Husband: I was born in the United States but soon moved to Japan. I spent my kindergarten life in Japan. In stayed in Japan for half of first grade and then moved to Korea because of my dad's job. Our family lived here for about fifteen years, so I pretty much spent my whole life until high school in Korea. Now, I'm in the United States for university, college. It's been four years now; I'm still working on my English.
Question: How about your bride? Did you grow up in Japan?
Wife: I'm Japanese. I grew up in Japan and both my parents are Japanese.
Question: How did you meet each other?
Husband: Through the second-generation matching web site. I had uploaded my profile. She had her profile on the Japanese side and mine was in the U.S. part, but I thought it was an international thing.
Somehow, her parents called my dad. My dad talked to the parents and then asked me about it. He told me that some Japanese family was interested.
I had been about to take down my profile. I told him I was not interested at that moment. I was about to refuse but my dad asked me to pray about it. I did pray. I do not personally want to say that this was God speaking to me, but the answer was yes. Somehow, the feeling was Okay, let's try this.
Because of hearing about couples breaking up, my motivation was dead at that moment, but after I prayed, I thought, Why not? Let's try this. I got her number and I contacted her. As soon as she answered she seemed happy to have me. I mean, at that time, we were not matched, but as soon as I talked to her, I had a feeling like, hmmm... This is interesting. I felt a different energy just from her voice. Now, it's been five months, six months. At that time, we spoke through Skype only. Until two days ago, we had never met.
Question: Just a few days.
Husband: Yeah. We only talked through Skype. We talked once a week for four hours.
Question: Four hours?
Husband: Yes. Every week for four hours.
Question: Who paid the electric bill?
Husband: I mean, it's Skype, you know, so... She's busy, really busy. I'm kind of busy, too, but I was very happy to speak to her once a week.
Question: What language do you communicate in?
Husband: I can speak Japanese.
Question: You remembered since kindergarten?
Husband: My mom taught me since then, after we moved to Korea during summer vacations. Man! I had to stay in the house even though I didn't want to. But she kept me in and I had to learn it. I'm very thankful to my mom now. I'm also grateful to True Parents and God for protecting us from temptation coming from outside. I had a hard time but I'm glad I kept my purity and am able to attend this Blessing Ceremony.
Question: If you say something in Japanese, we'll translate it.
Wife: When I saw his picture the first time, he looked gentle, but I was surprised that he was black -- half black. But the way he speaks, I don't feel as if I'm talking to a foreigner at all. I felt he is very friendly. At first it was difficult to have a conversation but little by little I felt he was friendly. It became enjoyable for me to talk to him.