Announcement of Personnel Appointment

Hyung Jin Moon
October 6, 2008

Ref. No. FFWPUI 2008-31

To: Regional presidents, National messiahs, National leaders
From: FFWPU International Headquarters
Date: October 6, 2008
Re.: Announcement of Personnel Appointment

We pray for God and True Parents' blessing and love to be with all regions, nations and providential organizations as we enter the era of "Mansei for the Ssang Hab (combined) jubilee years, the 7th and 8th years of Cheon Il Guk based on the Universal Peace Federation."

This is to announce recent personnel changes within the FFWPU International.

1. 1. Appointment

Location

Name

Details

Effective as of

FFWPU International

Antonio BETANCOURT

Appointed as Director of Government Relations

2008.09.29

Hyung Jin Moon
International President 

The Peace Blessing Service

Hyung Jin Moon
October 5, 2008

Rev. Moon Hyung-jin presided over the first Peace Blessing Service at the Headquarters Church on Sunday, October 5, beginning at 5 PM -- the fourth and final service of the day. Hyung-jin nim is making intensive efforts to prepare for the time when large numbers of people experience this service (and others reminiscent of other faith traditions) in the World Peace and Unity Temple.

Peace Blessing Service is the name given to the Sunday service for the Unification Church members with a Catholic background, Catholics, and anyone who prefers a more ritualistic form of worship.

The following comes from what Hyung-jin nim said when he first conceived of this service and during the more than ten rehearsals carried out before the first Peace Blessing Service was held.

I received the mission to build a temple serving two hundred and ten thousand people, on August 17 this year. Being deeply concerned as to how to do this, I offered many conditions. At times, I had to fight with Satan, putting my life on the line. In the process of doing so, I received revelations that guided us in creating the content of the Peace Blessing Service.

As I prepared a service that would reach over the boundaries between religions, I received revelations from the spirit world. I received communications from my elder brothers Hyo-jin, Heung-jin and Young-jin. We will create a Sunday service culture at the perfection level, which can bring together the Old, New and Completed Testaments. Such trans-denominational services are possible only in the Unification Church. Only the Unification Church can bring the world's religions together under God.

I believe I now understand why True Parents had me experience Catholic and Buddhist cultures and study world religions at Harvard Divinity School. It was so that I might have a vision that goes beyond particular religious views. I have walked a path whereby I have been preparing for the World Peace and Unity Temple.

Through the temple, the words of the chapter five, Resurrection, will be fulfilled in substantial terms. Not only people on earth but also the founders of religions and their followers in the spirit world will come to the temple on earth to attend the services that coincide with their religious tradition.

Substance of the Peace Blessing Service

Through our Peace Blessing Service, participants receive love and spiritual blessings. It is a service through which not only spiritual benefits on the level of the Headquarters Church but also spiritual benefits from True Parents' sincere conditions are bequeathed.

It is a service in which participants receive blessings from True Parents. It is not a ceremony that derives its meaning from declaring something; it is a worship service. You will not inherit everything at once; rather, through the services, you will move closer to the devotion, love, peace and blessing of True Parents as each week passes.

Blessed families have inherited the missions formerly given to the central figures of the Old and New Testaments. They need to serve True Parents and complete the providence. To do so, the most important thing is for the blessed families to be reborn as the Third Israel. They need to inherit True Parents' love, life and lineage and march forward to fulfill an even greater will.

Though they know True Parents, have learned the Divine Principle and have received the blessing, as they lead their lives in the secular world, they may forget about their identity as the third Israel. Through the Peace Blessing Service, every week we can remember our mission as blessed families and go forward.

The Peace Blessing Service is not a ceremony through which you can rid yourself of your sins. The phrase, "Heavenly Father! Forgive us our sins!" suggests the theological viewpoint that God is a judge. From the viewpoint of Unification Theology, the one who is to judge you is none other than yourself. After you go to the spirit world, you are to judge yourselves according to whether you have lived according to the word and the will of God, or not.

All our sins are recorded in the spirit world. If you have done wrong or committed a sin, you need to set an appropriate indemnity condition to resolve it. Only when you have set a condition of indemnity fitting the gravity of your sin can that sin be cleaned away. If it is a small mistake, it is enough to pray, repent with a sincere heart, and set a condition that fits. According to how grave your mistake or sin is, you might make a material or money offering for example, or even carry out voluntary work for a service organization as your condition of indemnity.

Of course, you may pray, "Please forgive me the wrongs I have done and the sins I have committed in the past week." In order for your sins to be forgiven, However, you need to set a condition that matches their seriousness.

Prayer for those in the spirit world

We will pray for the family members of those in our church who have gone to the spirit world. They may not be living completely according to the will of Heaven in the spirit world. There may be those in your families who are in difficult places far away from God and the True Family. During the service, we will call out the names of all of your family members in the spirit world and pray for them. We will pave the way by which they can return to God and meet True Family members -- Hyo-jin nim, Heung-jin nim and Young-jin nim.

Church members should register their family members in the spirit world. For example, if a member of your family has passed away, register the date of his or her death. Every week we will pray for those who have passed away. This service will be one in which you can think of your departed family members in the spirit world and offer devotions on the dates of their death. 

Encouraging Small Group Ministry

Hyung Jin Moon
October 5, 2008

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

It's so important that in our lives and communities we have that safe haven that we can return to. We cannot always burden our family. Let us help each other in our community. Here at the Headquarters Church, just about two weeks ago, we started home groups, small group practices. This is where our brothers and sisters can come together in faith, where we can help build each other up, build our confidence in one another, build our self-esteem, build our dreams, find our dreams back. This is where we can see that our community deals with very similar issues that we are dealing and struggling with, that we are overcoming and being victorious in, where we can absorb faith and fellowship, victory and support, maturity and sharing.

In the home group communities we see God working miracles, small miracles, in those small communities of five to ten people that come together in faith and fellowship, in encouragement of one another.

Right now we are going to be taking in registration of those who want to become hosts, for those who seek and help impact people's lives, for those who want to help people actualize the vision that God has for them, to help them to become all that God has destined for them to become.

Every week we are going to provide the home groups with a video where we give them support and exercises. It's as easy as popping in a video and then following along, doing the practices, doing the exercises and doing the discussion practices. The home group community is really meant to be that safe haven that we cannot receive in a larger worship service. But we are able to come together in smaller groups where we can give each other encouragement, hope, faith, friendship, fellowship and support; where we can truly learn to live for the sake of the other.

In order to live the blessed life, we need to make use of the safe havens. We need to build communities that have safe havens. It's one of the lessons that I wish we can learn today, that our community, our fellowship, the home that we live in, our children, our spouse, that these relationships give us the power to succeed, that they are able to give us the strength and courage that we need, the confidence, to become truly successful in our lives.

Let us remember that in our hearts, God and True Parents, the number one safe haven in our lives, truly give us solidity, our value, our identity, our purpose, our mission in our lives. That haven gives us the ability to give blessings to others, the root practice in our hearts that allows us to expand that parental love to the rest of the world.

Let us remember the Four Great Realms of Heart that teach us to expand our view of the realms of love, of what a husband, a wife, a child is. At times the child can be the father, or the spouse can be the mother.

Our community is also our safe haven, especially our home group communities. I really encourage every one of us to start learning about the home group practices that we are going to start. We are going to offer those classes every week. On Wednesday at 7:00 we are going to have home group training so that we are able to support each other in smaller but stronger units.

Let's not be one of those very mechanical, wire mesh Unificationists. Let us learn to be the mature, loving ones that can support unification; the ones that can go beyond themselves and truly let our community shine. Be proud of that. Be proud of seeing other people in our community shine.

If we do that, I truly believe that we will find ourselves rooted in our safe havens, that we will be able to move forward with confidence and we will find ourselves with more victory, more illumination, and more peace. And we will receive that blessed life that True Parents have blessed us to live, being a blessing to the world. Brothers and sisters, let's give it up for God and True Parents!

Rev. Hyung-Jin Moon 

The Power of Consistency

Hyung Jin Moon
October 4, 2008
Headquarters Church, Seoul Korea
Transcribed by: Nina Rosario / Cathy Quebral
Edited by: Bruno Klotz

Welcome Remarks:
Yeon Ah Nim:

Good Afternoon, brothers and sisters!

This is the first service that we have in October. I hope you have a wonderful and blessed week that is abundant with God and True Parents' love and blessing. We are always happy and honored to have you here in this sanctuary. And for those who are joining with us via internet, we are welcoming you as well.

Welcome brothers and welcome sisters!

Hyung Jin Nim:

Brothers and sisters, today I want to share with you from Cheon Seong Gyeong page 1487. Father here is talking about the original mind. He says, "When people follow their original mind, the whole universe will open up." And he says, "Once they're able to enter such a state of being, they will be able to converse with their mind." Whenever we see the value that this places on the original mind, we again can be reminded of our own intrinsic value.

Whenever we see ourselves with our own eyes... maybe during the week we saw ourselves, maybe it was not the best week, maybe we did not do our best, or maybe we did not get all those aids or we did not do our best at work etc. Maybe we had a bad week this week.

And then we can be tempted to see ourselves from that perspective. "Ohhh, I'm not really talented. I really can't do this so well. I'll never be able to succeed here. She's so much better than me." We can be tempted to fall into this kind of thinking.

Brothers and sisters, whenever we start service it's so important to begin with the right mindset. It's so important to begin with the right outlook of ourselves and of others. Particularly when True Parents are talking about the original mind we can remember that value that we have within ourselves. We can see that God has placed His cosmic value within us as human being as His partners. He has placed within us cosmic value, unique value and divine value.

Brothers and sisters, it's so important for us to remember that, to repeat these words of empowerment in our minds, because we can get so tempted, so quickly, to fall into a different type of thinking. It's so important for us to get into that victorious type of thinking, into that type of principled thinking. Whenever we see ourselves like, "We are overweight and unattractive" or, "My belly is coming out," "I am valuable in God's eyes. I can lose 5 pounds. I can also lose the thoughts that weigh me down more. I can also regain my confidence in myself. I can see myself from God's perspective and I can move forward with that kind of amazing destiny."

Brothers and sisters, we want you to capture that destiny. We want you to have it for yourselves so that you can share it with others and that is God's desire for us. Brothers and sisters, let's begin with that outlook. We want to welcome you at this service. Let's begin our service. Let's return the glory to God today.

Hyung Jin Nim's Prayer:

Heavenly Father, thank You for this day that You have blessed us with, Father, for this life that You have blessed us with, Father, for this community, this worldwide Unification family that You have blessed us with.

Father, we are in Your presence, in Your awesome presence today. Father, let us open our hearts so that we may be receptive to Your presence. Father, that we may receive the things which You wish for us to receive not so that we can only use them for ourselves but, Father, that we can be a conduit, a channel, to share those blessings to those around.

Heavenly Father, today as we pray and as we extend our hearts universally to our cosmic True Parents, to our families all around the world, we know that we are being united in heart. Father, we know that as one family we are here gathered before You, bowing our heads in humility. Father we are offering our hearts in gratitude and able to be transformed in your vast and boundless love.

Heavenly Father, thank you so much for this day that you have blessed us with. We pray that You may be with each and every one of the family members here, with each one of their children, Father, that You may allow their dreams and ambitions, Father, that You have placed within them to come to fruition, Father, that You may bless the worldwide unification family, brothers and sisters in New Zealand, in Latin America, in Russia, in China, all over the world. Father, we pray that Your abundant blessing and Your abundant love may work through them to extend to this world.

Father, thank You for allowing us to have a part in Your providence, in Your work. Let us truly live up to our potential to be all that You have created us to be. Father, let us actualize all those amazing gifts, those amazing talents and the amazing love that You have placed within us and let us extend that and make this world a better place.

Father, thank you so much for this day, the confidence, the compassion. Father, the love that You pour upon us today. Father, we pray that we may truly go forth, with our hearts full of courage, facing our future and facing our destiny with pride, Father, and confidence.

Thank you so much. Please be with our families today. We pray these things in the name of Moon Hyung Jin kajong (family), a member of a blessed central family, praying in True Parents' name, in the True Family's name and in our Unification families' name, Aju!

Interesting Story:

I heard a story about Moses and Jesus playing golf with another man. It was time for Moses to tee off and so Moses hit the ball. There was a big water hazard and so the ball flew right into a pond. Moses went up to the pond, he stretched his hands forward and he prayed to God, and the waters miraculously split! He walked in and he sliced the ball. The ball went landed about a foot from the hole.

And then it was Jesus' turn. He e hit the ball, and again it went towards the water! But miraculously the ball didn't go into the water. It stayed on top of the surface! Jesus walked up to the water, walked on top of the water and hit the ball and it got at within about six inches of the hole.

Then the third guy, he hit the ball. It went up again towards the water hazard and fell towards the water and at that exact instant a trout jumped up and swallowed the ball. And at that exact moment an eagle swooped down and caught the trout. And then it flew up and as he was flying right over the hole, a lighting bolt struck the eagle which dropped the trout, which dropped the ball into the hole, for a hole in one!

And then Moses said to Jesus, "You know what? I really hate playing golf with your Daddy."

Brothers and sisters, today I'd like to talk to you about the Power of Consistency. In order to live the blessed life, it's so important to be able to learn how to harness the power of consistency. And too many people live their lives without applying this power and wonder why they got stuck at a certain level in their lives. It's important, of course, to enjoy lives and have a variety in our lives but when it comes down to the God given mission and work that God has given to us, consistency is one of the most vital elements. Consistency builds our character. Over time it attracts whatever we are being consistent at. And consistency, once again, is really one of the keys of living the blessed life.

See, whether we realize it or not, we are being consistent at something. And too many people are consistent in a negative way in their minds, always doubting their God given potential, always putting themselves down, putting down their talents, putting down their abilities, saying that they have no dreams and nothing worthwhile to think about.

We may be consistent in this matter or we may be consistent in comparing with others or, even though we may not know it, we may be jealous of other people. The key here is not to be consistent in these negative ways but to be consistent in improving and moving our lives in a positive trend. Of course, in our lives we will always have ups and downs, we will always have obstacles to overcome and to pass over, but even though we have those ups and downs in life, it's important to move the trend of our life in a constantly upward trajectory.

Constantly improving ourselves, being more mature, learning and improving ourselves, this is one of the keys to really being able to actualize a blessed life. "But I get really bored really quick. I start one thing and I get too good at it or I just get bored of it and I need to move on." But it's natural to get bored of whatever we do. Every one who works or begins a job or a profession, everybody who is in that kind of role, at some point questions whether or not this is really the right job for them. But those who keep moving and succeeding in those professions, in those environments, in those families, etc., those who keep at it, who keep consistent at it, they keep finding ways to improve and to make the work exciting.

Someone might say, "But it's very hard for me to focus. I really can't focus my attention." And that's natural, too. But focus can be built and it can be learned. It's a skill. It is something that we can develop in our own practice. "But I don't get recognized in my family. I don't get promoted in my work. So why should I continue, why should I continue to be consistent there?"

Whether or not we get recognition or whether or not we get promoted quickly, the people around us really need to see people who are consistent, reliable, people that they can trust. That's when we start being able to receive blessing for ourselves. It is so important to show that consistency, that reliability, whether at the work place, in the family or in any other environment that we may be in. It is always so important to be able to use the power of consistency.

If one person said to another, "I will give you one cent for every negative thought that I have", did you know that per day that person would have to pay the other person $400.00? 400.00 dollars per day! One cent per negative thought, and I would have to pay 400.00 dollars a day, and over the year I would have to pay $146,000.00 to that person.

Do you know that research shows that we think an average of 42 thoughts per minute? And over the course of a day, that's about 60,000 thousand thoughts. But something is very striking here. It's not the fact that we think all these thoughts or that even 95% of them are unconscious. The real key here is that the majority of them, over 40,000 thoughts, whether conscious or unconscious, are negative!

It's so important that in our lives we are able to be aware of our thought-life, of our thinking patterns, of our conversations in our mind. "But how can that be? How can I think 40,000 thoughts per day? I don't need this, there's no way that I put in so much energy." But it's kind of like this: It's like a radio playing in our minds. We may not actually be singing that song, putting in the energy to sing that song, but the thing is, we can hear it, we can hear that song playing in the back of our minds.

Everyday, over and over, minute after minute, 40,000 plus times per day, the normal people hear things like, "I am ugly" or, "I am fat" or, "I'm not talented" or, "He's better than me. She's got a better personality than me. My jobs stinks compared to her's. Or my husband is so poor compared to her husband" or, "I hate her because she's from this family or that family. I hate him. He makes more than me" or, "Why do all bad things happen me?"These kinds of sounds are ringing in the hearts of so many people.

What's happening? 40,000 types of these kinds of thoughts are striking and replaying over and over in our minds. What would that create? Literally a brain washing process, a process that will lead us towards defeat, towards not being able to actualize our potential, not being able to believe in ourselves, not being able to have the self-esteem or confidence that we need to move into the VIP life.

It's so important that we learn to train our thoughts, to be aware of our thoughts. Why is that? An old sage said, "Your thoughts lead to your words. Your words lead to your action. Your actions lead to your habits. Your habits lead to your character. Your character leads to your life and your life leads to your destiny."

Its' so important that we start out with the right thoughts because those are the things that affect everything down the line that creates our destiny. It's so important that in our mind we have consistently positive thoughts, at least that we are making effort to do so, that we are making the effort to try to think more positive, more victoriously, more powerfully, more courageously and more illuminatingly, so to speak, "I am talented. I am attractive. I am strong. God has given me purpose. I am courageous. I am confident, I am compassionate. God has given me His love. I am illuminated. I am intelligent. I am consistently maturing. God has given me a destiny to fulfill."

We need to have these kinds of victorious thoughts playing in the back of our minds. But at first it's very hard. At first it's hard to shift the balance of 40,000 to 60,000 thoughts per day. It's so hard to be able to shift that into thinking more victoriously in our lives. But that's where the effort comes in. That's where the five-percent effort comes in. And when we start changing the patterns of our thoughts, when we start changing those patterns, those that impact our actions, those that impact our character, those that impact the people that we choose to have around us, those that impact the people that are attracted to us, those that impacts our lives, our destiny.

In order to have others want to help us, we've got to be acknowledged, etc., we need to show that we are reliable and consistent. Of course, from our thoughts into our words, into our actions, when we make a promise we keep it. When we make a promise with that child that we'll be there on Tuesday, will be there on Tuesday. Having that reliability, that consistency, that trust ability. Showing consistency at work, or in our families, is like planting our roots.

When we see a tree, any tree, we see only what's above the ground. But the root system is more vast than what we see beyond the surface, one and a half to two times more vast. And too many people in their lives stop right before they're about to reap an amazing harvest from their tree. As they're digging in their roots, as they're putting in their works, as they are being consistent, too many people start moving into different things, right at the time when they are about to reap an amazing blessing.

It's so important that in our lives, in our work life, in our family life, we have that kind of consistency, to make sure that when we look at our life plans, we are not changing jobs every year, to make sure when we look at our family patterns, that we are not changing our promises every second. It's so important that we have consistency in our life, in our work, in our family, wherever we may go, to build the reliability and trust ability that will help us to live the blessed life.

The longer we work at something the better we become at it, naturally. For me the seven years of meditation and spiritual discipline that I do was one of the first times in my life that I proved to myself that I could be consistent. Before that I was always changing my interest. I went from skating to roller blading to Tae Kwon Do, the Jit Kun Do, the DJJ, whatever, to football. So many changes, always, so many changes. I get bored so quick. I learned one thing and then it was no fun anymore, this kind of pattern.

But when Young Jin hyung passed away, I realized, I looked back at my life pattern, and I realized, "Wait a minute! This shows tremendous inconsistency. It shows lack of focus. I don't have any focus in my life." And so when I started to begin training my mind, training my thoughts, doing my meditation practice, etc., I really had to fight everyday, to get up, to do the practice, to become more aware of my thoughts, more aware of my mental habits.

And everyday, at first it was excruciatingly difficult. It got easier, it became delightful and it became very easy. In year three or four it was literally like walking through the valley of the shadow of death. It was getting so difficult in the third of fourth year, it was getting so difficult. But after I overcame those two very difficult years trying to train and keep spiritual discipline, about eight years later, today, waking up 2:30 am, doing the morning practice, is such a natural part of my existence. I can't literally see myself not doing this.

And because of this and because of this kind of discipline that I have in my life, I have been able to prove to myself that I can be consistent. And I believe that it is setting a different tone in the Unification tradition for ministry.

One lady told me that she heard about a Christian minister who was saying to his congregation in the Morning Prayer, "Those Unificationists get up at 2:30 in the morning! We have to get up at least by 6:00 am to pray to Jesus." They were imploring the crowd. Let's give it up for Unification brothers and sisters. Let's give it up. (Clapping)

This same principle I see in my work, too, all the time. When I first started ministry in the small Mapo church, so many people came to me at that time, "Hyung Jin Nim, you can't just stay in Mapo church. You are not supposed to be a minister at a tiny church. You're supposed to be moving around. Why not do the national tour? Why don't you go to Kyenggido, Cheonan, Pusan. You've got to be traveling all around the country to be giving your sermons, giving your speeches."

But I made a deliberate decision not to do that. I made a deliberate decision and said, "No, I cannot do that." I said, "I cannot just go around saying that a change needs to happen, speaking about a service style that is more conducive to the age of liberation, speaking about not to focus on living a life that is free from sin but living a life that is victorious, that is blessed." I said, "I can't just go around and talk about it. I'm not going to do that. I need to stay in one place. I need to do ministry in one place. I need to really do what ministers do. I have got to visit families. I have got to learn about the people that I'm trying to serve, etc."

And I decided not to take those recommendations, not to take the recommendation to go really big, to go everywhere, trying to spread the message. Instead of talking about it, let's create results. Let's try to create that new culture. Let's try to create that new service environment. Let's try to create a space where people can come and learn in different ways in their lives.

And now as we see the development of Headquarter Church, we have now over 4,000 plus registered members here. And we can now, of course, see the benefits of a larger church, a stronger community. If I would have started ministry, just talking about the need to build a better community, just talking about the many benefits of a larger congregation, a larger church community, if I would just have said, "We're stronger. We can share our talents and our networks together," if I just would have said that, nobody would have believed me. I can go around and do national tours everyday, and nobody would understand unless they saw what was happening.

And so I believe I made the right decision to say, "No, I'm going to try to be consistent. I'm not going to skip a single service. I'm going to meet families every week. I'm going to be consistent in one place and create a certain environment."

When I became the International President, again the same pattern happened. More people came to me this time, people from other continents, "You've got to do International tours, not only national ones. Don't go only to Kyengggido, come to Russia, come visit this nation" and everywhere I'm being implored. But again I said, "I can't do that. Our church is still weak in learning, in being confident in witnessing, it's still weak in creating small groups. We are still just beginning the process here. I can't just go around and talk about this. We've got to create the right pattern, create the models so that people can see those results, have confidence in those results and be able to implement them in their countries."

This principle of consistency is one of the most important things that I've learned while doing spiritual practice. I learned consistency and commitment. Everyday, day in and day out, no breaks, no days off in terms of spiritual training. That kind of consistency has helped me greatly in making, I believe, the right decisions in doing ministry and looking over the international scene, so to speak.

Of course, there are many things that personally I have to learn, and I will learn. And I'm improving, I'm maturing, everyday. I know that I'm becoming better and better each day. But I do believe that having the power of consistency and learning how to use that in your own life, in your work, in your family environment, is one of the most important keys.

In the Buddhist tradition, I remember hearing about this wonderful story about a magical bird. This bird flies around a mountain. It flies around a humongous mountain, ten times larger then the Himalayas, so to speak. And this bird wears down the mountain slowly by gently brushing its wings across the top of the mountain. In that tradition it says that the time that it takes for that bird to gently brush the mountain and wear that mountain down completely is called one Kalpa or one era of time.

In the Zen tradition, Buddhi Dharma cut off his eye lids and meditated in a cave for 9 years. The power of that consistency, that spiritual training, is said to have seared his image on the wall of that cave forever as the testimony to his accomplishment. You see, in the end natural subjugation works on this key principle of consistency. It works on consistently loving the enemy, consistently living for the others, consistently having a public mindset, consistently living to serve the public, etc. The process of natural subjugation works on this very principle.

We do this not by waiting around, doing nothing until our enemies strikes us and says, "I love you, I love you, I'm practicing true love." No! We don't do that. That's sadomasochism, that's not living for the sake of others. When we use natural subjugation, we work extremely hard, we work tirelessly, we work consistently, improving ourselves, maturing, consistently maturing, improving, etc.

Buddhi Dharma, with his consistent effort and practice, he seared his accomplishment on to an immovable stone. And sometimes the obstacles in our lives are also like stones. They may seem immovable as well. But see, with consistent hard work and goodness we will be able to, in the end, over time, sear the seemingly immovable opposition, those people that are against us, those people that may criticize us, those people who may not understand the dreams and ambitions that God has given to you. And you will be able to overcome those seemingly immovable oppositions and leave an imprint of enlightenment and goodness.

By investing everything and relentlessly working for the common good and for Cheon Il Guk, not for our own egos as leaders, then, when our enemies do strike us, we have earned the moral ground for them to be accused, not by us. We will not go out and accuse them, but by the many people we have helped, they will in the end see themselves and have to judge themselves.

It is so important that we understand the power of this consistency. When we look at providential history, we can see that God has been the most consistent in the whole course of time. He has never given up on his belief that His children in the end will live up to their potential.

As we know, in providential history God was hoping and wishing for the providential figures to be victorious. Although that did not work out and there were so many failures, God has never given up on humanity. True Parents have embody this consistency, God's consistency. Father is still doing Hoon Dok Hae at 5:00 am, everyday, although he is 90 years old.

No one can accuse Father for not having consistency in his love for God. Nobody can accuse them. 90 years old, a whole lifetime of constantly serving God. (Applause)

True Parents said that because of the consistent love of God and True Parents even Satan the Archangel cannot accuse them. Satan will judge himself as it is said in the book of revelation. There it says that the words of Christ or the words of goodness will be the judge, not Christ himself, but the words that we receive. And if we don't receive them we will have to judge ourselves, our own actions.

When we understand this principle of consistency, when we understand how important it is in our lives, to live the truly blessed life, then we can start learning to analyze our habits, to see the patterns in our lives.

So what can we learn today? The power of consistency is one of the keys to living our blessed life. It builds strength, and it gets stronger over time. The more we are consistent at something, the stronger it becomes, whether we are consistent at thinking negatively or blaming others or whether we are thinking positively of ourselves and trying to encourage others. Whatever we focus on we will get better and stronger at.

Consistency can wear down criticism, it can wear down nay sayers, and it can wear down your obstacles, the Archangels that are against you, just like that magical bird that can wear down a mountain by simply brushing it with unending consistency.

Remember, whether or not we realize it in our lives, one of the keys is to understand about our minds, is to understand that we are always, consistently, thinking. It is so important to learn how to consistently train our thoughts, so that we learn to not think of how terrible we are, to not think how inadequate or how unattractive or how unable we are, but to learn to change those focuses, to change the attention in our minds, to start seeing ourselves in the way God sees us.

And that means to see ourselves with victory, to see ourselves with illumination, to see ourselves making peace, to see ourselves confident, secure, to see ourselves getting stronger each day, more courageous each day, more compassionate each day, more blessed each day, more being a bigger blessing each day.

When we start seeing ourselves in that way, when we start thinking of ourselves in that way, when we start speaking that way, then we will start acting that way, we will start creating habits that way, we are going to build character in that way, we will live a life in that way and we will live a destiny that is in line with that.

Brothers and sisters, if we can do that, I do believe we will have more victory, more illumination and more peace and we will live that blessed life that True Parents have blessed us to live, being a greater blessing to others. Let's give it up. Let's give it up for our True Parents! (Applause) Holding the big Buddhi Darma! (Applause)

Final Prayer:

Heavenly Father, thank You for this day that You have blessed us with. Father, we are here in Your presence. Let us receive Your strength. Father, let us receive Your endurance. Let us receive Your never ending hope for one another, for humanity, for ourselves.

Father, let us always know that we can constantly improve, mature and grow. Father, we can always become better than we are today and, Father, let us know that when we look forward one month, one year from now, in the year 2009, we will be more victorious, more illuminated, more filled with peace, more blessed in our life. And Father one year from now, we will also be a greater blessing to the community, a greater blessing to our friends and family, a greater blessing to this world and our community worldwide.

Father, let us see ourselves with this kind of eyes. Let us envision ourselves with this kind of mindset. We pray that You may flood our thoughts with thoughts of Your life, of Your love, Father, thoughts of Your empowering victory. Father, let us always be aware of the thoughts that we have in our hearts. Let us always train our thoughts, discipline our minds, Father, so that we may truly live up to our potential that You have asked us to live up to.

Father, thank You so much for this day and we pray that today we may implement in our lives the power of consistency, Father, the power of learning to try everyday to be our best and to live that blessed life that You have blessed us to live.

Thank you so much. Father, we pray these things with a humble gratitude and everlasting joy. In our names we pray as Central Blessed Families, Aju! 

Having the Strength to Share

Hyung Jin Moon
September 20, 2008
Headquarters Church
Chungpadong, Seoul, Korea
Transcribed by: Cathy Quebral
Edited by: Rev. Bruno Klotz

Welcome Remarks:
Yeon Ah Nim:

Good afternoon brothers and sisters.

It has already been two months since the helicopter miracle and we are truly grateful that True Parents' health is now rapidly getting better. I believe right now they are on the way to go to the airport to go to Alaska to deal with World Missions, so during the service today I ask you to gather your hearts in prayer for their safe return to Korea.

We are always, always honored to have you here in this sanctuary so that we can worship together, we can pray together and we can have community together, and we cannot forget our UC members that are joining with us via internet, we are also welcoming you as well. Welcome brothers and welcome sisters.

Hyung Jin Nim:

Welcome brothers and sisters!

Today, I would like to share with you from Chung Seong Gyung page 998. Father speaks about himself, he says, "Because I knew that God was such a lonely and isolated being, I have gone forth known that my mission until the day that I die was to fulfill even a portion of God's will and desire, to expand a foundation in at least one field and gather together those who can live for the sake of God. It is because I was born as God's son and because I felt myself responsible for establishing His will that I have persevered until now with love. Even though I was persecuted and even though I was beaten, I endured all these without taking revenge. Even as I fought my way forward, staggering or crawling on my belly, I always thought about how to set up this tradition and bequeath it to this world."

Brothers and sisters, when we hear those passages we can see the type of determination that True Father had from the very beginning. When he was going through all the persecution and difficulty, the tribulations, the doubts, the fear, in the beginning, he had this kind of heart, investing himself fully and being able then to bequeath the tradition to this world. We stand upon that amazing foundation in this new age of liberation. We stand upon that amazing foundation that our brothers and sisters also walk with True Parents.

Brothers and sisters, it is always so important that whenever we come to service we remember and reconnect to that type of heart. It really is the center of what has allowed our tradition to flourish, to become this great in this short time.

Brothers and sisters, today, as we begin service, let's remember we are not only here to observe service but we're here to participate in prayer, in song, in meditation, in words, etc. Let us truly offer this day for the sake of all beings, all people, everywhere, especially our Blessed Central Families all around this world and let us return this glory back to God and True Parents.

Once again, brothers and sisters, welcome and let's start with that right perspective in our hearts.

Welcome once again.

Hyung Jin Nim's Prayer:

Brothers and sisters please join me for prayer:

Heavenly Father, as we join here today in this sanctuary, Father we enter into Your house. True Father has told us that even when three people gather in Your sanctuary, the heavens will move and shake. Heavenly Father, here today with our families, friends and brothers and sisters from around the world, Father, we know that we will be able to move heaven. We will be able to inspire the generations to come.

Father, we pray that You may use us to fulfill Your divine destiny and use us to truly be able to be Your hands and feet in this world. Let us be the true saints and sages that are able to bring Your love, Your compassion, Father, Your benevolence, Your patience and Your goodness to this world.

Thank you so much for all that You have blessed us upon. We pray that You may be with each and every one of the family members here gathered, that all of them may be blessed and that Your abundance and ever lasting life may be with them always.

Heavenly Father, please be with all the brothers and sisters joining us around this world on the internet at this moment. We pray that You may be with their families and that You may invest into them Your seeds of hope, Your seeds, Father, of optimism, Your seeds of inspiration, so that truly they may be blessings to this world.

Thank you so much, Father. We pray and offer a deep thanks, Father, for all the things that You are planning to do in our lives, that You've done in our lives. Father, and we look forward to all the things to truly come to fruition in the coming days

Thank you so much, and we offer these things with great humility and also ever lasting love in the names of our Central Blessed families together here as one. Aju!

Interesting Story:

Before we always start our words, we like to start with very little interesting thing. Actually today is a little cutie, it's a cute. I heard this wonderful story. A mom was on the way to pick up her six year old daughter at the school and it started to begin to rain. All of a sudden, when she parked in front of the school, she saw her little daughter running towards her. And it was starting to thunder, lightning, and started to really pour. And then she started noticing that her daughter was doing something very, very strange, exhibiting some very strange behavior. As the daughter was running towards the car, she would, every time the lightning flashed, she would stop, look at heaven, smile and then run, run towards the car again. And then another lightning, boom, and flash happened again and the little daughter stopped, looked up towards heaven and smiled and started running again. She did this multiple times until she finally reached the car soaking wet, getting into the car and mommy said, "Honey, what were you doing? What are you doing, you're all soaked? Why are you doing that?" She said, "Mommy, I had to look good. God was taking my picture!" (Laughter)

Brothers and sisters, come on, get up, let's do it. That's my daughter, by the way.

Hyung Jin Nim: Main Sermon:

Brothers and sisters, today I would like to talk to you about "Having the Strength to Share." In order to live the blessed life one of the keys, of course, is to live the blessed life and then to be a blessing to others. In order to do so, one of the real keys is learning how to have the strength to share. And too many people live their lives without sharing their talents, ambitions, resources, hopes and dreams. When we share we are practicing. We are doing what God does. We resemble God's nature and thus we can receive more blessings into our lives. By sharing our lives with one another, investing into one another, sharing our time with one another, we learn to live the blessed life and to be a blessing to this world.

"But you know, I don't have anything. How can I possibly share?" Well, even if we have nothing, we can always share a smile, a word of encouragement, a prayer, for somebody in need. "But I tried sharing. I ended up gaining nothing." But when we share, we gain character, we gain integrity, we gain compassion and by gaining these traits over time, we become someone that people wish to support and help.

"But I'm busy with my own life, how can I share with others?" Because we are busy, it's even more important to learn how to share because then we will lessen our own load and we will be giving the others the opportunity to grow. "But what can I do?" We can start with very small things in our lives. We can volunteer to help the Sunday school, volunteer to help with the phone ministry, to help encourage others by calling them or writing them little messages, just giving them strength during the week. We can mentor somebody in the community. We can sign up to volunteer to be a math teacher, math tutor, to help somebody with school, study music, soccer etc. We can pray for our families in need or write a letter to somebody who is sick and in the hospital right now.

There are always young blessed children that are coming here. They're voluntarily helping in the church. We're seeing these wonderful phenomena. So many young people are coming, volunteering at the cafe, at the choir etc. and we're so proud of seeing this sharing mentality. Our Japanese sisters are always volunteering to the cleaning of the church. Whenever one of you guys comes here before service, they are in here hours before you guys, already in here, cleaning up, already making sure the pews are clean, the floors are clean, the stage is right, etc.

We have the Sunday school teachers every week, every single week. When we are celebrating and enjoying service, we have the Sunday school volunteers, Saturday school volunteers, who are downstairs with the kids, downstairs, educating, helping raise our own children.

One successful CEO told me something like this, that the secret to succeed in his view is learning how to share. He explained, "It's very simple. Its basic economics and it is called the Law of Comparative Advantage." He said, "When nations specialize in a trade and partner up, they will have an advantage over nations who try to do everything themselves like North Korea for example. South Korea may design cell phones but they don't necessarily manufacture them. China will manufacture them. And because they specialize in those fields, when they work together, they have a competitive advantage over North Korea."

And he was explaining to me like this, "People, who don't succeed, think, 'If I share, I'll never be successful. If I share, he may become greater than me. If I share, I'll have less in the long run. Why share when I can have it all?' That's how people think who can't succeed big."

People who succeed think, "If I share the success, people will want to help me succeed. If I share the success, even though he gets bigger than me, I'm still better off than when I started. If I share we will be able to create more value together and thus in the end, we'll both be better off than when we started. So why wouldn't I share?" You see, it's one of the most important principles in our lives.

This principle also we see throughout the natural kingdom. True Father has always said, "The natural kingdom, the creation, is the true Bible." He has taught us that.

This week I was with my kids and we had a chance to watch an Animal Planet program. I happened to find a program where there was an amazing thing about animal synergies. They even have an example of a fish called the Goby fish who shares its home with a shrimp. And this Goby fish specializes with eyesight, he has amazing eyesight. He has, what normal fishes don't have, which is a binocular vision. His eyes are set in such a way that he can actually look in the distance like human beings and so he has very excellent eyesight. But he shares a home and shelter with the shrimp. The shrimp of course stays inside, he cleans and makes the hole big, if there's sand in there, he'll bring it out, etc. He'll keep it in order. The shrimp doesn't have to do anything alone. He relies on the Goby fish, he shares the food, he shares the home, he shares the shelter, and together, by specializing and pairing up, they make up for each other's weaknesses, but their strengths are in the end doubled. No one succeeds alone. By sharing the talents, this natural pair becomes an amazing team.

We see this dynamic tool in our larger church community, when we see our HQ church developing. Now we're starting with the home group movement. We are seeing that the building of more church community means opportunities to share our talents, our affirmation, our skills, our resources, etc., partnering up like the Goby fish and the shrimp.

In our youth group we are now going to be starting an academy very soon. We have people who are experts in for example financial planning and they will be helping our members learn how to make smart decisions on investment and financial planning, etc. And is also a cooking academy planned. Coming together in youth groups means increased networking, more partnerships that can be developed and also even the potential future spouse may be found.

One CEO donated for the best blessed children's education, and the facilities that you see now downstairs with the new library, the new facilities with the playground, etc., that's all because of this man donating to our blessed children's community. We are seeing this kind of development here at the Headquarters church because we have a community that is learning to share, to volunteer, to invest in each other.

Everybody is being a giver and going on to practice the sharing mentality, and since we are a community that now tithes -- we give what is God's to God -- we see that there is more sharing, we see that there is more service, we see there's more volunteering in the activities. We see that there are more people helping, lending a hand out to people who are in a difficult situation. We are also going to be preparing a social welfare program. We will be able to make at first a smaller investment but a larger investment for those in the community who need the extra support and help.

As we continue to share and build this sharing mentality in our church, we will have continued success. We will continue to create goodness, benefit and improvement for our church community.

Brothers and sisters, let's give it up once more to our volunteers and all the church community. Give it up. (Applause) Very important. Very, very important. (Applause).

In the story of Jesus, when Jesus was passing to Jericho, in Luke 19, there was a story about Jesus meeting the tax collector, Zacchaeus. A man was there, his name was Zacchaeus, he was the chief tax collector in that area. He was extremely wealthy and he wanted to see who Jesus was. So he heard about the great prophet that was coming to the land of Jericho and he went out. But of course, there was a huge crowd around Jesus and Zacchaeus being a very small man, he could not see above that crowd. So he decided, " I'm going to start using my kung fu skills and I'm going to climb that sycamore fig tree. So he got up, up on the sycamore fig tree, and looked towards Jesus

And all of s sudden, Jesus started walking towards him and saw him in the tree. Jesus all of sudden said, "Zacchaeus, come down immediately. I must stay at your house today." So he came down at once and he walked with Jesus; walked gladly. All of the people saw this and then they begun to mutter, "Jesus is going to be with a sinner, a tax collector, a wealthy person." But Zacchaeus stood up and said to him, "Lord, look Lord, here and now I'll give half of my possessions to the poor and if I've cheated anybody out of anything, I will pay back four times the amount that was lost." Jesus said to him, "Today salvation comes to this house because this man, too, is a son of Abraham. The Son of Man came to see and to save what was lost."

You see, Zacchaeus at that critical point, when he was in the presence of God, decided to do what maybe he had not done before: He decided to be not a taker but a sharer. He decided to be a giver, a sharer, and he shared his resources with the community. And Jesus told him that he would stay at his house, that he would visit him, and that he would be with him and that God would be with him. Jesus told him in that quote, "TODAY salvation has come to this house." After, of course, AFTER Zacchaeus made the condition of sharing, of becoming a sharer.

Jesus, in this exercise, shows that when we share, we win. We both win. Not yesterday, not in the future. We win today. We win today because we are becoming closer to God; we resemble His nature, because God is the ultimate sharer. This opens up the possibility for us to be more blessed the minute we start sharing, the moment we change our lives from being takers to becoming sharers.

Whether we realize it or not, we are always sharing something with other people. But what we share, will determine what we get back in our lives. If we are negative, if we curse others, if we blame others and are jealous of others, then this is what we will receive. We will receive jealousy; we will receive revenge, etc. But if we wish for others to give us smiles, we have to first give others smiles. If we wish to receive help and encouragement, we must first give encouragement and help to others. If we wish to receive grace, we must in our lives show grace and give grace as a habit. If we wish to receive forgiveness, then we must also share forgiveness with those who need it. If we wish to receive health, we must also help those who are sick.

One sister, after finding out she had cancer, didn't stay at home, did not get depressed about her situation, saying my life is over, etc. She told how she immediately, as soon as she found out, she made a plan. The doctor said the result would come out in weeks, but already while she was waiting for the result she made a plan. She said, "I knew it was going to be positive. I've been having this pain, etc." So when it came out that she was cancer positive, she already had a plan. She was not going to sit at home. She was not going to dwell on how painful that is or how she's going to die in a couple of months. She was not going to dwell on any of that. She said, "I made a plan and that was this: As soon as I heard of the diagnosis, I went straight to the head cancer department, the hospital cancer center, and I volunteered to help other people with cancer."

As soon as she did that, of course, her attitude in life became positive because she now had to be encouraging other people with cancer, getting them out of their own depressed minds. She had to start mustering up her own strength to say, "Wait a minute! Don't give up on yourself. Wait a minute, believe in your future. Wait a minute! We can get through this. I'm with you. I'm in the same boat. Let's get through this together." And she did that. She told us how she did that, getting a sedative, being still in pain, etc. but she stayed positive and she remained a sharer. She didn't expect others to give. She wasn't in the receiving mentality only. She was a giver. She was a sharer. She started giving positive encouragement. She started giving hope to other people. And what happened? God blessed her. Today she is healthy, she is whole and she is completely free from cancer! Give it up for our sister! (Applause).

It's a very ironic thing. When we learn to share, we receive so much more. When I first had to take on this responsibility over the church, I started, at one point, really wondering, "Why did Father, since the early 80's, why was he sharing our faith?" I am not only talking of witnessing. I'm talking about our resources. I am talking about our community. I am talking about our victories. "Why is he sharing this with other people? We are still small ourselves. We have plenty of work to do with our own community. Why the heck are we sharing everything with everybody else?"

You know, we've been doing inter-religious conferences for about 30 years now. Our church is burdened basically with all of the cost. All the other religions who are invited to those conferences, etc. hardly bear any cost. We have had that burden for 30 years.

And many said, "Why is Father sharing all those resources like that? What about our community? How come our community can't receive any of that benefit?" You see, I realized something. Most new religions never think of investing in relationships with larger religions as they are usually intimidated and busy building their own organizations. But Father decided to build those networks even at a temporary cost of not being able to build up our community. I've seen, being here in Korea, I've seen many new religions, like Taesun Chiligyo, or Cheonikyo or Buddhism. For the last 50 years they were investing a lot in their community, they have really built up their base and they are quite substantial in Korea but they have nowhere near the worldwide foundation that we have with Islam, Christianity, Buddhism, etc. They are nowhere near the worldwide foundation that we have not only in religion but also in politics, business, academics, etc.

Now in the age of liberation and complete release, we are starting to invest back into our community. And on top of that we have the 30 years of network building. We can now, as our community gets strong, start to synergize with that amazing resource.

Because Father decided to SHARE during the age of indemnity, our community does not just stand forever as an indigenous national religion of Korea but as a new religion that is on its way to becoming a major world religion. Give it up for Unification Church brothers and sisters! Give it up for Unification Church! That is our own! (Applause)

You see, Father understood this principle that says that when we share, we receive in the long run.

What can we learn today? By sharing we come to resemble God's nature. God from the very beginning was the ultimate sharer. He wanted to share life, love. He wanted to share His family with humanity. That is why His desire led to Him to create human beings, to have that kind of reciprocal partner through which He could not only receive but GIVE love, where He could SHARE love. Whether we know or not, we are sharing, but God is asking us, "WHAT are you sharing?" Are we sharing negativity? Are we sharing blame? Are we sharing jealousy? Or are we sharing positivity, compassion, caring, concern? We will only receive as much blessing as we will give or share.

When we share we also receive benefit. Remember, it is a simple economics, it is called the Law of Comparative Advantage and every time we share we become closer to God. And as Jesus said, "Today we receive salvation." Not yesterday, not in the future…today, we will receive salvation.

Because of True Parents sharing with the world in the age of indemnity, a worldwide network can be brought to the next level as we build up the strength in our own communities right now in the age of liberation and complete release and as we work on that worldwide foundation, to truly actualize the visions, the dreams and the hopes that True Parents have held close to the hearts for 50 plus years of their ministry. Let's give it up for God and True Parents, brothers and sisters! One more time! (Applause)

I do believe that if we understand this principle, if we truly have the strength to share, we will find ourselves absolutely with more victory, more illumination and more peace and we will live that blessed life that True Parents have blessed us to live.

Brothers and sisters, if you receive this message, let's give it up once again for God and True Parents. Come on! (Applause)

Thank you so much.

Hyung Jin Nim’s Final Prayer:

Heavenly Father, thank You for this day that You have blessed upon us. Father we know You are here with us as we speak. Father, You are not here in the past or just in the future, Father, but You are here in the present moment as we breathe, as we breathe in new life, as we exhale old life, Father.

Father, You give us new chances with every single breathe that we take. You give us new opportunities, new possibilities that You opened for us as we walk towards our futures and our destinies.

Heavenly Father, we pray that You may fill us, pour into us Your spirit of courage, perseverance, Father, overcoming power, so that we may overcome any obstacles the Archangel may send and, Father, ultimately become wiser through them.

Father, we are now in a stage of complete liberation and release. Let us in this age learn to not only be receivers, those who take or receive but, Father, let us learn Your practice of sharing. Let us share our time, our resources, our skills, our dreams with those around us and help others in our community. May we help other people who need support.

Father, let us exhibit Your heart, Your heart as the ultimate sharer from the very beginning throughout the many thousands of years of Your providential course.

Heavenly Father, thank you so much for instilling in us the strength to share and we pray that as we do so, we will find our community, ourselves and our families with more victory, more illumination and more peace -- living that true blessed life that You have blessed us to live.

Thank you so much. Father, we offer all thanks and glory to You this day and we pray these things together as Central Blessed Families in True Parents name, in the True Families name and also in our world wide Unification Family Blessed Central Families' name… AJU! 

Returning To Your Safe Haven

Hyung Jin Moon
September 13, 2008
Headquarters Church, Seoul, Korea
Transcribed by: Regina Shin
Edited by: Bruno Klotz

Welcoming Remarks
Yeon Ah Nim:

Good afternoon brothers and sisters!

Today we have a beautiful afternoon and I hope, that in this beautiful Chuseok Holiday you are having a wonderful time together with your family members, brothers and sisters and people around you. We are deeply honored to have you here in this sanctuary and for those who are joining via internet we are also welcoming you as well. Welcome brothers and welcome sisters.

Hyung Jin Nim:

Welcome brothers and sisters today. I want to share with you from Chung Song Gyong, page 547. Father says here: "Among all the good things on this earth there is nothing more precious than connecting to your original heart. We must keep in mind that those who experience your love will have no regrets, even if they forget about all the things of this world".

Father here is talking about the existence of human beings in the physical and spiritual world. He is reminding us of how valuable we are in terms of God's light, in terms of God's perspective. See, God has created us to be the medium between these two worlds and that kind of position is such a profound position. And Father here is telling us that connecting back to our original mind, the thing that speaks with God's love, goodness, clarity, peace of mind etc., that connecting back to that very important source is really such an important task in our lives. Brothers and Sisters, we want to welcome you to this Chuseok Holiday. It's Chuseok -- Harvest Holiday! It's very good to see you, I didn't think you would make it today. But it's good to see you all today, it really is.

Remember, we invite you not only to see our service, to observe our service, but let's participate in the service. We are going to have prayer and meditation, we are going to have singing and sharing as well. So, let us be participants today and I want to welcome you once again. Let's have a really wonderful service and return it back to God and True Parents

Yeon Ah Nim' Message:

Once I heard from one of our Korean sisters about Chuseok Holiday. She said that she has six siblings and all of her siblings joined our movement and got blessed with Japanese wives and Japanese husbands. So, whenever this big holiday comes she visits her parents' house with her siblings and she feels like, "Am I in Korea or in Japan?" because everyone around her speaks Japanese. Her nieces, her nephews, all speak Japanese and even her siblings can speak Japanese so well. So she sometimes feels like she is out of place. But she said that at the same time she feels that this is a part of the blessing -- this is the peace making process that True Parents really want us to live, that we can practice in our lives.

So, when we think about it, I'm sure that everyone who has accepted international marriage feels that this is their mission in their life. True Parents expand our horizon and make our worldview deeper by showing us the value of family beyond our race and nationality. So, in this Chuseok Holiday, we want to say thank you to True Parents for blessing us and making us central blessed families. Aju!

Hyung Jin Nim's prayer:

Heavenly Father, True Parents!

Thank You for this day that You have blessed upon us. We are standing here at the beautiful turn of Your new season. We are expecting new seasons in our lives today, new seasons of change, new seasons of abundance, of growth, of maturity, of success and victory.

Father, these beautiful seasons and the transformations that You bring in our lives! Let us offer the glory back to You and True Parents. Heavenly Father, we are here together as blessed central families and we are here connected with all our families across this world, giving You glory and offering our thanks and gratitude for this day.

Heavenly Father, we pray that today at the start of this new beautiful autumn season, we will, in these next months, as this season moves and moves into the next season, find ourselves with more blessing and more victory, more illumination and peace, that we will be able to give to others the blessings that we are receiving from You. Let us be a blessing to this world.

Thank You so much for all the things that You are doing for us. We pray that Your heavenly hand of protection and Your heavenly hand of blessing may be with each and every one of the families that are here today and those who are joining with us from across the ocean via internet.

Father, please be with our Unification families, give them strength, lift them up and let them believe in the people that You have created them to become. Thank You so much for all that You have done. We pray that today we may have a great service where we can offer You victory and joy and our brightness, and may You truly feel happiness this day.

Thank You so much once again! We offer our thanks with an everlasting love and deep gratitude. We pray these things in True Parents' name, in True Families' name and with all blessed families together in our blessed central families' name together. Aju!

Interesting Story:

First I'd like to start with something a little interesting. We don't have God's voicemail today but something else. (Laughter) I heard an interesting story about a little son whose dad was a minister. And the dad was really flustered one day. He was trying to come up with a sermon topic, just pulling out his hair and just couldn't get it. He was crossing things out, writing and scribbling things on his paper. And so the son was watching the scene and all of a sudden he asked his dad: "Hey daddy, how do you come up with your sermon topics?" The dad was very flustered at the moment, he said: "Son, you know, God gives me them. God tells me what to say." And then the son looked at daddy and said: "Then daddy, why are you crossing out God's ideas?" (Laughter)

Main Sermon:

Brothers and sisters, today I would like to talk to you about `Returning to your Safe Haven'. In order to live the blessed life it is so important that at times we must return to our safe havens. Life is full of challenges, obstacles, battles and even, at times, fear, and in order to overcome these obstacles we must be able to return to our refuge, a place that is safe, a safe haven where we can rest and recuperate.

Now remember, this might not always be a physical location, it CAN be, but it may not ALWAYS be such a thing. But returning to such a safe haven is not only good for our physical healing but for emotional, psychological and spiritual healing as well.

In the biblical tradition God is very commonly referred to as `Our Refuge', as the Israelite people's refuge. The place where we go back when times are so difficult, when we are being persecuted, when we are in suffering, when we are going through obstacles and times of change and challenge.

When we feel rejected or negative about ourselves, depressed, sad and discouraged about our lives, when we are feeling despair sinking its roots into our hearts, hopelessness in our lives, then it is so important that we return to the safety of knowing that God loves us, that He believes in us, that He has a plan for us, that He has a vision for our lives.

God's love is unconditional in our lives. No matter how much we may believe that our life is over, or what other people may say, God wants to help us regain our strength, our courage, our confidence, our self-esteem and enthusiasm for our lives, and even He wants to give us our dreams back. God helps us to get back on track and get back into our lives, and so, at times, we will have to return to God as our refuge, the safe haven that gives us strength to start for another day.

This may actually make you feel safe the next time that you are flying in an airplane, but did you know that when you are flying in an airplane, let's say you are flying from Seoul, Korea, to New York, JFK, did you know that the airplane that you ride on while you are flying thousands and thousands of meters above the earth, is actually 99 percent off course? Did you know that? Yes, the airplane is actually 99 percent off course due to turbulence, weather and mechanics. The airplane is off course almost all of the time. That's why an airplane needs a pilot, it needs a navigation system, an autopilot system. Whenever the plane is off just a degree the pilot will readjust or the system will help readjust to get it back on its course. I

It's the same kind of principal with bicycles if you know how to ride a bicycle. I'm assuming that all of you know how to ride a bicycle. When you are about to fall to your left you have to readjust constantly and so it's almost like you are constantly off balance, you are constantly catching yourself. It's the same kind of principal.

Life is the same way. When you get off balance, off course, it's so important to readjust. The longer we wait for readjustment, the harder it is to get back on track. And as soon as we find ourselves saying: "I can't do this. I can't make my way through this difficulty. I can't see my way through the storm. The vision of my future is dark to me, I can't see it," or "I'll never be healthy; I'll never see myself in good health again. I'm battling some sickness, I'm battling a difficult relationship, I don't see a better day in my future" we have to regain our balance very quickly.

We can't let these thoughts start sinking and putting roots down in our hearts. We have to say: "I'm a child of God. God is on my side and He promises that I will make it through these obstacles, that I will find blessing and that I will actualize my destiny. God says that His children will prosper and that His children will not perish at the archangel's hand. God loves me, He protects me, He believes in me and He has given me a mission to accomplish."

We want to surround ourselves with people who speak victory in our lives, into our ears and into our hearts. We want to surround ourselves with people that become a safe haven for us, a refuge, a place where we can come back from the storm, where they can empower us, encourage us to be the best people that we are supposed to become.

In the third Family Pledge Father talks about the Four Great Realms of Heart. They are the Great Realms of the Heart of a parent, the Great Realm of the spouse, the Great Realm of the sibling and the Great Realm of a child. True Parents teach that at times your wife may actually be like your mother and your wife may be like your sister, at times your wife may be like your child. At times a husband may be like a father, a brother, a child, to his wife.

As blessed central families we need to be able to experience these realms of heart, particular in our spousal relationships. Personally, in my life, when I really feel beaten up, when I feel really torn up by the world, when I had a really rough day and I'm about to collapse and fall into depression, and I come back home and I tell my wife about it then she'll console me, she will comfort me, she'll give me a hug and say: "Appa, it's going to be okay. You're doing a great job. I'm proud of you."

This kind of encouragement, even though it's so small, it doesn't take a lot of time. It maybe takes a minute of your time, but it gives me so much strength. When she is exhausted with the kids or with work then I try to comfort her. I try to listen to her words. I try to allow her to speak, so I can try to encourage her as well.

And we found that these little supports that we give each other have helped us to become more emotionally restored, mature and spiritually strong for each other. They give us strength for the next day to go out with courage and confidence. Our spousal relationship is one of the most important places, where we come back for refuge, where we come back from the world, and where we return back to our home. That safe haven is one of the most profound safe havens and it is so important that we are strong in our spousal relationships.

I heard about a TV program where husbands, very lovingly, sent beautiful text messages with their cell phone to their wives, while they were at work. They messaged things like: "Honey, I miss you. Honey, I want to see you and get back and hug you. I love you. I can't wait to see you." They sent their wives beautiful comments like that. So the TV crew was there, recording their phones and they were so curious at what kind of messages the wives would send back to their husbands, probably messages like: "Thank you, honey. I love you too. I miss you and want to see you too."

But what happened when those messages came back, what were they saying? They came back messaging things like: "Are you crazy? What are you, a baby? Disgusting!" These kinds of messages came back to the husbands. These husbands, of course, were grown up men but if they are in that kind of environment, then we have to make sure that we are not that kind of spouse if we want a blessed marriage. If we want an unsupportive marriage and want to be unhappy in our relationships then messaging these kinds of statements will be absolutely great. But if not, then it's so important that we are able to support each other more, maybe a little "Thank you", "I miss you, too", maybe, " I love you," something like that, something that can express and return the giving and receiving process.

In the 1950s, Harry Harlow, a psychologist at the University of Wisconsin, conducted a series of very famous experiments on Rhesus monkeys. He wanted to see what effect love and emotional security had on psychological development. He had one group of monkeys raised by a wire mesh surrogate mommy with a very scary, cold, mechanical face. And another group of monkeys were raised by another surrogate mommy, covered with terry cloth, a very soft kind of cloth, with a very happy and cute face.. In this experiment the baby monkey spent up to 23 hours on the happy, soft mommy and only less than an hour on the wire, mechanical mommy. The only reason why he went to the wire mommy was that the wire mommy provided him with milk. So he only went for his basic survival needs to get the milk.

We will see what kind of reactions the monkeys showed when they were frightened. They put in strange items, like loud objects and teddy bears beating on drums. The monkeys that were raised by the soft cloth mommies would immediately jump on their mommy when they were frightened. They rubbed against them and eventually were able to calm down. They used their mommies as a psychological base of operation that allowed them to be playful and inquisitive after the initial fright.

But what happened to the group of monkeys that was raised without a soft, surrogate mommy? In contrast, monkeys that were raised by a wire mommy did not retreat to their mother when they were scared. Instead, they threw themselves to the floor. They clutched themselves, they rocked back and forth and they screamed in terror. Harlow noted that these activities closely resembled the behaviors of autistic and deprived children, frequently observed in institutions, as well as pathological behavior of adults, confined to mental institutions.

He also did another separate experiment, where he had the wire monkey giving milk and the cloth mommy was just simply standing right next to it. At first the monkey would go to the wire mommy to get the milk but then later on, he would actually keep his feet on the cloth mommy and would lean his head over to get the milk. In other words he didn't want to be with this mechanical mommy at all. He wanted to be with the softer, more nurturing type of mommy.

Let us remember that this terry cloth mommy didn't do anything, just sat there the whole day on the same place. It was stationary; it didn't even provide the monkey with milk. But it was always there for the baby, to hold and to retreat to. When scared, it could run to it.

It is so important in our lives that we learn to be and surround ourselves with people who can show us this kind of God's love and support. Because we are made in God's image we, too, have the potential to be somebody else's safe haven. If we are a parent or a spouse, we have to make sure that we are not like the cold, mechanical wire mesh monkey. Remember, just standing there with a cold stare can damage your child, or even your husband, just like that monkey. Be like the terry cloth mommy. We need to learn how to be like the terry cloth mommy to each other. Where we are able to smile at each other, express our emotions, thank each other, and show gratitude. Be that kind of safe haven that provides emotional security and strength.

If we learn to unconditionally love and support each other, we will be a source of strength, a source of God's love, in this world. And remember, the little supports, the little encouragements that we give one another, those are the big strengths that are coming to people's lives. Those are the big things that we need in our lives to stay afloat, when we are hitting turbulence, big waves, big challenges and obstacles. It's so important that we have those kinds of people around us who are supporting us, giving us that safe haven that we are able to return to.

Whenever we go to Japan we usually have a very wonderful practice with our Japanese brothers and sisters. During service,we have a time where husbands and wives come together and they learn to embrace each other. You may not know that but in Asia there is not a lot of embracing going on between husband and wife, in public at least. So, we do a very interesting exercise with the blessed families there.

We have them do the eight step hug that True Father does with True Mother. Before he did his 88th anniversary marriage ceremony True Father bowed to True Mother, he held her hands; he held her eyes, meaning he gazed into her eyes. A lot of husbands forget to gaze into their wives' eyes to give them the emotional feeling of love and affection. And then Father hugged her: "Omma!" And then again, as they separated, he gazed into her eyes and held her hands and bowed again. We do this simple practice and while we are embracing we say a prayer for another out loud. So the husband is praying out loud for his wife and the wife prays out loud for her husband.

We have seen people break down in that atmosphere. We have seen the whole room filled with crying and weeping. It's so rare that we hear our spouses praying for us, wishing for us, thanking God that we are in their lives. And it's so rare that we are able to express that in a way that is consoling, that becomes an encouragement and a safe haven.

I have seen this practice in Japan with the blessed central families and I have seen that it has made an emotional impact on those people's lives. But I also doubted it. I honestly doubted it, "What kind of an impact is it really going to make? Is it really going to help people open up and understand each other a little more?"

I was once in an airport, on the way to Japan, and we were waiting to get to the ticket line and one Japanese fellow spotted me from quite a distance, came running up to me, with three or four of his friends, and he asked me: "Are you Hyung Jin Nim?" I said: "Yes, I'm going to Japan", and we exchanged some very nice hellos. And then he said: "I have one request that I would like you to fulfill." And I said: "Okay, Sir. I don't really know you but you can ask me. OK, go ahead! I don't know if I can do it." And so he said: "Can you give me a hug?" (Laughter)

This is a Japanese brother! So I gave him a hug there in the airport. We prayed for him in the airport. And what we were realizing, my God! We just go to Japan, we just try to help the brothers and sisters there, try to help them to express themselves a little more between each other, trying to pray for each other.

And at times we believed that this isn't really making an impact. But then I saw this man come up to me. Japanese men are usually very reserved; they don't cross those boundaries if they don't know you. He came up to me asking me for a hug and I was really amazed thinking, "Maybe it is making an impact, at least on one person it is!" I felt encouraged.

It's so important that in our lives and communities we have that safe haven that we can return to. We cannot always burden our family. Let us help each other in our community. Here at the Headquarters Church, just about two weeks ago, we started home groups, small group practices, where our brothers and sisters can come together in faith, where we can help build each other up, build our confidence in one another, build our self esteem, build our dreams, find our dreams back, where we can see that our community deals with very similar issues that we are dealing and struggling with, that we are overcoming and being victorious in, where we can absorb faith and fellowship, victory and support, maturity and sharing.

In the home group communities we see God working miracles, small miracles, in those small communities of five to ten people that come together in faith and fellowship, in encouragement of one another.

Right now we are going to be taking in registration of those who want to become hosts for those who seek and help impact people's lives, help people actualize the vision that God has for them, help them to become all that God has destined for them to become.

Every week we are going to provide the home groups with a video, where we give them support and exercises. It's as easy as popping in a video and then following along, doing the practices, doing the exercises and doing the discussion practices. The home group community is really meant to be that safe haven that we cannot receive in a larger worship service. But we are able to come together in smaller groups where we can give each other encouragement, hope, faith, friendship, fellowship and support; where we can truly learn to live for the sake of the other.

In order to live the blessed life we need to make use of the safe havens. We need to build communities that have safe havens. It's one of the lessons that I wish we can learn today, that our community, our fellowship, the home that we live in, our children, our spouse, that these relationships give us the power to succeed, that they are able to give us the strength and courage that we need, the confidence, to become truly successful in our lives.

Let us remember that in our hearts God and True Parents, the number one safe havens in our lives, truly give us solidity, our value, our identity, our purpose, our mission in our lives. That haven gives us the ability to give blessings to others, the root practice in our hearts that allow us to expand that parental love to the rest of the world.

Let us remember the Four Great Realms of Heart that teach us to expand our view of the realms of love, of what a husband, a wife, a child is. At times the child can be the father, or the spouse can be the mother.

Our community is also our safe haven, especially our home group communities. I really encourage every one of us to start learning about the home group practices that we are going to start. We are going to offer those classes every week. On Wednesday at 7:00 pm we are going to have home group training so that we are able to support each other in smaller but stronger units.

Let's not be one of those very mechanical, wire mesh Unificationists. Let us learn to be the mature, loving ones that can support unification; the ones that can go beyond themselves and truly let our community shine. Be proud of that. Be proud of seeing other people in our community shine.

If we do that I truly believe that we will find ourselves rooted in our safe havens, that we will be able to move forward with confidence and we will find ourselves with more victory, more illumination and more peace. And we will receive that blessed life that True Parents have blessed us to live, being a blessing to the world.

Brothers and sisters, let's give it up for God and True Parents! 

Having Victory in our Relationships

Hyung Jin Moon
September 6, 2008
Headquarters Church, Chungpadong Seoul, Korea
Transcribed by: Beatrice Clyburn
Edited by: Bruno Klotz

Welcoming words:
Yeon Ah Nim:

Good afternoon, brothers and sisters ("Good afternoon!") It is the first worship service of September and we are really blessed today to have a beautiful weather and great company with us. We are always honored to have you here in this sanctuary and for those who are joining with us via internet, we are welcoming you as well. Welcome brothers and welcome sisters.

Hyung Jin Nim:

Welcome brothers and sisters! You may notice something happened up on the front altar. We will continue to improve that. This is of course temporary but by next week it will be more complete.

Brothers and sisters, today we're going to look at Cheon Seong Gyeong, page 991, and here Father is talking about establishing heavenly life through attendance. In section 2 Father says, "God is not a fantasy or a conceptual God, nor is He an abstract God. With His leadership in our daily life He is always with us as the master of our daily circumstances. He does not just receive attendance but He's living together with us by sharing love."

Father is in effect telling us that many times, walking in our life of faith, we may feel like we're alone. We may feel many times that there is nobody around that understands us or supports us. But what he is telling us is that God is always with us, walking with us, sharing our circumstances, being with us through them. And He is helping us, trying to reach in and to understand that we have the potential, the strength, the character to be able to overcome circumstances, to be able to thrive and to succeed despite our circumstances.

Here Father is really pointing us to understand that God is not an abstract being in a different place, but here with us in our daily lives, wishing for us, hoping for us, cheering us on, to try to be the best that we can be.

Brothers and sisters, whenever we come out to service, it's always so important that we remember that we are not only here to observe service, but here to participate together, to be able to pray together, to be able to offer our worship and praise, to be able to reflect on our lives, to return back to the source. It's really a time when we can offer glory back to Heavenly Father.

So I want to invite you today, not just to observe but sing with us, pray with us. We're going to meditate too; meditate with us. And let's really return the glory back to God this day!

Once again, welcome! Let's always remember to have the right mindset before we start. I always like to remind you that it's important to always get in the right mind when we come before God. That is to see ourselves in light of God's view, that is to see ourselves not in our own human dimension, to see ourselves as precious, as valuable, as having meaning, as being able to actualize all the potential that He has given us. So let's start with that mindset. Let's return it to God. Let's have a really great service.

Brothers and sisters, I invite you once again, not only to watch, but to participate together. Welcome everybody!

Yeon Ah Nim's message:

Whenever Hoon Dok Hae gets a little long, True Parents' grandchildren, or granddaughter, or grandsons come into the Hoon Dok Hae room, and say something very bold to True Parents, something like, "Appa! Hoon Dok Hae is getting too long. Everybody wants to have breakfast. Let's have breakfast!" Something like that!

And then True Father does a little comment to that situation, "Ah! You know what! They actually came to capture me. Even though they are very young and very small, they are like my teachers. So if I don't listen to them, they get mad at me for the whole week. So I think I should listen to them." (Laughter) Something like that! He always says something cute like that.

True Father said, "If someone asks us what the purpose of our life is, and if one can answer, 'We are here for true love', what a great answer it is! If one can answer, 'We are born in true love and live in true love', how wonderful that is!"

Brothers and sisters, even though we have different circumstances, and we have our obstacles in our lives, if we can find true love in every corner of our life, just like True Father, we know that at the end of our life we are able to say that we have a victory in our life, that even God can be proud of, that even God can admire.

Brothers and sisters, we love you so much and we believe in you. Welcome to service again! Aju!

Interesting Story:

Today the story is very difficult to memorize.. I actually have to look at it! Today we have the story of a man who called heaven's cell phone, and this is the voice mail that he got, "Thank you for calling heaven. I am sorry, all our angels and saints are busy helping other sinners right now. (Laughter) However, your prayer is very important to us, and we will answer it in the order that it was received. Please stay on the line.

If you would like to speak to God, press 1; (Laughter) Jesus, press 2; The Holy Spirit, press 3. If you would like to hear King David sing a psalm while you are holding, press 4. To find a loved one who has been assigned to heaven, press 5, then enter his or her social security number followed by the pound sign. If you get a negative response please hang up and try area code 666. For reservations in heaven please enter John 3:16. For answers to nagging questions about dinosaurs, the age of the earth, life on other planets or where Noah's arc is, please wait until you arrive. (Laughter) If you are calling after hours and need emergency assistance, please contact your local pastor.

Brothers and sisters, give it up! (Applause and laughter)

Hyung Jin Nim's Sermon:

Brothers and sisters, today I would like to talk to you about having victory in our relationships. You know, in order to live the blessed life it is so important to have victory, to be victorious, in our relationships. And too many people don't pay attention to the relationships that they are in or the people that they surround themselves with, and wonder why they get stuck at a certain level of victory in their life.

The people around you will determine your level of blessing and can impact your destiny. One of the keys of living the blessed life is to make the right decisions in relationships and partnerships, and to be victorious in those relationships.

You know, in the Nicomachean Ethics, a work written by Aristotle, he wrote that there are three kinds of friends:

1. Here are friends of utility, he said. And those are friends which you need to get something from. If you bought something, an item, if you bought a stereo from a shop, you would need that friend to provide you with a stereo. That would be a friend of utility.

2. Then there is a friend of pleasure, as he talked about. Those people are people you hang around with. They may share a similar hobby. They're fun to be around. These would be friends of pleasure. That's what Aristotle said.

3. He then he said there are friends of the good, and those are the highest types of friends. Those are the true friends to which you can share your hearts with. Those are the friends who are like you in character, in disposition, and in purpose.

It is so important whom you let into your realm of relationship. This is because whom you call your friends, especially your friends of the good, can influence you greatly, influence your personality, your character, your habits, your life and of course, in the end, your destiny. Those whom you surrounds yourself with, will have that kind of impact upon you.

And at times in our lives when we are stuck at a certain level, God may be asking us to make a new step in the right direction. We may even have to make hard decisions to change the people that we surround ourselves with, in order to move to a higher level of success and victory.

God has prepared victorious relationships for us in our lives, but in order to meet those people we may have to -- in the short run -- let go of toxic relationships. Those are relationships that are negative, those are relationships that bring us constantly down, that make us lose heart in our own potential, in other people's potential.

If you are around people who are complaining, always complaining, or seeing the bad in people, always dwelling on how life is unfair or miserable, always jealous of other people, criticizing others, putting people down, you may have to graduate from these kinds of associates.

If you are around people that curse others because they are successful, curse others because they are happy or healthy, curse others because they are blessed, those people may be holding you down at a certain level of victory.

It's so important that when you see that, you have to know that the Archangel will sometimes use people around us to stop us from fulfilling our destinies. And because he sees that we have so much potential, he is getting scared and many times will use people around us to try to influence us to not be able to reach that destiny.

It is very important that we will have the courage to be able to say, "Wait a minute. I have to fulfill the purposes that God has given me." I have to step up and step out into the blessed life.

We may think, "But if I leave these people that I hang around with, if I leave these kinds of people, they will call me a traitor. They'll say I betrayed them, they'll curse me. They'll say I'm running away, they'll say I'm scared. If I leave these people, I won't be able to make any new friends, I'll be alone!" But see, God has given a mission for us to fulfill. We may hurt people's feelings, man's feeling, in the interim, but if we don't fulfill our purpose, if we are not able to fulfill our destiny while we are here in this very short time on earth, we will not be only hurting men's feelings, we will be hurting God's feelings.

It is so important that we understand that we have to fulfill the destiny that God has designed us to fulfill. And we are not here to be entertainment for archangels' insecurities. We have greater in store for us. God has planned much more for our lives. He is preparing those people in our lives, if we keep our eyes open and we move forward in courage and confidence.

I heard a story about a dog that was pregnant, and she was walking across the street and was very suddenly struck by a car, and she was very badly injured. The veterinarians had to take her in. They took a scan of her belly, and the babies were still OK, but one of her legs had to be removed. And the dog eventually had the babies. The babies were healthy, they were whole, they were totally fine, nothing wrong with them.

But the researchers and the veterinarians found something very curious that happened within about three weeks. When the dogs began to walk around and follow the mommy around, they noticed that the little puppies were walking around on three legs. They had four full legs but they were walking around on three legs.

What was happening? They unknowingly were receiving this behavior from their mother, and for the rest of their lives these dogs, these puppies, ended up walking on three legs, when they had four perfectly healthy legs.

See, it's so important in our lives that we don't walk around with a limp, when we're perfectly whole -- just like these puppies -- when we are perfectly able to stand on four legs. It's important that we don't walk around with this limp, because of the people that we may be around. Whom you hang around will shape your outlook; they will shape your beliefs, your motivations, your goals and even your life.

Sometimes you have to watch your own family. Even though you love your family, if they're immature and act in toxic ways, you may actually have to take time out from your family members until they're able to mature on their own time. See, everybody has their five percent responsibility. We see that from the Principle.

And many people are from very negative family environment, even, at times, from abusive family environments. And it's important that, even if we are from such an environment, that we may actually have to step out of that environment completely in order to be able to take responsibility over our own life and actually move forward in the direction that supports the whole.

By staying in abusive relationships, many people don't realize that they are approving of the abuse, and it may require us to take time out, take time away, from such relationships that are negative, to actually change that person.

When I think about this principle, I think of the story of True Father. When Father received his mission and began ministry, his family completely opposed him, "What do you know? You're just a 16 year old boy. How can you be a world level person? You've never been out of North Korea! You're crazy! You think you can move this world, create a world wide foundation?"

See, Father, deeply, profoundly, intimately loved his family. But he knew that he could not actualize his God-given mission and liberate God with these types of relationships. And he had to make an excruciatingly hard decision. What was that decision? He had to decide to move on, to start his ministry and then to begin from the zero point.

He started with no disciples, zero followers, zero believers, and he went out in faith and confidence. See, he believed that God was leading him to find more victorious relationships that would help him to liberate God and fulfill the mission that he had in his life.

He witnessed and God sent him his new family. Who was that new family? It was our first generation, those first generation brothers and sisters that surrounded True Father, that called him Father, that attended him as true father, and it's upon those early disciples that he set the foundation to create the world-wide Unification family.

Brothers and sisters, let's give it up for Unification Church's first generation! (Applause)

See, our first generation, they were the friends that Father required. They were the people that supported him. They were the people that stepped out in faith. And in our lives, too, it is important that we, too, surround ourselves with friends of faith, that we surround ourselves with people in our community that help us, that support us, that nurture us, that empower us to be all that God has created us to be.

You know, in the Korean church we are now starting small group practices, and we'll be continuing that, and also we're having a small group session every Wednesday night here at the church, in order to begin to create community groups that help each other thrive, that help us fill ourselves, fill our lives, surround ourselves with the right type of victorious relationships so we can actualize and bring to fruition all that God has planned for us to do.

I heard a story, in 1995, October 17th, there were two little twins that were born, Kairi and Brielle. They were born in the Massachusetts Memorial Hospital in Worcester. Each of these twins weighed about two pounds. They were very, very small. They had to be placed each in separate incubators. But see, one of them, Brielle, was very sick. She was expected not to live. And though Kairi was putting on a very good weight and she was growing naturally and healthily, Brielle was slowly withering away. She was slowly getting sick, coughing, gasping, and her face and her skin was turning blue, etc..

See, on a particular day when nurse Gail Kasperian was looking over the intensive care unit at the hospital for the new born children, Brielle was crying intensely. And the nurse had to come over, and she tried everything. She tried to hold the baby, she tried to rock the baby. She wrapped her in a blanket. She tried to clean her nose etc... She tried to do everything, but nothing was working. Brielle just kept on crying, she was suffering inside. All the doctors could see that her body was slowly withering away.

But then the nurse remembered about a procedure in Europe, where twins are actually able to stay in the same incubator. But see, this was against Massachusetts Memorial Hospital law. So she could not do that, but because she knew that the child's life was on the line, she took a step of faith and she put that baby in with her twin sister Kairi.

Very interestingly, when the baby Brielle was put into the incubator with Kairi, the healthier twin put her arm around the sicker baby, around Brielle. And something remarkable happened. Almost immediately the smaller baby's heartbeat began to stabilize, her temperature rose to normal. Her blood oxygen saturation levels which were extremely and frighteningly low, became natural and soared within seconds. She began to breathe more easily and the frantic crying of the baby began to stop.

What happened? Within a couple of weeks that baby whose life was in danger was able to go out of the hospital, and when we last heard of them, they are now in elementary school and very healthy and whole.

This article actually came out. It was so famous that it ended up coming out in Life Magazine, in the Readers' Digest. Let's take a look at the real picture. That's the real picture of those babies. It was because of that hug. Let's give it up for the power (Applause), the power of the right people around you, the power of relationships around you! So important!

Whom you are around can literally save your life, can literally save your life! We must make sure that we are surrounded by the people who encourage us, who can empower us, believe in us, support us to mature and grow, and challenge us -- sometimes it's not easy to be challenged -- but challenge us to become better and better constantly.

It's very toxic to be around only yes-men. If we are around those kind of people, we will not be growing in our lives. We want to surround ourselves with people that challenge us to rise to new levels of potential, not sinking to low levels of actualization, people who through honest feedback and caring honesty help us to develop our own independence to be victorious and to inspire others to live victorious lives.

See, we want to surround ourselves with people that are better than us in the things that we are trying to get better in, better than us in parenting, better than us in business, better than us in ministry, better than us in our spousal relationship etc... When we surround ourselves with these kinds of people, these people become motivation for us to improve and they inspire us to become better in all these different realms.

There's a personal example that me and my wife try to practice. And many parents, while raising their kids, end up doing a lot of things for their kids, and totally out of love, end up do the homework for the kids, do the dishes for the kids -- they won't tell the teacher they're doing the homework for the kids, but they do the homework for the kids -- they do the dishes, bring the water, tie the shoes, open the presents. Everything is done for the kids!

And just like those emperors of the past, the child becomes unable to do things on their own, becomes more and more dependent, has no confidence to do things on their own, and becomes insecure and afraid to do even the most basic things.

One of the things that we try to practice always with our kids is to help them, but to never fully do their work for them. For example, we were just in a pizza shop the other day and my little daughter was trying to cut her pizza, and she was saying, "Appa, I can't cut this pizza!" And I said, "Honey, you can cut that pizza, it's not a problem. Appa will help you do it; I won't do it for you, but I'll help you do it."

If they want us to do their homework, "See, I can't do that, Appa!" "Yes, you can, I'll help you do it! I won't do it for you but I'll help you do it." If they want us to tie their shoes, pack their bags, open a package of snacks, even something that basic, "I can help you do it! I won't do it for you but I'll help you do it!"

What are we trying to do? We're trying to give them independence in everything that they do, small things first, small victories first, that lead up to basic confidence, that lead up to basic victory, and then more and more their confidence rises, and they are able to succeed at larger things.

Just like this, we have to make sure that we are not surrounded by people who make us dependent, who make us inept, or make us lose potential and confidence in our ability, by doing everything for us. We have to be around people who challenge us to be capable, challenge us to be confident in our ability, who challenge us to step forward and know that we have the ability to succeed at anything if we're able to put our mind to it, and if we really apply ourselves to it.

You know, brothers and sisters, when we think about these things, what can we learn today? It is so important in order to live the blessed life and to extend that to others, to make sure that we have victorious relationships. In order to live the blessed life, we must be nurturing victorious relationships. We must be surrounding ourselves with the right types of relationships that will empower us to be successful and to allow us to fulfill the purposes that God has given us to do.

God has prepared people in our lives that will help us gain the skills to live the blessed life and empower others to live the blessed life as well. If we are around toxic people or archangels, then it is important we may actually have to step out of those environments. We may actually take time out. Even though we love the person, we may have to take time out, in order to situate and move forward.

See, God is asking us to step forward, to assess the people that we are around. Look around! Who are we with? Are they filling us with thoughts of strength, success, victory, hope, confidence in our ability, or are they sapping our strength? When we are spending time with them, are we dead and out of energy? If we are looking at our relationships and we see those things when we assess, God may be asking us to step forward in faith and to find other people, other, supportive, environments that will help us to actualize the blessed life, not only for ourselves, but to extend that to others.

That's why it's so important in our church that we're going to be starting the small group practices, the small group communities, where we will be able to surround ourselves with the right type of victorious people, mindsets, thoughts, so that we will be empowered to be all that God wants us to be.

It's so important that in our lives we are not walking around with three legs when we have four legs, that we are not learning those habits because of the people or the environments that we are from. And it's important not to be handicapped because of where we came from or whom we grew up around, but to step up and step out of those situations, so that we will be able to live the blessed life and become all that God has desired for us to become.

It is so important that in our lives we are able to achieve and always look around us. If we see people around us, whom we spend our time with, and they are better than us in many things that we are trying to become better at, then that is a fantastic sign that God is preparing those people to help lift us into greater victory, greater illumination and more peace in those realms.

Brothers and sisters, I do believe that if we pay attention to the relationships that we are in, we will find ourselves with more victory, more illumination, and we will find ourselves with more peace, and we will live that blessed life that True Parents have blessed us to live, and will be a blessing to others at the same time.

Brothers and sisters, if you receive this message, let's give it up for God and True Parents and the babies! (Applause)

Oh! and by the way, I'm sorry I have to make one more announcement, I'm sorry. For me, one of my most precious and important relationships is my relationship with my Omma, and guess what! Everybody! It's been 11 years! Today is our anniversary.. (Applause) Give it up for Omma! (Applause) 11 years! (More applause) 11 years! I have to say, the best 11 years of my life. Omma, thank you so much and I am looking forward to every single year getting better brighter and more VIP. I want to give it up for Omma. Brothers and sisters, can we give it up? (Applause)

Thank you so much.

Final Meditation - Last sentence:

True Parents are always with us. They are always present in our hearts, and they love us forever, for eternity, with unconditional love.

Hyung Jin Nim's Final Prayer:

Heavenly Father, our beloved True Parents, thank You so much for this day that You have blessed upon us. Father, today we feel restored and rejuvenated by Your presence here in this sanctuary, Father, in the presence of all our precious central blessed families, Father, the fruits of history which You have waited for, for 6,000 years of biblical history.

Father, we are standing in that kind of auspicious time and position. Let us truly be able to surround ourselves with, Father, the right relationships, those who fill us with faith, fill us with strength, fill us with confidence, fill us with hope in our lives.

Father, let us surround ourselves with people who become examples to us, who let us rise higher in our blessed family life, in our blessed marriage life, in our blessed relationship life, in our blessed work life. In all the things that we do, let us try to surround ourselves with the victorious children that you have created.

Father, we thank You so much for this day that You are guarding us and protecting us, that You are covering us with Your love like a shield, and Father, we pray that each one of these families here today in this sanctuary and also joining us in spirit here, Father, we pray that You may be with them, that You may protect them, that You may give them strength, and Father, that You may surround them and lead the right people to them so that they truly may live that blessed life that You have blessed them to live.

Father, we thank You. We pray that we may truly be blessings to this world, that we may truly be inspirations and examples for this world. Please, be with these families today. Please be with us here today and give us the strength as we leave and face our lives, face the new week with hope, Father, with optimism, with strength, and with perseverance.

Let us always be around the right type of people centering ourselves with faithful friends and a faith-filled community. Thank You so much. We thank You once again with an everlasting love, and a total gratitude. In our own names as blessed central families, we pray. Aju! (Aju!) 

The Power of Knowing

Hyung Jin Moon
August 23, 2008
Headquarters Church, Chungpadong, Seoul, Korea
Transcribed by: Nina Rosario and Cathy Quebral
Edited by: Bruno Klotz

Welcome Remarks:
Yeon Ah Nim:

Good Afternoon, brothers and sisters! (Good Afternoon)

It's a wonderful day to be in the presence of Heavenly Father and True Parents. We're always honored to have you in this sanctuary and for those who are joining with us via internet, we're also welcoming you as well.

Welcome brothers and welcome sisters!

Rev. Hyung Jin Nim:

Welcome brothers and sisters. Today I want to share with you from Cheon Seong Gyeong on page 490. Father says, "The parental heart seeks to protect children from harm and is concerned about them day and night. No matter how incompetent or lacking parents may be, if one of their children suffers from a disability, the parents' hearts are devastated to the point of breaking. If the situation is then resolved, the relief and joy are overwhelming in proportion to the original pain. If such is the heart of normal fallen parents, then what must be the heart of God? ".

True Father is really challenging us there, asking us to see and review the love that is exuded from God. When He looks at us, with what kind of eyes does He sees us?

Brothers and sisters, every time we start service it's always so important to always remember to review ourselves, to review our life. To see it with a new view; to see it with a whole new vision. When we look at ourselves, we must not look at ourselves with only our human eyes for we will notice people who are inadequate; we will notice people who have not yet actualized their full potential.

But if we see ourselves with our divine eyes, the eyes that look at ourselves from God's perspective, we will see somebody with tremendous value. We will see the potential, how will it be in the future, how that looks like when it blossoms. And it's so important for us to remember that when we look at ourselves from that viewpoint then we will be filled with confidence. We will see ourselves with ultimate value, divine value and unique value that is only special to us. We will see that God has given us special gifts and talents, that He has given us great potential and great blessings to share with this world.

Brothers and sisters, every time we come up to the service, we want look at ourselves with those eyes. We always want start by reviewing our lives like that, seeing it with a new perspective.

And let us not only come to observe service. Brothers and sisters, I want to invite you to give service today, singing with the choir, singing the songs of praises. Let that lift your spirit. Pray with us when we pray. When we're praying one on one, too, during the service, during that time it's our chance to pray for somebody else. To really be a friend, a brother or sister to another person who needs prayer, encouragement or light of hope in their lives.

Brothers and sisters, I invite you to take this opportunity not only to watch service but really to participate and really to help each other in the great building of the kingdom that we're doing here. It starts right from here, starts from our hearts. So let's do that today. Brothers and sisters, can we do it today? (Yes!) I believe it. I believe it!

Once again, welcome. Let's really participate today. Have a great service. Thank you.

Yeon Ah Nim's Message:

To me raising children is always challenging. From time to time I feel like I'm the worst parent in the world and I sometimes feel sorry for my children that I don't have enough experience or wisdom to raise them well. Then when I think about True Parents, they truly believe that God has a plan for every single child.

Brothers and sisters, let's not just hope for our children to be good people in this society but let us know that they will be great blessing in this world, in this society. Like my favorite Pastor always says to me -- my husband of course -- "If we do our best, God will do the rest!"

Brothers and sisters, we love you so much and we believe in you! Aju!

Hyung Jin's Interesting story:

I heard a little story about a surgery professor who passed away and went to heaven and he was before the pearly gates and talking to Saint Peter and he said, "St. Peter, could you let me in?" And St. Peter said, "Okay, but you have to first tell me some of your regrets, your sins." And so he said, "OK! When I just graduated in school, I became an intern at St. Lucas Hospital and we had a soccer match against the community hospital and we ended up beating them.

But you know what happened? The last goal that won the game, I actually shot it and I was off-sides but the referee didn't see it. So, because he didn't see it and I won the game for St. Lucas, I feel kind of regretful. I feel like that's kind of a sin. And St. Peter said, "Well, that's not that bad. That's fantastic. Come on in!" And then he said, "Wow, Thank you. That was very surprising St. Peter. Thank you so much." And the gate keeper said, "Oh, I'm actually not St. Peter, he's on a lunch break. I'm St. Lucas!" (Laughter)

Brothers and sisters, today I'd like to talk to you about the Power of Knowing. It's such an important thing if we want to live the blessed life to have hope in our lives. For it is said, "One can not have faith if one doesn't have hope." But if we truly are to live the blessed life then we have to go one step further. We can't only just hope for a better future, we have to go beyond this, from having hope for a better tomorrow, hope in ourselves, etc., to knowing that we will have a better tomorrow.

And this change in perspective from having hope and waiting for things to come, to knowing and expecting a better future, is one of the keys to living the VIP blessed life. And the real question is this: Are we believers or are we knowers? Do we believe that God will be good to us; that He will help us to overcome archangels, challenges and obstacles in our lives? Or are we confident, do we know He will? Are we hoping that God is going to do better things for our tomorrow and for our futures? Or do we know that He has a plan for each and everyone of us? Are we hoping and waiting for particular circumstances to be overcome or to pass? Or do you know that you'll overcome it with your potentials that God has given you?

See, Father during his speeches always challenges the crowd. He asks us, "Is God good?" And he asks the question, "Yes or no?" And many times members will say "Yes" but then he says, "When I said 'No' I meant KNOW." He's in fact asking us, "Are you just believing? If you just believe you'll say yes." But He's challenging us saying, "Do you know? Do you know God is good? Do you know that God is giving you the potential that you need to succeed in your life, to truly live victorious lives?"

See, it's such a difference, depending on the perspective that we hold in our mind; that little change in nuance, in perspective, opens up a whole new door way. See, it's kind of like this… many people in their life go through life thinking, "God, I hope my teacher will treat me well or my co-workers will treat me well or my boss will treat me well. I hope they will do that. After all I'm a Unificationist and still there's discrimination against Unificationists. Or other people will say, "You know, I hope I can be beautiful one day. I hope I can be good. I hope I can be magnificent or something." Or people will say, "I hope I can succeed in my life."

But we have to change that. We have to move from just hoping and waiting into knowing that God is providing us with a better opportunity. See, we have to have the confidence to say, " Not only I hope my teacher will be good to me", but, "I know my teacher will be good to me. I know that if I will be my best, God will do the rest. I know that one day, not only one day... I know that I am beautiful even without make-up." You have to declare that, sisters. It's not only, "I hope I'll be beautiful one day." You have to know it, have that confidence in your heart. We have to say in our hearts, "I know I'll be successful. God has given me tremendous potential for me to actualize. And I know that whatever I put my mind to, I can be successful at."

You have to listen to the confidence. What kind of speeches are you saying in your mind? What kind of dialogue are you having in your mind? We must not pass through life just by hoping that circumstances, that people and God will be good to us. We have to know that people want to be good to us. We have to know that circumstances want be good to us. We have to know that God wants to be good to us. Like the old sayings says, "If we do our best, God can fulfill the rest."

We must actually know and move towards those blessings, not just waiting for them to come, not just hoping for them to come but actively move towards them with the power of that confidence, with the power of the knowing... we'll move forward into those blessings.

I found out when I just hope in my life that I get very passive. I get very passive when I just think about hoping for a better tomorrow or a good deal that is coming about. And I ended up not doing my five percent. I remember, one of my biggest dreams when I was young, when I just finished high school was, I really wanted to prove to many people that I was smart. "I am smart! At least a little bit smart." When I was young, I never was a great student and I never could get the grade. I was a 1.6 percent average. It was not always fun at school. And always everybody would say, "Oh, he has got the low end of the gene pool when it comes to brains and academics."

I always felt insecure about that. One of my dreams was -- Father always encourages us to get into Harvard one day -- so one of my dreams was to do that. But I remember just coming out of high school. I was trying to get into Harvard. I was dreaming to get into Harvard. I applied and of course my grades were nowhere near possible, but I was waiting for a miracle. I was hoping with all my might, praying, praying everyday. But I was getting very passive. I wasn't doing the homework. I wasn't doing the things I needed to do to get myself to that level.

But when Young Jin hyung passed away... he had invested a year into me, one full year where he gave me everything that he learned. Everything, all his secrets and techniques for studying, all his exercises that he developed for getting better grades, etc. He gave me all that and he really invested a lot in me. And when he passed away, I started moving from just hoping in my heart, "One day I'm going to fulfill that dream" to knowing that I have a talent. He told me a million times that I have the talent to get in there, that I can prove other people wrong, that I can prove to people that say that I'll just be a janitor for the rest of my life, that I won't, that I will be better than that, that I will be doing something, that I'll be able to fulfill my dream.

And I know this was a smaller dream when I was young. At this point, there are dreams that we must always cultivate, develop and have new aspirations for the future. But when I was young this was a big one for me.

But when Young Jin Hyung passed, I had a situation in my life where I really had to face myself. And I said, "Enough is enough. I know I have the potential. He's invested one year into me. He's giving me everything that he knows to try to help me." And I just stopped hoping for God to do the 100% miracle. I just stopped hoping and waiting and I started working. I became certain in knowing that if God would do 95%, all I need to do is five percent. Just I need to finish it up. If I do my best, God will help me with the rest. That dream did come to pass. It did come to pass for me. I was able to attend. I was able to study there in that Institution and I'm very grateful for that and I return it back to Young Jin hyung.

When I think about the power of knowing, I think about the story of Job in the Biblical tradition. You may know the story. This is the story where Satan comes and confronts God, and he says, "You know what? I know you have a faithful servant Job but I bet You, I can break him. I bet You, I can make him turn on You and curse You." And God says, "I don't think so. My servant is very faithful. He's a wonderful servant. And he's very filled with faith. He would never betray me like that." And Satan said to Him, "I bet You, he will. Let me try." And so Satan goes ahead. He starts attacking Job. He destroys his possessions, his family, his resources, his wealth and takes it all away. And at the top of that, just to put the cherry on top of the icing, he gives him a whole bunch of diseases and sores.

Job is in a miserable situation, but Job never once cursed God. That's what the Scripture says. In the midst of hell, he not only had hope, he was certain that God was going to help him out, that God was going to move him forward into His plan. And in the end, what happened to Job? See, in the end, with that confidence, with that knowing power, God doubled his blessings. Twice the land, twice the resources, twice the family blessings, twice the health, etc. Job became one of the most wealthy in that land.

But looking at our circumstances, we may be tempted to say, "I can't make it through this. The future is an uncertain proposition. How am I ever going to move with certainty towards an uncertain proposition? I'll never make my way through these circumstances and situations. I'll never be healthy again just like Job or I'll never be successful. I reached my limit in my career, my limit in my academics, and my limit in my potentials. There's no hope for me. No hope. It's not going to get better than this."

But remember Job, in the story of Job, by his being confident in God's redemption, he got double blessing. In the end, the accuser was defeated.

For Job, in his life, things just got worse and worse and worse. First he lost his cattle, and then he lost a sheep in a fire. Then his camels were totally burned away. Then he lost his land, and all his family was killed in a house collapse. Then he got disease and boils. It all seemed like it was never going to turn around. Everyday seemed to be getting worse and worse.

But see, that's one of the secrets that this is going to teach us. One of the secrets is that in our life, when things seem to be getting worse, that's the archangel attacking you harder. Why? Because he knows you're about to break through to a new level of blessings. He knows you're about to actualize a new potential and he doesn't want you to get there. So he will attack you harder. When things in your life seem to begin to get worse, don't let that sap your confidence. Let it remind you that the archangel is getting nervous, he's getting scared, he's getting insecure and that's why he's putting those forces against you. If we go forward with that confidence, we will know that one day we will be closer to that double-blessing, just like Job. And God will bring us to a new fruition.

Brothers and sisters, a power lifter, a weight lifter, once told me this. He said, "The first thing you must do before power lifting a huge weight is absolutely know that you can power lift it." He told me, "Before you power lift, you have to visualize yourself power lifting that weight. You have to visualize and see yourself succeeding a thousand times, just like that "baby", lifting 350 pounds. Even if you fail, the next time you must have that confidence, 'I'm going to lift this thing!' You have to literally condition yourself to be so confident, to know absolutely that you will lift this weight. See, when trying to lift that weight, you have to pull with more power than that weight."

And life is very uncertain, it's like a very heavy weight. In order to lift it and use it to make you stronger, you have to pull with more power than that weight. And see, the archangel wants to test your strength. He wants to see how strong we are as Blessed Central Families. And this time in the Beijing Olympics, a Korean Olympian power lifter, Jang Mi-Ran -- she's a woman power lifter -- she won the gold medal and set a world record in Beijing last week: 186 kilos, that is 410 pounds that she pressed, as you can see. And what did she have to do? She had to power lift that weight, 410 pounds, with more power than the weight that she was holding.

And how do we lift uncertainty in our lives? We lift it by having the confidence in the person that God created us to be. By knowing and being certain that we can overcome, lift and be victorious for God, that we can power lift that weight for God.

Just like that Olympian power lifter, we will have to know that in our lives, when we face those heavy weights, those obstacles that really weigh us down, that we can power lift. We have to move from just hoping that we can lift the weight to knowing that we can lift the weight, that God has invested within us the power, the potential and the strength to be able to lift that weight. And if we will do, brothers and sisters, I know we will make that gold medal for our Blessed Central Families. Let's give it up for Blessed Central Families. Come on, give it up! (Big round of applause)

Speaking with Blessed Central Families during ministry, we have such a blessing and opportunity to meet some of our most amazing Blessed Central Families. And we did a family visit just a couple of weeks ago to one of our families. The father is a Japanese brother and the mother is a Korean sister. And he was telling us about his story, absolutely amazing. He came from a very successful family in his home. But as soon as he joined the church, his mother and father passed away very quickly. And he joined and he had an inheritance that he gained from his parents. But he gave it away to his church brothers and sisters. He gave it away to struggling families. And he got so persecuted at that time. His relatives started cursing him and saying, "You, why did you give all the inheritance to these people? Are you insane, etc.?"

Even, at the time, there was media coverage that was so negative against the movement in our Japanese Church. But even in the midst of all that negativity, this brother went forward and he got the blessing. And he was blessed to a Korean sister and they had to make a living. He was telling us that at one point in their lives she was in Korea working at a laundromat and he was in Japan trying to find work. She had two children that she had to take care of as well as try to earn a living, and he was trying to send money from Japan to support the family.

And she said that one day she visited him in Japan. And she saw him sneaking out at night. And she was very disturbed, "Why he's sneaking out at night?" She eventually followed him out one day and she saw him putting on a one piece suit, a one piece suit, like a jump suit, nearer to the building, walking to that building. She walked closer and she saw her husband in the building, cleaning and sweeping the floor. He got a job as a janitor. And when she saw that, she told us how she broke down. She just cried and cried. She couldn't bear to see her husband like that. She knew it was so difficult. She knew that now the relatives would say, "Look, you amounted to nothing! What has being in the Unification Church done for you? Look at you, you really lost it all. You lost your mind." But see, in the midst of all that, this brother, Akihiro San -- I'll give you his name, Akihiro San -- he stepped forward with certainty. He said, "I know I will be successful. I know I will make way through this. I'm not going to give up now. I'm going to do my five percent."

At the time, like I explained, the persecution was so severe. It was at the level that most of our brothers and sisters in Japan had to hide their rings. As you know, the Unification ring that we wear, they had to turn it around so that you only see the bottom which looks like a marriage band. They had to turn around the symbol because if anybody saw it, they would be persecuted, they would be harassed, they would be discriminated against. And all the members, most of the membership, was doing that, turning around their rings. But he told us how in the midst of that persecution, even though the other people were turning around their rings, he wore his ring with pride. He turned it around and showed that Unification Church symbol with pride. Brothers and sisters, let's give it up to Akihiro San! Let's give it up!

You see, he had confidence in who he was, whom God made him to be. He knew that God was providing a better future for him. He of course had to battle doubt at times, but he moved from just hoping and waiting to knowing with certainty that God will provide for him. But what happened? Things were getting worse for him. They were being attacked constantly by his relatives. The financial situation was so tough and even the neighbors were discriminating against them.

One day he told how he was talking on the phone with his wife. She was again in Korea, he was in Japan, and she was breaking down, weeping and saying, "I can't do this anymore. I can't take care of the kids and work 20-hour a day and trying to make enough money for us to survive at the laundromat. I can't do this anymore. I'm going to give up. I'm going to quit." And he told her with weeping eyes, "Honey, please trust me. I will succeed one day. I will make you a queen. Believe in me. Please believe in me." He begged her. He implored her. (Laughing)

She realized, not at that point but in retrospect, how amazing he was. Here he was in a situation where he could have been totally defeated. He could have been totally lost. He could have given up and said, "I'm at the mercy of this situation." And he could have fallen into depression. He could have been discouraged, depressed and like many people, he could have gone into drinking or substance abuse. That is how she said it.

But see, he was a warrior and he says that he came from a lineage of samurai. So he said, "This is not going to stop me." He said, "I'm a warrior and I'm not only going to be a hoper. I'm going to be a knower in God's goodness. I'm going to know with certainty, with confidence, that God is going to provide for me."

What happened, brothers and sisters? Today Akihiro San is the CEO of his own company, selling Japanese manufactured machines to Korean companies, and even though the Korean economy is slow, God is continuing to bless him even in this down slumping economy. Give it up for Akihiro San! Give it up! (Clapping)

When we just visited them we saw they're just a wonderful family. Just incredible. Just wonderful. And he was so certain in his heart that God will make a way for him and God did.

See, personally, I have to give thanks to this man. I have to personally recognize him. Because of Akihiro San, when I listened to his story, I realized, "Wait a minute, I'm a minister and I'm not even wearing my Unification ring. What kind of craziness is that?!"

When we got married, we just wore the rings that True Parents got us. But I thought, "Wait a minute. This man is stepping up. He's been proud of who he is. He's stepping up and owning that Unification pride. And you know what? I have got to do the same." He inspired me and my wife to wear our Unification rings with pride. Not only backward, brothers and sisters, but forward. We wear it to this day. Let's give it up for Akihiro San. One more time. (Clapping)

Every time we have that kind of victory, that's a gold medal win for our Unification Church team. That's like the Beijing Olympics, bigger than the Beijing Olympics. He is like winning a gold medal for us. It's so important to know that when we look at our Unification Church Community that we are an amazing community. If we're not going to be proud of who we are, nobody else is going to be proud of who we are.

If we're not going to step up and say, "I'm proud of the church that I belong to. I'm proud of the tradition and the heritage to which I belong," nobody else will. It's so important that we as Unificationists come forward and not hide who we are, but really be proud of who we are. And no longer can we just hope that people will recognize us. We have to move one step further like I was talking about living the blessed life. We can't just hope for their recognition We have to know that we will be recognized, we have to know that we will have something to say. We have to know that people will see the value of the Unification Family.

Just like Akihiro San, we have to know that God guiding us, that He is going to help us find our path to shine. And just like that old phrase says -- we said it many times during this service, "If we do our best God can fulfill the rest." See, God delights in seeing each one of our family members shine. He delights in seeing us succeed, bringing glory back to Him. And whether we see it or not, God has already prepared 95% of our destinies, just like Akihiro San in his own life.

All we have to do is to fulfill that last five percent. And that begins not just by hoping for a better future and waiting, it begins by knowing, by being confident that God is on our side, that He has given us the potential, the talents, the resources that we will need to move and fulfill those dreams and to really allow this Unification family shine. Brothers and sisters, one more time, give it up for Unification Church Family. (Clapping) That is our team.

Brothers and sisters, what can we learn today? What can we learn? Having hope is an essential component of having faith. If we don't have hope, we can't have faith. From the Biblical tradition we know, "Faith is believing in things that are unseen." In other words, we have to hope for those things, believe in those things. But in order to live the blessed life, we have to go one more step beyond just hoping and waiting. We have to go to the realm of knowing, from being a believer to being a knower in God's goodness. We have to move from just hoping to knowing, not only hoping that God is on our side, not only hoping that He wants to be good to us, but knowing that He has done the 95%. All we need to do is that remaining five percent.

Whenever it looks like it is getting worse, we have to remember, like Job, that that's the clearest sign that the archangel is getting scared. He's trying to get us down. He's trying to get us discouraged and falling to despair, so that we give up on ourselves, on our families and on our potential.

When the archangel tries to intimidate you with a big weight, put a smile on your face, take a deep breath, "I'm alive, thank you. I breathe it out, I'm thanking you." Remember that you are a VIP and let's power lift that weight for the gold. Let's not only hope that the world will recognize our Unification Church family. We have to move from just hoping to knowing that our Unification Church family will be recognized. Remember, if we be our best God will do the rest. And as an Olympian said, "If we be bold, God will help us get the gold.”

Brothers and sisters, we have to wear our Unification Church symbol with pride. just like Akihiro San, who wore his ring with pride. He wore his choice, his decision with pride and he did not shy away from that. And I believe that if we can do that, if we can move forward with that kind of confidence, knowing, not only hoping, that God wants to help us, but knowing that He does, we will find ourselves with more Victory, more Illumination and more Peace. And God will allow us live that blessed family life that True Parents have blessed us to live.

Brothers and sisters, one more time, if you will receive this message, let's give it up for True Parents. Give it up for True Parents! Give it up! (Clapping)