Witnessing/Networking Strategies

According to the Institute for Executive Development, the most successful people invest at least 54% of their time networking.

Following are seven tested steps in the process of maximizing every networking opportunity:

1. Write out your ideal goal.

Before you go into a networking situation, write down the goal you would like to accomplish, i.e.: How many new people would you like to meet? With how many friends and acquaintances would you like to renew communication? Name as many as possible.

2. Keep yourself inspired and service-oriented.

Write down key points: Why are you excited about your product, service or ideas? What can it do for your potential contacts? Be authentically enthusiastic.

3. Know the uniqueness of your ideas and communicate this.

Characterize the uniqueness of your ideas in writing. Rehearse this so that when you get an opportunity to speak about your ideas, you can be brief and clear. Always leave your listeners with a definite impression about what's in it for them.

4. Listen more effectively.

Take complete responsibility for understanding what others say. Ask good questions and actually listen to the answers. Demonstrate a genuine interest and concern for the other person. Give him or her your undivided attention while he or she is speaking. Help the other person feel their value.

5. Be a resource for others.

Be a resource for others and ask them to be a resource for you. Try to create a positive situation for the person with whom you are speaking by connecting him or her with a beneficial third person or by offering a piece of information, etc.

6. Debrief after each meeting.

Review the conversations you had with the people you met. Make notes on how to take even better advantage of your witnessing opportunities.

7. Follow up.

Follow up in every appropriate way. Send handwritten notes. Keep your promises. Maintain a high level of integrity and reliability.

What's A Nice Jewish Girl Doing In A Place Like This??

by Edy Iverson

When I was nine years old, I would watch the news and weep. It was during Vietnam. It was so painful...too painful. I remember distinctly asking my father, "Why??? Why are we fighting???" I was so agonized. Something inside me told me war was so wrong, yet what could I do about it at the ripe old age of nine?

My father said, "There is nothing you can do about it; you'll never change the whole world, so don't even try." Somehow I never believed him. Something in my heart said we can change the world or at least we can try. And I did try, every way I knew how.

When I was a teen, I wanted to work with autistic children. I felt that type of work had meaning. I could reach people who were cut off from the world and do something meaningful with my life. By the time I was 18, my interests changed from psychology to law.

If I were a lawyer, I could change the unfair laws, fight for the rights of the weak and poor, and change the world through politics. I was living in San Francisco at the time, where I marched, organized and activized till I was blue in the face...all the while having the best intentions to save America and the world. Yet, the world situation only seemed to get worse.

In the process of "fighting the good fight," I became very hardened, tough and callous. I became insensitive to those suffering around me, as I focused to accomplish my "great goal" to help mankind.

Many of my friends were "into" religion of every type-Eastern, Western, Christianity, Buddhism, etc. Yet I couldn't believe what they believed. I saw too much hypocrisy in religious groups. Also, I felt religion was a crutch for weak people. My biggest barrier towards religion was that I couldn't understand why God would allow people to suffer so deeply (like the Jews during the Holocaust). Also, I felt if these people were truly religious, why do they leave everything to God and not take responsibility for the problems of the world? No one could explain that to me.

On a lark, I went to visit my identical twin sister Betsy, who had been living in Hawaii for the past three years. I was amazed at the kind of person she had become, spiritually. She walked around Hawaii in a sarong like Dorothy Lamour, but her heart had become so beautiful. I remember looking at her and then reflecting on what I had become. She had become so spiritually beautiful and I had become so hard and selfish. She never said a word to me; all she did was serve me unconditionally...but seeing her moved my hardened heart.

Hawaii was truly a spiritual experience. Something changed in my heart. I began to see and experience people from a completely different viewpoint. Many people call this a conversion experience. Somehow, God opened my heart to see where I was really at and after that I would never be the same. It is almost impossible to explain. It is like an experience you have after it rains. Everything appears so fresh and new and pure. That is the only way I can explain it.

When I returned to my beautiful Victorian flat in San Francisco, I was a different person. I realized that I could never change the world without changing myself first. That in order to have a loving, ideal world, I must become a loving, ideal person. I realized that the kingdom of heaven is not outside of us, but rather it is inside of me. That changing the laws will not change America, but changing myself will. And that truly was my beginning.

Within a couple of weeks, my sister came to San Francisco to stay with me. One day while walking down the street she met a teacher named Erin Bouma who invited us to a program at the Unification Church. My sister asked if I would go with her, which I did.

During the program, there was singing and wonderful music. The people were warm, friendly and totally unpretentious. The majority of them were professional, quite educated, yet unusually kind. The speaker was Dr. Mose Durst, then a professor at Laney College in Oakland (and today Chairman of the Board of Trustees of the Unification Church in America).

He was charming, brilliant and eloquent. He talked about all the ideals I had been working towards my whole life. I was shocked that someone so brilliant could be so loving and warm. My experience with most intellectuals was that they tended to be somewhat narrow and cold...yet he was so different. I also met many other wonderful people, who were also very intelligent, yet quite warm and kind. I was impressed.

Dr. Durst asked us to come participate in a weekend seminar in "Booneville". Because Betsy was working, the next weekend I went up by myself and heard Rev. Moon's teachings, "The Divine Principle." Though I still didn't believe in God, when I heard the history lecture I was astonished. I had studied many religious texts, philosophy books, psychology books, etc., yet nothing could explain history and the suffering of mankind like the Divine Principle, not even the Bible. To this day, nothing surpasses the Divine Principle when it comes to explaining the questions of the Bible and life in general.

Though I wouldn't have considered myself a joiner, and tended to be rather independent and willful, I was thoroughly impressed with the teachings of Rev. Moon. But even more than that, I was impressed by the goodness and genuine caring of the Unification Church members.

In the past, I had worked with everyone from lawyers and doctors to feminists and communists, Christians, Jews, etc., yet somehow everyone lacked the type of heart that these extraordinary people seemed to possess. Also, I found people from every race, religion and political background living harmoniously as a family. This was astounding to me.

Morally, I was amazed that men and women could live together as brothers and sisters, with love and respect, abstaining from sex until marriage. It was so liberating to me during a time in history when promiscuous sex was commonplace.

I had to find out what really made these unique people tick.

When I returned from my experience in Booneville, a number of good friends tried to talk me out of returning there. Their words meant nothing to me, because I saw for myself what the church members were really like and what they really believed. The proof of the pudding was in the eating, to me, or as Jesus put it, "You shall know them by their fruits."

I feel I was probably the most skeptical, analytical member ever to join the Unification community, asking hundreds of questions about Rev. Moon and the church. I had to know everything. I could not be wishy-washy. I decided at the time that I would find out more and see if "creating an ideal world" was worth working for. That was in September 1976.

20 years on

Here I am, almost twenty years later. The ideal world is still yet to come. But I realize now that it begins with each of us. The world will change when we change. The world will become more loving when we learn to love. The world will become a place of peace when we become peaceful. We must start from the inside out, not the other way around.

Jesus was only one man, but his love changed the world. Gandhi was only one man, but his love changed a nation. Martin Luther King was only one man, but he liberated history and an entire race through love. Rev. Moon and his wife and their thirteen children are just one family; but a family centered on True Love is powerful. True Love is the most powerful force on earth and in heaven. Nothing in the cosmos can stop it.

For years now people have been trying to stop Rev. Moon. The government, bigoted narrow-minded religious leaders, communists, atheists-yet "love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things and endures all things; love never ends."

Jesus was crucified, yet every day through his teachings people give up their bad habits and miserable lives and learn to love. You can kill a person, but you cannot kill love. You can try to bury it, distort it, profane it and deny it, but True Love will always resurface time and time again.

It is the hope upon hope of every living human being to find true love, whether expressed or unexpressed. People search their whole lives for it. They go to beautiful places in Tibet to meditate or marry five spouses trying to find it.

But it is not something outside of us-it exists within us. We must end our search for love outside ourselves and begin the journey within. As Dorothy learned after following the yellow brick road, there is no place like home. We all have the potential to become True Lovers, but it is not easy.

It takes tremendous patience, endurance, intense self-reflection, meditation or prayer, and most of all: action. Becoming a person of True Love means to love when it hurts to love, when you get nothing in return, when a person is not worthy of love. It's easy to love a loving person. The hard part is loving a selfish, mean and nasty person. However, that is where you grow.

Recently, Rev. Moon went to North Korea, his homeland, where he had been imprisoned by the communists forty years ago. When he met with Pres. Kim Il Sung, one of the most feared and hated leaders of our time, he physically embraced him and told him about true love. Rev. Moon and Mrs. Moon visited with Pres. Gorbachev and embraced him with true love. When Rev. Moon was unjustly imprisoned for two years in Danbury, the prisoners at first teased, made fun of and persecuted him. When he left, however, finally, the prisoners wept. Never before had they met a truly "religious" man. He digested their taunts with love and served them more than his own children. The most hardened criminals cried when he left.

True love cannot be denied, stopped, squashed or incarcerated.

Recently I had dinner with a very prominent Jewish doctor from New York, who at one time treated patients on Fifth Avenue. Now semi- retired, he treats minority patients in a methadone clinic in Brooklyn. He couldn't believe that I was still "such an idealist."

I admired him for his wonderful, caring heart, but even he said, "It's already too late for them; they are ruined." Still, he continues to give because something inside of him believes that in some way he can bring goodness to this society. Even the most cynical of us all, somewhere buried deep inside, wants to believe in an ideal world, true love and the Kingdom of God on earth...yet how many are willing to build it? Those who try only get persecution-so, why bother?

Because: so long as the heart can hope, as the long as the vision can be seen, as long as God still believes, we must believe. Every dreamer, visionary and prophet throughout history has suffered and been laughed at, and Rev. Moon is certainly no exception. The only difference is that there are those who never give up. Their vision sooner or later becomes reality...and indeed, so will Rev. Moon's. It is just a matter of time...and love...because I am quite sure Rev. Moon is one man who never shall give up!

Thank You Nightline

by Peter Ross-NYC

On October 5, the remains of almost fifty people were found in the smoldering ruins of several farmhouses in Cheiry and Granges-sur- Salvan in northern Switzerland. Two other people died in a home at Morin Heights, Quebec. All of the dead are reported to have been associated with an organization, the Order of the Solar Temple. Because of the tenuous religious nature of this group, the public did not have to wait before the quacks and "cult experts" jumped on the band-wagon. Incidents such as these are the grist for those who have chosen a career path as "ghost-busters."

It was surprising though that ABC News, and in particular Nightline, provided such charlatans with the runway to pout and strut their stuff. For Ted Koppel to entertain Cynthia Kisser, executive director of the Cult Awareness Network (CAN) and Steve Hassan, of Hassan Hassan, and more Hassan, as part of a panel to review the events in Switzerland was entirely misplaced and the result of some very poor research. Neither Kisser or Hassan added anything to the subject-at- hand or to the discussion between Koppel and a reporter from Canada on the Order of the Solar Temple. Kisser outlined how she would go about introducing Ted to her imagined "cult." She concluded her presentation with a dour lobbying effort for more funding and resources to be provided to her industry. Too bad the Clinton health care legislation failed to produce the goods Cynthia. Now you'll probably have to go back to work!

To the evident surprise of his host, Hassan took a significant detour from the topic at hand. Without solicitation, he embarked upon an attack on Mrs. Arianna Huffington (wife of Republican Senate candidate, Michael Huffington) for some prior association with a California-based self-improvement/spiritual group. With his hot-air balloon on a quick descent after Ted's rejoinder for clarification after a commercial break, Hassan hastened to salvage himself by referencing his fleeting association with the UC. (This in fact is the only item on Hassan's business card that garners him any attention from a gullible press). Confident that his awkward opener was now under the carpet, Hassan benevolently issued an advisory to Koppel's discriminating viewers: if you think you are not vulnerable to mind- control techniques, you are vulnerable. His concluding remarks were an attack on the Jehovah's Witnesses. All in a night's work for Steve! But more on him in next month's Unification News.

Other than the comedy provided by Hassan falling ass-backwards over himself (who else can better trip up Steve than Steve?) and Cynthia Kisser's Al Gore impersonations, this program was probably one that Ted was pleased to see close. However, for Unificationists around the country watching one of America's last proponents of journalistic integrity on any of the major networks, Ted's introduction to Hassan as having "been formerly associated with the Moonies" caused consternation. This after all was not Moonwatch or Cultic Studies Journal. This was Nightline!

Throughout the following day, October 6, Unificationists from all across the country phoned the Nightline studios in Washington, DC, to protest Koppel's use of the term "Moonie" and to insist on an apology. Nightline's DC office acknowledged receiving over 300 calls, while local ABC affiliates received hundreds more. In conversation, one of Koppel's staff members commented how gracious and polite each caller had been while registering their complaint and requesting an apology.

In passing, it is instructive to recall that some of America's best social commentators have recently written about the loss of civility in contemporary society. Symptomatic of this regression is the polarization and radicalization of social discourse, so much so in fact, that there is no longer any middle ground upon which to construct any social consensus. DMZ's are drawn up all too readily thereby postponing the promise of reconciliation to some distant date.

However amidst the din and rancor, this interchange between the Unification community and Ted Koppel's staff was a very refreshing and very reassuring happening. A community felt offended and outraged because of a particular abuse. And so they protested. Yet, they did so while conducting themselves in a "polite" manner. Upon receiving their calls Nightline's staff reciprocated with civility and empathy. In distinctive voice, Ted Koppel's gracious and unequivocal apology on Nightline, on the evening of October 6, (not to mention his flawless pronunciation of the Reverend Moon's full name!) concluded this dynamic in a very fitting way.

After 40 years, the Unification community has come of age and has now expanded to its third generation. This has occurred accompanied by great, perhaps unequaled, controversy. And yet despite the extent of scrutiny by the press, so little is in fact really known by many Americans of who or what a Unificationist really is. In this regard, the contribution of ABC News, Ted Koppel and the staff at Nightline will not be forgotten.

Poised for Greatness

by Kate Tsubata
Kirov Academy Staff

The year 1994 has been filled with excitement and challenges for the Kirov Academy of Ballet. With the plans underway for the joint tour of "The Nutcracker" with the St. Petersburg-based Kirov Ballet to take place in November and December, it looks like the year will conclude with a flourish.

This "Nutcracker" tour builds on the foundation created last year in which the Kirov Academy students danced together with the Kirov Ballet in Panama City, Florida, New Orleans, Louisiana, and Mexico City.

This year, the stunning production will be presented in Detroit, Michigan, Miami Beach, Florida and San Jose, California.

The 80-member cast performs the unabridged, original choreography and music that was first presented a century ago in imperial Russia. The story of the nutcracker doll presented to a little girl at a Christmas party, who magically comes to life and leads her through marvelous adventures, is one that no family can resist. Critics last year raved about the precise choreography, dreamlike sets, sumptuous costumes and impeccable technique of the production.

Although having children dance in "The Nutcracker" is a tradition as old as the ballet itself-even the debut featured students and adult dancers together-the training of the Kirov Academy students allows them to dance the roles normally reserved for featured solo dancers. Since school began, the students have already been rehearsing their roles-and many have four or five roles in the performance. It is a rare opportunity for students aged 12 to 20 to be able to dance side by side with the premiere professional dancers of the finest Russian tradition.

It is no accident, however, that the Kirov Academy students are capable of taking on such an ambitious project. Since the school's inception in 1990, under the name "Universal Ballet Academy," it has been teaching the world-renowned Vaganova ballet technique to talented students drawn from all over the world. Under the leadership of Artistic Director Oleg Vinogradov and his wife, Deputy Artistic Director Yelena Vinogradova, the faculty have worked hard to cultivate the students' mastery of the Kirov technique and its extensive classical repertoire.

This ballet tradition produced the most-noted ballet stars of our lifetime: Rudolf Nureyev, Mikhail Baryshnikov, Natalia Makharova, George Balanchine, and such current premier dancers as Andris Liepa, Yulia Makhalina and many more.

At a recent performance in June, the Kirov Academy invited six of the current students to perform.

Wrote Pamela Squires of The Washington Post: "On Saturday, the 67- student academy held its spring concert and opened its doors to the public for the first time. And an impressive performance it was-from the finely molded students who performed classroom exercises and selections to the guest artists from the Kirov Ballet who came here specially for this event.... The students have absorbed the [Vaganova] style with ardent commitment."

Not only has the school as a whole won recognition as one of the foremost dance academies in the nation, but individual students are garnering first place in competitions with their counterparts all over the world. This has virtually put to rest the former suspicion and resistance which the school faced previously.

"The artistic product which this academy turns out," remarked Executive Director Jeffrey Benson, "ranks, by all objective accounts, among the finest in the world. Everyone who has worked to bring this about can be very proud."

In addition to the successes of the "Legacy" performance, the individual honors given to the students, and the current accomplishments being made in the "Nutcracker" tour, the Kirov Academy has been able to send students to top academic schools, thanks to its excellent in-house academic program. The students are learning a full academic curriculum, including a choice of French or Russian as their foreign language.

Personal Health - Empower The Mind, Cleanse The Body

by William L. Bergman, M.D.

Over the course of the last ten years we have learned an incredible amount about the health and aging process. Extensive research has been conducted into the effects of diet, life styles, exercise and biochemical supplements on the aging process. For the first time, science can realistically envision productive quality life spans exceeding 100 years.

Up until this point, the growth in the average life span has been the result of improvements is disease treatment, agriculture and, to some extent, the process of natural selection.

Now, for the first time, we find ourselves in a position to exercise significant control over the quality and span of our lives by controlling our mental attitude, diet and lifestyle, and by properly using certain biochemical supplements.

Recent advances in medical research have created a growing belief that the `natural' mental and physical decline associated with human aging can be significantly delayed and in some cases, actually reversed.

From a unified medical perspective, health is a state of harmony of mind and body centered on natural law. The greatest health challenge facing us on the physical level is our capacity to eliminate toxins; our greatest challenge on the psychological level is our ability to cleanse "emotional toxins" and maintain a resourceful mental attitude that allows to grow and move forward to realize our goals.

This article introduces important practical concepts related to the issue of cleansing the body.

In the second part of this article, the concept of empowering the mind will be more fully developed.

The growing problem of toxicity

Over the last few decades, mankind has drastically altered the chemistry of our environment. In 1989 alone, more than 1 million pounds of chemicals were released into the ground, affecting the soil in which we grow our food and the natural underground tables that supply some of our drinking water. Greater than 2.4 billion pounds of chemical emissions were released into the air, and an estimated 188 million pounds of chemicals were discharged into lakes and rivers.

Complicating this problem of toxic environment, we have refined away a great portion of the nutritional value of our foods, and have substituted a great abundance of artificial flavorings, preservatives, colorings, conditioners, etc. Many scientists are concerned with the over utilization of antibiotics and hormones in the food supply, along with the routine use of both over-the-counter and prescription medications which inundate our society.

The disturbance created to the natural order, and the dysfunction established within our own digestive tracts, allow unhealthy microorganisms to overtake the system, producing toxic by-products which increase the toxicity of our organs and tissues.

In spite of this distressing reality, the good news is that our bodies are incredibly resilient; given the right context and conditions, based on personal lifestyle choices we make each day, we can ensure that we and our families do not succumb to the adverse affects of toxicity. This involves learning what we need to know to help protect our bodies from toxicity and to develop the motivation to modify our behavior and develop a healthy pattern of living.

On a practical level, do as much as you can within reason to purify your work and home environments: if possible, remove any stored or leaking chemicals, solvents, glues, acids, paints, dyes, insecticides or cleaning agents. An effective air purifier can help in areas where you cannot remove the offending substances. When using any toxic materials, wear protective clothing or breathing apparatus. Replacing furnace and air conditioning filters may also be helpful.

It is extremely important to eat plenty of fresh whole foods and to cut way down on excess fat, refined sugars and carbohydrates, and foods high in additives and preservatives. Substitute organically- grown fruits and vegetables and organically-raised animals as much as possible. Be sure to drink at least eight 8-oz. glasses of pure water every day; a home water filtering system is very important if you are using water from the tap, or if you are unsure of the source of bottled waters in your area.

Support your body's efforts

Since there is a limit to what you can do to reduce the amount of toxins you and your family are exposed to, it is vitally important to periodically conduct a cleansing and detoxification program for both yourselves and your children.

Adults can use a combination of specially-designed biological programs in addition to deeper-acting homeopathic cleansing formulas; for children, the homeopathic formulas are usually sufficient and can have dramatic effects on the health of your child.

For adults, it was formerly believed that a water or juice fast was the preferred detoxification program. (We are talking here, of course, about health benefits for the physical body; not the issue of the benefits of fasting as a spiritual discipline). This was based in the belief that the body will be able to clear stored toxins and heal itself when the "stress" of digestion and the further accumulation of new toxins were eliminated. The results of modern scientific research on the subject indicates that the body's detoxification apparatus (especially involving a two-phase process in the liver) is a heavily nutrient-supported process that requires specific nutritional supplementation to avoid protein loss from muscles and various organs, and disturbance of metabolic activity during a cleansing/detoxification program (see illustration)

Based on these findings, a more current approach to detoxification is to nourish the body fully, promoting and enhancing its natural detoxification mechanisms with the nutrients needed to achieve optimum cleansing activity. By providing high-quality protein, complex carbohydrates and essential fats through specially-formulated products, the body gets what it needs to prevent muscle and organ breakdown and depleted energy resources during the detoxification phase. In addition, nutrients can be provided which are specifically needed to support the function of the organs directly involved in detoxification: the liver, the intestinal tract and the kidneys.

For children, and for adults to compliment the above metabolic- clearing program, a number of specialized homeopathic formulations have been designed which specifically promote the deeper clearing and elimination of toxins from within and between the cells of the tissues.

For example, a 2,000-page report published recently by the Environmental Protection Agency concluded that dioxin levels in the fatty tissues of Americans who consume meat, fish. eggs and dairy products pose significant health risks. These include elevated incidence of cancer, disruption of the immune and hormonal systems, sexual abnormalities and stunted fetal growth. Dioxins are released by industrial processes, settle in soil and waterways, and accumulate in animal tissues. The conclusions are based on an exhaustive three-year review of dozens of medical studies. By utilizing a homeopathically prepared version of dioxin which is completely non-toxic, the body is stimulated to remove and cleanse this toxin from the tissues of adults and children. These products are available only through doctor's and are not sold in health food stores, pharmacies or through network marketing distributors.

If your child is already visiting doctors frequently, has taken antibiotics or vaccinations, seems to have low resistance to ear infections or colds, a professionally supervised homeopathic cleansing program can make a significant difference in your child's health and well-being.

If your child is healthy, such a program on a preventive basis from time to timer can ensure that their good health will continue and increase.

For more information on the programs referred to above & to receive a health assessment questionnaire, or to arrange an appointment or seminar program in your community, please contact the World Medical Health Foundation's Health Education and Resource Center at 481 8th Avenue, Suite 721 or call us at 212 947-1777.

Our Ancestors

UViews October
by Tyler Hendricks

Geneological research is very popular now. Twenty years ago very few Americans were interested in their ancestors in a serious way. Today the situation is different. Two years ago my parents were contacted by a man who introduced himself as their distant relative; a man whose name--Joel Hutto--they had never heard.

They were skeptical at first, but he won their confidence by displaying great knowledge of our family, at least of our ancestors. He knew when my great-grandparents had moved to California, and who had married whom, and the names of their children and where they had lived and why they had died. He knew where my parents were born and more about my father's family than my father knows. A common base was made, based upon blood kinship.

Early this summer I received an invitation from Joel Hutto to attend the first ever Hendricks family reunion. He pulled together about 80 distant relatives, descendants of Robert and Mary Hendricks who came from Virginia in the early 1700s, were married in what is now Alabama before the American revolution, and not much more than that is known.

At that reunion there was an instant comaraderie. When my family arrived, Joel came out to greet us, grinned a sheepish grin, as if to say, "Well, this is who I am, I hope you're not disappointed." Blood is thicker than water.

Everywhere in America, family reunions and geneological research are growing at a fast pace. People are searching for community; searching for their roots and place in history. One of our earliest American blessed brothers, Wesley Samuels, is working on a family reunion to include some 1,000 people.

Americans are saying, slow down, enough of this atomization, enough of this fragmentation. Blood ties; blood lineage. Families looking for their tribes. Why is this happening now? Spiritually, it is the Completed Testament Age. Horizontally, more and more people are realizing that you lose more than you gain by individualism. The few holdouts are getting more powerful, many holding high government positions, and at the same time more and more zany, based upon the premise of radical individualism. To wit, I quote from a current tome entitled The Sacrament of Abortion:

"When the Artemis myth manifests itself in our lives, it can be recognized by a sense of no longer belonging to a group, a couple, or a family; it represents a movement away from . . . fusion with others, the most extreme example of fusion being the connection between a mother and her young children. . . . Our culture needs new rituals as well as laws to restore to abortion its sacred dimension." (Ginette Paris, The Sacrament of Abortion:, quoted by Jeffrey Burke Satinover, in "Jungians and Gnostics", First Things, October, 1994, p. 48.)

American Freedoms

The contemporary understanding of "freedom", enshrined by our courts working out the logic of the Constitution in the midst of complex social questions and a prohibition against reference to religion, is one of rather recent vintage. It favors the ability to choose as the highest value (in distinction to the matter of what it is one chooses). It favors privacy over public life. The individual is, for himself, the standard against which all things are measured. By "the individual," we mean any particular human being, not an abstract entity. Justice is defined as that which is fair to me in light of my particular circumstances. Each is autonomous, a world unto themselves. Do your own thing, in other words, and get off my case (or: "get off my cloud," as the Rolling Stones, arch-angels of our worst nature, sang thirty years ago).

In the words of Alan L. Mittleman, of the Muhlenberg College Religion Deparment, "The theme of autonomy has been of defining significance for modernity. . . . Despite all of the modern talk of loneliness and alientation, the modern soul shrinks from attachments that are not of its own choosing. The modern soul, as Edward Shils put it, has a dread of metaphysical encumbrances. . . ." ("The Modern Jewish Condition", Alan L. Mittleman, First Things, October 1994, p. 30).

Apparently, many of us are growing tired of this separation from each other. Millions escape the separation through sports, where crowds mount unified cheers and groans following the fortunes of their team. Others utilize intoxicants and become party animals of various species and classes. These attempts at community life evidently fall short, as do the efforts made by party animals of the political species. Schools also fail in this aspect. Perhaps the final bastion of community is one's religion and family. Unfortunately, the popular notion of freedom is defined as freedom from religion and family. But is this notion valid?

I was edified in reading an explanation of the root of the English word, freedom. "The primary etymological sense of the term "free" is `dear, beloved.' The root comes from the Old High German `fri,' which stems from the Indo-European root `prijos' (dear, beloved) and is related to the Sanskrit `priyas' (dear) and `priya' (wife, daughter). Likewise, there is a connection with the Old English `frigu' (love) and `freon' (friend). The German and Celtic meaning, `not in bondage or subject to control from outside,' comes from calling `dear' (fri) those members of a household connected by ties of kindred with the family head. A free person is as a friend or beloved, one joined to another in mutual benevolence and intimacy." ("Liberty Is a Lady", Gregory R. Beabout, First Things, op.cit., p. 19, emphasis added)

The same author, Gregory Beabout, explains the meaning of the word liberty (Latin liberi = children; Greek root eneuvepoc = free, belonging to the people, of legal descent. The Indo-European base word is leudhero [people, family, nation] which comes from leudh = to grow.) "Thus," he concludes, "those who have ties as a family, who are part of our people, who have grown from us, are free. Lady Libertas personifies the freedom of being a part of the family. . . . the true source of freedom is love, the love that a devoted spouse has for one's beloved." (op. cit., p. 21)

The Family And Religion

If true freedom is found in the family, then the true religon will be the one which most exalts and supports the family. Unfortunately, there is no religion which accomplishes this. Of course, the conservative branches of the great faiths do support family life, but none of them relate family life to the ontological order of things, to the way that God planned this world to function. Unification theology, the Divine Principle, however, does so. But to work out the meaning of the family, we must begin with the meaning of men and women.

One fundamental insight of Unificationist thinking is that there are important distinctions between masculinity and femininity which are rooted in God, and that the creation is an interaction of masculine and feminine characteristics. Christians have never taken this distinction seriously, for, as Paul said, in Christ there is neither male nor female. Paul of course was speaking of the value of personhood per se. Paul also came out of a tradition which tended to view birth and life on earth as a result of the fall, or of the necessities placed upon us by our gross materiality which is far removed from the spirit of God.

Many Christians, even the Pope, is recognizing that this lacuna in Christian thought must be ended today. Touchstone magazine (summer 1994) published a series of articles on the corrosive influence of feminism in the Christian churches. The authors call for "a developed doctrine of sexuality--the dogmatic meaning of man and woman in creation and in the salvific plan of God." ("Behold, the Woman", Nancy M. Cross, Touchstone, summer 1994, p. 18). It is of great interest to Unificationist theologians that Cross, a freelance writer, mother of twelve and grandmother of twenty-six living in Minnesota, would observe that "There are some interesting parallels between the present contention about the meaning and role of man and woman and the emergence of the doctrine of the Holy Trinity in the fourth century."

Cross then discusses the consubstantiality of God and Christ, to argue (vs. Arianism) that subject and object (as she puts it, "authority and response to authority") can be of one substance. In the fourth century, this argument related to God and Christ; Cross applies it to man and woman. I sincerely applaud her reflection, and want to add my own.

The Unificationist paradigm of the Trinity, that masculine and feminine are constitutive of the Godhead, must move to the foreground of Christian theological thinking. Without it, there is no ontological grounding to say anything about womanhood other than that it is some afterthought to the creation of manhood. If the ground of reality is personalized in toto as masculine, there is no place for the feminine to find rootage. From a gender point of view, Christianity is unitarian.

The counter to this is sexism (which is actually the more accurate name for radical feminism) which denies any significant distinction between masculine and feminine. Unificationism places femininity on an equal par with masculinity within God. As distinct aspects of the original image of God, they constitute with God the ground of the Trinity. Incarnated in the creation, they manifested in Adam and Eve, who fell and lost God's Word. The masculinity of God was manifested in the second Adam, Jesus Christ, and God's femininity in the Holy Spirit, the second Eve, albeit only without physical incarnation.

Women In History

The providential history recorded in the Bible narrates the actions of many women. Through the Unificationist understanding of God, and of the role of Adam and Eve, we can clarify the role of women in God's providence. In fact, this was a major theme in the speech, "True Parents and the Completed Testament Age", delivered throughout the world over the last two years by Rev. and Mrs. Moon and their children.

Only by understanding the role of women in the Hebrew scriptures can we discover how Jesus was born as the sinless Messiah. Without this theological explanation, faith, tradition and the critically suspect "fulfillment of prophecy" argument are all Christians have in order to justify the Christ-claim for Jesus of Nazareth. Faith claims will not convince the world today, and if it has nothing else by which to discuss Jesus' messianic stature, Christianity will fail in its mission to receive the second coming and serve as the foundation for God's Kingdom on the earth. It will be Unificationists who, after all, will be the ones who can vindicate Jesus and protect his messianic status.

I spent several years attending theologian's conferences under the sponsorship of New ERA and the International Religious Foundation. Often we Unification academics found ourselves defending the classic theological statements and faith in God and Jesus from attacks by scholars from mainstream schools of religion! I realized then that only Unification theology could maintain intact a reasonable God and argument for the historical providence in the face of modernity.

Christians Are Ready For Principle

Christians are ready for a new view of the Trinity as a grounding for man-woman relationship. As Beabout writes, it is "difficult to feel better than others by realizing that our culture is dying. Just about everyone sees the clouds by now, and there's very little satisfaction in secretly glimpsing the obvious." (p. 20) Not everyone is happy about the impending collapse of Christian civilization, nor is everyone giving up the ship. From whence do we find hope? It is from those who believe in family and religion.

In the same issue of Touchstone, Helen Hull Hitchcock, Director of Women for Faith and Family and editor of its newsletter, Voices, sets forth words which will ring true to the heart of any Unificationist:

"The places in which small victories will accumulate into ultimate triumph over the forces of anti-Christianity are not to be found in the academies or ecclesiastical offices of the churches that have been besieged and overrun by feminists and their allies. They are found in the home, the family, and the relationship of mother and child. These places have been dismissed by feminists as degrading arenas of servitude (but) the women who embrace the challenge of family and faith stand in positions of greater power than any prelate or feminist ideologue. . . .

"Our work must begin with the internal evangelization of the family-- the source of life and the cradle of faith. We must--and can--begin to rebuild Christ's Church from within the very heart of the `Domestic Church'--in every Christian's home." ("Entrusted to Woman", Helen Hull Hitchcock, Touchstone, summer 1994, p. 25)

Although from the viewpoint of man's portion of responsibility, the existence of the Jewish and Christian polities can be viewed as results of failure, they can also be viewed as stages of the human course of development toward a unified polity, summarized as God's Kingdom on earth. We who recognize the ideal of True Parents must not fail our responsibility in this hour. We have the theological definition of the original and providential meaning of man and woman. We have the historical foundation for the restoration of true marriage and family life. But a new idea cannot service a society until it reaches a certain level of development--a level which we are struggling now to realize.

Ocean Challenge Transforms California Gang

by S. Cal Regional Office Staff

In mid-August, Rev. Lee and his party sailed with Gabriel Legay's Ocean Challenge program to Catalina island with 25 inner city children ages 11 to 19. Rev. Lee was a real hit with the boys. He sang several songs for them, including "Exodus" and a Korean folk song. Then he taught them very effectively about good and evil. They understood clearly that good people live for others and evil people live just for themselves.

The city of Long Beach provided counselors to participate; they were very inspired. Tim Henning gave a beautiful slide show on Saturday night about the creation. All in all, everyone gained tremendous hope for these young people: even gang members could respond enthusiastically to the vision of the Divine Principle for their lives. They stayed on Catalina all week, fishing, hearing lectures, singing, and learning to get along in a heavenly family atmosphere.

The One-Week Program was a very successful event. The reasons are many and I will try to list some of them in an orderly manner.

1 Family and friends of the young people we worked with this year were all extremely proud and grateful for the change in their children.

2 OCSC was able to teach Divine Principle during this event. Every morning we had a class discussing trust, respect and responsibility. These presentations concerned True Ownership, True Self and True Parents, and defined the ways to begin to change and direct each person's life toward goodness.

3 We really feel that one of the most important things to come from this one-week event and the programs we are doing is the wonderful relationships with people. The changes we saw in the youth we worked with was profound. Some of these young men came in jaded, cold, disrespectful and distant. As the week progressed, we found they were able to break down concepts they had of other cultures and people's beliefs. Most of these young men responded to Tim Henning's morning programs by being attentive and thinking of the content during the day. A good example of this, even though done in jest, was Michael's impression of Tim at the Wednesday night talent show. He satirized the Saturday lecture on True Ownership. This showed that Michael had remembered the content of the talk and, days later, it was still on his mind.

We can provide good, sound, moral education which is also exciting to everyone involved, youth and adult alike. And it can be retained and brought back and applied to our daily life.

4 Rev. Lee's talk at Sunday morning service was very excellent, and the young men responded to it well. It was not complicated, but it was to the point, about the difference between becoming a good or bad person. The young people really thought about this for the rest of the week.

5 We did have our mistakes-more than our share! We need to be much more prepared for future programs. These improvements include: additional presentations by scientific and educational organizations, more in-depth teaching of Principle, counselor and youth meetings daily, more community volunteers and additional preparations for campsite management.

6 We saw people of all cultures relax together, play together, learn together, and just talk to each other. This is a rare thing in our cities, so it is not to be taken lightly. There were few conflicts or disagreements, and the ones which came up were resolved quickly. It was really wonderful to see. The people who attended will remember this week for the rest of their lives.

7) I personally had a very profound experience. Three things made impressions on me during this week:

A The investment God and Father have made in all of us. Their investment and belief that we can make the transition necessary to be able to call ourselves True Children. Because we many times do not recognize this investment of God and Father, we forget our responsibility and do not ourselves invest our own 100% effort into changing ourselves and helping others change.

On the third day, I really felt God and Father's loneliness and hurt in watching the way we lead our lives. It is truly a lonely, unrecognized and patient position they have. I felt this because of the fact that the youth seemed to be so unappreciative of the effort we had to expend to make this week a growing, loving and educational experience. This feeling was vanquished on the final day when we had the graduation program, and afterward I was able to speak very deeply with four of the young people about their experience and what they felt about the week and our program.

B Hope. We have so much hope; if we are willing to invest ourselves in this generation, we can provide them with the tools to change the world. These young men come from very awful living situations but they really do want to change this. They are looking for guidance and are willing to accept if we are honest, loving, and really reflecting our words by our actions. They recognize actions much more than words. If we provide a good example for them, they will begin to emulate this attitude and lifestyle.

C Love. In all honesty, I really do care about the youth we were with. I mean this sincerely. I felt so much love for them that I am willing to invest in them from my heart and mind. They need love and hope.

We can provide this because this is what God and Father have been doing for us. We were in the same boat as these young men but on different waters when we first met the Unification community. Thanks to their love and concern, we were able to change our lives; if we provide this to our future generations, we will see even a greater benefit and change in our world.

8 Tim Henning's presentation of Principle during the week was very good. It does need to be more refined and a little more focused on how to use it in our daily lives. Tim did a wonderful job and his presentations are the key to Ocean Challenge really offering city, state, federal and school organizations a viable program which will truly change young people's lives. Without the Principle, we cannot offer the tools necessary for them to develop and change. These young people deserve the chance that Divine Principle gives them.

IRFF to Focus on World Hunger

by Cathy Winings-NYC

International Relief Friendship Foundation, Inc. (IRFF) directors, representing several international chapters of IRFF, met October 1, 1994 for their semi-annual meeting at Colle Mattia, outside of Rome, Italy. The meeting provided the directors an opportunity to offer reports on their work in 1994 as well as renew their friendships and vast networks. That, in and of itself, made for a good meeting. However, the highlight of the meeting was the decision to take on a common theme and concern worldwide. The area of concern which the various chapters will be working to resolve is the very serious challenge of "world hunger."

The impetus for this major shift in focus came from two concerns. The first was a strong need to be more supportive of Rev. and Mrs. Moon's providential concerns for God's children everywhere. A recurring theme of Rev. Moon's sermons and Mrs. Moon's addresses to women around the world has been world hunger. During a major address at the August 1st Ocean Day celebration at Belvedere in New York, Rev. Moon spoke at great length on the ways in which we can contribute to the solution of this age-old problem. A cornerstone of this plan involves the newly developed fish protein concentrate from International Seafoods of Alaska.

The IRFF directors felt that this was not only an opportunity for our agency to make a clear-cut contribution to God's kingdom, but that IRFF was uniquely situated to take this concern seriously and lead the way to bring this to the attention of the global community. The various chapters of IRFF worldwide have tackled many noble and worthy areas of need and conducted numerous projects. These projects have revolved around medical, educational, and social needs of individuals throughout Eastern Europe, Africa, South America, and Indo-Asia. However, with one common concern on which to focus, IRFF can make an even greater contribution to the healing process of God's children.

A second impetus came from the desire to more clearly define IRFF in the 90's and to re-assess IRFF's potential to make some valuable contribution as a humble relief agency. There are many worthy and notable relief agencies around the globe. Many of these agencies have been doing what they could to end hunger throughout the world. Some more successfully than others. Many of these agencies also have a great deal of resources from which to draw. So we asked the question: Where does IRFF fit in this international mix? In assessing many of these organizations and networks, we realized that one challenge which these agencies face is the depth of their approach. A very real challenge of any relief agency is to take a multi-faceted approach to any issue. In this light, IRFF has the opportunity to do just that.

As discussed by the directors, IRFF will offer a multi-faceted method to resolve world hunger. Of course, the distribution of the fish protein concentrate will be one key component of the new plan. With the existing work of the IRFF chapters in Eastern Europe, the C.I.S., Africa, and South America there are numerous means to distribute the concentrate to relieve the suffering in these areas. A second dimension will be educational. IRFF projects already include a wide range of educational exchange programs focused on agricultural survival. These programs have taken seriously the adage that if you give a person some fish today, they will be able to eat for a day. But, if you teach a person to fish, they will be able to eat tomorrow. With the new common focus, each chapter can expand these pre-existing networks and provide a new direction and purpose for their work. IRFF plans to also provide material for numerous publications which will address the causes of world hunger as well as its resolution. Through these publications, IRFF will be able to truly address a worldwide audience. This can only help to raise more people's consciousness about this daunting problem.

A final aspect of our work will include other more immediate projects to address the more pressing needs of God's global family in terms of hunger. This will also enable IRFF to network with a diverse community of organizations, agencies, governments and individuals. Through harmonizing the work of these diverse agencies and efforts, the IRFF directors believe that we can begin to seriously work at healing the world and eliminating world hunger.

Should any organization wish to talk with us about this issue, we are more than willing to do so. We encourage the support of YFWP, CARP and other student organizations, as well as WFWP and any other women's organizations, tribal messiahs and businesses to join in this important and providential work. If we take responsibility together as God's family to meet this problem head-on, we can and will see the end of world hunger and the reconciliation of God's children East-West, North-South - everywhere.