2009 National BFD Representatives Conference

In Jin Moon
November 25, 2009

National Conference for All BFD District Coordinators, State and Local BFD Representatives:

The Conference begins Friday, December 11th at 10:00 AM at the conference center in Barrytown, NY (formerly UTS). It will end Sunday afternoon, December 13th, after Lovin’ Life Worship in New York City. We anticipate a special meeting with President and Senior Pastor In Jin Moon, and recommend departure flights from the NY City area after 5:30 PM.

Participants traveling by air, train or bus should arrive in New York in time to be at Barrytown, a 2-hour drive from NYC, by 10:00 AM on Friday. Lodging is available at the conference facility on Thursday night, December 10th. Please provide your arrival and departure information in the form below, and indicate whether you require transportation from NYC to Barrytown upon arrival. We will be in contact, and will work with you to coordinate your transportation.

Transportation from Barrytown to NYC will be provided on Sunday morning, December 13th. We cannot guarantee transportation to departure airports, but once again, if you provide your departure details below, we will work with you to coordinate it.

You must register online by Friday, December 4th, so we can arrange transportation and rooms. Use the form below to submit your registration. Each individual or couple should submit one online registration.

The BFD HQ will pay for rooms and meals during the Conference for 3 people from each District. All additional participants please pay $120. For further information, feel free to contact us. 

You Must Start By Being A True Servant

In Jin Moon
November 22, 2009
Lovin Life Ministries

Good morning, brothers and sisters. How is everyone this morning? It’s very good to be back. I spent a week in Korea with our True Parents. We had a lot of festivities there, including another blessing for the Second Generation. I was able to take part of the Lovin’ Life Band so that we could properly congratulate them on this very special day. After the blessing we also had Children’s Day, where Father spoke for over nine hours! He gave the Korean members and many international guests a lot of love.

Then the next day we had a wonderful inauguration of my youngest brother, Dr. Hyung Jin Moon, as the new chairman of the Universal Peace Federation (UPF). It was a beautiful event. True Father is really going out of his way to make sure that the future of our movement is in very good hands. As you all know, he chose his youngest son to be the spiritual head of the movement. Not only is Hyung Jin Moon the spiritual head, but Father wants him to be the acting chairman of UPF and other organizations. So he has a tremendous amount of responsibility put upon his shoulders. I’m hoping that the American movement, as well as brothers and sisters all around the world, can truly unite together in heart and spirit and really support our younger brother so that he can do his job to the best of his abilities.

While I was in Korea, I met a lot of blessed children. I met the new couples who were walking down the aisle for the first time, but I also met a lot of younger children who are in elementary school. One of the things that I love to do when I come across young men and women of God is ask them a couple of questions. One question that I always like to ask young people is, "What would you like to do when you grow up?"

When I went around the country for the first time after I was appointed as head of the American movement and I really wanted to get to know the blessed children, I asked them, "What are your passions? What would you like to be later in life?" They gave me a lot of different, interesting answers. But one of the things I come across all the time in talking to young people is their desire to rule the world. When I was first meeting the blessed children in America, so many of them said to me, "I want to rule the world." And when I asked the young children in Korea, "What would you like to do when you grow up?" so many of them looked at me with bright eyes and said, "I want to rule the world." This was true for both boys and girls.

It reminded me of the moment in the movie Titanic when Jack Dawson puts himself on the bow of the boat, feeling the air across his face, and screams out, "I am the king of the world!" Young people want to take this world as they know it, grab it in the palm of their hands, own it, and wield it however they like.

In youthful exuberance, this desire to rule over becomes the most important thing in life. When we look at young people in America, we see that frequently the only thing they’re thinking about is, "What can I get out of this world? What can I own in this world? What can I get out of this or that person that might help advance my career to the next level? What can I get out of this university so I can get a fantastic job later?" Often we’re thinking about what we can take from the world, what we can rule over, not thinking about what we can give to the world and how we can serve the world.

That’s the difference between somebody who’s very young and somebody who’s mature. When you’re young, you’re thinking, "I want to rule the world." Now that some of us have children of our own, we don’t think, "I want to rule my family; I want to rule my kids." The foremost thought in our minds when we become mature young adults and when we have families is "How can I serve my family? How can I serve my children so I can truly bring out the best in them?" Young people are invariably engrossed in things like fast cars, fast women, fast money; they don’t want the slow burn or the difficulty of maintaining a certain lifestyle so they can be healthy. They go straight to the crash course, crash diets, something that’s immediate that they can enjoy now, that they don’t have to work fairly hard for.

Young people like extreme things. Young people have yet to experience life, so they haven’t come to understand the importance of moderation, of savoring the incredible moments that life has to offer, or of enjoying the small details that make life truly profound. When you listen to their language, everything is fast; everything is extreme. Young people don’t just like to ski; they like extreme skiing. They don’t just like diving; they like extreme diving. They don’t just enjoy scenery; they love bungee jumping. These are the excitement-filled, generating moods that young people thrive on and that they want all the time.

But we know that if we are truly going to be great in life, if we are truly going to be masters of our own God-given talent, life is an opportunity for us to harness that God-given talent and divinity so we can share it with the rest of the world, so we can serve the world with our different capabilities and passions.

When we’re young, many times we look at our parents as hindrances to this incredibly fast, extreme, exciting crash course of life. Often we don’t fully appreciate the older folks, and we don’t fully appreciate their wisdom. We don’t fully appreciate their guidance in our lives. But if you really think about it, the greatest gift for any child is his or her parents. The greatest gift for us, who are children of God, is knowing that God is our eternal parent; once we know that God is our eternal parent, then the concept of who we are becomes incredibly clear. We realize that we’re not just destined to win. We’re not a coincidence, but each and every one of us has incredible significance and meaning, as well as a profound reason why we are here. We begin to understand that we are eternal sons and daughters of God, that we have a wonderful passion or talent or divinity that God put in each and every one of us, like a beautiful seed. Our life becomes an environment for that seed to grow into a beautiful jujube tree, apple tree, orange tree, or whatever we were meant to be.

On November 22, 1970, my father said that before we want to rule the world, we have to understand that we have to completely control ourselves first. When my father uses the word control, what does he mean by that? What he means by controlling ourselves is that we are meant to become individually perfected human beings. Perfection doesn’t mean we never fall down, we never skin our knees, we never make a mistake. Perfection is a quality or a state of being. Through the give-and-take action based upon the mind and body unity that comes from the foundation of love, we can do so many wonderful things as men and women of God, as sons and daughters of God.

What my father was basically saying is, Before you think about being a leader, before you think about being the ruler of the world, you need to start working on yourself because if you’re really going to be a true master by living the life of a servant, then you have to put into practice what you will be teaching later on in life, as the teacher or ruler of a classroom, for instance. Learning to control our passions, learning the importance of delayed gratification, learning the importance of setting goals, and then slowly and persistently and tenaciously doing everything that we need to do to accomplish those goals -- these are the simple lessons in life that allow us to be great human beings.

When we are young and thinking only about ourselves, it’s very easy for us to want to rule the world for selfish reasons. But when you think about really ruling or serving the world from an unselfish point of view, you realize that in order to be a true leader, a true ruler, you must start by being a true servant, that is, somebody who decides to serve and raise other people up before yourself.

My children have also told me, "I want to rule the world." Whenever I hear that, I like to share with them a Korean folktale. It’s a wonderful story about a beautiful daughter. It has a moral lesson on the importance of obedience, of living for the sake of others, and of serving others. The story is about a young girl called Shim Chung, who was the daughter of a blind man living in a tiny village in Korea. She loved her father, so much so that she went everywhere with him. But because he was blind and had no way of holding a job, she had to beg around town for bits of food so she could keep the two of them alive.

She realized as she grew older that she had to find a different way to bring an income or she couldn’t take care of her father. One day walking through the marketplace, she encountered two sailors who were seeking guidance on where to find a young maiden whom they could sacrifice to the Sea King because they hadn’t been able to catch many fish. The seas were so violent that the fishing expeditions were not successful. They believed that if they sacrificed a beautiful young maiden to the Sea King, then the Sea King would be appeased and they could resume their fishing successfully.

Shim Chung listened intently to these sailors. They were offering a huge amount of money if they could find a young maiden. She thought, "Maybe if I volunteer myself to be sacrificed to the Sea King, not only will I be able to bring a great sea harvest for my village people, but I will also be able to take care of my father financially for the rest of his life. He will not have to worry about money, ever. Maybe I can have some older women in the village take care of him."

She decided she would not tell her father but would offer herself up as a sacrifice and make arrangements for her father to be taken care of. The fateful day came when there was a transfer of money, and Shim Chung didn’t even say good-bye to her father because she didn’t want to alarm him by thinking she would never be back. Off she went with the sailors.

They drove the ship out to sea, and indeed it was violent. The waves were so high that Shim Chung couldn’t see the sky. She couldn’t tell the difference between the ocean and the sky; it looked the same to her. The winds were so strong that she could barely see the tips of her fingers. But the sailors led her to the bow of the ship and got her ready to be thrown into the sea.

She said a little prayer for her father, praying for his long life and that he would be well taken care of, and she jumped into the ocean. When she jumped into the ocean, the waves engulfed her and embraced her as their own. But the Sea King was so overcome by Shim Chung’s beauty -- not just her external beauty, but the great beauty of her heart to sacrifice herself so she could take care of her blind father -- that he started to weep and told his ocean, "Bring her in your embrace to my kingdom."

So the ocean waves brought Shim Chung to the Sea King’s palace. He realized that she was indeed just as beautiful inside as she was outside. He was so overcome by her filial piety, by her love for her father, that he felt he could not hold her as his own sacrifice. So the Sea King did something he’d never done before. He decided he was going to give the sacrificial gift back to the world that she came from. He put her inside a beautiful lotus flower and had it float up to the ocean surface.

The sailors, so happy that the storms were appeased, that the sky was blue again, and that they could finally feel the freshness in the open air, were excited about fishing every day. But when they returned to the place where Shim Chung was sacrificed, they found something quite peculiar. They came upon a gigantic lotus flower floating on the surface and thought it would make a delightful gift for their king.

They fetched this beautiful flower, took it to their king’s palace, and offered it as a gift from their village. Upon seeing this beautiful flower, the king thanked the sailors profusely and brought it into the courtyard. When he stood before the flower, it slowly opened. The king had been seeking a beautiful wife for a long time but could not find someone who was beautiful on the inside as well as beautiful on the outside. There were many beautiful women at court, and many dignitaries brought their beautiful daughters to the palace. But the king never felt those ladies had the exquisite quality of a beautiful soul.

He was overcome by the beauty of the lotus flower. When it started to bloom in front of his eyes, the last thing he expected to see was a beautiful young maiden emerge. Shim Chung indeed was beautiful outside, but the king felt immediately that she had a beautiful soul. He fell madly in love with her. Later he learned how she came to be inside the flower and was so moved by her story that he made her his queen.

One of the things he wanted to do for his new queen was to grant her deepest wish. Of course her wish was to see her father once more. So the king prepared a beautiful banquet for the blind men in his country. Blind men from every village and hillside came to the palace to meet the king and offer their gratitude for such a wonderful feast and recognition.

Shim Chung was looking feverishly for the face of her father. Thousands of blind men came to the palace, but she could not recognize the face she so longed to see. The king said, "All these people are here; the banquet must commence." Actually it was coming to a close when finally, out of the corner of her eye, she saw a rickety man with a cane, helped by an elderly woman, walk up to the palace. At that moment she realized that it was her father.

Of course, queens are not supposed to run across the palace; they are supposed to sit and wait for people to approach. But Shim Chung was so overcome with happiness at seeing her father that she leaped up and ran to her father to give him a hug, crying, "Father, it is Shim Chung." But her father said, "But my Shim Chung is dead! What are you talking about?" She said, "No, Father, this is Shim Chung. Feel my face, my hands. Do you not remember? Feel my eyes, my nose. Do you not remember?" He felt her face, her eyes, and her cheekbones, and he realized that it was his daughter.

At that moment these two fused into one, and their love for each other became an incredible power. Her father cried out, "Shim Chung, how I have longed to see you!" And Shim Chung said, "Father, how long I have yearned to see you!" These words collided into an explosion of love, and a miracle happened. The father could finally see his beautiful daughter, who was not only his daughter but now the queen of his country. Shim Chung, realizing that the miracle of her love was what cured her father’s blindness, fell to her knees and cried, thanking God for such a beautiful gift.

This is a beautiful tale that’s told over and over again because it’s really a story about living for the sake of others, about loving somebody so much, wanting someone to be happy and well taken care of that you’re willing to sacrifice yourself for another’s happiness and well-being. In doing this, Shim Chung realized that by giving everything that she had, she received everything and much more. Not only did she receive another chance at life, but she received the greatest miracle of her father’s eyes finally resting on her face and seeing his beautiful daughter for the first time.

This is a wonderful tale because it teaches us that life is really not about ruling over the world. Shim Chung did not sacrifice herself to rule the world. She sacrificed herself to serve her village so that it could have a great harvest from the ocean, and she wanted to serve her father by sacrificing herself. By choosing to serve, she became a natural leader and a natural ruler of her country as the queen.

This is a wonderful thing to think about as we think about how we want to live our lives. Are we going to look at our lives as something we should just take from? Is life really about taking? Or is life really about taking care of each other, serving each other, doing the right thing for each other?

One of the greatest things about having a parent is that parents many times are the ones who help us define what our goals should be in life. It’s the parents who can see the talent in their children: "Maybe this one is really talented in music. Maybe this one is talented in writing." It’s the parents who will encourage the child to write, encourage the child to take creative writing workshops, or encourage the musically gifted child to practice, to work on his or her craft to become an accomplished musician like the ones we saw earlier. The Lovin’ Life Band can give so much joy to all of us because their talents allow us to experience God through music.

You young people in the audience, who are looking at your parents as a hindrance to your own success, please remember that your parents are your greatest gift because they help you set goals. Setting goals is like planting a tree, as my father said. It’s like planting a seed in fertile soil.

Not only do parents help us set goals, but they guide us through discipline. Once you plant a seed into soil, there’s an incubation period when you feel like nothing is happening, where very little is seen and you don’t know whether the seed is going to sprout until the seedling finally breaks through the soil. But once it does, and with continued care and nourishment, it can bring an incredible harvest in the future.

Not only do parents help us set goals in life by helping us plant the seed of the talent or passions that we have, help us channel it, and guide it through discipline, but many times the parents can make sure we do what is necessary to accomplish our goal so that we can take in the incredible harvest that comes. Our parents are wonderful because not only do they want us to be great, but great parents remind their children, "Accomplish your goal and be a great person. But what are you going to do about it?"

In his autobiography, my father tells of coming across a young high school student who was studying feverishly for an entrance exam. My father asked the young person, "Why are you studying?" The child replied, "My goal is to get into a university." My father took this student to task and said, "Your goal in life should not be to get into a university. Your university should be the means so that you can better serve the world with your talents and with your life."

What my father is asking all of us to do is not concentrate on what we can get out of life -- the best job, the best husband, the best wife, the best career. He’s really challenging us to ask ourselves, "What are we going to do with this great education? What are we going to do with this great job? How are we going to make the world a better place? If we are all children of the one Heavenly Parent, that means it doesn’t matter what country we come from. It doesn’t matter what our skin color is. It doesn’t matter what religious heritage we come from. We are all one family."

If we are one family, then the Jews should love the Christians more than their own. Unificationists should love Jews more than our own. The Muslims should love Christians more than their own because we are all siblings who belong to the same parent.

If we can acknowledge that God is our wonderful heavenly parent in heaven and all of us seated here are indeed siblings, that we belong to one family, then in the spirit of Thanksgiving this coming week, we as the children should live our life thanking our Heavenly Parent for this opportunity to grow and to give something back to the world with our own effort so we can truly leave something beautiful behind.

If you are a talented artist, be a Picasso. Don’t be satisfied with mediocrity. Be the best that you can be in that field, and give beauty back to the world. If you happen to be a fantastic writer, work on your craft and go through the chrysalis period that a butterfly goes through. The butterfly starts out as a creepy-crawler, right? But then it goes through the chrysalis stage, literally entombed in the cocoon. Many times as teens we felt our parents were keeping us prisoner, telling us to study, to practice, to work hard, to improve in our craft, maybe setting a schedule for homework, for practice, for reading. Maybe it was a very difficult time.

The Book of Hebrews gives special attention to the suffering of Jesus and God’s chosen people, highlighting that suffering and being God’s children go hand in hand. When we become God’s witness to the world, we have to accept the opposition and persecution that come from being who we are as Jesus’ disciple. The passage I shared, Hebrews 12:7 - 11, talks about that precisely. It uses the word discipline, saying that God is disciplining us for our own good. He is disciplining us for our own good because he wants us to partake in his holiness, in our divinity. He wants us to fully exercise being the incredible human beings that we were meant to be.

Verse 11 mentions that many times the discipline process is difficult and even painful. Often it’s not pleasant. But if we can go through this process, then afterward we will reap the fruits of our righteousness.

God is telling us not to get stuck in seeing ourselves as petrified human beings, meaning, if we happen to be engaged in great difficulty right now, don’t think that it will be with us forever. We can always count on change in life. As difficult as this period can be, no matter how difficult it will be, it will pass, and that is something we can always count on.

Just as we know that God is guiding us through discipline, through the suffering course of our lives, we need to remember that as a community and a movement, as we go through the difficulties of transitioning from being a new movement to an established presence, we must not be so fixated on the daily difficulties that we lose the big picture of why we are here.

We call ourselves Lovin’ Life Ministries because it’s a reminder that God did not put us here on earth just to suffer. In fact, the suffering or the disciplinary process that we go through to become great butterflies in the future transforms the creepy-crawler into a beautiful butterfly. It’s the difficult process or the suffering that we have to overcome that creates in us a stronger faith and a desire to be the eternal sons and daughters that we were all meant to be.

Brothers and sisters, do not lose heart because sometimes life is difficult. Sometimes it just feels like there’s no tomorrow around the corner. But you can always count on the fact that the sun will rise and there will be a new day. Better than the sun is to remember that God is always with us. No matter how troubled our waters may be, it will be God who lays himself down for us as a bridge so that we can cross over, so that we can go through the troubled and difficult periods of our lives.

It is God who is always walking right behind us, through every bit of suffering, through every trial and tribulation, through every difficulty. So if we remember that God is our constant and eternal parent, friend, guide, supporter, and our biggest fan, the only thing we really need to do is to decide to rejoice in the Lord, as it says in Luke 1:47. Our duty as children of God is to rejoice in the Lord each and every day.

It’s not the right man who’s going to make us happy. It’s not the right job that’s going to make us happy. It’s not the right career that’s going to make us happy. It’s not the right car that’s going to make us happy. Happiness and the decision to really love life is our five-percent responsibility. So we can decide to be happy today by simply saying, "I am God’s son, I am God’s daughter, and I am realizing that happiness is an inside job," meaning, it’s we inside who decide to be happy. Doing our job inside allows us to be happy outside as well.

I’ve often said that every human being is like a brilliant lightbulb, waiting to be turned on. Once we decide that we are going to be happy, once we decide through our inside job that we are going to be grateful and that we are going to honor our God by truly appreciating everything that was given to us, then that’s like deciding to flick the lightbulb on. It’s like deciding to be that brilliant light that we were all meant to be. It’s deciding to turn on our own divinity and realize how precious and how beautiful we are as God’s children.

I am hoping that you have a wonderful week and a wonderful month, and a safe trip back to your home and families. This is a time when our True Parents have asked for total unity of mind and heart, of mind and spirit. What they’re asking of us is nothing more than the decision to be grateful and to be happy, and to realize that we have an incredible gift in each other as belonging to one family under God. If we start from this decision, there is no limit to what we can do with our lives in gratitude and Thanksgiving.

I bring you love and greetings from our True Parents, who love the American movement very much. I hope that all of you have a lovely Thanksgiving with your families, and hopefully I will see you next week. Thank you.

Notes:

Hebrews, chapter 12

1: Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with perseverance the race that is set before us,

2: looking to Jesus the pioneer and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.

3: Consider him who endured from sinners such hostility against himself, so that you may not grow weary or fainthearted.

4: In your struggle against sin you have not yet resisted to the point of shedding your blood.

5: And have you forgotten the exhortation which addresses you as sons? -- "My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord, nor lose courage when you are punished by him.

6: For the Lord disciplines him whom he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives."

7: It is for discipline that you have to endure. God is treating you as sons; for what son is there whom his father does not discipline?

8: If you are left without discipline, in which all have participated, then you are illegitimate children and not sons.

9: Besides this, we have had earthly fathers to discipline us and we respected them. Shall we not much more be subject to the Father of spirits and live?

10: For they disciplined us for a short time at their pleasure, but he disciplines us for our good, that we may share his holiness.

11: For the moment all discipline seems painful rather than pleasant; later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.

12: Therefore lift your drooping hands and strengthen your weak knees,

13: and make straight paths for your feet, so that what is lame may not be put out of joint but rather be healed.

14: Strive for peace with all men, and for the holiness without which no one will see the Lord.

15: See to it that no one fail to obtain the grace of God; that no "root of bitterness" spring up and cause trouble, and by it the many become defiled;

16: that no one be immoral or irreligious like Esau, who sold his birthright for a single meal.

17: For you know that afterward, when he desired to inherit the blessing, he was rejected, for he found no chance to repent, though he sought it with tears.

18: For you have not come to what may be touched, a blazing fire, and darkness, and gloom, and a tempest,

19: and the sound of a trumpet, and a voice whose words made the hearers entreat that no further messages be spoken to them.

20: For they could not endure the order that was given, "If even a beast touches the mountain, it shall be stoned."

21: Indeed, so terrifying was the sight that Moses said, "I tremble with fear."

22: But you have come to Mount Zion and to the city of the living God, the heavenly Jerusalem, and to innumerable angels in festal gathering,

23: and to the assembly of the first-born who are enrolled in heaven, and to a judge who is God of all, and to the spirits of just men made perfect,

24: and to Jesus, the mediator of a new covenant, and to the sprinkled blood that speaks more graciously than the blood of Abel.

25: See that you do not refuse him who is speaking. For if they did not escape when they refused him who warned them on earth, much less shall we escape if we reject him who warns from heaven.

26: His voice then shook the earth; but now he has promised, "Yet once more I will shake not only the earth but also the heaven."

27: This phrase, "Yet once more," indicates the removal of what is shaken, as of what has been made, in order that what cannot be shaken may remain.

28: Therefore let us be grateful for receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, and thus let us offer to God acceptable worship, with reverence and awe;

29: for our God is a consuming fire.

Luke, chapter 1

1: Inasmuch as many have undertaken to compile a narrative of the things which have been accomplished among us,

2: just as they were delivered to us by those who from the beginning were eyewitnesses and ministers of the word,

3: it seemed good to me also, having followed all things closely for some time past, to write an orderly account for you, most excellent The-oph'ilus,

4: that you may know the truth concerning the things of which you have been informed.

5: In the days of Herod, king of Judea, there was a priest named Zechari'ah, of the division of Abi'jah; and he had a wife of the daughters of Aaron, and her name was Elizabeth.

6: And they were both righteous before God, walking in all the commandments and ordinances of the Lord blameless.

7: But they had no child, because Elizabeth was barren, and both were advanced in years.

8: Now while he was serving as priest before God when his division was on duty,

9: according to the custom of the priesthood, it fell to him by lot to enter the temple of the Lord and burn incense.

10: And the whole multitude of the people were praying outside at the hour of incense.

11: And there appeared to him an angel of the Lord standing on the right side of the altar of incense.

12: And Zechari'ah was troubled when he saw him, and fear fell upon him.

13: But the angel said to him, "Do not be afraid, Zechari'ah, for your prayer is heard, and your wife Elizabeth will bear you a son, and you shall call his name John.

14: And you will have joy and gladness, and many will rejoice at his birth;

15: for he will be great before the Lord, and he shall drink no wine nor strong drink, and he will be filled with the Holy Spirit, even from his mother's womb.

16: And he will turn many of the sons of Israel to the Lord their God,

17: and he will go before him in the spirit and power of Eli'jah, to turn the hearts of the fathers to the children, and the disobedient to the wisdom of the just, to make ready for the Lord a people prepared."

18: And Zechari'ah said to the angel, "How shall I know this? For I am an old man, and my wife is advanced in years."

19: And the angel answered him, "I am Gabriel, who stand in the presence of God; and I was sent to speak to you, and to bring you this good news.

20: And behold, you will be silent and unable to speak until the day that these things come to pass, because you did not believe my words, which will be fulfilled in their time."

21: And the people were waiting for Zechari'ah, and they wondered at his delay in the temple.

22: And when he came out, he could not speak to them, and they perceived that he had seen a vision in the temple; and he made signs to them and remained dumb.

23: And when his time of service was ended, he went to his home.

24: After these days his wife Elizabeth conceived, and for five months she hid herself, saying,

25: "Thus the Lord has done to me in the days when he looked on me, to take away my reproach among men."

26: In the sixth month the angel Gabriel was sent from God to a city of Galilee named Nazareth,

27: to a virgin betrothed to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David; and the virgin's name was Mary.

28: And he came to her and said, "Hail, O favored one, the Lord is with you!"

29: But she was greatly troubled at the saying, and considered in her mind what sort of greeting this might be.

30: And the angel said to her, "Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God.

31: And behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus.

32: He will be great, and will be called the Son of the Most High; and the Lord God will give to him the throne of his father David,

33: and he will reign over the house of Jacob for ever; and of his kingdom there will be no end."

34: And Mary said to the angel, "How shall this be, since I have no husband?"

35: And the angel said to her, "The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you;

therefore the child to be born will be called holy, the Son of God.

36: And behold, your kinswoman Elizabeth in her old age has also conceived a son; and this is the sixth month with her who was called barren.

37: For with God nothing will be impossible."

38: And Mary said, "Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word." And the angel departed from her.

39: In those days Mary arose and went with haste into the hill country, to a city of Judah,

40: and she entered the house of Zechari'ah and greeted Elizabeth.

41: And when Elizabeth heard the greeting of Mary, the babe leaped in her womb; and Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit

42: and she exclaimed with a loud cry, "Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb!

43: And why is this granted me, that the mother of my Lord should come to me?

44: For behold, when the voice of your greeting came to my ears, the babe in my womb leaped for joy.

45: And blessed is she who believed that there would be a fulfilment of what was spoken to her from the Lord."

46: And Mary said, "My soul magnifies the Lord,

47: and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior,

48: for he has regarded the low estate of his handmaiden. For behold, henceforth all generations will call me blessed;

49: for he who is mighty has done great things for me, and holy is his name.

50: And his mercy is on those who fear him from generation to generation.

51: He has shown strength with his arm, he has scattered the proud in the imagination of their hearts,

52: he has put down the mighty from their thrones, and exalted those of low degree;

53: he has filled the hungry with good things, and the rich he has sent empty away.

54: He has helped his servant Israel, in remembrance of his mercy,

55: as he spoke to our fathers, to Abraham and to his posterity for ever."

56: And Mary remained with her about three months, and returned to her home.

57: Now the time came for Elizabeth to be delivered, and she gave birth to a son.

58: And her neighbors and kinsfolk heard that the Lord had shown great mercy to her, and they rejoiced with her.

59: And on the eighth day they came to circumcise the child; and they would have named him Zechari'ah after his father,

60: but his mother said, "Not so; he shall be called John."

61: And they said to her, "None of your kindred is called by this name."

62: And they made signs to his father, inquiring what he would have him called.

63: And he asked for a writing tablet, and wrote, "His name is John." And they all marveled.

64: And immediately his mouth was opened and his tongue loosed, and he spoke, blessing God.

65: And fear came on all their neighbors. And all these things were talked about through all the hill country of Judea;

66: and all who heard them laid them up in their hearts, saying, "What then will this child be?" For the hand of the Lord was with him.

67: And his father Zechari'ah was filled with the Holy Spirit, and prophesied, saying,

68: "Blessed be the Lord God of Israel, for he has visited and redeemed his people,

69: and has raised up a horn of salvation for us in the house of his servant David,

70: as he spoke by the mouth of his holy prophets from of old,

71: that we should be saved from our enemies, and from the hand of all who hate us;

72: to perform the mercy promised to our fathers, and to remember his holy covenant,

73: the oath which he swore to our father Abraham,

74: to grant us that we, being delivered from the hand of our enemies, might serve him without fear,

75: in holiness and righteousness before him all the days of our life.

76: And you, child, will be called the prophet of the Most High; for you will go before the Lord to prepare his ways,

77: to give knowledge of salvation to his people in the forgiveness of their sins,

78: through the tender mercy of our God, when the day shall dawn upon us from on high

79: to give light to those who sit in darkness and in the shadow of death, to guide our feet into the way of peace."

80: And the child grew and became strong in spirit, and he was in the wilderness till the day of his manifestation to Israel.  

Washington Times Incident

In Jin Moon
November 13, 2009

NHQ20091113 No. 28

To: District Directors, State Leaders, all Blessed Central Families and Members
From: Reverend In Jin Moon, Archbishop Ki Hoon Kim, Reverend Joshua Cotter
Re: The Washington Times Incident on Sunday November 8th, 2009
Date: November 13th, 2009

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

May God’s abundant blessing and True Parents’ love be upon you and your family.

As you may be aware, this past week three executives at the Washington Times, Mr. Dong Moon Joo, Chairman, Mr. Thomas McDevitt, President and Publisher and Mr. Keith Cooperrider, CFO were fired from their jobs. Mr. Jonathan Slevin (Vice-President at News World Communications) and Mr. Nick Chiaia carried out these actions. On Sunday, November 8, Tom McDevitt was escorted from his office at the Washington Times building to his car by Mr. Slevin, together with two security guards. His cell phone and computer were confiscated.

This type of behavior is unprecedented in our movement. It must be made clear that what took place at the Washington Times is contrary to the advice and guidance from our True Father.

True Parents are heartbroken and dismayed over what has happened, especially in light of the fact that they have been guiding our movement worldwide, over the last several months, specifically to remain united with their spiritual leadership.

Some recent press articles this past week have incorrectly tried to characterize the situation around the Washington Times takeover as a ‘feud between two brothers’ (specifically between Hyun Jin Nim and Hyung Jin Nim). These statements are perhaps purposefully misleading. The real issue here is unity with True Parents’ spiritual leadership.

Each one of True Parents’ children and the members of their family who are serving in some public role in our worldwide movement are standing in complete unity with True Parents. This includes Hyung Jin Nim (International President), Kook Jin Nim (President of the Korea Foundation), In Jin Nim (President of the American Church), Sun Jin Nim (Seilo Travel), Yeon Ah Nim (Sun Moon University) and Hoon Sook Nim (Universal Ballet Company).

There is no doubt that Hyun Jin Nim deeply loves True Parents, but he may not be receiving the best advice from those who are loyal to him. In Korea, during recent Hoon Dok Hae's, Father is urgently and repeatedly stating that, during this critical time, it is important to remain vigilant in our unity with our True Parents.

Thank you and may God bless you.

That's What A True Friend Would Do

In Jin Moon
November 8, 2009
Lovin' Life Ministries

Good morning, brothers and sisters. How is everyone? You guys have to excuse me a little. I’m a little bit under the weather. I spent some time with my lovely daughter, who is a junior up at Harvard University. She had come home to spend some time with me, but she was very, very sick. Of course, I, being a mother, have always been trying to take care of myself really well so I can better take care of my children. But when I saw my beautiful daughter walk in and she just flew into my arms, I could not resist but embrace her in a big and long hug. As satisfying as the hug was, unfortunately I caught the flu. So you’re going to have to bear with me. My voice is not as clear as I would like it to be this morning.

Wasn’t the band wonderful? Music is so important for all of us here at Lovin’ Life; it’s really a universal language. My father has often talked about the importance of music in the education of children and adults, in helping people learn how to experience the divine, how to experience God. Many times he has also spoken about love as a universal language as well.

Just like music, when we think about love, I think we all start out in life wanting to please our parents, our Heavenly Parent, and our True Parents, and we spend a great deal of time when we are children en route to becoming a great artist trying to please the teachers or trying to even please mommy and daddy. The first thing that we like to do is make drawings, replicas of masterpieces, to give as gifts to our parents, making them very happy.

But as we mature and as we really think about our desire to become artists, to leave something truly worthwhile and beautiful behind, we come to know that the true goal of an artist is not just to be somebody with a paintbrush or a guitar who can play everybody else’s music. The goal of an artist is to tap the rich reservoir of love that we have within us. Unlike a child who says, “Love me, love me,” all the time, as we grow into our years and walk down the road of self-discovery, what we should do, and I encourage all of us to do this, is to tap into this rich reservoir of love that we have within each and every one of us, and to truly realize that we have all the love we need. We’re carrying all the love we need.

Instead of trying to get love from people, start thinking, “How do I love others? How do I leave my imprint on every relationship I have in my lifetime?” Just as an artist has taken classes and experimented with different media, like acrylic, oils, or graphic arts, what that artist really wants to do is tap into the rich reservoir that is uniquely his or hers. No great artists are the same. Picasso and, Rembrandt were very different types of artists, but each tapped into his unique talents and design. Therefore, they were able to leave the world huge gifts in terms of their masterpieces, the artwork that showcases who they were as human beings and as fine artists.

How should we go about our daily lives in becoming well versed in the language of love? How do we go about practicing it in our daily life? How do we go about applying it in different relationships that we have with one another?

Three things come to mind. The Bible tells us in Amos 3:3 that two people cannot walk together without a clear direction, meaning that in order to practice love within a family, between a husband and wife, between siblings, between parent and child, there has to be a clear direction, a clear purpose. Just as when you look at two eyelids on a face, if your right eyelid wants to do one thing but your left eyelid wants to do another, you’re not going to have a very beautiful expression on your face if each eyelid is doing its own thing.

If you want to go to the supermarket, maybe the right leg that represents an older brother wants to go to H-Mart, and maybe the left leg representing the younger brother wants to go to Stop ‘n Shop. You’re going to have a very difficult time getting to where you want to go. You will be neither going to H-Mart nor Stop ‘n Shop. You will probably be fumbling around somewhere; maybe you’ll even fall down because you cannot have a clear consensus on the direction you would like to go.

Likewise, when we are thinking about how to practice this language of love in our daily life, we have to always start from the beginning. We have to always think about where we are going and what our goal is. That direction or purpose in our lives must always be centered on God. God has to be that direction. So despite the differences of what the right eyelid or the left eyelid might want to do, we have a clear purpose. We have a clear direction. We need to keep our eyelids clean from dust and impurities in the environment so that we allow this wonderful human being to see so we can find our way to the goal that we would like to reach, so that there is a common direction in our life.

Even between a husband and wife, when we base our relationship and our direction smack on God and centered on God, then everything falls into place. When you start your day with God, then you immediately understand that you have a certain amount of responsibility and that the day that’s given to you is really an opportunity to exercise this wonderful thing called love in your daily life with your spouse. So our individual pride, our individual arrogance, or maybe our individual desires of wanting our way all the time become secondary and don’t take priority. So the difficulties or obstacles that might stand in the way of a couple uniting together actually go away when we concentrate on the common ground, the common understanding that God is the center in every relationship.

I’ve often thought that another thing to keep in mind is the passage from I Thessalonians 5:11. The Bible tells us that when we’re thinking about speaking the language of love, we need to be constantly encouraging others and building each other up, just as we are doing. So again, this emphasizes very much having good will to others. I understand this passage to be a reminder for practicing compassion in our lives. It’s a call for us to be kind in words, but, even better, to be kind in our actions.

Sometimes when I’ve talked about kindness to my children, I’ve noticed that they’re not very keen on the word compassion or kindness. When Truston and Paxton are not happy with each other because they both want to do what they want to do, as a mother I’m encouraging them to unite together and work together because they are brothers. They think that being kind just means always giving in. But I always remind them that kindness can also be in the form of an incredible strength.

For instance, if you happen to have a friend who is an alcoholic or suffering with drugs, how can you be kind to this person? How do you encourage this person? How do you build this person up, still practicing love? Some people might think, “Just be kind. Buy them more alcohol, maybe buy more drugs. Why not go out and get the drugs for them so they don’t have to move and still get high? Isn’t that what a friend would do? Isn’t that kindness?”

Another way of looking at it is, being kind to somebody with severe problems means taking a stand. Instead of allowing yourself to be a codependent and therefore helping them to continue in their not-such-a-good-way, in order to be kind, you have to be strong. When you see a friend keeling over, lying in a pool of vomit, sometimes the kind thing to do is to leave him there. Sometimes the kind thing to do is to let him wake up and realize what a mess of life he has made. Sometimes the kind thing to do is not to take off his shirt and wash it for him, not to drag him into bed and clean him up, so that he wakes up as if nothing happened. Sometimes the kind thing to do is to allow that person to suffer the consequences of his actions.

Many times when you really care about somebody and when you love somebody like your best friend but you know they’re in trouble, the best thing that you can do as a friend is to be firm, to be constant, and allow them to help themselves. Let’s say in a family setting the two brothers, like Paxton and Truston, are not getting along. Say Truston is the elder, and the family has an incredible garden that we planted together in time for the fall harvest. Truston maybe one day decided, “Our family worked on the garden, but today I’ve decided the garden belongs to me.” Imagine Truston said to Paxton, “This is my garden. Trespassers will be thrown out.”

What should Paxton do as a younger brother, as somebody who truly loves his older brother? Understanding that the garden belongs to Heavenly Parent, it belongs to our True Parents, and it belongs to their parents, what should the younger brother do? Some people in town who happen to be friends of the older brother might look at Paxton and say, “You just need to love the older brother more. If you’re the Abel, love Cain more. Let him have everything. Just unite. Maybe he took the garden away from the family because you were such a lousy younger brother.” Or maybe Paxton’s friends might look at the situation and say, “Go and fight. Knock the eye sockets out of Truston. Go claim the garden back.”

What should Paxton do in this situation? What should the younger brother do? The younger brother should continue to love the older brother with all his heart and with all his might. But he needs to do the right thing also; he needs to confront the older brother with love and say, “Brother, what you’ve stolen from our family does not belong to you. It belongs to God, and it belongs to our family. What you are doing is wrong. Please, remember the common direction. Remember the common ground. Remember the common center, which is our True Parents, which is our parents. You have to be willing to lose everything in order to gain everything.”

If the older brother, Truston, took the garden by force, but the father and mother are saying, “No, no, give the garden back,” then if the older son Truston was mature enough, understanding that taking the garden away from the family and from God is not a good thing, he would return the garden to the parents and to God, and say, “Father, Mother, I made a mistake. Please forgive me. Please take back everything that I took from you, and you decide what I deserve.” If the older son did that, and if the younger son was standing there together with him, encouraging him to do the right thing for the family and for our Heavenly Father, then the younger brother would not only have not left his position, but he would have been the catalyst in uniting the family and actually inspiring the older brother to give back to the family what does not belong to him.

This is a simple example of what could go on, but of course when we’re trying to encourage and build up each other and empower each other, we all know that there’s a process involved. Sometimes the older brother might realize, “Whoops, I made a mistake,” maybe within a day. But maybe some older brothers will not realize that they made a mistake and decide, “You know what? I took over my garden. Now the neighbor’s garden looks pretty good, too. Let me go after that one.” Maybe the older brother will be on a feeding frenzy like this and will not realize for a long time, maybe months, maybe years, that he made a mistake.

If this older brother had a bunch of friends who really loved him with all their might and all their heart, and these friends could see the situation realistically, and if they were really this brother’s friends, what should they do? The kindest things the friends could do is to tell him, “Older brother, I love you to death. You’re my best friend. But what you’re doing to your family and to your neighbors is just not right. I want to walk with you. I want to play with you. I want to be with you all the time, but because I love you I am going to walk away from you. I am going to leave you so that you can experience the consequences of your actions. Because if you were to take the fruits of my garden from me, I would not be a good friend, to pretend that nothing happened. I would be very upset, and I need you to know I am upset. And you need to know that your parents are upset. If I am your friend, I am going to give you the opportunity to work it out with your parents, to work it out with your younger brother, and I’m going to walk away from you because I truly love you.” That’s what a true friend would do.

Maybe it’s not even a friend. Maybe Truston had a group of farmers working together with him in this garden. If you are a true worker, you must not only think about where you get your salary, but you also need to think, “How am I helping my farm? How am I helping my team? How am I helping my organization? If I continue to support a leader who steals from his family, who steals from God, and I’m only thinking about my salary, I am not being a true friend, nor a true object for this older brother Truston. If I truly love this older brother, I would have the courage and I would exercise my power to walk away and say, ‘Please work it out with your family. Please work it out with the higher powers.’” That’s love, brothers and sisters.

In Proverbs 3:27 - 28, the Bible talks about not withholding any good from somebody that deserves it, meaning if you are in a position of helping somebody today, don’t wait until tomorrow. When I read this passage, I understand it to be speaking about tearing down all the conditions that we put upon each other. Many times we raise barriers or walls, and many times we say, “I’d love to help you, but I’m too busy.”

Many times, now that I’ve come to this position as head of the American movement, I catch myself saying to my children, “I’m a little too busy.” But every time I say that and hang up the phone, I really have to reflect about it because one of the most precious things in our lives is our children and the ability that we have to spend time with them in a particular moment. Once that moment is gone, that moment will never come again.

I was having lunch the other day with a friend who’s an executive in the entertainment industry. He was telling me about how he has a two-year-old son, and he is so busy traveling around the world that he barely has time to see his child in the course of the week. The only time he really has for his family is sometimes a Saturday but usually a Sunday. That’s when he really wants to unwind because he travels so much and suffers from jet lag and stress. So when he comes home, he just wants to disappear under the bed covers and put a Do Not Disturb sign on his bedroom door. He doesn’t want his wife disturbing him; certainly he does not want his child disturbing him.

He said one day he came home and his son was basically taking a basketball and throwing it against the bedroom, saying, “Papa, boom, Papa.” Obviously the child so much wanted to spend time with the father. But the father was so tired because he had been so busy and he wanted to sleep. But the child wanted his attention, wanted playtime. Usually, he said, he would just ignore it and go to bed, but on that particular day he decided to open the door, let his son in, and play ball with him a little bit.

Even though the child was so young, having been accustomed to daddy never opening the door, he was so amazed that the door finally opened. My friend said, “I physically saw the expression on his face change from total hopelessness to incredible hope.” He had not realized until that moment what he had been teaching his child. His child had been learning, as his son, that when he banged on the master bedroom door, wanting attention and love, that he’s not going to get any response back. But this day was special because he got a response back. The father realized what kind of a transformation that allowed this child to have on his face, and he realized at that moment how incredibly important each moment of a child’s life is for him to experience it together as much as he possibly could.

For many of us, our children have grown up and gone on, walked down the aisle. My eldest son just got blessed recently to a wonderful bride. Now they’re on their merry way in trying to build this thing called an ideal family. When I look back on Preston’s life, I realize I had only a set amount of years when I could directly and profoundly touch his life. I will always be there for him as a mother, but those crucial years are so, so important.

Many times we as parents look at it as a natural thing. When two people come together, you’re bound to have a little one. But not much thought has gone into how we turn this little one into a fine human being. I believe that instead of a parent waiting for tomorrow, if we can find that moment to capture and to seize upon so that we can show our children how much we love them, then they will be so secure in their own skin, knowing that they are truly loved, and they will gladly go out into the world as confident sons and daughters of God.

I’ve noticed many times the way my friend was suffering, hurting, stressed out about his job -- so much traveling, so many deadlines, so many late nights. But he realized that sometimes when you are hurting the most, the best thing to solve your hurt or pain is by helping others. He realized that by seizing upon that moment and spending time with his child. Even though he didn’t have much energy to go on, he became so inspired that he didn’t feel like he needed three or four hours of extra sleep. In fact, he left his home feeling better because he had done something wonderful for his child.

I have another friend who is a very famous actress. When you’re working in Hollywood with various producers and casting directors, and there are many demands on you, demands to be thin and beautiful all the time, it’s very difficult. You’re trying to land the right roles, and it’s a very laborious process. She was getting to a point where she could not take the pressure any more, regardless of how successful she was. The more successful she got, the more depressed she got.

She fell into an incredibly depressed state, and she needed medical assistance to get better. But she realized that she was getting so depressed because she was so consumed with herself. So then she decided, “Let me try something different. Let me try thinking about other people.”

She started volunteering at children’s projects, helping them with artwork, making a T-shirt, building a teddy bear, and she started doing this volunteer work on weekends. She started thinking about the children for once, and not just herself. She realized that out of thinking and living for the sake of others, she felt so satisfied and fulfilled as a human being that she could be a better actress. She could be a happier person, and she could be a more grateful person in that she realized that because she was blessed with so much, she was able to open up her purse and share with the needy children. She realized what a fairy godmother she could be. She realized the goodness because she tapped into the rich reservoir that was already there.

It doesn’t matter who we are or where we come from. Many times in life we’re searching and looking and hoping to be loved. But when you meet people who are confident and very comfortable in their skin, you realize something. You realize that they love themselves. You realize that they’re grateful for what God has given them. You realize that these people, instead of looking outward to receive, most of these successful, confident, and healthy individuals tap within themselves this rich reservoir. They discover within themselves an endless and eternal pool of divinity that’s flowing through their veins. They realize that this divinity is unchanging, absolute, and eternal.

It’s so special because it’s unique to you, unique to me, unique to that person, unique to my children. We need to discover that we are beings of love, and all we need to do is reach out and instead of being a taker, start generating the true love action by being a giver, by serving others, by taking care of others, exercising compassion, exercising kindness with strength, exercising understanding and exercising this wonderful thing called an embrace, this wonderful thing called a hug.

I don’t know how many times my older brother said to me, “I wish my father would hug me. He always hugs you. Why doesn’t he hug me? I wish he would hug me.” Human beings are tactile creatures in that we need to feel this universal language. In order for us to speak this universal language effectively, we have to allow others to feel. It’s not just in the spoken word but in our actions as well.

As parents, how wonderful if we can hug our sons as we do our daughters! How wonderful if we can exercise the power of a very simple three-word sentence: “I love you.” The power of saying, “I love you,” has the power to melt the biggest iceberg around. I think we as a community don’t say it enough. We look at ourselves as a community of love; we look at ourselves as people who practice true love, but many times we don’t hug enough. Many times we don’t tell each other enough that we love each other.

If we can start with just these very basic, simple things within a family setting, realizing that we want to walk together with a clear and common purpose, which is God, living our lives for the sake of others because we are true sons and daughters of God, then these little things, before we know it, will become huge mountains and deep valleys. They will become the most beautiful oceans and the most majestic skies. They will become the most awesome trees, the most beautiful creatures.

When the band sang today, they touched upon a lot of different themes, but when we listen to their singing, it’s a wonderful opportunity to remember that everybody here is a divine human being and that everybody is so beautiful in God’s eyes. When God looks upon you, you wake up more beautiful each and every day. That’s how he sees us; that’s how she sees us.

As our eternal parent, what God would like to see in his children is for us, who start out as crawling caterpillars maybe in a preparation phase, to enter and become the chrysalis. Maybe this is the time when we focus and harness our gifts and our strength to work on our weaknesses. Then we can enter another phase in our life when we can finally act, can finally fly like the beautiful butterfly that we all are.

I know that our Heavenly Father, when he gazes upon each and every one of us, is waiting for us to turn into a beautiful butterfly. Because I have five children of my own, I pretty much know the Disney catalog by heart, and the Pixar catalog. One of my favorites is A Bug’s Life, and one of its cutest characters is a German caterpillar whose name is Heimlich. He’s this fat, gorgeous little thing that’s crawling around, speaking with a German accent, who goes around saying, “I vant to be a beautiful butterfly.” That’s what he wants to be for his whole life. Of course, we love him because he’s so touchy and he’s so cute and has this adorable German accent. And at the end of the movie he turns into a graceful, beautiful butterfly, and he flies all over the place.

I think, brothers and sisters, what God is waiting for -- and maybe there are some Heimlichs in the audience here, too -- is for us to take flight, to have lived a life well, preparing and really focusing on what our unique gifts are so that when we finally fly, we can give something beautiful back to the world, just the way the great artists like Picasso gave back to the world something that was of his own making, something eternally beautiful, but with his unique imprint.

Each and every one of us is not put on earth to suffer and just crawl along. We were meant to fly, beautifully, and we were meant to leave something behind beautifully -- maybe through our artistic efforts, or through the unique gifts and talents that God blessed us with.

I hope that as you think about this next week and as you gaze upon your children and gaze upon your own body, and your own face, that you can think about having a clear direction. Whenever you have more than one person in the family, there has to be some kind of consensus, some kind of understanding of where you are going.

In our daily living, let’s allow ourselves the opportunity to practice compassion and kindness in many different settings, sometimes by being strong, sometimes by giving in, and at the same time be those wonderful human beings who do not withhold out of fear. Be that person who has the courage to love, who has the courage to help, who has the courage to say, “I might be suffering, but I am going to rise above my suffering and decide to help somebody today.”

If we keep doing little things like this each and every day, we’re going to slowly become masters of this thing called true love. Before we know it, our families will be healthier, our families will be more loving, our families will be closer, and our families will be talking to each other, which is a wonderful and a vital thing in a family.

Please have a wonderful Sunday and a great week, and God bless.

Amos, chapter 3

1: Hear this word that the LORD has spoken against you, O people of Israel, against the whole family which I brought up out of the land of Egypt:

2: "You only have I known
of all the families of the earth;
therefore I will punish you
for all your iniquities.

3: "Do two walk together,
unless they have made an appointment?

4: Does a lion roar in the forest,
when he has no prey?
Does a young lion cry out from his den,
if he has taken nothing?

5: Does a bird fall in a snare on the earth,
when there is no trap for it?
Does a snare spring up from the ground,
when it has taken nothing?

6: Is a trumpet blown in a city,
and the people are not afraid?
Does evil befall a city,
unless the LORD has done it?

7: Surely the Lord GOD does nothing,
without revealing his secret
to his servants the prophets.

8: The lion has roared;
who will not fear?
The Lord GOD has spoken;
who can but prophesy?"

9: Proclaim to the strongholds in Assyria,
and to the strongholds in the land of Egypt,
and say, "Assemble yourselves upon the mountains of Sama'ria,
and see the great tumults within her,
and the oppressions in her midst."

10: "They do not know how to do right," says the LORD,
"those who store up violence and robbery in their strongholds."

11: Therefore thus says the Lord GOD:
"An adversary shall surround the land,
and bring down your defenses from you,
and your strongholds shall be plundered."

12: Thus says the LORD: "As the shepherd rescues from the mouth of the lion two legs, or a piece of an ear, so shall the people of Israel who dwell in Sama'ria be rescued, with the corner of a couch and part of a bed."

13: "Hear, and testify against the house of Jacob,"
says the Lord GOD, the God of hosts,

14: "that on the day I punish Israel for his transgressions,
I will punish the altars of Bethel,
and the horns of the altar shall be cut off
and fall to the ground.

15: I will smite the winter house with the summer house;
and the houses of ivory shall perish,
and the great houses shall come to an end," says the LORD.

1 Thessalonians, chapter 5

1: But as to the times and the seasons, brethren, you have no need to have anything written to you.

2: For you yourselves know well that the day of the Lord will come like a thief in the night.

3: When people say, "There is peace and security," then sudden destruction will come upon them as travail comes upon a woman with child, and there will be no escape.

4: But you are not in darkness, brethren, for that day to surprise you like a thief.

5: For you are all sons of light and sons of the day; we are not of the night or of darkness.

6: So then let us not sleep, as others do, but let us keep awake and be sober.

7: For those who sleep sleep at night, and those who get drunk are drunk at night.

8: But, since we belong to the day, let us be sober, and put on the breastplate of faith and love, and for a helmet the hope of salvation.

9: For God has not destined us for wrath, but to obtain salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ,

10: who died for us so that whether we wake or sleep we might live with him.

11: Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.

12: But we beseech you, brethren, to respect those who labor among you and are over you in the Lord and admonish you,

13: and to esteem them very highly in love because of their work. Be at peace among yourselves.

14: And we exhort you, brethren, admonish the idlers, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, be patient with them all.

15: See that none of you repays evil for evil, but always seek to do good to one another and to all.

16: Rejoice always,

17: pray constantly,

18: give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.

19: Do not quench the Spirit,

20: do not despise prophesying,

21: but test everything; hold fast what is good,

22: abstain from every form of evil.

23: May the God of peace himself sanctify you wholly; and may your spirit and soul and body be kept sound and blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.

24: He who calls you is faithful, and he will do it.

25: Brethren, pray for us.

26: Greet all the brethren with a holy kiss.

27: I adjure you by the Lord that this letter be read to all the brethren.

28: The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you.

The Books of Proverbs, chapter 3

1: My son, do not forget my teaching,
but let your heart keep my commandments;

2: for length of days and years of life
and abundant welfare will they give you.

3: Let not loyalty and faithfulness forsake you;
bind them about your neck,
write them on the tablet of your heart.

4: So you will find favor and good repute
in the sight of God and man.

5: Trust in the LORD with all your heart,
and do not rely on your own insight.

6: In all your ways acknowledge him,
and he will make straight your paths.

7: Be not wise in your own eyes;
fear the LORD, and turn away from evil.

8: It will be healing to your flesh
and refreshment to your bones.

9: Honor the LORD with your substance|
and with the first fruits of all your produce;

10: then your barns will be filled with plenty,
and your vats will be bursting with wine.

11: My son, do not despise the LORD's discipline
or be weary of his reproof,

12: for the LORD reproves him whom he loves,
as a father the son in whom he delights.

13: Happy is the man who finds wisdom,
and the man who gets understanding,

14: for the gain from it is better than gain from silver
and its profit better than gold.

15: She is more precious than jewels,
and nothing you desire can compare with her.

16: Long life is in her right hand;
in her left hand are riches and honor.

17: Her ways are ways of pleasantness,
and all her paths are peace.

18: She is a tree of life to those who lay hold of her;
those who hold her fast are called happy.

19: The LORD by wisdom founded the earth;
by understanding he established the heavens;

20: by his knowledge the deeps broke forth,
and the clouds drop down the dew.

21: My son, keep sound wisdom and discretion;
let them not escape from your sight,

22: and they will be life for your soul
and adornment for your neck.

23: Then you will walk on your way securely
and your foot will not stumble.

24: If you sit down, you will not be afraid;
when you lie down, your sleep will be sweet.

25: Do not be afraid of sudden panic,
or of the ruin of the wicked, when it comes;

26: for the LORD will be your confidence
and will keep your foot from being caught.

27: Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due,
when it is in your power to do it.

28: Do not say to your neighbor, "Go, and come again,
tomorrow I will give it" -- when you have it with you.

29: Do not plan evil against your neighbor
who dwells trustingly beside you.

30: Do not contend with a man for no reason,
when he has done you no harm.

31: Do not envy a man of violence
and do not choose any of his ways;

32: for the perverse man is an abomination to the LORD,
but the upright are in his confidence.

33: The LORD's curse is on the house of the wicked,
but he blesses the abode of the righteous.

34: Toward the scorners he is scornful,
but to the humble he shows favor.

35: The wise will inherit honor,
but fools get disgrace. 

Our Lives Should Be Built In Love

In Jin Moon
November 1, 2009
Lovin' Life Ministries

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Good morning, brothers and sisters. How are you this Sunday morning? Did everybody have a wonderful week? Adults and children alike, I’m assuming that you all had a lovely Halloween, yes?

Here at Lovin’ Life Ministries we have different young adult ministries going on. Yesterday we had a big Halloween party at Belvedere. A lot of kids got together with some of the adults, and my husband was terribly happy to put on his costume to be part of the festivities. For those of you who know my husband, he’s a die-hard Trekkie. Halloween is a wonderful opportunity for him to play Captain Kirk. So he put on his Captain Kirk costume and took two of my boys: one as a gladiator and one as a witch, I think. Off they went to the party, and I heard they had a fantastic time.

He was so pleased because after the awards ceremony for the scariest costume, Jaga, the Young Adult minister at the WestRock community, gave my husband a Trekkie greeting, which is basically using a certain gesture and saying, “Live long and prosper.” So when he came back, it was the first thing he said to me: “Live long and prosper.” I’ve never seen him so happy. He’s always trying to take me to these Star Trek conferences when they come to town, but Halloween is a perfect excuse for him to just have a grand old time and play Captain Kirk.

I asked him, “Did you meet a lot of lovely aliens?” He came home very, very happy. It was just wonderful to see the whole family spending time together; especially the children seem to have had a wonderful time with their brothers and sisters out in WestRock, so I was terribly pleased.

This morning when I got up and was meditating about what I could share with my brothers and sisters here, a thought came to mind, something that my father said to his children time and time again. He used to tell us that there are three most important times in a person’s life: when the person is born, when the person gets married, and when the person departs to join together with our Heavenly Parent. He has always taught his children that we come naked into this world and we leave naked to the next world. The life that we have given to us is God’s gift to us. He has given us the opportunity to leave something beautiful for future generations. My father has time and time again reminded us that our life is really a gift from our Heavenly Parent, an opportunity to create beauty, to experience love, and to leave something behind that’s beautiful.

To a mother there’s nothing more beautiful than children, and, from my father and mother’s point of view, there was nothing more beautiful to them than us, their children. So they’ve encouraged us from time to time to not just look at life as something that’s just haphazard, that should be lived selfishly, or lived without any thought. My father very much encouraged us to really appreciate each and every day, and to realize that everything that is put upon us in terms of blessing, in terms of our talents, in terms of what we can do with our lives -- meaning having careers or being blessed to sing like our performers here, or any of these external qualities -- these are the accoutrements that make life interesting, intriguing, and stimulating. At the core, we are all divine beings. The incredible thing about our lives is we have our eternal Heavenly Parent, and to know that we are his and her eternal sons and daughters has got to be the greatest gift.

Our lives are so precious and really need to be taken care of. One of the things my father used to always say, and what I shared with you earlier in the Scripture reading, is that if you want to live a good life, you must speak with your innermost self. He understands very well that every word spoken is a vehicle of emotion. Words have incredible power, the incredible quality to nurture, to make something transcendent. But words also have the power to abuse, to really hurt, and to incapacitate a person. My parents always encouraged us to think about how and what you are saying.

When my father is asking all of us to speak with our innermost self, what he is asking us to do is to tap into the divine within us and really be connected to this true love circuitry. It’s like we are light-bulbs being plugged into the heavenly circuitry of true love. As long as we are plugged into this incredible, eternal, absolute, unique power of true love, then we can become incredible divine beings that illuminate the world around us with love, caring, compassion, and a huge embrace.

If all of us can tap into what is divine, and we realize that the words that we speak to one another can be vehicles of emotion that can empower, support, and engage each other in this wonderful thing called true love circuitry, then that’s a great beginning for a great day and a great beginning for a great month, and, before you know it, a great beginning for a great life.

When my father talks about speaking with your innermost self, he is reminding all of us that we are sons and daughters of God and we have infinite goodness, infinite divinity, and this divinity comes from our father and mother up in heaven, our Heavenly Parent. What could be more beautiful?

When we explore the Indian religion of Jainism, which I shared about earlier also in the Scripture readings, we realize that it teaches that birth doesn’t guarantee greatness. Every human being wants to become a great person, a great man or woman of God. But this reading reminds us that birth is just the beginning, the starting point. It’s really the daily cultivation of virtues that allows a person to become great. Here in that Scripture reading, it reminds us that it’s the pearl in the oyster that possesses greatness. Each person sitting in this room is like a beautiful pearl. We all came from an oyster that had two shells, did we not? The shells are the father and mother that take care of us, nurture us, and feed us.

A grain of sand is what starts provoking and stimulating the oyster to create a pearl. Making a pearl takes an incredible amount of time, and maybe it’s highly irritating for the two shells, too, right? Anyone who has children knows that they start out as a beautiful bundle of joy, but very soon they enter the terrible two’s, when they start asserting the self, learning the word no, and everything is a “No.” But with love, care, and guidance, they can grow into beautiful sons and daughters of God, beautiful men and women of God. We know that this growth period takes time, just as it takes time for something like a pearl to be created.

Have any of you visited Disneyland or Sea World? You can go to a place where there’s a basket of oysters in their shells. You can pick a particular oyster to see if it has a beautiful pearl or not? Usually the prize pearl is the blue pearl. I’ve been fascinated by the fact that people who are searching for the most beautiful oyster, the most beautiful exterior, rarely get a blue pearl. Because I was like a surrogate mother for my younger siblings and I also have five children of my own, I’ve been a great client of Sea World and Disneyland. But from my experience of visiting these oyster baskets over the years, I realized that it’s not the most beautiful oyster that yields the most brilliant blue pearls. It’s usually the oyster that looks quite awful, that has what looks like fur. The external shell doesn’t look as pristine as other oysters in the basket, and some are downright ugly.

Many people don’t want to choose the ugly oyster, but are still hoping for the blue pearl. But in my experience it’s usually the ugliest oyster that has a really incredible blue pearl. That is a wonderful reminder for me that it really doesn’t matter what the exterior of a person is. I think a lot of young people going out with their friends don’t want to hang out together with their family, right? Because your parents are not cool looking enough for you. They don’t look like Antonio Banderas or Nicole Kidman? You want to hang out with the young and beautiful people and stay away from your parents.

But the pearls, you and all of us, must not forget where we come from. We come from these two shells, our father and mother. If we truly think we are awesome, we have them to thank. We have our Heavenly Parent to thank.

This passage from Jainism is a reminder that life is a process. It takes a great deal of time. When you are in the mode of cultivating something like a garden, you know that it’s going to take a lot of love and dedication. I remember having dinner with Joe, one of the guitarists here, and he was saying that he practices three hours a day as a bare minimum. It is that kind of diligence and personal investment, that kind of cultivation of our individual talent, that allows us to be the brilliant artist that each and every one of us were meant to be.

Joe just happens to be a great guitar player, but maybe some of you are brilliant academics, or brilliant writers, or incredible doctors, or the most intuitive professors. These are the gifts that our Heavenly Parent gave to us. Within the context of our lives it’s really our honor and privilege to have this opportunity to cultivate ourselves so we can leave something beautiful for others and share something that belongs only to us with the rest of the world. I think there’s nothing more beautiful than that.

When we go to the Holy Bible, I Corinthians 8:1 - 3, it reminds us that our lives should be built on love; when building our lives, when constructing each family, or our careers, or our various relationships, the most important ingredient has got to be love. I love reading this passage in Corinthians because it’s a wonderful reminder for me to be humble and to realize that in the face of our Heavenly Parent there is no need to puff ourselves up. Knowledge puffs up, but it’s love that builds up a person.

Many times, especially for those of us working here in New York City where everything is fast paced and is about the bottom line and getting things done on time, sometimes we degenerate into perfunctory creatures that go about our day on a routine scheduling. Many times we forget who we are. We forget that these careers and professions, or this knowledge that gives us a feeling of incredible power, almost like being masters of the universe, is really nothing but an extension of what was already given to us by God, our Heavenly Parent.

If we don’t realize that what we are -- meaning a professional identity -- is different from who we are internally, inside, as the eternal sons and daughters of God, then sometimes we can feel lost. I usually say that you can see a lot in a word. When you look at the word lost as an acronym, you see that the word can signify L, lonely, almost like an orphan, O. Then S, seeking, somebody who’s seeking something. What is everybody seeking at the end of the day? Everybody wants to come home at the end of the day, and there is nothing greater than the feeling of coming home. The thing about home is that’s where there is implicit trust, T, in the relationships that you share with your parents, your siblings, and your spouse.

When we are lost in this modern, fast-paced world, forgetting who we are, not realizing maybe we don’t have our circuitry plugged into this wonderful thing called God, then sometimes we go about our daily lives like lonely orphans, searching for truth, searching for trust, searching for comfort. But when we remember who we are and remember that God is our Heavenly Parent, then nothing can make us feel like we are alone. We realize that we’re part of something bigger than who we are. We are not mere individuals or dust in the wind, as the group Kansas liked to sing. We are excellent beings put upon this earth to leave something beautiful and worthwhile behind.

On October 14 my parents officiated at the blessing of over 40,000 couples all around the world. The incredible thing about the blessing is that it’s a gift from our Heavenly Father to finally allow humanity to graft onto this thing called a heavenly olive branch. For the first time in history, we have a father and a mother, a man and a woman, representing True Parents. Unlike Jesus and Christianity, giving us only the model of a male figure, now we have a model of a male and female figure. But more beautiful than that, we have the model of the True Parents, a model of how we can raise and educate great kids.

As a mother myself, not a day goes by when I do not think about leaving something beautiful behind. If I was born naked and I will leave this world naked, what beauty, what goodness, am I going to leave behind? As a mother, I feel that the most important gift that I can give to humanity is to raise great kids, to raise wonderful children who see God as their Heavenly Parent, wonderful children who are so aware of who they are as sons and daughters of God, incredible children who want to live a life of altruism, for the sake of others, “just because.” Not because they want a reward up in heaven or to eschew punishment in hell, but just because they want to be good people who understand the profundity of the word compassion.

When the Dalai Lama visited Manhattan Center a couple of weeks ago, he defined his religion as kindness. He said, “Kindness is my religion.” Implicit in the word compassion is the call to stand against anything violent. There is a philosophy of nonviolence in that word compassion. When a child begins to see the whole world as his family, it’s no longer the Jews against the Christians; it’s no longer the Muslims against the Christians. We realize that we are part and parcel of one family that belongs to God.

Just as when you look at a brilliant rainbow and see all the different colors included, all the different religions are just different expressions of the divine. Instead of hating each other for our differences, how wonderful it would be if we remind ourselves of our common denominator that is God, our Heavenly Parent. How wonderful it would be if we can raise a generation of beautiful sons and daughters, beautiful men and women of God, who do not look at their lives as only an invitation for suffering and pain but realize that life is about the celebration of something beautiful, something loving, something really profound.

How wonderful it would be to realize that we come naked into this world, we leave naked out of this world, but we can do something beautiful while we have the great gift of our lives. How wonderful it would be if we can inspire the young people to not waste their lives, which are the most precious gifts; every breath they take is a gift from God, so let’s make it count. How wonderful it would be if we can inspire the young people to be not just externally excellent, not just brilliant businessmen, brilliant doctors, but to look beyond the dollar, beyond tenure, beyond to something that’s eternal and to be internally excellent human beings as well. Then the peace that we’ve so longed for in our lives is just around the corner.

At the close of every day, I like to take five or ten minutes to reflect on Luke 1:47, “How I rejoice in my God, my savior.” It reminds me that it’s not the right man, the right woman, the right job, the right career, the right profession, the right house, or the right car that truly makes one happy. It’s in the decision that we make each and every day as mature human beings to live our lives rejoicing in God as our savior. Once we make that choice to remind ourselves who we are and to carry out that decision in our daily life, and we start with God, then everything else will follow.

In addition to different Scripture passages that have become some of my favorites, I like to read a little bit of poetry, too. One of my favorite poets is a Sufi poet named Rumi. I want to leave you today with what he has said. He said to some of his brothers and sisters,

“Do not just read stories. Do not just look and take in what others have done before you or what others will do after you.”

He encouraged his followers to unfold their own myth.

What he is saying is that we have an incredible gift that came from our Heavenly Father that is just waiting to be shared. Our story is waiting to be told. It’s our job to start to slowly unfold our own stories, to allow the greatness, the divine greatness to come out from all of us. The profound understanding that’s speaking with our innermost self is really a call to live our life as a living prayer.

Just as when we become parents and we long for intimate conversations with our children, that’s what God longs for from all of us. Prayer is not just a recitation of a ritual or a memorized Scripture reading. A prayer is a spiritual communication, conversation, communion with our Heavenly Parent. It’s an invitation for God to have us come and talk to him. So converse with God, not just sitting before the altar and praying, but converse with him in everything that you do. Converse with him as you’re driving to work, as you’re putting your children to bed. Let’s make God a part of our lives. In so doing, we realize that we are truly one family after all.

Please have a wonderful Sunday and a lovely week, and God bless

1 Corinthians, chapter 8

1: Now concerning food offered to idols: we know that "all of us possess knowledge." "Knowledge" puffs up, but love builds up.

2: If any one imagines that he knows something, he does not yet know as he ought to know.

3: But if one loves God, one is known by him.

4: Hence, as to the eating of food offered to idols, we know that "an idol has no real existence," and that "there is no God but one."

5: For although there may be so-called gods in heaven or on earth -- as indeed there are many "gods" and many "lords" --

6: yet for us there is one God, the Father, from whom are all things and for whom we exist, and one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom are all things and through whom we exist.

7: However, not all possess this knowledge. But some, through being hitherto accustomed to idols, eat food as really offered to an idol; and their conscience, being weak, is defiled.

8: Food will not commend us to God. We are no worse off if we do not eat, and no better off if we do.

9: Only take care lest this liberty of yours somehow become a stumbling block to the weak.

10: For if any one sees you, a man of knowledge, at table in an idol's temple, might he not be encouraged, if his conscience is weak, to eat food offered to idols?

11: And so by your knowledge this weak man is destroyed, the brother for whom Christ died.

12: Thus, sinning against your brethren and wounding their conscience when it is weak, you sin against Christ.

13: Therefore, if food is a cause of my brother's falling, I will never eat meat, lest I cause my brother to fall.

Luke, chapter 1

1: Inasmuch as many have undertaken to compile a narrative of the things which have been accomplished among us,

2: just as they were delivered to us by those who from the beginning were eyewitnesses and ministers of the word,

3: it seemed good to me also, having followed all things closely for some time past, to write an orderly account for you, most excellent The-oph'ilus,

4: that you may know the truth concerning the things of which you have been informed.

5: In the days of Herod, king of Judea, there was a priest named Zechari'ah, of the division of Abi'jah; and he had a wife of the daughters of Aaron, and her name was Elizabeth.

6: And they were both righteous before God, walking in all the commandments and ordinances of the Lord blameless.

7: But they had no child, because Elizabeth was barren, and both were advanced in years.

8: Now while he was serving as priest before God when his division was on duty,

9: according to the custom of the priesthood, it fell to him by lot to enter the temple of the Lord and burn incense.

10: And the whole multitude of the people were praying outside at the hour of incense.

11: And there appeared to him an angel of the Lord standing on the right side of the altar of incense.

12: And Zechari'ah was troubled when he saw him, and fear fell upon him.

13: But the angel said to him, "Do not be afraid, Zechari'ah, for your prayer is heard, and your wife Elizabeth will bear you a son, and you shall call his name John.

14: And you will have joy and gladness,
and many will rejoice at his birth;

15: for he will be great before the Lord,
and he shall drink no wine nor strong drink,
and he will be filled with the Holy Spirit,
even from his mother's womb.

16: And he will turn many of the sons of Israel to the Lord their God,

17: and he will go before him in the spirit and power of Eli'jah,
to turn the hearts of the fathers to the children,
and the disobedient to the wisdom of the just,
to make ready for the Lord a people prepared."

18: And Zechari'ah said to the angel, "How shall I know this? For I am an old man, and my wife is advanced in years."

19: And the angel answered him, "I am Gabriel, who stand in the presence of God; and I was sent to speak to you, and to bring you this good news.

20: And behold, you will be silent and unable to speak until the day that these things come to pass, because you did not believe my words, which will be fulfilled in their time."

21: And the people were waiting for Zechari'ah, and they wondered at his delay in the temple.

22: And when he came out, he could not speak to them, and they perceived that he had seen a vision in the temple; and he made signs to them and remained dumb.

23: And when his time of service was ended, he went to his home.

24: After these days his wife Elizabeth conceived, and for five months she hid herself, saying,

25: "Thus the Lord has done to me in the days when he looked on me, to take away my reproach among men."

26: In the sixth month the angel Gabriel was sent from God to a city of Galilee named Nazareth,

27: to a virgin betrothed to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David; and the virgin's name was Mary.

28: And he came to her and said, "Hail, O favored one, the Lord is with you!"

29: But she was greatly troubled at the saying, and considered in her mind what sort of greeting this might be.

30: And the angel said to her, "Do not be afraid, Mary, for you have found favor with God.

31: And behold, you will conceive in your womb and bear a son, and you shall call his name Jesus.

32: He will be great, and will be called the Son of the Most High;
and the Lord God will give to him the throne of his father David,

33: and he will reign over the house of Jacob for ever;
and of his kingdom there will be no end."

34: And Mary said to the angel, "How shall this be, since I have no husband?"

35: And the angel said to her, "The Holy Spirit will come upon you,
and the power of the Most High will overshadow you;
therefore the child to be born will be called holy,
the Son of God.

36: And behold, your kinswoman Elizabeth in her old age has also conceived a son; and this is the sixth month with her who was called barren.

37: For with God nothing will be impossible."

38: And Mary said, "Behold, I am the handmaid of the Lord; let it be to me according to your word." And the angel departed from her.

39: In those days Mary arose and went with haste into the hill country, to a city of Judah,

40: and she entered the house of Zechari'ah and greeted Elizabeth.

41: And when Elizabeth heard the greeting of Mary, the babe leaped in her womb; and Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit

42: and she exclaimed with a loud cry, "Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb!

43: And why is this granted me, that the mother of my Lord should come to me?

44: For behold, when the voice of your greeting came to my ears, the babe in my womb leaped for joy.

45: And blessed is she who believed that there would be a fulfilment of what was spoken to her from the Lord."

46: And Mary said, "My soul magnifies the Lord,

47: and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior,

48: for he has regarded the low estate of his handmaiden.
For behold, henceforth all generations will call me blessed;

49: for he who is mighty has done great things for me,
and holy is his name.

50: And his mercy is on those who fear him
from generation to generation.

51: He has shown strength with his arm,
he has scattered the proud in the imagination of their hearts,

52: he has put down the mighty from their thrones,
and exalted those of low degree;

53: he has filled the hungry with good things,
and the rich he has sent empty away.

54: He has helped his servant Israel,
in remembrance of his mercy,

55: as he spoke to our fathers,
to Abraham and to his posterity for ever."

56: And Mary remained with her about three months, and returned to her home.

57: Now the time came for Elizabeth to be delivered, and she gave birth to a son.

58: And her neighbors and kinsfolk heard that the Lord had shown great mercy to her, and they rejoiced with her.

59: And on the eighth day they came to circumcise the child; and they would have named him Zechari'ah after his father,

60: but his mother said, "Not so; he shall be called John."

61: And they said to her, "None of your kindred is called by this name."

62: And they made signs to his father, inquiring what he would have him called.

63: And he asked for a writing tablet, and wrote, "His name is John." And they all marveled.

64: And immediately his mouth was opened and his tongue loosed, and he spoke, blessing God.

65: And fear came on all their neighbors. And all these things were talked about through all the hill country of Judea;

66: and all who heard them laid them up in their hearts, saying, "What then will this child be?" For the hand of the Lord was with him.

67: And his father Zechari'ah was filled with the Holy Spirit, and prophesied, saying,

68: "Blessed be the Lord God of Israel,
for he has visited and redeemed his people,

69: and has raised up a horn of salvation for us
in the house of his servant David,

70: as he spoke by the mouth of his holy prophets from of old,

71: that we should be saved from our enemies,
and from the hand of all who hate us;

72: to perform the mercy promised to our fathers,
and to remember his holy covenant,

73: the oath which he swore to our father Abraham,

74: to grant us that we, being delivered from the hand of our enemies,
might serve him without fear,

75: in holiness and righteousness before him all the days of our life.

76: And you, child, will be called the prophet of the Most High;
for you will go before the Lord to prepare his ways,

77: to give knowledge of salvation to his people
in the forgiveness of their sins,

78: through the tender mercy of our God,
when the day shall dawn upon us from on high

79: to give light to those who sit in darkness and in the shadow of death,
to guide our feet into the way of peace."

80: And the child grew and became strong in spirit, and he was in the wilderness till the day of his manifestation to Israel.  

My Eldest Son And His New Bride Participated In The Blessing

In Jin Moon
October 25, 2009
Lovin' Life Ministries
Las Vegas, NV

Good morning, brothers and sisters. Thank you for coming all the way to Las Vegas to share this Sunday morning together with Lovin’ Life Ministries. We’re truly delighted to be here and to meet all of you from the West Coast.

We’ve had a very exciting month of October thus far. As you know, on October 14, at Sun Moon University in Korea, my father and mother, the True Parents, presided over the blessing of over 40,000 couples. Many of them were going to the blessing for the first time, but many of us were there renewing our vows, really remembering what the blessing means to all of us as well as the importance of committing to God and to our community before ourselves.

It was such a wonderful blessing ceremony, but for me it was truly a profound one because my eldest son and his new bride were also participating in the blessing. My parents had been looking for a bride for my eldest son, Preston, for quite some time. My parents had been after me with many pictures of potential spouses for Preston, but they came across this lovely young lady named Krista Un Jung at one of the Hoon Dok Haes we had at East Garden. Mother wanted to meet this young lady and asked her up to the second floor. Shortly thereafter Father joined, and both of them said, “Bring her to Korea.”

I had an inkling of what was to happen, but they didn’t tell me anything. They didn’t give me the final word. All they said was, “Bring her to Korea.” I knew that they were considering other candidates as well. I tried to prepare my eldest son as best I could, saying, “This is probably one of the most important times in your life, probably the most important meeting that you’re going to have with your grandparents. So keep an open mind, have a grateful heart, and just be ready for anything. And hopefully your experience will be far better than mine.” So off we went to Korea. When we arrived, then Father and Mother let me know their decision, that it was to be Krista Un Jung. So we had to quickly prepare for the blessing, and they participated together with 40,000 couples.

Among the couples that were getting blessed together with them was the second daughter of the former president of Korea, President Park, who was assassinated. She came to be blessed with a gentleman that she wanted to share eternity with.

The world is coming to understand how incredible it is to be living in a time when we have our True Parents here and that for the first time in history we can truly inherit the true love of God, inherit meaning that we have a chance to substantiate the true lineage of God. It’s an invitation for humanity to literally graft onto the original olive branch and thus not just in spirit become one family but physically also become one family.

This is something that has always inspired me when I heard the Divine Principle, when I thought about the concept of the blessing. To realize that the world is recognizing the concept of the blessing and how beautiful it is to truly dedicate yourself to God and to humanity first, before yourselves, truly practicing living for the sake of others, is wonderful to behold. I just want to do my part as senior pastor of Lovin’ Life Ministries to make sure that the American movement does not get left behind because there will be so much interest in new people wanting to be a part of this movement and wanting to walk down the aisle and be blessed by our True Parents.

Brothers and sisters, our Father has spoken time and time again about how he will be leaving us in the year 2013. Even when we were there for the blessing and had a celebratory luncheon, my father started out reading the text, but of course digressed a bit and gave his insights on the different points that he wanted to make in his speech. But at one moment he got quite teary-eyed and wanted someone to bring the book that he likes to read at Hoon Dok Hae which is favorite speech. My father was talking about how everything that he wants to teach is in this book. “This is the book that encapsulates what I have done with my life.”

He was talking about how it wasn’t intentional when he started writing this speech for it to be 33 pages long. He told the audience, “Look at the book: It’s 33 pages. It represents 33 years of my crucifixion, of my road of suffering.” Then he said, “Look at the last page. It’s barely three sentences long.” He was talking about how there’s a constant repetition of the number 3, explaining that he has only three years and three months to go.

I think my father was realizing, “If only I had a little more time.” He’s thinking about everything that he would like to do, he is thinking about why he was given life to begin with and the kind of life that he has led thus far, in trying to substantiate an ideal family, sharing God’s grace with all of humanity through this wonderful thing called the blessing.

Watching my father get quite teary-eyed thinking about the time when he will have to leave us for the next life, I could sense near-desperation in his heart to share the breaking news with the rest of the world that our True Parents are here and that an opportunity exists for all of humanity to really and literally become one family. I could not stay until the end of my father’s speech, and I heard that he continued until 5:00 in the evening; I had to catch a flight back to New York because I had President Obama coming to the Manhattan Center.

When I think about my father and my mother, especially what incredible human beings they are, I cannot help but be so grateful in my heart that I have a living example of a man and a woman whom I can hope to live up to. Sometimes they say it’s the people closest to a great man and a great woman who do not realize their value. It’s the place right underneath the lamp that many times is the darkest. I feel that as the world is slowly waking up to this beauty of what True Parents are all about, we have to be careful as a movement, as people who have been close to our True Parents, standing right next to them, underneath their lamp. We must not be the ones who live in the shadow, not realizing what an incredible gift they are.

Speaking for myself, when I was growing up I went through a period of adolescence. Having a wonderful set of parents like True Parents and having gone through many workshops and learning about the Divine Principle, I knew in my mind that they were great people, conceptually, because I was taught they were a great man and woman. But it took me a long time to really, truly feel it in my heart. I started really feeling it in my heart when I became a parent myself and started realizing that when I gaze upon my child and feel this incredible love coming over me, that’s the kind of love that God has for me. That’s the kind of love that God has for us. I realize that’s the kind of love my parents have for me.

So even though they were gone many times, never there for their children, I came to know that truly they were living lives of sacrifice, giving of themselves to the world before they could truly have a chance to love us. And all the while they were hoping that we would grow up and come to realize why they had to do what they had to do.

I think all 13 of us in the family have gone down our own road of self-discovery and of coming to realize how great and incredible our True Parents are. I feel that as a member of the Second Generation, it’s my job to remind the young people in the audience of how incredible the First Generation, our parents, and their sacrifice have been.

As crazy as we thought they were at times, it is their sacrifice and their tenacity that allowed us to have this incredible life, that allowed us to really enjoy being part of the true lineage of God. Therefore, what we need to do as members of the Second and Third Generation, and now we’re on to the Fourth, is to maintain a heart of gratitude, a heart of knowing how incredibly lucky we are, if we look at ourselves from a providential point of view.

Jesus Christ came 2,000 years ago, and of course we know the tragic circumstances of his crucifixion, especially that he was not able to fulfill his mission in finding his bride and creating an ideal family. Had Jesus been able to do so, he would have started blessing people 2,000 years ago. But we know that that did not take place, and we had to wait 2,000 years until our True Father could stand in a victorious position as the perfected Adam, preparing the way to invite and embrace a perfected Eve, which is our True Mother, and together stand for the first time as True Parents of humankind.

It is through their accomplishment in truly becoming a victorious man and woman, overcoming every kind of individual suffering and obstacle, to really understand that their life on earth is something more than for themselves and that God is asking them to be champions of true love. My father knew when he was called by Jesus Christ while praying on his knees on Easter Sunday morning when he was 16 years old that his mission was not going to be an easy one. But from the moment he said yes, he never wavered. He is at the ripe old age of 90 and still going strong.

Ever since that moment when my mother said, “I do,” to my father when she was 17 years old, she has never wavered. Whenever I spend time with my mother, there is never a moment when we have a conversation that we are without a Kleenex box. She likes to share a lot of things with me, things that cannot be spoken, things that she’s had to endure as a woman and as somebody who is here to really, truly manifest what the Holy Spirit is all about.

Because Jesus was not able to take a bride, Christianity never had an example of a true mother, a true sister, or a true woman. If you look at the history of Christianity, you can see it as patriarchal. It has not been kind to women because we never had the female physical form; we had only the Holy Spirit. We had our Heavenly Parent, God, we had Jesus Christ, and we had the Holy Spirit. But in True Parents we have God, we have our True Father, we have our True Mother, and we have the True Children. For the first time we have a true family.

So as great as Christianity is, one of its inherent weaknesses is the fact that it can’t address the issues of what is the proper role of women, how do we educate great children, or how does a family become the textbook for true love. In the person of Jesus Christ, many people experienced the true love of Jesus Christ and the true love of our Heavenly Parent; they experienced new life through the new waters flowing in their veins, through the words of Jesus Christ cleansing their spirit. But they could not have true lineage because there was no family to work with.

Before our True Parents, we never had a model in history giving answers about the questions surrounding what is the proper role of women in the context of a subject and object relationship, in the context of the family, the extended family, society, or even the world at large. And how do we go about raising decent children?

But with the victory of our True Mother, overcoming all the difficulties and restoring all the unspoken suffering that she’s had to endure as my father’s wife and his partner, my father was finally able to proclaim my mother as a victorious Eve. Thus, she became a leader of our movement for the first time. Instead of my father giving speeches, my mother began to speak. She founded the Women’s Federation for World Peace in the early 1990s; just this weekend we celebrated the seventeenth International Leadership Conference of the Women’s Federation for World Peace here in Las Vegas.

With the dawn of the Pacific Rim era, my father is encouraging all women to take leadership roles in their families, societies, and the world, to help usher in a new era of peace. My father is asking women to exercise the magic of the feminine touch and of compassion, embracing what we know is true love but many times we fail to feel.

My father is encouraging us to get up and get to work in spreading the breaking news of this incredible time when women no longer need to be silent, faceless, and formless. We don’t have to just exist in spirit but are made flesh for the first time. We are given a voice for the first time, and a reason to live. This reason to live is to exercise love -- within our families and within our societies -- and to do something about it.

When Women’s Federation asked me to come as a keynote speaker, I felt that it was part of my job as the representative of the American movement here in the United States to raise the awareness of atrocities that are happening even as we speak. The issue in particular that I highlighted at the Women’s Federation for World Peace is deprogramming. I would like to share that with you again this morning because it is very important.

As Americans who enjoy the freedoms and liberties that our Constitution guarantees, we need to stay vigilant. We know that this country was founded in the spirit of religious freedom. Our Founding Fathers came over on the Mayflower because they wanted to exercise the freedom to worship in the manner they saw fit.

They found out about this new country and wanted to build a shining city on a hill. They braved the seas, and when they landed here in mid-November, they braved the winter in the hope that they would build a city of dedicated Christians, a place where God could dwell, a place where God could feel comforted, a place where people could celebrate God in their daily lives.

Brothers and sisters, there is a situation going on in Japan, one of the superpowers of the world. From 1966 until the present day, there have been over 4,000 deprogrammings. Our members have petitioned the Japanese government, seeking injunctions, seeking a safe haven from the attacks that our movement has been going through. These brothers and sisters have been very quiet for many years. They’ve been silent; they’ve been afraid to speak. A majority of these deprogramming cases involve our sisters.

When I learned about these cases and read them out loud to myself, as a woman, as a sister, and as a mother I could not help but be incensed and feel as if my blood was going to boil over. These are the kind of stories I read about concerning the Inquisition. These are stories that maybe we think happened 400 or 500 years ago in Japan, but actually these stories are taking place in Japan as we speak. These are stories of the voiceless sisters and brothers who have suffered quietly, who have been victimized quietly, who have cried quietly.

When I read these cases of the human rights violations that are taking place in Japan, I feel as a proud American, experiencing my right to make my own choice as to what faith I would like to belong to and how I would like to honor my Lord up in heaven, I feel that I cannot stand still and let something like this happen in Japan.

A couple of months ago, we invited a brother named Mr. Goto to the Lovin’ Life Ministries. I asked him to give a testimony to different districts in the New York area. He spoke about the trials and tribulations he had to endure for 12 years and five months. His is a heartbreaking story about a very promising architecture student who wanted to serve the world by following what his understanding was of Heavenly Father, wanting to experience and build an ideal family.

He was very much looking forward to the blessing, very much looking forward to becoming a member of our community. He was an upstanding citizen. But his family was approached by a number of deprogramming organizations that told his family, “Your son is a brainwashed zombie. He is being abused by the Unification Church. You need to get him out, and we’re going to help you. So just fork over $50,000, we will break his faith for you, and you will have your son back.”

These poor family members! I see them as victims, too, victims of a huge international organization of deprogrammers who are taking advantage of these helpless parents who are not really understanding what to do with their child, maybe not realizing that their child is over 21 and has the right to choose whatever faith he or she wishes to follow.

Because the deprogrammers have labeled us as Moonies, as brainwashed zombies, we somehow become less than human. We become people who cannot think for ourselves, who cannot make decisions for ourselves. So we have to be abducted and held captive against our will and made to feel like we must abandon our faith to be normal human beings again.

This was the situation for Mr. Goto, as it was for thousands of brothers and sisters in Japan, except his case is an extreme version in that the prolonged captivity took more than 12 years. But his spirit was one of never, ever giving up hope that as a Japanese citizen, living under the constitution implemented by Gen. Douglas MacArthur after World War II that upholds the freedom of religion, one day he would have the right to worship in the manner that he saw fit.

After 12 years and five months, his captors, and his mother in particular, realized that there was just no way this man’s faith was going to be broken. In fact, he was like a saint, symbolizing unbreakable faith and the beauty of the human spirit, no matter how much physical abuse they put him through. He used to weigh 160 pounds, but by the time they finally threw him out onto the street with only the clothes on his back and a pair of shoes, he had lost half his body weight.

When I saw pictures of Mr. Goto, he looked like a Holocaust victim. For me he was an image of my father walking out of Hungnam concentration camp in North Korea. The wounds that he bore on his hands were like stigmata. To me, he was like Jesus Christ, like my father, somebody who was carrying unspeakable suffering but who had tapped into the beauty of his own relationship with our Heavenly Parent. He was somebody who was incredibly beautiful to me, somebody who represents the beauty of the human spirit.

When he came, I asked different ministers at ACLC to please share his story with their congregations, with anyone who would listen. I approached the new international president of CARP and asked him, “Please, tell his story on college campuses. Please let Americans know that this modern-day tragedy is taking place in Japan as we speak.”

Many times we’ve been labeled as something horrific, but actually we’ve been victims who have suffered in silence and many times didn’t know what to do. We were not well enough versed in the law to put up a good fight, to exercise our due process, and to make arguments against our captors, against our detractors, and against our persecutors, to stand firm and proud in who we are as the Unification Church. Many times we did not know how to do this.

For a long time in Japan they did not know how to fight this. But together with my younger brothers who are now in charge of Korea and Japan, we said, “This cannot be brushed aside any longer. It needs to be brought up to the front. The sisters who were raped in order to break their faith need to have a voice, need to find justice in their lives, need to realize that their suffering will not be untold.”

A lot of these deprogrammers knew that in our movement sexual purity is a very important thing. So raping these women was a very simple way for them to make these sisters feel guilty and dirty. They knew that a lot of these Japanese sisters, coming from an Eastern culture, would not readily come forward and tell their story of guilt and embarrassment. So not only were our sisters raped, but some of them could not handle the magnitude of their own suffering and decided to take their own lives. There is one instance that a father hired deprogrammers for over $100,000, and they broke his daughter’s faith by raping her. The father never knew that she was raped, but later he came to realize the reason why she killed herself was because she was raped. Later the father himself could not live with what he had done, what he had helped the deprogrammers do, so he also took his own life.

There is another case of a sister who was badly beaten and abused. She tried many times unsuccessfully to escape and didn’t know what to do. So she went into the kitchen, doused herself with oil, and set herself on fire. Her family had to watch in horror as she burned herself to death. These are the stories that have been hidden in silence for many years.

But we’ve come to realize the magnitude of our Japanese community’s suffering, the horrific abuse, the horrific violation of human rights. And we’re talking about a bare minimum here. We’re talking about being given sustenance, being treated somewhat with dignity; all of these have been taken away because these people are seen as subhuman.

This is something that cannot go unnoticed. The story must be told. Instead of our worldwide movement basically always buckling under and huddling in the face of so much persecution, the tide is changing. The world is beginning to realize that there is something unique, wonderful, and beautiful about our movement. The world needs to know how much we’ve had to suffer. Mr. Goto is one example. These numerous sisters whom I cannot name are others. Even as we speak, in Tokyo there are a couple of hundred who are still unaccounted for and are believed to be held captive against their will and being deprogrammed.

I am encouraging everyone to take up this banner and speak as proud Americans who have the greatest gift of living in a country where we can exercise our freedom to worship. Instead of just enjoying it for ourselves, how wonderful would it be if we as Americans could start exerting pressure on the White House, on Capitol Hill, at the UN so that the Japanese ambassador will be held accountable for the things that are taking place in Japan.

We no longer have to sit in silence. We no longer have to just sit and take the abuse. We can make a difference, and we are making a difference. It is high time that the women, as mothers and sisters, take up this issue and make it an American issue so that we can truly champion the rights of these brothers and sisters who are suffering in Japan.

I’ve been talking to different districts, ministers, and student organizations, saying, “This is not a Japan problem that needs to be addressed only by Japan. This is a worldwide problem. If Japan has a problem and we are supposed to be one family under God, then it becomes our problem. If our brothers and sisters are suffering, it becomes our suffering. If they are being violated, then we are being violated.”

Here we are calling ourselves “one family under God,” but if we don’t treat each other as brothers and sisters, well, then, what good are we? Not only do we have to just know that we are one family, but we have to start practicing it; we have to start living it. That means taking care of each other. That means standing up for each other. That means being the voice when there is no voice being heard.

When I heard the story of Mr. Goto, I had a conversation with my children and said, “Look, did you realize how insignificant your daily problems become when you learn how much somebody like Mr. Goto suffered for twelve years and five months? Our little bickerings in the family, our little unpleasantries maybe at church, or our little disagreements become so trivial when we realize that there is a much greater issue here that needs to be addressed.”

As an American, as somebody who lives in this providential country, I have often thought that America is so abundantly blessed by God. I have come to realize that America has been blessed because it wields a great ability to influence the world. Let’s influence the world to raise a generation of young people that can own its own generation of peace, a generation that acknowledges God as the Heavenly Parent, P; that recognizes we are all eternal sons and daughters of our Heavenly Parent, E; and that we need to live a life of altruism, -- living a life for the sake of others, not because we are seeking some reward hereafter, or eschewing punishment hereafter, but just because we simply want to be good people. By living for the sake of others we are naturally practicing how to be compassionate -- -- how to be kind.

The Dalai Lama visited the Manhattan Center recently and he summed up his religion in one sentence: “My religion is kindness.” Kindness is compassion. It’s the ability to feel empathy for somebody else. It’s the ability to feel what others are feeling because you truly love them and truly understand them, and truly want to embrace them. This is the kind of love that is necessary in order to have a world of peace. It’s got to be the kind of love that is not just known intellectually but the kind of love that people must feel. It’s the kind of love that makes you feel embraced, makes you feel empowered, and makes you feel supported. This is not the kind of love that maybe we think of as eternal, unchanging, and absolute. I’ve always felt the word absolute sounded a bit cold. I’ve always turned to my mother and her embrace and her loving, encouraging words to help me feel what kindness is all about, what compassion is all about. That’s what we need in this new millennium.

If we truly live our lives in the knowledge of who we are and of our God, our Heavenly Parent, then we are in the process of becoming not just internally excellent people -- E -- but also externally excellent people in that we know that each and every one of us were born here with a divinity within. We’re all like light-bulbs. God made each of us into a beautiful light-bulb, and all he is waiting for us to do is plug ourselves into this heavenly circuitry. Each and every one of us has to do that. When we do that, then we realize that we were all born with incredible passion, talent, and ability to influence the world.

It might be through academics, through the medical profession, through the visual arts, through the performing arts, but all of us were born to manifest this divinity, so that as we grow internally as great men and women of God, the external worth of who we are and who we were meant to showcase brilliantly to the world becomes substantiated. As great doctors, as great lawyers, as great thinkers, as great ministers, as great performers, not only are we wrapped up in what we want to do but we are truly inspired by the concept that we belong to one God and to one family, and that we understand that we need to work together, to love together, to celebrate together so that we can finally see this world of peace that our True Parents are waiting for.

As a mother who has five children of her own, one of the things I think about all the time is, What can I leave behind? I have only a set amount of time in my lifetime, and I don’t know when I will go. But when I go, I want to be ready, and I want my children to be ready. I’ve often asked myself, What do I want to leave behind? The thing that comes to me time and time again is that I would like for my children to realize that they are truly the vessels of the eternal, that they have it within them to change the world, just like every one of you sitting here has that magic wand within your hands.

As insignificant as our lives may seem at times, we have to realize that God is forever with us. He is always there with us, always hoping that we can realize that we are not here just to live a life of suffering. We are not here just to live a life of sacrifice. We are here to make an imprint on the world and on humanity.

From time to time I read the book of Hosea, and in Chapter 6, verse 6, God says through the prophet Hosea, “What I desire the most is steadfast love,” steadfast meaning firm, fixed, and constant. What he desires most is steadfast love and not sacrifice. A lot of the Israelites back then thought that the road of sacrifice and suffering was the end goal. Hosea was reminding the Israelites that our sacrifice and suffering are not an end goal. Our end goal is to really experience the constant, firm, never-changing, fixed love called true love.

It is really a gift from God for us to go beyond having some knowledge of what he is all about. Through the Divine Principle, we understand God as our Heavenly Parent, and to really have a relationship with God is our goal. The book of Hosea is quite profound in that it contains the clearest statement of the transcendence of God, that God is not a god among many. He is above all things, and yet he desires and longs to relate to each and every one of us.

The prophet Hosea used the family metaphor against the background of the Syro-Canaanite Baalism that was prevalent at that time. He was preaching in the 8th century B.C. as a contemporary of the prophet Amos. But he was different in that he stressed the unfailing love of God in a very politically chaotic time. Time and time again he told his brother and sister believers that the most important thing we need to think about is our relationship with God. He taught them that God relates to us in the form of justice, in the form of righteousness, in the form of steadfast love, and in the form of mercy, as it says in Hosea 2:16 - 20.

What he means by that is he wanted to emphasize very clearly to the Israelites that God, or our Heavenly Parent, is not the god of Baalism. Baalism was a religion believing in the god of fertility. The people believed that as long as you followed a series of rites, you were guaranteed productivity and security in your life. But Hosea was telling people not to be confused at the deification of the life process embodied in Baalism, which basically portrayed fertility as a god, and that this was not what God is all about.

In fact, he was saying, you have to understand the distinction between the power and majesty of creation -- or what can be seen as the fertility process, or the deification of the life process -- as something totally different from understanding God as the creator of creation.

Many times throughout his exhortations and statements, Hosea was reminding his listeners not to get caught up in the blessings that God gave them but to always remember that the blessing itself comes from God above. I feel this is a very important message, particularly for the Western culture and America, because when you think about the blessings that America has enjoyed, they are astronomical. The abundance here is unbelievable to a lot of starving people all around the world.

Just as the prophet Hosea was trying to warn the Israelites to not get caught up in the external, materialistic aspects of life, it’s a great lesson to bear in mind because the West is so success driven, so materialistically driven, that it can almost be seen as another form of Baalism Hosea told the Israelites to be careful, not to think that the blessing that they were receiving was just as good as the divine that the blessing comes from.

The message for Americans here is to not to be confused and not to become engrossed and intoxicated in the materialistic nature of our country, success, and greed, but to realize that whatever we’ve been given should not be a god in and of itself. Whatever is given must always be brought back to our Heavenly Parent, our God up in heaven.

When it says in Hosea, “I desire steadfast love,” I’m hearing this as desiring a world of true peace, a world of true love. We are standing at an incredible time in history when for the first time we have our True Parents. Many of us were given the incredible gift of the blessing. I often like to tell the Second Generation, getting a blessing from True Parents is like winning the lottery. Can you imagine how many hundreds and thousands of people have been waiting for the blessing? Or how many thousands of people will have missed the blessing directly from our True Parents?

So if we see the world as our family and we understand that the children of the world are just like our children, shouldn’t we, understanding the parental heart of God, want to share what our children have with the rest of the world? Just as our children have been graced by God to receive the blessing from our True Parents, if Father says that he has only three years and three months to go, don’t you think that we should work a little harder to get the breaking news out, and to be proud of who we are?

Our True Parents are asking the Unification movement to reclaim its name and reclaim its original symbol. Our original symbol is truly beautiful. It was prophesied by the great prophet Nostradamus in the 16th century. In the prophecies he gave hints as to how we’re going to be able to tell who this Second Coming will be. He gave us eight clues. When you look at Father’s life, my father is the only person who fits all of those eight clues.

I have in my library a book by John Hogue called Nostradamus: The New Millennium that I’ve had for 20 years. When I talked about the prophecies of Nostradamus in one of my sermons, a brother sent me a newly edited version of this book, in which the author actually goes on to say, “When you re-look at the prophecies of Nostradamus, no one comes closer than Reverend Moon.” All the others that he picked as potential Eastern mystical figures have passed away, and they just do not fit.

So the only one left standing is Father. Number one, he is from the East. And Nostradamus says he will be looked upon as an outlaw, meaning that he will be in and out of prison many times. My father has been in and out of prison six times. And this man will have something to do with the planet Mars. In the understanding of the planets Mars symbolizes passions, and in the quatrains of Nostradamus, he talks about how this mystical Eastern man, who will usher in 1,000 years of peace, will come on the passions of the people, who will safeguard him from harm. These passions that Father ignited and inspired are our passions. All of you were inspired and ignited by the passion of our True Parents.

He goes on to say that this man will have something to do with the rod of Hermes. John Hogue, seeing it from a religious and philosophical context, understands the rod of Hermes as being the rod of enlightenment. But another understanding of the rod of Hermes, if you know mythology, is that Hermes is the god of finance and commerce. This is something Mr. Hogue did not see, but I see it very clearly. My father is seen as a businessman by many people, not a religious figure. He can be seen as the rod of Hermes.

Then he goes on to say that the symbol of this new movement will be like a red rose. The word rose in French means pink. I find it highly intriguing that my father’s favorite color is pink. He openly says it to anyone who will lend an ear to listen. At the same time, the beautiful Unification Church symbol is red, just as Nostradamus predicted.

He goes on to talk about how this man will travel far and wide, coming like a lightning rod. Can you imagine a prophet in the mid-16th century trying to describe the visual image he was seeing? He probably saw something like an airplane but didn’t know how to put it in words. But he said, “This man will travel the skies far and wide, like lightning.” He was prophesying that the Second Coming, the Prince of Peace, will be traveling the world in a plane and inspiring the people about this breaking news, about who our Heavenly Parent is, and about the meaning and significance of our True Parents.

Nostradamus further talks about how there will be something about a rare bird having to do with this man. I always found it significant how the most important thing, the most intelligent thing, my father did was marry my mother. Han Hak Ja, her name, means heavenly crane. She is that rare, exquisite bird that Nostradamus was prophesying. Not only that, in all our church centers, don’t we have two cranes on either side of our church symbol, like parentheses?

Nostradamus, several hundred years ago, was giving us all these clues as to who this person is going to be. The author in the revised version even goes on to say that this man is Reverend Moon. But he said that the only thing that doesn’t make sense is the fact that he’s going mainstream. I’m thinking, Mr. Hogue, you’ve done so well up until now. Why can’t you fulfill your mission as Elijah by declaring True Parents for who they are? Of course, if he is going to be the Prince of Peace he’s got to go mainstream sometime!

Let’s not wait for the world to realize who our True Parents are before we do. We have our True Parents within our embrace already. How much more wonderful would it be if we could stand proud as their sons and daughters, proud as their children, and declare to the whole world: “You’ve got to see the Unification Church (as in “you see”)! We see the truth, we see who the True Parents are, and we’re going to share this breaking news with you.”

Brothers and sisters, this is an incredible time, a time that will not come again. So let us stay vigilant, let us be grateful, let us really honor God as our Heavenly Parent. Let us honor our True Parents as our own, and truly in the spirit of love let’s share our True Parents, not just keep them for ourselves.

I find it highly significant that our True Parents -- Of course in my heart I want to have our Father here forever. I’m hoping that he will be with us for 20 more years. But in this last couple of years, in what he perceives to be the last remaining years of his life, it’s so significant that he wants to come and sit smack in the middle of what is being seen as Sin City, Las Vegas. He wants to sit here, look at everything that’s going on, and invite the world to come take part in changing Sin City to that shining city on a hill that our Founding Fathers so desired when they came to this country. It is with their suffering and it is with conviction that the Constitution was created, and right now we are embracing and experiencing the freedom to worship. How wonderful would it be if we could share that with our Japanese brothers and sisters?

I feel that our lives really need to be like a living prayer. Prayer is not something you do in the morning and over meals and right before bed. Everything that we do in our day should be a prayer. Everything that we do should be in honor of God. Just as the prophet Hosea encouraged the Israelites to seek not just an understanding, not just a conceptual knowledge of God, but a relationship with God, we need to have a relationship with God as if he and she are our parents.

For those of us who are parents, do you want to have a relationship with your children in which your children are saying in the morning, “Praise be Mom and Dad”? “Praise be Mom and Dad,” right before meals? “Praise be Mom and Dad,” before they go to sleep because they have a bed to sleep in? Or do you want your children to have a conversation with you? Don’t you want your children to make you a part of their lives? Don’t you think God wants the same thing? I think so.

So if we can turn our life into a living prayer, it’s a way that invites God to enjoy and to experience our lives together with us. In that way we honor them and we give them everything that we can in terms of our love and gratitude because they have given us so much. They have given us life, and they have given us this chance to graft onto this heavenly olive branch. They have given us an opportunity to inherit the true love of God, inherit meaning taking part in the true lineage that belongs to God, for the first time in history.

Brothers and sisters, we have to realize how incredibly lucky we all are and how significant each and every one of you are. And you are the future Saint Pauls. You are the future Mother Theresas. Your descendants will be telling stories about you, about your interaction with our True Parents. So please remember who you are, and please grace the world with what you can be. But every day, please go in peace and know that we can change the world if we decide to change ourselves today.

So God bless. Have a wonderful Sunday. Thank you very much. 

Human Rights, Women's Rights, and Religious Freedom

In Jin Moon
October 23, 2009
Keynote Address
17th anniversary of the Women's Federation For World Peace
Las Vegas, NV

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Good evening, everybody.

The best thing about giving the keynote address this evening is receiving a hug from Sheri Rueter. It really puts me in a loving embrace. Also, to have the Lovin’ Life Ministries Band here giving out their hearts so we can fully experience this incredible thing called the universal language, the language of music and love. Almost all of you have already been on the dance floor, even though the dancing is supposed to take place afterwards, because you just could not help but celebrate the sisterhood in each other. Now that we are being a bit more progressive, we are letting brothers into our conference as well.

As we march forward into the next millennium with this vision of creating this world of peace that my parents and especially my mother has been dreaming about her whole life, I hope that we can go in the spirit of truly supporting, empowering, and caring for our brothers. Instead of giving our brothers, fathers, and uncles our voice of anger and frustration as if we’ve been repressed all these years, as other women’s organizations have done in the past, this is really a time women are imbued with the heart of true love, gratitude, and of this incredible opportunity that we have before us to do something truly profound and revolutionary. By working together in one heart and in one spirit, understanding that we come from the same Heavenly Parent, our God Almighty up in heaven, there is nothing that we cannot do in this spirit of true love, in the spirit of compassion, and in the spirit of wanting to really serve everyone around us, as well as those who have gone before and those who will come after.

This is really an occasion, a providential time when we as women can proudly stand as daughters of our Heavenly Parent. We don’t have to be voiceless, we don’t have to be faceless, we don’t have to be powerless. We can be embraced, honored, and respected as the true daughters of God that our Heavenly Parent wants to see in all of us.

I feel that it is an honor and a privilege for me to come and attend this Tenth International Workshop being conducted here in Las Vegas, as well as celebrating the 17th anniversary of the Women’s Federation for World Peace. Just about a month ago we had the American Women’s Federation for World Peace conference in the Manhattan Center, and I was delighted to meet a lot of you sitting in the audience today. I see a lot of new faces that I’m looking forward to meeting.

Every time I come together in a room with such an illustrious gathering of women leaders from all around the world, I cannot help but be moved. I realize that I’m a part of something beautiful here. I’m a part of something that I like to call a beautiful tapestry that God would like for us to experience and to really enjoy in our lifetime.

It doesn’t matter where we come from, nor does our race, culture, or religion. The foundation or the core of who we are is our understanding that God is our Heavenly Parent, that we are his eternal sons or daughters, and that we have a responsibility to live lives of altruism. In a nutshell, the philosophy of my parents is the philosophy of living for the sake of others “just because.”

I like to add this “just because” at the end because we’ve seen throughout history great men and women giving up their lives and their livelihoods for the pursuit of something great, for the pursuit of serving humankind with a revolutionary spirit, with a spirit of service, with a spirit of attendance. And we’ve seen countless great men and women come and go.

This is truly a phenomenal time in that our True Parents are saying, “Don’t be a good person because you are seeking the rewards of heaven or eschewing the punishment thereafter.” They’re challenging us to be good people, to live lives of service, “just because.” Not because we’re going to be given candy at the end of a job well done, but “just because” we want to be good people and we know that we belong to God, our Heavenly Parent, as his sons or daughters.

So when we practice this philosophy of living for the sake of others “just because,” we realize that inadvertently we become people who practice compassion. When the holy Dalai Lama came to the Manhattan Center, he spoke about how he can encapsulate his religion in one sentence. He said, “I define my religion as kindness. Kindness is my religion.”

In an age when I work in the entertainment sector and in the business sector, as well as the religious sector, I come across quite a few doctors, lawyers, and corporate financiers. I’ve noticed that many times the world is quite cold. It’s lacking the motherly, feminine warmth that gives flesh to the bones that we are carrying.

This age is a time when our True Parents are asking us to be men and women of compassion, to truly practice being kind to each other. We have to be kind, we have to be loving, we have to serve each other. I’ve extracted simple reminders from the word PEACE, when you look at it as an acronym. The last letter, E, is always a reminder for me to be an excellent person, not just internally but also externally as well, and to really give back to the world, give back to our families, and give back to the community.

It doesn’t matter what else we do in our lives, but as women, probably the single most important thing that we can do in our lives is to raise great kids. I feel that God has entrusted in our hands this incredible blessing, responsibility, and opportunity to exercise our womanhood, our feminine touch, and the wisdom that we have garnered over the years through our grandmothers and through our mothers and through our aunts, and through wonderful friends that have touched us in different moments of our lives. We need to inherit this understanding of true love and how we as human beings need to feel love.

Just this last Sunday I gave a talk to my congregation at Lovin’ Life Ministries about how all I ever wanted in life, ever since I was a little girl, was to love and to be loved. Our Heavenly Parent sent us our True Parents, and for the first time in history a man and a woman can stand as a model of what a true couple can be, and therefore, have the opportunity of creating this wonderful thing called an ideal family that Jesus Christ was supposed to have substantiated 2,000 years ago. But because he was put on the cross, the only remnant of the feminine spirit in Christianity has been in the form of the Holy Spirit, and thus in Christianity we have the Trinity. We have God, we have Jesus Christ, and we have the Holy Spirit.

The incredible thing about having a man and a woman representing a true son and a true daughter of God is that for the first time that Holy Spirit is taking a physical form in the form of our True Mother. Thus, for the first time in history, women have the right to have a voice, women had the right to have a face, and women have the right and privilege to exercise feminine beauty to illuminate this world with compassion and with love that only a woman’s touch can bring.

What my mother has done in my life is that she has inspired me to not just be externally excellent and not just internally excellent. She has always reminded her children to give something back to the world. When my Heavenly Parent, God up in heaven, asked me to be the CEO of Manhattan Center and then giving me an opportunity to put a feminine touch to the Unification Church in America, it is an extreme honor and privilege for me that I cannot take lightly.

As the representative or the voice of my church and our community, one of the things that I really want to do here in Las Vegas is to highlight some of the issues that we are dealing with worldwide. As you know, many great women have touched our lives and have made revolutionary strides in terms of creating a better world. For instance, the handiwork of Catherine Booth, one of the founders of the Salvation Army, has touched millions of people to this day. And the work that Harriet Tubman did through the Underground Railway system, teaching the slaves to be inspired by this concept of freedom, is so fundamental to us as Americans here. I, being a proud American citizen, do not take it lightly that in this country I can exercise my freedom to worship in the manner that I see fit.

In fact, the Founding Fathers came to America for the sake of religious freedom. It has truly been my honor to work with the greats of the civil rights movement, like Dr. Lowery and Dr. Abernathy, who taught me to dream when I was a 17-year-old girl. I heard their stories of overcoming difficulties and obstacles to change the impossibility of a black man becoming president to the possibility of President Obama being elected as the first black president of the United States. President Obama is there in the White House because he is the fruit of the suffering that our civil rights leaders had to endure all these years.

When I look at the life work of my parents, I truly see them as peacemakers and as our True Parents. For the first time in providential history we have the chance of directly inheriting the true love of God. In Jesus Christ we have understood the meaning of true love. And many found new life in the words and teachings of Jesus Christ. But without the female counterpart we could not experience and appreciate true lineage. Through our True Parents, who represent the true olive branch, humanity for the first time has a chance to experience what true love, true life, and true lineage is all about in our lifetime.

As somebody who watched my parents lead this congregation, from a very, very little church in Chung-pa-dong in Korea to the worldwide movement that it has become, I have come to learn many things from my parents. One of the things that I learned was the importance of being proud of who we are, of being proud to call our God our Heavenly Parent. When I was growing up in America, our movement was going through the backlash against our own success. We were such a phenomenally successful movement in the 1970s that we were given keys to every state in the United States. My father was heralded as an important religious leader and inspirational speaker, a profound teacher for the next millennium.

But then many people realized that my father had such an effect on the young people that there was a lot of misunderstanding, and words such as Moonies and brainwashed zombies were painful to hear in my own ears. For a great chunk of my teenage years, we were out there on the front line being ridiculed as Moonies, as brainwashed zombies, as something less than human.

But, you know, our American movement has struggled on and continues to grow. It continues to make headway into mainstream society, contributing the goodness and the goodwill that we want to share with the rest of the world.

But one of the things that I would like to share with you this evening is the horrific nature of the deprogramming problems that are taking place in Japan right now. From 1966 to today, over 4,000 of our brothers and sisters have been abducted and kidnapped. Many of them have been imprisoned, and some have been beaten and sexually abused, so that their faith could be broken. But as a woman standing in this position, I feel that it’s incumbent upon me to let these people have a voice. These are our brothers and sisters who do not have a voice in Japan.

Japan is supposed to be a superpower of the world, and it has a constitutional government that was implemented by Gen. Douglas MacArthur after World War II, so it has a clause in there about religious freedom, similar to what we have in the Bill of Rights in the United States. The first right that pertains to the freedom of religion here states that Congress shall make no laws establishing religion or prohibiting the free exercise thereof.

As Americans, each and every one of us in this room has lived under the protection of this clause. So even when my father was unjustly incarcerated at Danbury, Connecticut, even when the legal system was unjust in the final verdict of my father’s situation, at least we could rely on the due process of law, and we put up a great fight.

Unfortunately in Japan, government authorities are working in conjunction with deprogrammers, and many of the established religions of Japan are also. When I read the cases of these brothers and sisters, I realized that their families are almost helpless victims. These deprogramming organizations are demanding that families pay $10,000 to $50,000 per family, per deprogramming, so that they can break the faith of these peoples’ sons and daughters.

When I first heard about one case in particular, I couldn’t help shaking and breaking down in tears. It was the story of a man named Mr. Goto, studying architecture at one of Japan’s finest universities. Because his parents thought he was a brainwashed zombie, that he had somehow been inducted into a cultish environment that was not good for his life, his parents paid an inordinate sum of money for him to be taken captive and to be “broken” of his faith.

This man truly represents sainthood to me. In many cases, brothers and sisters were kept anywhere from several days to several years, but this man was held against his will for 12 years and five months. When deprogrammers finally realized after all that time that they were not going to be able to break his faith, they threw him out on the pavement, along with a pair of shoes, with only the clothes he had on. He could barely walk. He weighed 160 pounds going in, but when he came out, he was emaciated, looking like somebody who walked out of Auschwitz.

He had wounds on his hands that looked like stigmata to me. When I saw pictures of this, not only did I see Jesus Christ, but I saw my father when he came of the five different prisons and, in particular, the notorious Hungnam prison in North Korea. I saw my father in this man. No matter how difficult this man’s captivity might have been, I saw not only something horrific in his captivity but also something that was incredibly beautiful. That something beautiful is the beauty of the human spirit. As long as the spirit lives on, as long as we know who our True Parents and Heavenly Parent are, nobody can take away that spirit.

I see that spirit alive and well in Mr. Goto, just the way I saw that spirit alive and well in the eyes of Dr. Lowery and Dr. Abernathy when I worked with them many years ago. Those eyes had the fire that gave life to the civil rights movement. Mr. Goto’s face has the conviction that he should have the right and enjoy the privilege to exercise any religion that he chooses to. It’s something that’s fundamental to all of us here in America. It’s something worth fighting for. We as a women’s movement, as mothers and sisters of the world, need to raise the awareness about the injustices that are taking place in Japan. Even as I speak at this podium, there are members who are still believed to have been abducted, with whereabouts unknown.

One of my best friends is one of the most highly respected producers in New York City. When I first told him about Mr. Goto’s story, how he was confined against his will for 12 years and five months in Tokyo, my friend said, “This cannot be. Japan is a democratic nation. It’s operating under a constitution. It has a clause about freedom of religion.” At first he had a hard time believing this.

Then I sent him the picture of Mr. Goto and told the stories of other people, including stories of the silent sisters who were raped for the purpose of breaking their faith. These sisters, because they come from an Eastern culture, were so overcome with feelings of shame and guilt that they would not dare speak about their predicament to anybody else. They still carry wounds to this day. Some of our sisters never made it through; they were so torn at the fact that they were raped during the deprogramming sessions that they decided to take their own lives. One sister in particular immolated herself, burned herself alive, to the horror of her family and the deprogrammers.

Being fully aware of their Eastern background, the deprogrammers knew that these women would not say a word. So as their sister, and as a woman, I cannot stand in my position as the head of the North American movement without addressing the problems that are taking place in Japan, without raising the awareness of what’s going on.

We are also horrified when we hear stories about girls in Afghanistan who only want an education and the opportunity for a better life; and we hear about a band of teenage boys storming girls’ schools in Afghanistan, throwing acid in the faces of these beautiful Afghan girls just because they want to better themselves through education. These boys want to disfigure these beautiful faces of the women who want a better life in the future. When I heard those stories, it brought tears to my eyes.

My friend and I said, “We cannot sit still. We must fight for every sister to have the right to a decent education.” Likewise, when I heard the story of Mr. Goto and about our sisters in Japan who are suffering to this day, I said to my friends, “We cannot sit still and let the atrocities continue while we can enjoy the freedom to exercise our religion here.”

I believe that God blessed America because it stands in the position to do so much good work for the rest of the world. If America can truly understand its providential gift and its providential role as a country that can teach the rest of the nations how to truly love each other, how to truly embrace each other and work together, then America will become one of the greatest countries of the world. As a proud American, I look forward to that day.

As a proud American woman, I feel that it is my duty to ask all of you to please be aware of the deprogramming issues and please talk about it with your politicians. Please talk about it in your universities. Please talk about it in your women’s circles. This is something that we cannot just stand and let pass. This is something worth fighting for. This is the freedom that was given to us by our Heavenly Parent, and we need to let our brothers and sisters have the opportunity of exercising that freedom just like we can.

I’m hoping that as you go back to your respective countries and your fields of work, you can please remember that the deprogramming issue is not just about somebody being mean to Unification Church members. This is a human rights violation of the worst kind. We as human beings, as God’s sons and daughters, cannot let this happen. We as mothers cannot let this go on.

I truly want to thank all of you for this evening. I know it’s such a grave topic, but a topic nevertheless that needs to be highlighted, discussed, and shared. I am inviting all of you to please take up this cause and help me fight against the human rights violations that are taking place in Japan, so that Japan can live up to its rightful position. It claims to be a country governed by a constitution and yet fails to be doing so, even as we speak.

I have encouraged all the different clergy in America, through the work of ACLC, to join with me in fighting deprogramming and human rights violations. I have also asked the president of CARP, the college organization all around the country, to highlight the injustices that are taking place in Japan. I take this opportunity tonight to ask such an illustrious gathering of women leaders from all around the world to take this cause back with you to your countries and start talking to politicians, friends, or to whoever has an ear.

I want to thank you for giving me this wonderful opportunity. I always feel that giving a sermon after the Lovin’ Life band is a really hard act to follow. To highlight such a horrific situation in Japan is an incredibly difficult thing to do. But I think if you really open up your hearts and see that all of you women in this room have an incredible divinity that is channeled from our God up in heaven, this wonderful thing called a beautiful smile, this thing called a loving gesture, this thing called compassion, this all-embracing thing called the feminine touch. All of you have that magic wand in your hand.

I invite all of you to use it and wield it kindly upon our brothers and sisters, upon our countries, and upon the world. Hopefully we can work each and every day to inspire a young generation of men and women to become this generation of peace that I as a mother so long to see.

Thank you very much for giving me this time, and God bless you. Thank you. 

Opportunity To Experience Parental Love

In Jin Moon
October 18, 2009
Lovin' Life Ministries

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Good morning, brothers and sisters. How is everyone this morning? We just got back from Korea. On October 14 my father officiated over the blessing of 40,000 couples, and one of the couples that was part of that ceremony happened to be my eldest son, Shin Myung Preston. True Parents, my parents and his grandparents, chose a lovely bride from New Jersey, of all places. I’m sure many of you know her. Her name is Krista Un Jung. I am delighted to welcome her into my family, and the True Family is delighted to welcome her into our huge extended family. We were able to spend lovely moments with True Parents and with my brothers and sisters there, who welcomed her wholeheartedly.

When we were slightly younger, my siblings and I were not always too kind to the incoming in-laws. But now that we are adults and have children of our own, we are welcoming in-laws into the True Family, and I think they’ll have it a whole lot easier than the generation before. I’m sure Krista had a wonderful experience. It’s the start of something wonderful in my life.

When I walked down the aisle and got blessed over 25 years ago, I could not have imagined how God was going to work his mysterious magic in my life and put into my hands these five gorgeous specimens. To see one grow up, take on a bride, and to embark on a new life as husband and wife, I could not be happier. It really made me feel like we are one family to celebrate this with our whole worldwide community, including the other couples who were getting blessed for the first time and the older couples who were there renewing their vows. There is really nothing like it in the whole world.

It was raining quite heavily in Seoul the day before, so some of us were a bit concerned about whether the weather would be kind to us at the blessing. When we were en route to Sun Moon University, leaving from Seoul, the clouds were still quite heavy, and it looked like it was not going to be a beautiful day. But as we approached the university, God showed his great grace and love toward the couples, and the sun came out.

Here we were, two weeks into October. It was supposed to be quite cold, and a lot of the brides had sleeveless wedding gowns, so I was a bit concerned for these ladies. But the weather was so warm, unusually warm for October. With the sun out, and with our True Parents graciously officiating over the ceremony, it was truly an indelible experience for me and, I’m sure, for a lot of people in the audience as well. I want to thank God, our Heavenly Parent, and our True Parents once again.

My husband and I were joking en route, and also coming back from Korea, that there’s really nothing like the blessing when you look at human history. We know as children of our Heavenly Parent what God’s original purpose of creation was. God wanted to experience love and joy with his children, so he wanted to create his children, Adam and Eve, and really longed for them to grow up as mature and perfected men and women of God so that with God’s blessing they could embark on married life and welcome children of their own.

But we know that because of the Fall history started off on the wrong footing. The process of restoration has been a road of suffering, indemnity, and great difficulty. It took a true champion like our True Father to perfect himself as an individual and then to welcome a true bride, our True Mother, and together stand in the position of True Parents, becoming the true olive branch that the whole of humanity can graft onto.

With our True Parents, for the first time in history not only do we have the experience of God’s love and finding new life in God, like Christians have had through the person of Jesus Christ, but we have something extraordinary in that we can literally inherit the true love of God, meaning that we can experience what it means to have true lineage in our families and in our lifetime. Not only do we have true love and true life, but with our True Parents we have the hope of true lineage.

When we look at the history of Christianity, what looms large is the concept of the Trinity. You have God, you have Jesus Christ, and you have the Holy Spirit. For those of us who understand the Divine Principle, we realize that the position of the Holy Spirit never took a physical form because Jesus was crucified on the cross. Had Jesus found his ideal wife and had they been blessed together as the True Parents of humankind, Jesus Christ would have blessed humanity 2,000 years ago, and we would have enjoyed not just true love and true life, but also we would have been grafted into the blood lineage of our Heavenly Parent, God.

But the problem with Christianity is that the true mother never materialized. The only thing that Christianity could stand on was on this tripod, the Trinity. What True Parents bring to this world is the concept of four-position foundation. That means we have God as our center, and as we become perfected in love, we come to understand what life is supposed to be and how we need to apply ourselves in our daily lives so that we can become responsible human beings. Together with the grace and the blessing of God, we can stand in the position of true couples and ideal families in the making, in the position to enjoy the children that are to come from our union.

The four-position foundation, if you really think about it, is like a diamond. I’ve often talked about how living a life of true love is learning how to rub up against each other, going through the difficulties of life and turning ourselves, who are rough-cut diamonds, into brilliant diamonds, truly emitting the divinity within.

In this four-position foundation, for the first time in history, we have the chance to graft onto God’s lineage and to have sinless children, children who are not tainted by the satanic lineage, which was the result of the Fall. What God is wanting for each and every one of us is to own a wonderful, eternal diamond that we can think of as a family. The diamond symbolizes eternity for a lot of young men and women walking down the aisle because it takes tons and tons of pressure and thousands of years to create.

Just as it takes pressure and time to turn that rough-cut diamond into something beautiful, marriage and family are like a workshop in which we can become better husbands and wives, better sons and daughters, and better brothers and sisters. My father has often talked about the family as a textbook of true love. It is a place where we work out our problems and overcome various obstacles to become an eternal diamond.

How is it that the family becomes eternal? It’s because each of us, when we have our children, live eternally through them. We live on forever in our children, their children, and so on and so forth. Therefore, in this concept of a family truly owning up to itself as a brilliant diamond, connected to the true lineage of God, we can have immortality through the beauty of our children. If you really think about it, there’s really nothing quite like it. Just the concept that marriage is something bigger than ourselves, bigger than the two people walking down the aisle, is something truly beautiful to behold.

I have a lot of friends in the movement, but I also have friends who are not in our movement and I’ve been to a lot of weddings. One of the things that always strikes me is that my friends are getting married at the height of their relationship. They’ve usually lived together before; sometimes my friends call that process “checking out the merchandise.” They’ve already lived as a couple, and usually it’s at the insistence of the bride that the groom comes to the altar. By the time they get to the altar, they are at the height of their passion. They have been planning for six months to a year for their grand wedding ceremony and reception. Often they realize how fragile the relationship is when they get down to the details of wedding planning. Some of my friends never actually made it to the altar. But for those who have, it’s the apex of their relationship that gets captured in those wedding pictures.

But for a lot of us in this movement, we started at zero, right? Others of us started in the negative, negative 100, 1,000, or whatever our individual situation might be. I used to joke with my friends who did not understand why I was going to be married to a man whom I wasn’t too fond of, and at such a young age. They thought I was crazy. Maybe I was; maybe we all were. But I am an idealist in that I believe that there is something wonderful, at least conceptually, in this thing called an ideal family.

The great thing about our community, because we start at zero, we know, going in, that our marriage is not going to be a walk in the park. We know that there is going to be some serious work that needs to get done, a serious true rubbing process that needs to get worked out. A lot of us go with our eyes open to the fact that marriage might not always be a perpetually blissful state. We might have arguments here and there. There might be difficulty, cultural clashes, personality clashes, and differences in race that appear when two people start living together as husband and wife.

One of the things that made me reflect about how incredible this thing called the blessing is was when I saw the blessing in the context of human history. Whenever we are immersed in our own individual suffering or in our small, detailed problems of life that seem so large that we can’t possibly navigate through them, it’s always good practice to take ourselves away from where or who we are and to look at ourselves and our lives objectively, from another person’s point of view, or what I call the bird’s-eye point of view.

When I thought about the blessing from a historical point of view, I realized that it wasn’t really just about my husband and me and about how compatible we were as a couple. It was really about the promise that God wanted to see through our couple in these wonderful things called my five munchkins. I realized that here are these five incredible kids that I have the honor of calling my own, and, had it not been for my husband, they would not exist. And, had it not been for us as a couple, they would not exist.

So every time I appreciate God’s handiwork in my children, I realize that the blessing is about much more than the individual happiness of each couple, a man and a woman, but really it is about making a commitment to God, first and foremost. I John 4:16 says, “We have known God, we have known and we believe in God’s love for us.” We know who we are. It’s a great blessing that we know that we are his sons and daughters. And we believe in God’s love for us because we know he is our Heavenly Parent. We know that no matter what we go through, our Heavenly Parent is always, always there.

So we believe. When we believe, we live our lives applying this wonderful thing called true love, which is eternal, unchanging, absolute, and unique. We realize that God is love, as it says in the Bible. In I John 16, it says, “God is love.” We realize that God’s love is a parental love, and it’s an all-encompassing love. It’s an all-embracing love.

When I think about the blessing, no matter how difficult it might be, I recall that just the fact that God is giving all of us an opportunity to experience what parental love is all about is probably one of the most profound things in life. The day that I had my firstborn and first held him in my arms, of course, I was overcome by the sheer beauty of this magnificent little bundle of joy, but what really impressed me and what I felt truly to the bone was an incredible love that I had never known before, an incredible love for another human being that I’d never experienced before.

I realized at that moment that this is what God feels for each and every one of us, the parental love that you have for a child, the first time you hold that baby in your arms, after seemingly coming back from the dead. The birth process is so horrific. You feel like you’re going to die, and you feel like basically saying, “Never again.” But when you gaze upon this face, which can barely open its eyes, and all it does is cry and snuggle up to you, all you can think is, God is love. This is love. For the first time I realized how much God truly loves us.

It’s a profound love. The feeling I had for my child when I first held him in my arms was that I would give my life over and over and over again for this tiny little human being. Isn’t that the love that God has for us? He would die over and over again for us, just like the way our True Parents would die over and over and over, and go through excruciating suffering and incredible difficulty, simply because they’re our parents, and they gaze into each and every one of our faces like the way I gazed into my first child’s eyes.

That’s when you realize the true nature of God. That’s when you realize how incredible is this thing called a four-position foundation. Or, as I explain it to my kids, it’s a diamond. It’s like a baseball diamond, and all of humanity is longing to come home, to come back to God’s embrace. One of the greatest blessings for all humanity is to not just know God’s love, not just believe God’s love, but to actually abide in God’s love, abide meaning to stand fast, to await, to submit, to continue in God’s love.

When I think about the blessing in that way I’m always reminded by a bit of humor in that the word blessing sounds like blesser, in French the infinitive meaning to strike or to hit. I thought it was interesting how, when I got blessed, I felt like I had been smacked over the head with a huge iron rod. I’ve often wondered, “Will I ever recover?” But that’s what it feels like for a lot of us when we go to the blessing. We’re literally struck by this gift that Heavenly Father and Mother want to give to us. Not every one of us is prepared enough to understand the magnitude of this gift that our Heavenly Parent is giving us. But for those of us who have persevered, continued, and stood fast, knowing, believing, and abiding in God’s love, many of us have been blessed to welcome a whole new generation of children. When you gaze into the eyes of your child, there is no love greater, right? There is nothing more beautiful.

What Heavenly Father is encouraging us to do is to experience that profound love within the context of this diamond that we call an ideal family and, in the spirit of living for the sake of others, extend that love to the rest of the world. So our True Parents love you as much as they love me because, yes, I might be their biological child, but you are their children just as well. When we have children of our own, God is inviting us to experience that profound parental love and to learn to look at other children of the world as our own, to look at other children with as great a love as we do for our own child by living for the sake of others, by practicing true love each and every day.

People who are not in our movement usually are thinking about their own happiness, or how they’re going to enjoy their honeymoon, or how they are going to enjoy their careers and fine, new home. These things pretty much engross the couple. But, in our movement, let us be thinking about how we honor God with our lives, how we become a true son or daughter of God, and how we truly create something eternal by inheriting true love. Let’s not just believe but actually substantiate this thing called the lineage that we are so privileged to partake in because we have our True Parents here with us. We have our true olive tree here with us.

To see how incredibly blessed you are, compare yourselves to Christians 2,000 years ago. They had only Jesus as the model. God was waiting to raise up a beautiful lady to be Jesus’ bride and the true mother so that they could start blessing the world and their brothers and sisters, but they never got a chance.

With the foundation of the Trinity, Christianity was able to come quite far. But think about how much more fortunate we are as a movement that not only do we have the True Father model, but we have the True Mother model as well. Instead of a three-wheeled vehicle, we have a four-wheel drive. There is a reason why a car has four wheels: It allows for greater maneuverability. A tripod is great when you’re standing still, but when you have four wheels on a vehicle, you can go anywhere.

One of the things I used to love to do with my brothers -- and I find it quite funny that the biggest tomboy in the True Family ends up being almost like an example of a good mom -- whenever somebody new would come to visit us at East Garden, like blessed children visiting from Korea or from some other state, we used to love to take them “out to dinner.” They would come all dressed up, thinking, “We’re going to have a wonderful dinner with the True Family.” Once we got in the car, we took a little detour before the restaurant, going off-roading.

We had a four-wheel drive, or a Bronco, or some kind of truck and used to love to go off-roading at night, up the mountains and down the mountains, through the rivers and streams, really making a mess of all the people in the car. So by the time we got to the dinner, we were dirty but we were laughing and having a great time. And one of the things I noticed is, when you go off-roading, it’s not a good idea to drive a three-wheeled vehicle because it’s not as stable. You don’t have great maneuverability, and many times it will flip over and cause an accident. But a four-wheeled vehicle can maneuver and respond to you.

I’ve often thought that Christianity, trying to teach the good news without a True Mother figure, is a tripod in that you can’t really go very far in addressing the issues of marriage and of how to raise great kids. But here, with our True Parents and with the understanding of the importance of the four-position foundation and of the importance of having not just true love and true life but true lineage in our lives, then we realize that what God is asking us to do is not just create stationary families just for our own individual happiness or state of being. What our Heavenly Parent is asking us to do, he and she are inviting us to start maneuvering, start moving as this incredible thing called a family, to help others and inspire them to be an ideal family as well, to graft onto the true lineage of our Heavenly Parent and truly have the opportunity to substantiate God’s blessing in our lifetime.

We have something so precious and so good, so we must not be greedy with our gift. We must not think that it’s only for us; we must have that parental heart that is all-encompassing, that is all embracing, so we want to reach out and allow others the opportunity to enjoy what we have, to have a better life than we have, to want for others more than what we want for ourselves. This is what it means to be a man or a woman of true love.

Growing up, one of the things I’ve always felt -- of course I had this grand design to be a wise mother in that I wanted to serve the world with integrity, service and excellence -- but deep in my heart I’ve always wanted to love and be loved. I thought, There’s nothing greater than to love and be loved, and to have that with God is probably the most profound experience that I’ve had in different time periods of my life.

I realized that God is ever constant. He is never-changing. He is absolute and eternal in his love for me, and I realized that the only thing I needed to do was to reciprocate that love back to my God and enjoy this incredible thing called true love that truly moves me to this day.

A couple of years ago I was watching a movie called Moulin Rouge, which is almost comical, but it’s brilliant in cinematography in the sense of trying something new and out of the box. I love people who think out of the box. One of the lines in that movie, as a writer was typing away on his typewriter, says, “The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.” I thought, that’s what I’ve thought all this time. It’s amazing how a place like Hollywood can come up with something like that.

You see, brothers and sisters, for each and every one of us hot-blooded human beings here, the greatest thing is simply that -- to love and to be loved. How wonderful it is to know that God is love, that God, our Heavenly Parent, is always there with his love. But more than that, how wonderful it is that in our True Parents we have the ability to practice loving and to practice being loved by our spouse, by our brothers and sisters, by our children.

This thing called an ideal family, which sometimes seems like a responsibility and something that’s quite irksome and troublesome, if you really think about it, is God’s greatest gift to all of us. It’s his way of letting us know how much he and she truly love us.

For the young people in the audience who have just walked down the aisle, never take the time that you’re living in for granted. And never take for granted how incredible it is to exchange your vows with 40,000 other couples. You are part of something greater in that you start out your married life with a commitment to God and to humanity before you make a commitment to yourselves.

Again, there’s a proper order. So no matter how much we as couples might struggle individually, we realize that we’re part of something larger, part of this community, part of this family called God’s family. So the blessing doesn’t just become something that’s supposed to be a road of suffering and an invitation for a great deal of difficulty, but it becomes an invitation for each couple to be that next thread that weaves into this incredible tapestry called God’s family. That has got to be one of the greatest blessings.

To the new couples, as somebody who has gone through and is still walking the road of trying to create an ideal family with my immediate family, I want to leave you with a couple of pointers. There are three things I’ve garnered from the wisdom of my parents over the years. At different times they’ve spoken to me when I’ve asked them, “How do I deal with this problem?”

Usually three things come to mind over and over again in my family. First of all, the importance of gratitude. Psalm 34:1 says, “I will bless the Lord at all times, and in my mouth, on my lips I will sing his praise continually.” For me, this passage encapsulates what it means to be grateful. The meaning of gratitude is not just something within. Articulating our thankful thoughts, putting them into words, and actually delivering them to the universe, or to your spouse, your children, and your family, I realize, is probably one of the most important things.

Many times when we live a prayerful life and we think of ourselves as religious people, we understand gratitude to be a heartistic attitude. But that heartistic attitude needs to be expressed in order for it to become something real and tangible. So this passage from Psalms always reminds me that a heart of gratitude needs to be expressed verbally and articulated, so it’s not just in our thoughts and prayers, not just in our attendance, but in our literal thanksgiving to the Lord, to each other, the couple, or to the children, that allows us to continue on this road of gratitude.

One of the other points that my father and mother always stress to the different couples coming into the True Family is that they say, Go ahead and argue. When I got married to my husband, Father said, “You can argue as much as you want, but end that session before bed. Finish that day’s altercation or difficulty before bed because when you come to bed as a couple, you are entering a holy place. So finish all your arguments before bed so that when you, arise then you can greet God with a heart of gratitude, and you can start your day by articulating and singing his and her praises.”

Each new day is like turning a page in your diary. Each new day should have a clean, blank page for you to write on. The ink from yesterday’s writing in your journal should not bleed into the day after.

The third point that I’ve learned in my time with my True Parents is the importance of laughter. When you live as husband and wife, each has likes and dislikes. When I look at my parents, they are no different. When I was a little girl and went to greet them and give kyung-bae, to bow, and tell them I would be going off to school, many times I would see my parents getting ready in the bathroom. The only time I saw a scuffle between my father and mother was in that setting.

Because my father came from a poor background, he’s very conscious of the environmental factors that we human beings affect in our daily living. Even as simple a thing as flushing the toilet, my father is thinking, How many gallons of water are being used? Many times when it’s number one and not number two, my father will purposely not flush. Then my mother would come into the bathroom and say, “Appa, please, why don’t you flush?” Then my father would go into an elaborate speech about the importance of protecting the environment and saving water. I saw this, and many times my mom was at wit’s end because she knew that he had a good point. Of course it’s good to save water, but also she’d like to keep the bathroom clean.

As my father’s going on in this little speech about how important it is to save water, you could see my mother giving up because, once my father starts, it’s going to be hours. I could feel and see the mechanics in my mom’s brain. But then I saw something incredibly amazing. As a little girl, I learned a valuable lesson. My mom simply stopped what she was saying and just laughed. When she laughed, my father stopped speaking! It was amazing. Not only did he stop speaking, he laughed, too. Within a matter of seconds, all this battling became nothing. It evaporated into thin air. I thought to myself, “That’s magic! Laughter is magic.”

I think for a lot of us in the room, when we’ve been dedicated, longtime members, we understand the profundity and depth of crying, and we understand how incredibly moving it can be to cry for God, to cry for True Parents. Sometimes we cry because we’re in so much pain, in the midst of so much suffering. But one of the most important things in life is to remind ourselves how important it is to laugh, and especially in the context of a marriage. Laughter is the magic that can literally evaporate a lot of hard feelings, a lot of anger in a matter of seconds, as long as both spouses are willing to laugh together.

I’m hoping that as my eldest son starts down this road as a heavenly couple that he can inherit the wisdom that I’ve garnered over the years as a member of the True Family and go on in the heart of gratitude to articulate his thanksgiving, to remember to finish all altercations before bed, and also to laugh every day. If we all do this, God will give us the opportunity to love and be loved, and that has got to be the greatest thing in our lives.

So brothers and sisters, please know that our Heavenly Parent loves you and our True Parents love you so much, and with all their heart.

Have a blessed day and a great week. Thank you.