poetry -- see "Quote For the Week" below for the complete poem which In Jin Nim refers to "The Gentian weaves her fringes") she was a master in mixing comedy and satire, dealing with the themes of death and immortality which runs through all her works. She wrote a fantastic little poem many years ago, and here was this slight, frail looking woman, who was quite a recluse in her life. Toward the end of her life she never left her room. Even the friendships that she had were all through letters, so she was very much a person who lived within herself, but she wrote this fantastic poem.

40. It is a parody on the Trinitarian notion, for the understanding of baptism. In the Good Book, Matthew 28:19, Jesus implored all his brothers and sisters to baptize all the different nations in the name of the Father, Son, and the Holy Ghost. That was kind of like Jesus urging all his brothers and sisters to share the good news of Jesus wherever they go.

41. We hear this all the time being repeated. What Emily Dickinson did was incredibly charming, intelligent, but also incredibly poignant. She took the scriptural text in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Ghost, and she wrote a poem using the same form, the same beginning and ending, ending it with Amen same as the Matthew verse.

42. What she did was she totally changed the nouns that she used and therefore changed the whole feeling of this concept of Trinity.

43. She was a very well educated, well bred woman, and very well-versed in the knowledge of Scripture. In Jin Nim is sure that she, as a woman, many times, approached this life of religion, as many woman, sisters, mothers have done, including herself. Here we have this concept of baptism, and the way we baptize all those different nations of the world is by issuing this statement in the name of the Father, Son, and the Holy Ghost.

44. In Jin Nim is sure when Emily Dickinson, when she read these lines, must have asked the question, "Where do I fit in? Where is the mother? Where is the daughter? Will the Holy Ghost have a form? Will it be male or feminine?" When In Jin Nim hears those words, that's what's going through her head. And when In Jin Nim sees different sisters and mothers and woman of the world read those words, In Jin Nim knows they feel exactly the same thing.

45. The concept of the Trinity for lots of woman is a very cold concept, very archaic, very patriarchal, very male masculine base concept. There is no mother, there is no sister, there is no warmth. What Emily Dickinson did is she rewrote this with a hint of parody, and lots of literary criticism actually said, "with a hint of blasphemy." What she did was she replaced the three nouns, the Father, the Son, the Holy Ghost. She replaced the Father with -- in the name of the bee (as in a buzzing bee), she replaced the son with the word, in the name of the butterfly. She replaced the Holy Ghost with the word breeze.

46. Emily Dickinson's version of the call to baptize the world, in the name of the bee, the name of the butterfly, and in the name of the breeze, amen.

47. What she has done, which can be taken as blasphemous, but you must understand she is writing with a sense of comedy, a sense of parody. She is provoking us to think, to visualize this call to baptism and understanding and look at it in a totally different way. She is saying, this is what we are called to do, to baptize the world, "but you know I'm feeling a little lack of the feminine spirit here." "What if I were to use words that come from mother Earth, that come from the things we experience, and instead of these strains of the Trinity as something archaic and patriarchal, what about bringing symbols of spring into this Emily Dickinson version of scriptural text -- by bringing symbols of spring, of new life, like bees." You see bees in the springtime going from flower to flower. You know the winter has melted, it's time for new life, you know it's time for flowers to spring, for pollination.

48. And she brings in this beautiful concept of butterfly. We see butterflies flying around -- the symbol of beauty, something that is light, fairy, but so inspiring at the same time, something that moves. Like when we are moved we feel that we have butterflies in our stomach. We feel something.

49. This concept, "in the Father" we don't have any sensory experience. We have the words the Father, the Son, the Holy Ghost, but none of these words are sensory experiences. Whereas in Emily Dickinson you have the concept of spring, the bee the butterfly, the breeze. And you know the bee is buzzing, you actually hear it. You know the butterfly is fluttering. You can see the butterfly fluttering. And you could feel the breeze that is caressing your skin, that is caressing everything about your being.

50. What she is visualizing in this lonely quiet room that she allowed herself to be confined in, she is seeing a whole new way of understanding religion, something that is different from the old understanding of just this male dominated concept of Trinity. Where the Holy Spirit, the feminine, has no form. What she does is she spins it around and brings in the feeling of spring, the sensory experiential things, themes. And she leaves us with the last word, the breeze -- it can be a noun and it can be a verb as well.

51. There is this feeling of movement that will make it, not just the old understanding of the Trinity, but understand it as something that is experienced through nature, appreciated through mother Earth. It is a different way to be more in tune with where we are and who we are. In Jin Nim feels that Emily Dickinson wrote this little poem because she was yearning for the feminine, for an understanding of where she fit into the universe. At the same time in this beautiful, seemingly sweet poem, that you don't realize you got stoned by, because it is so charming. When you first read it it's so charming you don't realize the sting of this charming poem until you're done reading and thinking about it. This sting is there to provoke us to think of something that is missing in this concept of the Trinity.

52. Emily Dickinson was dealing with something that all woman have to deal with in their life of faith. That is why, for In Jin Nim, sharing this breaking news with the world that the True Parents are here is an incredibly profound concept and reality for her. Because, just as Emily Dickinson was toying with the idea, bordering on the limits of blasphemy, to really tackle this question of where do women fit in, as mothers and daughters. In Jin Nim has felt the same way, and woman of the world have felt the same way. But with True Mother in place, in this form of the True Parents, this is incredible breaking news in that we feel represented, we feel validated, and we know that we can be great woman of God just as our fathers and our brothers can be great men of God. And that is a great blessing for all of us, brothers and sisters.

53. When we are thinking about our True Parents, welcoming them in our midst tomorrow, we are mindful that many times we go about our way and we lose sight of how precious we are, because of all the things that are going on, because all the static that is going on. But if we, just as that supermom want-to-be, take that moment to take a rest, take a breath to inhale and exhale, realizing that regardless of what situation she is faced with in her life she can always visualize and dream her way out. She can be the agent of her own changed life. She can make the decision, to say this is what I would like to see happen and then implemented, and go about it and make it happen each and every day.

54. As we approach the holidays, as we are burdened with lots of different things going on, please rest assured that our Heavenly Father is with you always, and the most incredible thing in our lives today is the fact that we have our True Parents here with us.

55. No matter where we are in life, no matter how frazzled, how demoralized we might feel, if we always come back to the center, or to the things that are simple in our life of faith, which is our love for God, our Heavenly Parents, and our love for our True Parents who are with us here, working with us each and every day. Then from that starting point, from that core, as long as we believe in ourselves, and as long as we remember we are this incredible precious divine being that can be the agents of our own changed lives, we have the ability to be anything that we can dream ourselves to be.

56. We have the ability to accomplish everything that we visualize ourselves accomplishing. In a way all the things that make our lives seem hopeless, impossible, goes away when we stop, rest, and give ourselves that room, in that dark room, of your bedroom or your prayer room, or in a moment of silence, to realize how special we are and allow ourselves to exercise our blessed given ability to dream, to visualize. Because then everything that we can see in our lives can become a reality.

57. So when our True Father preaches to the world that the peaceful world that we are awaiting, is right around the corner, In Jin Nim very much believes that. And he has often said "We are holding a peaceful world within our hands." In Jin Nim is a firm believer of that. If we can work on ourselves, take the time, while living for the sake of others, to take care of ourselves so that we are always ready for the next day. So we are always ready to see that face of love, which at times can come at us -- instead of a caring organic person coming at you -- sometimes they come at you loudmouth, L. Organic living, definitely, "O." Vituperative, "V" they just want to fight it out with you. And "E," incredibly energized bunnies wanting to do battle. This is how sometimes our loved ones come at us; like loudmouth, organic, vituperative, energized love bunnies ready to do battle.

58. In Jin Nim knows how the supermom feels, like here come my love number one -- loudmouth, organic, vituperative, energized love bunny number 1 child. And here comes love number 2, and sometimes you feel absolutely overwhelmed. But when we do, just as True Mother reminds us, remember to give yourself time to again imagine, to be creative, to dream again. Take that step back, close the door, go into the bathroom, say "do not disturb mommy for five minutes." What In Jin Nim used to do, even in the bathroom her children would find her, so she would go into her closet. Her children would say "mommy come out of the closet." But that was how In Jin Nim found her dark room, her space. We all need that.

59. In Jin Nim remembers different sisters that she spoke with, saying how could you do that, how can you give yourself five minutes like that?, you need to live your life for the sake of others, you have to give everything. Many times In Jin Nim took their advice, but she found that she was dying for the sake of others. She was no good to anyone, not even to herself. That is when she went back to listen to the voice in the back of her mind, her mother, saying "breathe child, breathe, inhale, exhale, rest." So now her children know when she says I'm going into my closet -- that means mommy had it tough day, so just chill until mommy comes out and she will be a much better mommy.

60. They have this understanding in her family, and people can laugh about it or joke about it, but it works for them. She wants to encourage mothers and fathers and brothers and sisters to find your own closets. It's okay. And give ourselves the space to take care of ourselves, because when we do, we can give more, and more, and more.

61. In a beautiful community that we call our own, people are so different, so beautiful, but very different. As we celebrate our time with True Parents tomorrow let's try to come together in this revolution of heart, in this understanding that we have something precious, really, within our midst. And despite our differences, just as that tiny little woman from Amherst Massachusetts started something in a very few lines, that moved the hearts of lots of young women, and lots of young woman literary students all over the world, just as much as she affected In Jin Nim. When In Jin Nim read that poem it moved her immensely and she started dreaming of a life, and the life of faith, where woman were duly and honorably represented, and for In Jin Nim, to experience it unfold in her lifetime, through the great work of True Parents and through the beautiful simple elegant work of our True Mother, it is an incredibly, incredibly exciting time for this student of religion.

62. As we come together as a community let us put aside our differences, and realize that, just as that tiny woman started a revolution of heart, because she provoked us to feel what we thought about God, what we thought about Jesus Christ, and we thought about the Holy Ghost. In a way our True Father and our T Mother also want us to realize and feel who we really are, and how, what a great opportunity it is to live our lives honoring God and True Parents and each other, and in so doing usher in a great and loving peaceful world that we all so want, that we all so long have dreamed. But once we know we can visualize it, we know that that reality is within our hands.

63. Brothers and sisters, as we come to the end of this year we need to think what this year was all about. To think that we are coming to the end of another year together, with our True Parents, where we are actively participating in the making of an incredible history. Not just history, but providential history. It's an incredible time for all of us.

64. Brothers and sisters, have a beautiful Sunday, just as Ben sang so lovely before the sermon -- "every time you wake up you are so beautiful to me." This is what God is saying to all of us, "Take your rest child at night, and then the next morning when I see you, you are so beautiful."

65. That is how God sees you, that is how True Parents see you, that is how the True Family sees you. "So, you beautiful people, we have a lot of great work to do, right?" But True Parents are coming, so what are we going to do? We are going to give them the greatest round of applause and let them feel our love, let them feel the spring dawn on America. Let them experience, not just the beauty of the bee and the butterfly, let them feel the breeze, the caress, the love, and the care that we are sending their way. Can we do that brothers and sisters? Thank you!" 

Rev. Sun Myung Moon Speaks at World Assembly in New York City

In Jin Moon
November 17, 2010

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It is with great pleasure that we extend to you an invitation to attend a special World Assembly to be held on Monday, November 22, 2010, beginning at 7:00 PM, at the Manhattan Center in the heart of New York City.

It is with great pleasure that we extend to you an invitation to attend a special World Assembly to be held on Monday, November 22, 2010, beginning at 7:00 PM, at the Manhattan Center in the heart of New York City. The program, entitled "The Establishment of the Era of Universal Peace: One Family Under God" will feature world class entertainment, inspirational speakers, and a keynote address from the Founder of UPF, Rev. Dr. Sun Myung Moon.

This program will underscore the principles and values that bind us together as one human family and guide us toward the fulfillment of the "hope of all ages," a unified world of peace. As we enter the holiday season and draw near the beginning of a new year, it is appropriate that we gather to reflect upon and re-commit ourselves to these universal principles and values.

Delegates from around the world will be in attendance, including government leaders, diplomats, religious leaders, academics and civil society leaders. We sincerely hope you will join us at the Manhattan Center on November 22.