Lovin' Life Ministries presents - Spring Fest and Day of All True Things Celebration

In Jin Moon
May 21, 2009

Lovin’ Life Ministries presents Spring Fest 2009 / Day of All True Things Celebration

What is Spring Fest?

Spring Fest is Lovin’ Life Ministries’ celebration of Memorial Day and Day of All True Things. Spring Fest will take place on Sunday, May 24th at Belvedere in Tarrytown, NY and will take the place of Lovin’ Life Ministries normal worship service at the Manhattan Center.

Schedule

8 am: Gates open

10 am to 11:30 am: Lovin’ Life Ministries Sunday Service

11:30 am: Food and drinks for sale

12 pm to 4 pm: Live Music, fun land, sports, raffle tickets go on sale, fellowship with friends, and more

4 pm: Program finished

Rain date will be the next day, Monday May 25; same time

Games

Ever felt like dunking your District Director in the dunk tank? Now is your chance at Lovin’ Life’s fun land. You will have the opportunity to dunk your District Director and play many other games including an obstacle course, bungee race, joust, bouncers, carnival games, pony rides, and much more! We will also have sports games and tournaments including Volley Ball, Soccer, and Ultimate Frisbee. At 2 pm there will be an Ultimate Frisbee competition between New York and New Jersey. Come root for your home team!

Offering

Because Spring Fest is a celebration of Day of All True Things, we are asking each family to prepare a sincere Holy Day offering. Please prepare your offering in an envelope beforehand. There will not be an offering collection during the morning Sunday Service. Instead there will be an offering table in the Belvedere Training Center that you can visit before Sunday Service, or throughout the day after service is completed. As always on Holy Days, a Principle number offering is suggested such as $210, $120, $70 e.g. Checks should be made to HSA-UWC.

Music and Entertainment

Make sure to check out local bands from New York, New Jersey and other surrounding areas, performing on the stage after Sunday Service, starting at 12 pm.

Bake-off / Fundraiser

We would like every family to bake their favorite dessert and enter it into the bake-off contest. Prizes will be awarded for the winning entries. Registration is from 8 am - 10 am behind the main house (No entries will be accepted after 10 am). Winners will be announced after Sunday Service. Any dessert that doesn’t get entered into the bake-off contest should be dropped off next to the tea and coffee dispensers at the main house. After Sunday Service, desserts will be sold $1/slice. All proceeds will go to programs for our youth and young adults

Parking

Gates will open at 8 am. Please enter through South Gate (Signs will be posted). Park as directed. Please note that there will be a $5 fee for parking per car.

Venders

Do you want to make some extra cash and support Lovin’ Life’s Youth Programs at the same time? Get a table at Spring Fest! For more information please contact Terry McMahon.

Raffle

There will be a raffle fundraiser with prizes including a plasma TV, Nintendo Wii, ipods, gift cards, and much more!

Things to bring

Blankets to sit on

Lawn Chairs

Day of all True Things Offering

Spending money

Sun Screen

For More Information Contact:

Vendors: Terry McMahon

Bake-off: Monica Lewis

General Questions: Please contact your local church office

See you there! 

Original DP Workshop Registration and Payment Instructions

In Jin Moon
May 20, 2009

To: District Directors, State Leaders, Blessed Central Families and all Members
Re: Original DP Workshop Registration and Payment Instructions
Date: May 20th, 2009

As you know, the Original Divine Principle Workshop will take place in Las Vegas at the Riviera Hotel on June 4th -- 8th. A detailed memo was emailed to you on May 18th.

What was not clarified in that memo was the registration and payment process required for every participant to go through. Please see instructions below.

Registration

Please click on the link below. It will take you to an Online Registration Form.

www.familyfed.org/form/odpws.htm

Please fill out the form and click on the “submit” button.

This will send your registration to the Workshop Secretariat.

In situations where there is no access to the internet, a registration form is attached. Please use this option only if you have no other choice.

Registration Fee Payment

Your registration will become official only after if your registration fee has been received. There are two ways to pay your registration fee, by check or via credit card.

1. Payments by Check

All checks should be routed from the states via the state leaders to the District HQ Financial Office. This applies to members and guests alike. Here one check can be made and mailed to the National HQ. With the check, please send an Excel List of the individual checks you have received with the following information:

1. Payer’s Name

2. Amount Paid

3. Date Paid

The Registration Fee for double occupancy is $500

The Registration Fee for single occupancy is $700

Please make your check out to “HSA-UWC”

On the memo line of the check write “Original DP Workshop”

District HQ Please mail your check to:

FFWPU
Financial Department
4 West 43rd Street
New York, NY 10036

2. Payments via Credit Card

The Registration Fee for double occupancy is $515

The Registration Fee for single occupancy is $721

Please use the attached Credit Authorization Form

Please fill out the form and fax it or

Email the form to Jorg Heller

Important Point.

The State Leaders or a designated member should make sure that the Credit Card Authorization Forms for a guest is filled out correctly and emailed or faxed properly.

The Registration Deadline is Thursday May 28th. Your Registration Fee Payment should be postmarked by that date.

3. Concerning your donation for the Original Divine Principle Workshop ($700).

Donation Payment by Check

Please write a separate check for your donation

On the memo line of the check write “Donation -- Original DP Workshop”

Follow Payment instructions above

Donation Payment by Credit Card

Please use the Credit Card Authorization Form Labeled

Follow Payment instructions above

Thank you,

FFWPU HQ

Special “Original Divine Principle” Workshop in Las Vegas

In Jin Moon
May 18, 2009

NHQ20090403 No. 16

To: District Directors and State Leaders
Fm: Rev. In Jin Moon and Rev. Ki Hoon Kim
Re: Special “Original Divine Principle” Workshop in Las Vegas
Dt: May 18, 2009

May God’s blessings and True Parents’ love be with all districts, missions, providential organizations, blessed families and members.

This is to announce that the first in a series of the special workshops entitled “Education Session Proclaiming the Completion of the Liberated Realm of the Portion of Responsibility in God’s Providential History” will be held in Las Vegas from June 4 - 8th. This historic education began in Hawaii, then was developed in the Fatherland and now has come to mainland of the U.S.

True Parents have asked that all members attend this most significant workshop as soon as possible. In the four nights and five days of the program schedule, participants will receive thorough presentations on the “Original Divine Principle”, with rich internal guidance that provides deep insights into the culmination of God’s providence today. This teaching is a new expression of the Principle revealed for the Age After the Coming of Heaven, essential to understanding True Parents’ main focus of establishing the era of God’s Sabbath based on absolute sexual ethics. Through attending this workshop we are setting a fundamental condition to receive God’s Word through the “Original Divine Principle” allowing our family fulfill our portion of responsibility in this new era in supporting True Parents in their resurrected course in liberating and comforting God. The practice of this teaching as an absolute sexual ethic is the fundamental internal condition that protects heaven’s blood lineage, secures the blessed family, and allows God to be at peace, taking His Sabbath.

The challenges of our world today -- economic collapse, moral breakdown, and incessant conflict -- are causing people everywhere to lose confidence in existing systems. The suffering and confusion of the world can become a precious opportunity for people to make course corrections and to place God at the center of their lives and families. It is in such an atmosphere that dramatic transformation is possible, for us as individuals and families, and for humanity as a whole.

We can all recognize how serious this time is. During these dramatic moments of God’s providential history, True Father continues to lead America directly through Rev. Hyung Jin Moon, Rev. In Jin Moon and True Family. Now more than ever it is important to be rooted in God’s Word. Thus True Father is calling us to make the condition of inheriting the Original Principle through participation in the “Education Session Proclaiming the Completion of the Liberated Realm of the Portion of Responsibility in God’s Providential History” and through making a special condition of offering.

It is our great blessing that True Parents are making this precious educational experience available to us in the US. Without a doubt, your participation in this special workshop will equip you with the profound understanding of the Providence today, plus profound insights on how we can apply the Principle in our blessed family lives. We urge you to make every effort to participate in this historic workshop on June 4 - 8, 2009.

1) Education Session Details

a) Date: June 4 -8, 2009

i) Arrive in Las Vegas on June 4 no later than 6 PM; opening ceremony at 7:30 PM.

ii) Workshop concludes by lunch on June 8; departures in late afternoon or evening.

b) Venue: Riviera Hotel, 2901 Las Vegas Blvd., South, Las Vegas, NV 89109

c) Presenters: Rev. In Jin Moon, Dr. Chang Shik Yang, Bishop Ki Hoon Kim, Rev. Michael Jenkins

d) Participants: Blessed family members from the USA and Europe.

e) Participation Fee

f) Registration fee of $500 covers 4 nights in the Riviera Hotel (double occupancy), all meals during conference session, and ground transportation for tours.

g) Target number of participants: USA - 500

h) Deadline for registration: 12 noon (EST), Wednesday, May 25, 2009; registration forms should be sent to Jorg Heller.

2) Transportation

a) Travel costs to Las Vegas are the responsibility of each participant

b) Hotel shuttle or taxi to the Riviera

3) Special Offering Condition

a) Participants from Japan - $7000

b) Participants from USA - $700

c) Participants from other countries - $700

Sincerely,

Rev. In Jin Moon
President FFWPU - USA

Rev. Ki Hoon Kim
Continental Director - North America 

Anything Worthwhile Takes Time

In Jin Moon
May 17, 2009

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Good morning, brothers and sisters. And good morning, WestRock and New Jerusalem communities. We are delighted to have you joining with us to celebrate here at the Lovin’ Life Ministries. Wasn’t that a great performance by the band? I want to know what love is, too, and I’m sure all of you want to know, experience, and live what love is all about.

I remember having a very interesting and enlightening conversation with my youngest son when he was four years old. His name is Paxton; his Korean name is Shin Pyung, meaning faith and peace. We were looking through one of those Aesop fables stories and I thought, "Hmm, I wonder what a four-year-old's definition of love might be. So I said, "Paxton, what do you think love is?" And he looked at me with these beautiful black eyes and said, "Love is what makes the heart move’. I thought that answer was better than something I could come up with, and I said, "So why is love something that makes your heart move?" And he said, "I love you, Omma, and I want to hug you and I want to kiss you and I want to be with you. And my heart moves me to just want to be with you." I thought, what an incredibly beautiful answer.

Love is something that we all want as human beings; it is something that we strive for. I think a lot of you walked into this community because you understood Heavenly Parent’s definition of what true love is all about. My father has said over the years, "What is the true essence of true love? The essence of true love is unconditional. It’s a joyful love, and it’s a sacrificial love." I am sure all of you have thought about this definition from time to time, as I have over the years. I find it to be quite significant when I think about my life and the lives of our community members. As someone who has given birth to five children and has experienced what a parental love is like, the kind of parental love that we have for our children is exactly the kind of love that God, as our parent, has for us. He loves us unconditionally, he loves us with a joyful heart, and he loves us with a sacrificial love in that he would be willing to sacrifice anything just to be with his children.

When I look at the problems that I see around our world, such as broken families and difficult relationships, I see that people are the same regardless of what kind of an environment they come from in that they want to experience true love. But I have often seen, especially between a husband and wife, conditional love. Sometimes the wife may actually tally up points like, "What did my husband do for me, what did he not do for me? Did he bring me flowers on our anniversary? Did he bring me a gift on my birthday?" And the husband may say, "Well, if my wife really, truly loves me, honors me, and respects me, then I want my breakfast at 7 am sharp, I want my laundry done crisply, folded, and put away in drawers. I want our room to be immaculate and comfortable when I come back home from work."

Many times the husband and wife have expectations of each other and conditions set on each other that they would like the other spouse to fulfill. If you look at that situation, sometimes you wonder, "Why does all this tallying up of points result in a volcanic eruption?" It’s because each side, the husband or the wife, is wanting something from the other, not really thinking about what the other person might need. Instead, you should be more of a giver in that you want to take care of others without remembering what they did or did not do for you. As Father says, love is giving and forgetting you have given, meaning you are not tallying up the points of the performance of your beloved spouse.

The relationship we have with God is the most precious thing in the world. And yet sometimes when it manifests in the family there can be an incredible amount of misunderstanding. When parents receive this beautiful bundle of delight they call their son or daughter; they have so much expectation, so many things they want their child to be. We try our best to guide our children through life and to help them become children of God. But what was once a beautiful bundle, starts developing a language of its own. At two years of age, it finds its sense of identity and begins to express its sense of self with the word "No." And Everything you ask the child to do, the answer is "No." It’s an assertion of identity to the world; many times it’s directed toward the parents.

As the child grows, and as the dynamic between parent and child becomes defined, a lot of friction may arise. In the midst of growing up, children might feel like the parents don’t understand them at all; in fact a child might feel nobody understands him or her and feel incredibly lonely, even in a huge family, in trying to find the self and understand where he or she fits in the scheme of things called life and this wonderful gift of a world called the universe. As the child struggles, sometimes he or she comes into conflict with the parents, and it’s a difficult battle. Sometimes instead of being grateful for having each other, there is a great deal of resentment and anger.

I know that even within our own community many times the Second Generation looks upon the First Generation with absolute puzzlement. "How can Mom and Dad give up everything for God? How can my mom and dad continually sacrifice and invest in the movement while we don’t have food on the table? How can Mom and Dad be so crazy about mission work that they are never home?" As the child strives to understand all these things, sometimes he or she feels deep frustration and anger, and it’s very difficult to have a joyful heart. But a child must go through the growing period. Every one of us has gone through it or maybe some of us are smack in the middle of it, feeling like we are the loneliest people and the most misunderstood people in the world. But God is taking us through this process because sometimes we find God only when we feel like there is nothing left. We look toward trying to be someone better or reach something beyond what we are only when we feel like we have nowhere to turn.

I grew up in a family where my father and my mother were 24/7 obsessed about preaching the word of God. Many times they were not home. As children, what do we want more than anything? We want to be with our parents all the time, and we want them to love us. From our point of view, it’s what we want, and we are not really thinking about what we really need. In my own life of faith I’ve struggled with that; it’s at times like that when I felt most lonely, most miserable, most frustrated, and most angry.

Being in a public family, you cannot talk to anybody in confidence because once you say to your best friend, "I’m feeling really miserable; I’m feeling really lonely," it literally goes around the world. I understand it’s out of love and concern that my friend mentioned to her parents, "In Jin is really struggling because her parents are not there and she feels so lonely and so miserable. It’s awful." Maybe she said it out of love. But then the parents decide to go to the central figure: "Central figure, In Jin Nim is such a lonely, miserable child." Then the central figure hears, this, "Oh my goodness, she is a miserable child" (the lonely is forgotten by now), and then it comes back to my parents, "In Jin is complaining because her parents are pathetic," and the miserable part, the lonely part, and the frustrated part are forgotten.

So you learn that if you are born into a public family, you cannot even easily convey your heart to anybody. So where do you go, who do you talk to when your parents are not there? That’s how I realized how incredible God, our Heavenly Parent, is. He is unchanging, he is eternal, and he is absolute. These are the attributes of true love that he shows me each and every day. So in my hour of darkness, when I had no one to turn to, I realized there was always somebody right there. There was God. And when I felt incredibly frustrated I realized that I only had to open my mouth and talk to God and I would be heard, understood, and loved.

So from a very young age you realize that God is amazing, and then you realize that through his love, which is absolute, eternal, and unchanging, you are probably the luckiest girl in the world. Then you realize, "Not only am I the luckiest girl in the world, but the people sitting here are the luckiest men and women, brothers and sisters, and sons and daughters of God. And then you realize, "Oh my goodness, this is what it means to have a joyful love toward someone. You are so much indebted that you cannot help but be grateful.

My father also teaches that the third essence of true love is sacrificial love. I think all of us in the room are no different in that the word sacrifice gives us shudders. It is not something that we look forward to. But then you look at how God loves us and how much he has suffered for us, sacrificing himself so that he can raise up an incredible man and a woman like True Parents who can for the first time in providential history substantiate this ideal family and move forward to engraft all of humankind into the true olive branch. What an incredible and awesome parent we have in God!

When I think about sacrificial love and of my role as a mother, I know that I would do anything for my child. There is a wonderful story that is told over and over again in Korea. It’s a story about the relationship between a mother and a son. Traditionally in a Korean family, the eldest son is the most important of the children, and so the mother tries her best to raise up this son to be a great man of God. So this was a poor family. The mother used all her resources to be creative with very little. She always managed to prepare three wholesome and handsome meals for her son. The story talks about how even the place matting or the choice of a dish was done carefully because it was her devotional way of loving her son and hoping that he could become a great man of God.

They had this little ritual once a week. The mother, having saved money all throughout the week, would go to the market and buy a little fish for them to share. The mother would roast the fish, maybe with a bit of sesame oil or maybe with a little bit of soy sauce. She would create a wonderful, succulent fish dish that the two would share. The mother would always cut the head off and serve the son the body or the filet part of the fish. After placing it on her son’s dish she would take the head of the fish and put it on her plate, and they would both enjoy the fish.

Many years went by and the son did grow into an awesome man. He found a beautiful bride, and now they had a home. They looked forward to inviting his mother, so they prepared a feast. The son told the wife, "My mother likes this type of a fish; could you prepare it like this?". So his beloved wife prepared a succulent dish.

When the mother came, the son cut the fish just the way his mother used to do. He cut the head off and served it to the mother, and then he took the filet part and served himself and his wife. It was then that the mother broke into tears. The son said, "Mother why are you crying? I thought this was your favorite dish. You saved money for a whole week to buy this kind of fish, so why are you crying? Wasn’t the fish head your favorite part? You always served me the filet and served yourself the head." Then the mother cried, "Aigo (meaning "Oi Veh" or "Oh my goodness"), don’t you know I gave you the filet because I wanted you to have the best part of the fish and I took the head fish because there was nothing to eat? I was an old woman and you were a growing boy. I wanted you to have the better."

And then the son realized what he had done, so he started crying, "Oh, Mother, I am so sorry. I had no idea that all during those years the reason why you have saved the money to go to the market once a week to buy the fish to prepare it with such devotion so that it would be so delicious and succulent and the way you served the fish was because you were thinking about me. I had no idea." Then the son realized how immature he was to think that a mother would serve herself the best part. The mother always serves the child the best part, and that’s the heart of a sacrificial love.

A friend of mine sent me an e-mail a while back in which he mentioned several times that it was Jesus Christ who really helped him get back on track and stay true in his relationship with God, our Parent. He said he saw an image of a beautiful slave women, breast-feeding a white child who belonged to the slave master. Even though she knew that perhaps this master’s son would one day grow up to be a master of slaves himself and might become someone who would rape and abuse the black women in her community, the only thing she could see was the beauty of this child. As a mother with a sacrificial heart, she was breast-feeding this baby because she knew he was a child. And not only was she breast-feeding but also singing the Negro spirituals. She was singing from her heart, serenading him and nourishing him. She was loving this baby, but all the while her ankles were bound in chains. The image of this sacrificial love is what moved my friend to stay on track and stay true to his relationship with God because that is the kind of love God has for us.

That kind of image is similar with an image in the mega-blockbuster movie Titanic. Everybody on board can see that there are not enough lifeboats. They know for certain that some people will live and some people will die. It is the sacrificial love of the mother, of a parent, that pleads with the people who have been chosen to go on a life boat, "Please take my child; please save my child," even though she knows that she will perish, because she wants her child to live, to grow up, to experience the parental love that she has so enjoyed by having this child. She wants the child to experience the very same parental heart of God. So as sickening and as horrifying it is to know that the parents will die, there is still a sense of hope in the parents that even as they breathe their last breath of air, they die with a sense of hope knowing that one day their child can grow up and experience parental heart, which can only come about when we have children ourselves.

My son sitting here is 16 years old. He is such a brilliant artist, but what I find him doing from time to time is drawing a portrait of a gorgeous woman. I say, "Truston, who is that?" And then he quickly puts it away and I say, "But it’s absolutely gorgeous. I wish I could meet her." When you are a young man, you have so much love and so much passion, you are really dying to love somebody. You are always looking because you are desiring this thing called love. I think a lot of young people today misunderstand what true love really is. A lot of young people think that getting love from their hot boyfriend is true love. Maybe they have to sacrifice some of their own values to be that popular girl at school. They are always trying to find out, "How do I get what I want, how do I get the kind of validation that I need, how do I experience true love?"

But, you know, I was once a teenager, too, and I remember my mother saying to me, "Anything worthwhile takes time." When I heard her say that to me many years ago, it frustrated me even more. But then you go through your life and come to the same place your mother was, with children of your own. You are looking at your children, these incredible specimens of love, and you want the best for them. You don’t want them to have a broken heart; you don’t want them to have a broken future. You want them to have the ultimate experience of loving, honoring, and respecting another person who will love them eternally, unchangingly, with respect and honor. You want them to find such a relationship in their lives. And so here I am telling my 16-year old, "Anything worthwhile takes time." I know he does not like to hear that because he is thinking, "Where is my ideal woman, now?" And I think every girl in the audience is thinking, "Where is my knight in shining armor? I want him now."

It is like one of the favorite movies that we like to see as a family. I’m well into my forties, but I still enjoy the movie Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory. I love that part when Willy Wonka is saying, "Maybe you should not eat that blueberry gum because it’s not been completed." But the girl keeps saying, "I want it now." And she starts chewing and says, "Oh I can taste these fabulous flavors!" But she doesn’t realize that she is turning into a blueberry and that she is being engorged with blueberry juice. And I always say to my kids, "See? That is what happens when you eat something that is not ready?"

Love is probably the most powerful force in the universe, and young people simply cannot wait to get on board. Think about when you want to bake a cake, a wonderful birthday cake for your mom, and you really want to do it with heart and devotion. You can’t be like I Dream of Genie, just snapping your fingers, and there it is. It takes a certain preparation of gathering ingredients and blending them together, cream, eggs, and so forth, and putting them into an oven and baking it. Our favorite dessert in our house is cheesecake. We love to bake cheesecake. But the kids know they have to wait a day before they can break into it and take their first bite because they want that first bite to be a full experience.

So when we tell our children, "please wait a little; please be a little patient," they would ask why. We tell them, "Please wait a little because during your growth period you don’t even know who you are. You are trying to understand who you are and you are trying to find your relationship in terms of where you stand with God, with your family, with the world. If you can’t put that into order, how can you invite another person into your life? It is a recipe for disaster."

There is a huge push when young people are in junior high school or just starting high school to go dating, to go partying, to lose their virginity so that basically they start looking at other human beings not as vessels of God with divinity in them, but as objects to conquer and to possess.. Father and Mother have so urgently, so vehemently, and so pleadingly asked young people, and their own children as well, to wait for the Blessing. When you want to drive a car, you have to go through a process of getting a license. Probably the most important license you can own is a marriage license, and therefore you have to go through a process of growth, of putting mind over body, of becoming aware of who you are as an individual and in relation to God as a divine vessel who is going to enjoy the privilege of loving another human being. That is why Father and Mother have asked us to wait.

What they want us to have is not something half-baked. There is nothing worse than biting into a cake that is half-baked, nothing worse than a baked good that collapses onto itself. You want the full satisfaction, the full taste of what you are biting into. Our parents know, and God, our Heavenly Parent, knows that first love is probably the most powerful thing in the universe. They are asking us to consider how wonderful it will be to have that with another person who is going to honor, respect, and love you as a divine human being.

The parents are not asking you to deny yourself, not at all. It is just simply the matter of delayed gratification, and then you can have it all. You can have a glorious relationship. You can be in love and create a wonderful family without having gone through the stages of having a broken heart, of divorce, of being abused by people who do not treat you right, and then winding up as somebody wounded, as somebody who needs a lot of taking care of. That is a job in and of itself, to take care of somebody who is wounded. So the only thing they are asking us to do is to wait to get the marriage license, this license to "drive"; you will have the recognition of not just yourself but your family and your community, and all generations can celebrate a new union. So instead of it being something selfish, the coming together as a husband and wife can be celebrated by everyone. How wonderful and incredible is that!

So I know that when my 16-year-old is saying, "I want to know what love is," maybe my son should think that there is a special somebody that God has prepared for him. The most important thing that he can do is to work on himself, work on becoming an internally as well as an externally excellent person. This means not just daily practicing what makes him into a great human being by practicing true love, but, at the same time, since he is so young, being the best in school. Be that class president, be that great artist, be the incredible mathematician or the future physicist who would make Einstein smile with great delight! You can be everything and anything that you want to be if you go through this process.

So the most gorgeous jewels take time and care, like the beautiful pearl in an oyster. How does that pearl come to be? It’s made inside an oyster through an irritation caused by a grain of sand. So a lot of you might look at your parents as that grain of sand continually frustrating you, irritating you, telling you, "Don’t do this; maybe you should do that. Maybe you should wait.". But it’s that grain of sand. Your parents that are going to turn you into a brilliant, one-of-a-kind pearl called you.

A diamond is something that is truly rare and valuable, something that all the ladies would like to have sitting on their fourth finger on the day they walk down the aisle. It starts out from a piece of coal. It has a very humble beginning. After being hidden deep inside the earth core with thousands of pounds of pressure put upon it for thousands of years, the coal is slowly transformed into a diamond. And even when one finds a diamond, it is still rough. So the jeweler has to harvest it by cleaning it up, filing it, and polishing it before he can put it into a beautiful setting.

So when your parents are asking you to wait, it is because they know you are going to be turning into a rare diamond that will one day showcase your commitment and your pledge to love another person eternally. Like the thousands of years of being in the earth’s core, you need to work things out as a family to create an ideal family. You are dealing with your parents, you are dealing with your brothers and sisters, you are dealing with your grandfather and grandmother, you are dealing with that nosy aunt of yours.

All this pressure that they put upon you is actually helping you transform yourself into a diamond. It is your family, God, and True Parents who will polish you into this rarity. You will commit yourself to that other person for the rest of your life, enjoying the gratification that comes with waiting, enjoying the satisfaction of a bite into something fully baked, fully matured, so unlike the dissatisfaction that you feel when you bite into a fruit that is not ripe. As much as I love a banana in the morning, sometimes when it’s too green, it leaves an aftertaste. So having a premature relationship may be like biting into an unripe banana, because you can not escape the aftertaste that lingers on forever.

So please wait, please be grateful, and please practice the three things that are the essence of true love in your family: honoring your parents, taking care of your brothers and sisters, and loving all those around you truly in a sacrificial way. Show your parents you love them by taking out the trash before your mama asks you to, doing the dishes before you mama finishes her last bite on her dinner plate, or making that extra special something like a dessert to surprise you father with. If your father is a chocoholic, well, then, you have your homework done. You can create a lovely chocolate éclair or a chocolate cheesecake or anything chocolate to put that smile on your father’s face and grow your gratitude so that you are not always wanting something from your parents.

The difference between a mature person and an immature person, between a child and an adult, is that when a child does something, he or she wants to be recognized. When a child cleans up the room the first thing that the child says is, "Mommy, come and see my room." When the child does the dishes, the first thing is, "Mother, come here and look at the dishes," or if it is taking out the trash, it’s "Mother, I took out the trash. Can I have another Pokémon card?" You know that the child is maturing nicely when the child simply does all those things without seeking recognition. But you know what as parents, we always know and we always notice the things that our children do. But even if we don’t recognize what they have done, they are still happy just because they have had an opportunity to do something to make the place a little bit more beautiful.

It is inheriting the habits or the practices that are learned within the family that truly turns you into the kind of person that can welcome another human being as a spouse to love. So don’t ever think that you are being denied anything when your parents say, "Please don’t go to parties, please don’t do drugs, please don’t have sex." They are not denying you; they are not saying you can’t do these things. They are simply reorienting you, saying "Maybe these things are not good for your growth. Look at all the things that you can do. You can be an incredible daughter of God if you can forgo drugs. You can be an incredible student, an incredible artist, an incredible anything, and you can rule the world in the artistry that God has given you when you were born, when you were this bundle of delight that all of us once were."

So I hope that the young people in the audience can understand delayed gratification, which is just waiting for that special something on that special day. It is like waiting for a birthday to come around the next year and anticipating receiving a birthday gift that you have worked so hard for all year.. Wouldn’t you, on that day, want to receive the gift beautifully packaged. Maybe you are waiting for a laptop like the way my 16-year-old boy was on his birthday. I saw the look on his face when he opened up the gift. It was just like, "WOW! AMAZING." Now imagine if he turned on the computer and found out it was broken or if it was used and something was not functioning.

If you don’t wait for this special day, your heart may be broken. When you are broken-hearted, you can’t trust. When you can’t trust, it’s very difficult to love because to truly love somebody you have to be absolutely vulnerable in every sense of the word. You have to be able to open up your heart without any fear. I know that from having counseled many couples in the past and from talking to my colleagues who come to me for marital advice, the greatest thing that can destroy a marriage is fear. This is what, as parents, we would want our children to avoid because this fear of failure, the fear of being broken hearted, the fear of being hurt many times is actually a hindrance to the ability to love.

So when your parents ask you to wait, they want you to wait for that special somebody who believes in God as our Heavenly Parent who understands the essence of true love. It is not about what I can get; it is really about living for the sake of others. It is about what we can do for the other person. And if the other person coming into your life understands that, then you won’t be opening a birthday gift that has something broken or something missing so you have to go and buy another part. You will be starting with something that is ready to go; something beautiful, something whole.

So, young people in the audience, please wait to receive that incredible laptop. When you grow up, God wants to give to you a new laptop. Even better than a laptop is a person, a walking, talking, and breathing, and loving person.

So, brothers and sisters, we have come from all different walks of life. I see a lot of First Generation here. Many of you joined this community because you wanted to build on this essence of true love by practicing living for the sake of others, by practicing and applying these three loves: unconditional love, joyful love, and sacrificial love. As we move forward together in this journey of life, rest assured that you are not alone. Just as you are dealing with your ideal family, so am I, and so is he, and so is she. Let’s not forget that the goal is to build ideal families so we can build an ideal society and ideal world where we can enjoy these incredible fruits without fear, without violence, without hurt and pain. That is definitely something to look forward to.

One of my favorite poets is the Sufi mystic Rumi. I’ll share with you one of his poems that tends to be my favorite. He talks about this one light emanating from one source. That one light is our Heavenly Parent, who is always emanating of himself and hoping that we can be charged into his brilliance, that we as beautiful light bulbs can truly glow, brilliantly sharing in his light by being connected to the divine. Then we can gaze into his ageless eyes and taste the beauty of true love. Rumi often liked to say to his followers, "If you are irritated by a little rub, how are you ever going to polish your mirror?" This is the mirror that we are going to reflect as the face of God.

We have a lot of Japanese and Koreans in the audience. I remember when we were growing up, we used to receive Divine Principle lectures from this incredible Yoda-like figure called Reverend Sudo. He is absolutely awesome. He would give passionate Divine Principle lectures about true love, but whenever he said "true love," it sounded like "true rub." So we always thought, "Okay after the lecture, we are going to truly rub each other." That was our ongoing joke. In remembrance of Rumi, don’t be irritated by a little rub, the rub from your parents saying, "Wait a little bit, try reorienting yourself this way, try to be grateful, try to be sacrificial." Don’t be irritated, but laugh about it together. Maybe perhaps on your way back home you can truly rub each other in the car or on the street or during the day or when you are doing the dishes together and know that you are truly rubbed by your Heavenly Parent.

So, brothers and sisters, have a wonderful week, have a wonderful day and go gloriously, truly, rubbing each other. Thank you. 

Lovin’ Life Ministries presents Spring Fest 2009 / Day of All True Things Celebration

In Jin Moon
May 15, 2009

What is Spring Fest?

Spring Fest is Lovin’ Life’s celebration of Memorial Day and Day of All True Things. It will take place on Sunday, May 24th at Belvedere in Tarrytown, NY. Spring Fest will take the place of Lovin’ Life Ministries normal worship service at the Manhattan Center.

Schedule

8 am -- Gates open ($5 per car)

10 am to 11:30 am -- Lovin’ Life Ministries Sunday Service

11:30 am -- Food and drinks for sale and a tag sale

12 pm to 5 pm -- Live Music (If you, or your band, would like to perform at Spring Fest, contact Diego Costa.)

Fun Land including an obstacle course, bungee race, joust, bouncers, dunk tanks, carnival games, pony rides, and much more!

Sports including Volley Ball, Soccer, and Ultimate Frisbee

Bake-off competition -- Bake your favorite dessert and enter it into the bake -off contest for prizes. It will also be a fundraiser and all proceeds will go to Lovin’ Life’s Youth Ministry

Raffle tickets go on sale -- the drawing will be held before the Ultimate Frisbee game

What should I bring?

Blankets to sit on

Lawn Chairs (Please only bring ones that are low to the ground so others can see from behind you)

Day of all True Things Offering (Please prepare your offering in advance)

Spending money

Sun Screen

For More Information Contact:

Vendors: Terry McMahon

Bake-off: Monica Lewis

Performer: Diego Costa

General Questions: Please contact your local church office

See you there! 

Mother's Day

In Jin Moon
May 10, 2009

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The following is a transcription of Rev. In Jin Moon’s sermon at Lovin' Life Ministries held at the Manhattan Center in New York City on May 10, 2009.

Good morning, brothers and sisters. Good morning to those of you at New Jerusalem and West Rock communities who are joining us via broadcast. We’re delighted to be with all of you on this precious Mother’s Day. The month of May is a very special month for our movement.

We just celebrated on May 1st the 55th anniversary of Foundation Day, the founding of HSA-UWC, the Holy Spirit Association for the Unification of World Christianity, in 1954. It’s interesting to note that May 1st in communist countries is the International Workers Day, which is like a national holiday for them. So the founding of our movement and the International Workers Day that is celebrated in communist countries were dueling it out as we went on throughout the years.

But also in the month of May we have this wonderful day when we honor the mothers of the world. Today is the day to honor the women in our lives, especially mothers. When I wake up in the morning and think about how I’m going to live that day, and take a little time to meditate, thinking about our Heavenly Parent, our True Parents, and our community, my mind and heart always turn to my mother and what she means to me. In my family, my mother is truly the fertile soil, the foundation on which the family stands. A mother is the field where God can plant his beautiful garden, the starting point of the children. Hers is the first voice that we hear, the first embrace that we feel. Her milk is the first nourishment that we taste. These are the things that start us off on this journey called life.

We just heard a great performance from the band, didn’t we? A band has drums, bass, piano, singers, keyboards, and guitars. But the true foundation of the band is the bass. The bass grounds the band and at the same time drives it. In the family, the mother is like the bass in a band, what grounds the family and at the same time drives it.

When I’m thinking about the sound of bass and the concept of foundation, my mind usually goes to one of my favorite classical composers, Johann Sebastian Bach. He wrote a beautiful aria as part of a cantata that translates into English as Lord, Do Not Go in Judgment. It’s a beautiful piece that comes with a text for the choir. It paints a story of sinners seated before the throne of God. The music of the different instruments creates a visual imagery of what we’re listening to, which is like a fire and brimstone message of the sinners. You hear the sinners accusing and attacking each other, even while they’re seated in front of God.

Then you hear an incredibly lovely oboe accompaniment, a little phrase, an aria that is repeated throughout the cantata. It represents the sinners and their sins being played over and over again. Just as the sinners are trembling before the seat of God, the oboe also trembles as it continually plays this same phrase.

The interesting thing, though, about this piece is that there is no bass, so there is no foundation. Even as this piece is being played out, you know something is missing, something is deeply wrong. You feel it in your emotion because your emotion is energy in motion. Then there is a constant battle between the sinners going on and the different instruments coming in. But the overarching thing that juxtaposes itself to this fire and brimstone text is the tone of the aria. The tone is one of pity, a feeling of being sorry for the sinners.

It’s a beautiful piece, but then you realize that it is like a band without a bass, a family without a mother. You feel it in your soul, and you feel sad because something is missing, something that grounds the music and drives it.

In music we can see how different feelings and emotions may be played out. Particularly in that Bach piece, I’ve often felt the feeling of emptiness, of being almost lost, even though there is this continuous phrase that’s repeated over and over again with tremolo. And I realize, my goodness, a mother is so crucial to a family.

For a lot of us growing up, our mother represents the conscience of the family. I don’t know how many times when I was young and beginning to understand who I was, or what I wanted my identity to be, I realized that sometimes I was good and sometimes I was naughty. But the most difficult thing that my mother put upon me and my siblings was that she constantly told us, “I love you and I trust you.” Of course initially it sounds wonderful, but when you become a teenager and maybe want to break that curfew every now and then and see that double feature or see what a party or club is like, you hear this voice of conscience, the voice of my mother, saying, “In Jin, I trust you.” That was awful because you couldn’t do anything that you couldn’t come back to Mama and be proud of.

When you’re young, you want to do so many things. The world is like your oyster. You want to go exploring; you want to do different things. But at the same time you want to be a really, really good girl, you want to honor God, you want to respect your parents, and you want to be a dutiful child. You know your mother trusts you so completely, and you don’t want to mess that up. You don’t want to lose that.

It was incredibly difficult for my siblings and me growing up as teenagers in this country, with so many different things to try out. In the back of our minds, there was our mother, saying, “I trust you.” You wanted to honor that trust. I have a younger sister who is two years younger than I am. We were raised like twins -- given the same haircut, put in the same clothing, almost like a uniform. If Mother bought something for me, she bought the same dress in a smaller size for my sister. Whenever we went out into the world, people always asked, “Are you guys twins?” We were dressed alike, our haircuts were alike, and we looked alike. We would always be busy saying, “No, we’re not twins. We’re sisters.” But that’s how we were raised.

Even our names are almost the same: My name is In Jin and her name is Un Jin. Many times my parents would mix us up. We would say, “Mother, wouldn’t it be far easier if you dressed us in different clothing? It might help you to remember our names.” But she was insistent on us being sisters and looking alike and doing everything together.

We grew up sharing a bedroom. One of the things my mother always stressed to the kids was “Clean minds, clean room. Clean environment, clean spirit.” She was very diligent with us girls from a very young age. “You need to clean up your room; leave it better than you found it.”

She would have us vacuum, clean, and dust, rubbing everything until it shone incredibly beautifully. Having a mother like this and growing up in this kind of an environment, my sister really took ceaning to an art form. She would clean her side of the room. She would draw a line down the center and say, “This is my side, and that is your side, sister.” She would take incredible care of her furniture and her clothing. She would vacuum so diligently, just her side of the room. She would take Fantastik and Windex and clean all the windows, then dust and shine everything. Then she would simply put all the cleaning agents and the vacuum on my side of the room after she was done. And any other stuff that she didn’t want on her side she would leave on my side.

I don’t know many times, no matter how hard I tried, I always got in trouble. My younger sister had a knack of knowing exactly when my mother would come in. Her side would be absolutely gorgeous, beautiful, so pristine. My side looked like Clutter City. I’d be furiously trying to clean up as fast as possible. Many times when my mother came in, she said, “In Jin, why does the older sister’s side of the room look dirtier than the younger sister’s? Could you please clean up?” Then she would leave.

Then I would be totally crushed, thinking murderous thoughts. I would look at my sister and say, “How can you do this to me? How could you?” She would be sitting on the chair, smiling at me. It was very difficult for me to overcome my anger, which wanted so badly to volcanically erupt toward her. I often prayed about it, “Okay, I live with this person, she’s my sister, I have to take care of her, I have to love her. And yet she gets me in trouble all the time. How do I overcome it?”

Then I would hear a voice in the back of my mind, my mother’s voice, saying, “In Jin, I trust you.” And it’s awful because even though you want to be angry, you have this mother saying, “I trust you.” And you want to be good, and you want to try your best.

The years went on like that. Finally, when we became teenagers, my mother got the idea, “Let’s put the two girls in two separate rooms with a shared bathroom.” But even when we got our separate rooms, it was interesting how her room would be just absolutely immaculate. I would try my best to keep my room as clean as possible. But when she wanted to rest, she would always come into my room and sleep on my bed, bringing Doritos and crumbly cookies and eating them in my chair and making a mess on my desk.

She even had this fabulous way of vacuuming. You know that when you pull the vacuum one way the carpet looks darker and when you push, it looks lighter? She figured out the perfect way of vacuuming her room so it was all light. Then she would come into my room to do her thing, to spend her day. Sometimes the people taking care of our clothes would put my identical outfit in her closet, so I would have to go into her closet. I wanted to do it discreetly, to check if my things are there, and then come out. Because she cleaned her carpet in such a way that it’s all light, you could not walk on it carpet without her knowing. And you could not open her closet door without it creating an arc like half a snow angel.

This is what I had to deal with. One day I said to myself, “Okay, Mother, I hear your voice. You’re telling me you trust me, but you know what? Being a good girl is not easy. One of these days I want to express to my sister what I’m feeling.” There was one instance when a missionary couple came to our house and brought a lot of gifts from Japan. On this special day they gave my sister and me animated-figure pencil cases. They were beautiful, pink, with a picture of a beautiful girl. My sister got one, and I got one. We were both enjoying our presents.

I left the room to get something for the guests to drink. When I came back, my pencil case was in my sister’s hand and her pencil case was in front of my seat. It really didn’t matter so much because the pencil cases almost looked identical to me. But on this day, I just couldn’t hold it in. I screamed, “Un Jin!” like I’ve never screamed before. I said, “Give me my pencil case back,” and I took it from her hand, and gave hers back.

You know what happened? These two poor missionaries who brought us the gift were looking at me, frozen in fear, seeing this 10-year-old girl screaming at the top of her lungs because she wanted to take something from her 8-year-old sister, not knowing what had just happened. Then, because I grabbed it so furiously out of her hand, my younger sister started to cry. I felt absolutely miserable. Even though this happened to me many years ago, I’ve never forgotten that story. I never forgot how precious and incredibly important it is to listen to that inner voice, to listen to my mother saying, “I trust you.” Had I held in my temper or let this one pass, it would have been an opportunity for God to give me a chance to develop a deeper love for my sister.

After this incident I apologized profusely to my sister, and I even gave her my pencil case back, the one that she wanted. But it would never be the same to her, and it would never be the same to this poor Japanese missionary couple that brought us this gift. They must have gone away thinking, “Holy cow, that was quite a volcanic eruption we witnessed today!” I’ve often wondered what they must have been thinking or how ghastly I must have looked.

I’ve often thought, what would my mother have done in that situation? She would have asked me to be patient, she would have asked me to forgive, and she would have asked me to love. These are the lessons that my mother has taught me time and time again. Even though I was naughty sometimes (and that outburst was a naughty thing to do), her love for me never, ever wavered. It was absolute, it was unchanging, and it was eternal. She became a person who validated who I was. She was somebody that I could go to. She was like a sounding board to listen to some of the things that I was feeling. At the same time, she was somebody who made me feel like there’s nothing that I could not do.

She often told me a story about herself when she was a teenager, before she was married to my father when she was 17 years old. She said, “My model, my ideal woman, was Brigitte Bardot.” I said, “What?!” She said, “Yes, my ideal woman was Brigitte Bardot.” I said, “Mom, she’s a sex symbol.” She said, “No, no, not that part.” She had seen a movie in which Brigitte Bardot played a part in the Russian saga War and Peace. She was energized by this character, this heroine’s revolutionary spirit that she was going to change the world. My mom said that inspired her. And coming from an Asian culture, where women have always been repressed and kept hidden away, she said, “Wow, I want to be like that woman.” I said, “Mom, no wonder you married my dad. If you wanted to be a revolutionary, you certainly found one in my father.”

She made me feel like there’s no limit to what I can accomplish. She made me feel like because I’m a girl, because I am God’s daughter, I can be just as great as a child of God, just as great as my brothers. When my brothers were pushed to learn martial arts, she enrolled all her daughters in martial arts. When she bought my brother a cross-country motorcycle, she bought all her daughters motorcycles. And she said, “Don’t let your brother beat you.” When she sent us to school, she told me, "There is nothing that you cannot study and do well. Don’t let anyone make you feel like you cannot do something because you’re a girl."

She said to me from time to time that the time is coming when women will be in a place to reclaim their proper role in the family, in society, and in the world. The world that we’re suffering in right now is from the Fall. But my mom always reminded me that the time is coming when women will stand on equal footing as a man. “There is nothing that you cannot do that your brothers can do.”

This environment, with her constant validation and empowering of my sisters and me, allowed us to excel. It’s interesting that perhaps because my mother pushed us to excel in school and in different arts, the girls in my family were always the straight-A students. The boys were interested in other things, but because we felt like it was such an incredible opportunity for us to be able to do what many of our sisters in Asian or Middle Eastern cultures are still not allowed to do, that is have the opportunity to gain an education, we took it to heart. For us it became almost like a mission because we were given something that is still denied to our sisters in some parts of the world.

Maybe that’s why the brothers didn’t take it as seriously as we did. Maybe they took it for granted because they are men and of course they would be allowed an education. I’ve often thought, why is it that in America we have the best educational systems, and it’s the American students who are floundering while students coming from abroad, from countries like India, the former Soviet Union and China, are doing incredibly well, getting their PhDs, and becoming successful in the different areas that they have chosen for their profession? It’s because they understand the value of education. They understand that it’s a gift, an opportunity, and they’ve had to overcome a great deal of adversity to be given this chance.

Professor Alan Bloom of the University of Chicago pointed out in his book called The Closing of the American Mind the decomposition of the educational system in the United States and the apathetic attitude of the students toward their studies. Maybe it’s because Americans, having been blessed with so much, are taking it for granted. It’s not so important, or they don’t feel like they have to overcome adversity as much as do the students who are coming from abroad.

For the daughters in our family we had to excel. My mother was always there to empower us to keep on going, to keep on marching on. She became our validation point in the family. Just recently my husband showed me another interesting YouTube clip, a shot of valet parking. The valet, whose job was to park all the cars in the lot, had a little table with a long line. The people came up one at a time, and the valet was validating the people: To one person, he said, “You are lovely”; to the next person, “You are intelligent”; To the next person, “You are the child of God” to the next one, “You can be everything and anything that you can be.” The valet was turning into a validation point; all these people were coming not just to park their cars but to be validated by this valet, who was saying that they are awesome people, they are incredible, they are magnificent, they are beautiful.

Isn’t that what a mother does? We tell our children how beautiful and awesome they are. And our belief in them allows them to achieve absolutely incredible things. So when I think about my mother, not only is she the foundation of the family, not only is she the conscience of the family, but she is a validating point. She has been, she is, and she always will be. That’s why she’s so precious.

She taught us daughters two words, and she said for us to try to live our lives remembering these two words. She said, “Live your life with simple elegance.” That was something my mother said to me long ago. She probably forgot about it, but I never did. That became the motto for my life. Every day I tried to live my life with simple elegance. The way I understood those words as a young child and a daughter of God was to concentrate on the basics. What are the basics for a good life? It’s remembering God. It’s remembering family. It’s remembering service and living for the sake of others.

What are the other simple things in life? My mother always told me, “Stick to the classics.” Fashion fads will come and go but stick to the classics because they stand the test of time. She always taught me to look for simple lines, simple designs. Your creativity is what you do with those designs by putting your wardrobe together. She reminded me about the simple things in our daily life. One’s life needs to be clutter-free. It needs to be well organized. It needs to have a schedule. It not only should be a pristine room, the way my sister so diligently and so wonderfully kept her room immaculate, but it’s also in the organization of our complex lives by creating a schedule so that we can live simply.

When I ponder on the word elegance, I’ve often thought about music, about the life of an artist. I really do believe that true elegance is a life lived like an artist. When my son and daughter were practicing the piano, it began as cacophony: horrible sounds that later on turned into beautiful waterfalls. It’s the daily practicing, applying the values that you have in your life, applying the techniques that you have when you’re practicing piano each and every day that allow you to do something so difficult and arduous, and then turn it into something so graceful, so profound, and so elegant.

The goal of an artist is to make the performance seem effortless, natural, and graceful. But we know that when you look behind the performance, you see how the artist has committed to practicing daily, practicing through the tough days as well as the good days, going through this torturous process, the furnace of creativity that one has to go through to produce a work of art that is truly profound. It’s a really difficult thing to do. But it’s going through that difficulty, going through the practicing sessions, going through the singing lessons each and every day that allow us to perform like Chris Alan, from our ministry band, did today -- beautiful, profound, powerful, and sublime.

Isn’t that what the life of a religious person is? We’re looking to experience a communion with God in which we can literally transcend the material, the things that keep us attached, and experience nirvana, or transcendence. It’s a feeling of ecstasy that comes at the end of a religious life well lived. And it’s that incredible transcendental performance, like the one we witnessed here earlier today, that comes because of endless hours spent at the piano going through the lessons, going through the exercises, playing scales, arpeggios, octaves, double arpeggios, and so on.

This is the elegance that we see in my mother, the elegance of truly great women like Rosa Parks, who silently but so elegantly defined the people who were treating the African-Americans in a wrong way. Through her sheer determination, a beautiful and elegant person started the Montgomery bus boycott and inspired a whole new generation of young people to march together with the great civil rights leaders to change the world.

My mother has always told me it’s not fire and brimstone that’s going to change the world but quiet and persistent determination. Many times I saw that example in my mother, in how she carried herself as the wife of Reverend Moon, the man who cares only about living for the sake of others. I’ve often thought, “I wonder if my mom is lonely. I wonder if she might need a little more attention. I wonder if she sometimes is sad.”

I remember once when I went in to greet my parents in the morning, my father was in the restroom and my mother was cleaning up the room. But next to her desk was a pile of crumpled tissue, and her eyes were red. But she didn’t say anything as to how or why the tissues got there. Because she saw my face, her face lit up, she greeted me with a smile, she hugged me, and she said, “Are you going off to school?” I said, “Yes, Mother,” and just kept on looking at the tissue on the side. But she wouldn’t say a word. Then she said, “Don’t forget to be grateful, and have a wonderful day at school.”

My mother and I never talked about it, but now that I have become a mother with five children of my own, and I am working to create what I call this ideal family (meaning I’m dealing with all the things that come with family, to truly make it into a successful family), I’ve thought about that day and I realize my mother must have been crying. In fact, she must have been crying quite profusely because the mound of tissue was quite high. But that’s the heart of a mother. She never complained. She never said anything negative. The only thing she did was empower me to go on and have a good day at school. She gave me an offering of a beautiful smile. And she urged me on to have a great day.

For me, now that I am a mother, every time I’m confronted with a crisis or an obstacle, which I understand to be an opportunity for allowing me to become a victorious woman, I remember my mother saying to me, “I trust you and I love you.” I remember that mound of tissues and think about how difficult it must have been for my mother from time to time living with a man who thinks 24/7 only about saving the world, serving the world, and living for the sake of others, I constantly remind myself that I must follow the example of my mother in that I should not complain or be bitter. In fact, the more I suffer, the greater an opportunity it can be to help me grow as a more profound and deeper person.

I remember my mother’s offering of a smile and also remember her saying, “No matter how difficult your day is, no matter how much people persecute you, no matter how much people do not understand you, start with the offering of a smile. Then don’t forget to breathe. Remember that human beings are breathing 20,000 liters of air each and every day. It’s something that we cannot see, but it’s something that we cannot live without. It’s like God. It’s something that we don’t see every day of our lives, but it’s something that we cannot live without.

She said, “You need to breathe: remember not just to inhale but to exhale. It doesn’t matter how great you are: If you’re just saying, ‘I just want to inhale all the time,’ you’re not going to last very long. Or if you want to say, ‘I want to exhale all the time,’ you’re not going to last very long, either.” So it’s in remembering to breathe that we think about inhaling and exhaling, and we remember how important it is to have this give and receive action that is ongoing all the time but that many times we forget and take for granted. But it’s a wonderful way of remembering how we should live our lives.

She has often encouraged me, after realizing how incredible it is to be alive at this moment, that it’s always important to do something positive. She always encouraged her children to say, “Thank you,” no matter how difficult a situation might be.

I remember one instance with my younger brother, who passed away when he was 17 years old. When we first came to America, I was 8 years old and he was 7. None of us could speak a word of English. The only thing we could say was yes and hello. You can imagine how difficult it must have been. On top of that, the American people soon woke up to the fact that Reverend Moon was gaining too much power because so many young people were following his messages of love and of building an ideal family as the cornerstone of a powerful and God-centered society. We witnessed the backlash against our movement. The late 1970s and early 1980s were probably the worst years. Going to school as Reverend Moon’s children was very difficult. We were pounded and called Moonies [in a negative tone]. Because my brothers were boys, a lot of other boys would try to beat them up simply because they were Moonies.

There was one instance when my brother was perhaps 13 years old. When he came home, his hair was wet and he was wearing gym clothing. He went to bow to my mother to greet her, saying, “Mother, I just came back home from school.” But obviously something terrible had happened because his face was swollen and he was crying. My mother asked him, “What happened, Heung-jin?” It took such a long time for her to get the story out as she was holding his hand. Finally when the story did come out, we were all horribly shocked.

At school a bunch of high school kids cornered my 13-year-old brother because he was a Moonie. These were big kids, and they pinned him against the wall in the boys’ bathroom. One of the boys peed on him, and all the while the other boys taunted him, “You’re a bleeping Moonie. Moonie.” My brother was so traumatized and so incensed; he really didn’t know what to do. He had to wait until they all left. He didn’t really know how society works or even a school system works, so he didn’t think about going to the principal or filing a complaint. He was just traumatized that somebody could do something like that just because his faith was different.

So he went to the gym lockers, took a shower there, put on his gym clothing, came home, and told this story to my mother. My mother said to him, “Heung-jin, thank God you’re all right. They could have done you greater harm. Thank God. Something like this is something you can wash off. But if it truly made you angry, do not respond with greater anger but try to respond with greater love. And remember how much it infuriated you, how much it traumatized you, how much it denigrated you, but take those negative feelings and try your best to turn it into positive energy. So instead of going down to their debased level, you can rise up from this incredibly horrific situation, like a phoenix rising from the ashes, and become a great person. It’s adversity that will turn you into a heavenly champion.”

My mom said, “Any time someone belittles you because they think you’re a Moonie, be grateful because what Satan is doing is putting adversity smack in front of you to remind you that it’s something you need to overcome, it’s something that you can be victorious over and become a true son or a true daughter of God.” My mother said, “As difficult as it is, let’s smile.” So the three of us held hands, and we smiled. Then my mother said, “Let’s breathe. Let’s remember to inhale, to exhale.” So the three of us held hands, and we inhaled and exhaled, remembering that we were breathing in 20,000 liters of air, breathing in God each and every day. And we remembered the importance of giving but also receiving and creating this circuitry so that the power of love could overcome anything.

Then my mother said, “Let’s express our thanks.” So the three of us held hands and said, “Thank you, God, our Heavenly Parent. Thank you for helping us, teaching us, and showing us how to overcome adversity and still be a grateful person and become a strong son and daughter of God.”

It’s these lessons that my mom has taught throughout our lives that make me remember who I am. I am a daughter of God. I’m a Moonie, yes, I am. But I am a daughter of God. I am reminded that what our parents most want is for us to shine our divinity to the world, to share the beauty of our divinity to the world. Human beings are like light bulbs. No matter how grand or expensive a light bulb we are, if we’re not connected to the real source of love, which is God, we will not shine as brilliantly as we were meant to shine.

When you’re an adolescent, you hope that you’re cool. You never pass a mirror without looking at yourself once or twice. Oftentimes when I go walking in the city, sometimes window-shopping with my kids, I’m counting, oh, my son Preston looked in that mirror, three, four, five times. My daughter was checking out her shoes. Or, my son was checking the back of his hair as he walked by. We become very self-conscious of how we look on the outside.

But see, no matter how beautiful we are on the outside, if the inner light, the filament in the light bulb, is not working properly, the electrical current that comes from God, this incredible thing called true love, can’t make the filament glow. Therefore, the light bulb will not be able to cast its light out into the world.

I feel that the mothers have an incredible role. I saw my mother for many years standing behind my father, then slowly coming up next to my father, and then finally taking the lead and leaving my father behind. It is she who is standing in the position of leadership in our movement. It is she who is spearheading different projects, starting different organizations, giving public speeches. To see my mother transformed into the incredible woman that she is now gives me incredible hope that I can play a part in being an agent of change just like my mother, to make this country, our communities and my family into something great.

I feel that the world is ready for women in leadership. In the 1970s and the 1980s, the big threat was communism. My father invested so many of his resources to combat communism, building and supporting the Washington Times so that together with Ronald Reagan he could usher in a time of perestroika and glasnost and see the walls come down, the Soviet empire crumble, and communism go away.

But the great threat now to our lives, our communities, and our nation is terrorism. It’s a war of religions, if you will. With a mother’s heart, the women are going to play a crucial role in bringing together these siblings, like the sons and daughters of God, reminding these different religions of the True Parents, that God as our heavenly parent and that we belong to one family that needs to love and to take care of each other, not just tolerate and coexist. I don’t want to be in a family where I’m just tolerated by my husband. In fact, if he wrote me a beautiful anniversary card, saying, “Dear In Jin, thank you for being my wife all these years. I truly tolerate you, I want to spend the rest of my life coexisting with you,” I think I would have another volcanic eruption, and it would be fair to do so.

But if he were to say to me, “I love you with all my heart, I want to give everything I have to you so that we can establish and grow and nurture an incredible family,” then I would want to spend the rest of my life with this man forever. That’s the power of love. It’s the greatest force in the universe. Only through love can we solve the problems of our society, and only through love can we solve this threat called terrorism that is plaguing our lives each and every day.

As long as I am a mother, I cannot sit idle while the world is fighting, while the brothers and sisters of God, the different religions are fighting. We do not need another terrorist attack. In fact, it must be a mother’s heart -- the heart of love, the heart of living for the sake of others, the heart of service and the heart of excellence -- that educates, that creates the desire to raise up a young generation, a generation that can name its own as a generation of peace and to usher in a new millennium, a world where we no longer have to worry about violence, hatred, anger, and frustration but where we can celebrate life and honor and respect each other as divine human beings, as divine sons and daughters, so that we can truly be the brilliant light that God wants us to be.

So, brothers and sisters, happy Mother’s Day. Please honor your wife, and, children in the audience, please love your mother and honor her because there is nothing like coming home to a nice bowl of chicken soup, right? Not only is chicken soup good penicillin for the body, but it’s truly something that nourishes the heart and inspires us to become great men and women of God.

So God bless, and happy Mother’s Day. 

Letter to Members

In Jin Moon
May 10, 2009

NHQ200905010 No. 15

To: All FFWPU District, State and Church leaders, all Blessed Central Families
From: Rev. In Jin Moon
Date: May 10, 2009

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

Happy Mother’s Day! LOVIN’ LIFE MINISTRIES has now held five Sunday Services and I would like to thank you for your support during this starting period. Your letters of encouragement certainly seem to confirm that we are off to a good start. Thank you all for your support and patience during this transition time from the way things are to the way things can be. Let’s continue to build a community that we can be proud of and showcase a beautiful testament to our Heavenly Parent and our True Parents.

We will have a LOVIN’ LIFE Sunday Service at the Manhattan Center every week at 10:00 am. On May 24th, however, we are planning a True Day of All Things Lovin’ Life Spring Fest celebration at Belvedere for the tri-state area. This will be similar to the exciting Holy Day celebrations which True Parents held in the 1970’s and we want you to come and enjoy a day in which we celebrate the creation which Heavenly Father has given to us. It will start at 10:00 am with a LOVIN’ LIFE service followed by all-day entertainment, sports, food and games for kids. As one family, let us celebrate and appreciate each other and offer joy to God. Bring all of your friends!

We are renovating our church Headquarters to be a place to invite your friends. I am an advocate of “natural witnessing.” We will have a catalog of many ongoing programs which will make it easy to bring guests. This past week we had a “LASTING IMPRINT” seminar and a presentation of “LOVE IN THE NEW MILLENIUM” which were both well attended and received good feedback. Please come and support our outreach efforts as often as you can.

Have a wonderful week. God bless you and your families.

Rev. In Jin Moon

President FFWPU - USA 

A Religious Life Is Very Much Like That Of A True Artist

In Jin Moon
May 3, 2009

The following is a transcription of Rev. In Jin Moon’s sermon at Lovin' Life Ministries held at the Manhattan Center in New York City on May 3, 2009.

Good morning, brothers and sisters. And good morning to you, in the New Jerusalem and West Rock Family Churches. I’m delighted that you will be joining with us here at the Manhattan Center at Lovin’ Life Ministries this morning. I’m glad to see you once again.

I just came back from Japan, where I attended the 9th Annual Youth Concert for Ideal Families and World Peace. This was a project that I had started nine years ago, when my second son, Rexton, won the Grand Prize at the IBLA International Competition for pianists. This was an adult competition that he entered almost as a joke. His Russian piano teacher said to me, “You know what, he’s probably not going to win anything, by why don’t we go and have a great time!” So my second son wasn’t really looking toward winning anything. He went [to Ragusa-Ibla, Italy] for a great experience and in preparation for possible future competitions. But, surprisingly, he ended up being the Grand Prize winner that year. And he was only 11 years old.

So since he had won the Grand Prize, competing with the best of Julliard, Curtis, and other outstanding conservatories from all around the world, he was awarded a recording contract by Athena records as well as a worldwide tour. One of our destinations just happened to be Tokyo, Japan. After we found ourselves in Japan, I asked him, “You know, your grandfather always talks about living a life of service, and now that you have won an incredible and prestigious award, what do you want to do with it?” And this 11-year-old boy told me, “It might be really good to do something on behalf of the young people of Japan.” So he had his professional concert at Tokyo Opera Theater, but afterwards, the next day, he held a concert open to the public, which was attended by a lot of our Second Generation. Thus started the Annual Youth Concert for Ideal Families. Since then we have been going back to Japan year after year.

For seven years we built up the credibility of the concert series, having hundreds of choirs throughout all of Japan that we’ve supported and sponsored competing with each other every year. All throughout the year, these hundreds of choirs compete to be able to perform at the next youth concert, where top three choirs get to perform.

What started out was a group of ragamuffins, kids who were thinking about maybe possibly singing but weren’t really trained to do so. But we had a great volunteer, a mother professor who really treated this ragamuffin bunch of kids as her own and nurtured them to incredible professionalism. So by this year, the eighth year, they have become quite a phenomenon in Japan that they were awarded an invitation to Embassy Row in Tokyo, Japan. They performed for different embassies, but at the same time in our spirit of servicing the world with our talents they did a lot of outreach programs. The kind of outreach programs that they did was visiting old folk’s homes where old men and women are literally waiting to die. These beautiful Japanese children, beautifully dressed in kimonos, had so much love and respect for the elderly that they did not only perform for the elder folks but they spent time with them, eating, drawing, and playing together with them. Each visit is a full-day event.

These people who are just waiting to die felt renewed and re-inspired. They were moved to tears, knowing that Japan is in great hands because they could see the love, the care, and the desire to service elders in such a beautiful way. They felt like these kids are imbued with the spirit of God and understand the importance of treating each and every human being as a vessel of the divine. They were re-inspired that they are leaving their country to worthy hands.

This is something that has been going on for the last nine years. When I went back to Japan, we had the top three choirs perform again. What I like to do in my family is incorporate the best of Japan. I think of us as an American family because we live here, so I want to introduce a little bit of America by having my children perform. My daughter performed Debussy and Scriabin; two of my boys rocked the house down playing Eric Clapton and Three Days Grace, believe it or not. The Japanese children had an incredibly wonderful time.

We have often heard people call music the universal language. I am a big believer in that. I believe that one of the most important things that we can do as parents is introduce our children not just to the beauty of the English language or to the elegance of mathematical formulas or language but to the divine language, which I call music.

In Romans 1:20, it says that you can see God, you can experience his eternal power and his divine nature, through the things that he has made. Emily Dickinson said, “Invisible like music, but positive as sound.” That’s what music is. Even though we can’t see God, many times we can feel God through music. When you are sitting before these incredible choirs who are so professional even though they are just little kids, and you hear them singing their hearts out, you cannot help but experience God. Your emotions start moving because emotion is “energy in motion.” It’s the eternal energy in motion that is set to a language called music. Not only am I inspired, but the children are so inspired. After every performance, they come to me and say “Arigato Gozaimasu. Thank you very much., I felt God tonight. I really felt our Heavenly Parent tonight.”

In America we have American Idol, right? I don’t know if you have heard, but in Britain they have a show called Britain’s Got Talent. There was one contestant who literally had me in tears. Her name is Susan Boyle. Has anyone heard about her? She’s not what you would call attractive. In fact, when I first saw her coming out on stage, I thought, “Is this a joke? Is this a man?” I asked my son, “Is this a comedy act that they put on as a warm-up?” Then my son said, “No, keep on watching.”

Then Susan Boyle came out and talked a little bit about herself, and I realized, oh, she is a woman. And then the camera panned the audience. So it wasn’t just me, brothers and sisters, it was the audience, too. They were looking at this woman like, “Can this woman really sing?” You can just see some women with their mouths wide open, trying to figure her out, just like I was. Even the three judges that were supposedly judging her were looking at her askance, wondering whether she was going to be able to pull it off or not. But then the music started, and she sang one of my favorite songs from Les Miz. When she hit that first note, you could hear a hush in the audience. All the unbelievers, all the people who doubted, just suddenly became speechless. For the next – I don’t know how= long -- she swept us away in waves of emotion, this energy in motion, and I could not stop crying. I was crying so profusely my son was giving me tissues but also dotting his eyes as well. She brought the house down.

Then, of course, after the song was finished, she became an instant celebrity. And what happens with celebrities? They found she’s never been kissed. So there was all this talk about “OK, we’ve got to find her a boyfriend. Maybe one of the judges will take her out.” But they’re having great fun with her.

The power of her voice! Where did that invisible talent come from? It came from God, our Heavenly parent. But it must have been years and years of dedication, endurance, and persistence; it must have been years and years of sowing that one more practicing session, maybe in the shower, while she was cooking, or while she was walking to church. That constant diligence to master her art allowed her to bring the house down on a show called Britain’s Got Talent.

I would like to create the Youth Concert series here in the United States as well. One reason why I feel that art is so important for children is because it teaches discipline, persistence, and endurance. When my kids started their piano lessons, their scales weren’t much to talk about: a lot of wrong notes, a lot of uneven notes, and very unpleasant to the ears.

My older brother was fifteen when he was learning how to play the guitar, and I was twelve years old. My mother said, “You know what? I would love for both of you to go back to Korea and do a little bit of schooling. Could you accompany your brother to the Little Angels School of Korea?”

So off I was sent. One of the first things that you have to do, since this is an art school, is decide what art you want to study. And I wanted to study painting because that’s my other love. But my mother said, “No, I want you to try something new,” so she plopped me into ballet class, which I absolutely abhorred, but I still did it anyway. My brother got to choose an instrument, and he chose the electric guitar.

I remember when he first brought it home, one of the first songs assigned to him was “Jingle Bells.” He said, “In Jin, get over here.” So I said, “Yes, Elder Brother, what can I do?” He said, “Sit.” I said, “What?” He said “Sit!” and then he plugged the cable into the amp and to the guitar and said, “When I practice, I need an audience.” (Laughter) So there I was, a twelve-year-old girl sitting on the floor, looking at my brother. Every time he played a phrase, he would say, “Clap!” A couple of times I said, “Elder Brother, that was a wrong note,” and then he would say, “Shh! Clap!”

So after weeks of him playing tunes that I really couldn’t quite make out, with “Jingle Bells” sounding something like “Jingle Sci-fi Movie” or something extraordinary, I still had to clap. He kept on going. This man would not stop. There was one evening when he said, “I have to learn this song because I have to perform it but I haven’t really had a chance to practice it as much I would like. So, we are going to practice until midnight.” It was five in the evening.

So I was counting all the hours and asking myself, is my elder brother really going to be able to pull it off? Is he really going to be able to practice for that long? And to my absolute amazement, he kept on going, like a Duracell battery. In the ninth or tenth hour, his fingers started to bleed. I said, “Elder Brother, tissue? Band-Aid?” meaning, “Can I go out of the room?” But he just said, “Sit.” And it went on till midnight. There was blood on the guitar strings, crustified by now. His fingers looked like something out of Aliens, but there was an incredible look of satisfaction on his face. He said, “Now I feel one with the music…Clap!” We celebrated together, and I heard that next day at school his “Jingle Bells” could not have been more sublime. I said to myself, “That’s what it takes -- blood, sweat, and tears, to really master something.

This is an age when the young people’s favorite phrase when you ask them, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” is, “I don’t know.” Or “What are you feeling like doing today?” “I don’t know.” Or “What do you hope to be doing in a month or two?” “I don’t know.” There is almost a feeling of being lost out in the open sea, as well as a feeling of complacency and being satisfied with mediocrity. But the great thing about art is that it encourages young people to set up a schedule, to practice discipline, to develop and show effort. If they do this on a daily basis, they can become an incredible artist who is worthy of standing in front of a stage demonstrating their precious God-given talent by sharing this beautiful universal language with an audience. How much more beautiful than that can life be?

About the artistic life of my children. At the beginning, my husband said to them, “All right, if you are going to take piano lessons seriously and you are going to have your mom drive you to all these piano lessons and we are going to be investing in your future, I would like you to draw up a schedule.” So for many years we had a strict 8 o’clock rule. They could eat breakfast at any time, but when the clock struck 8 both my children who play the piano had to be on their pianos at different ends of the house. When that clock went “tick,” that’s when they knew they had to start practicing.

There were good days, and there were difficult days, but the schedule never changed. In a month or two, their scales actually sounded like beautiful waterfalls. Within a year, they were performing pieces that my husband could not master in ten years of piano lessons. And he was terribly proud of the children. It was this consistent effort and investment in becoming a great artist that allowed my second son Rexton to win the Grand Prize and that allowed my only daughter Ariana to go on to win many incredible prizes, including the First Prize at the Stravinsky Competition in Chicago.

When I share these stories about my children, I am not standing here to brag. I’m saying, “Look at what children can do; look at what two little kids in In Jin’s house could do.” Think about what your children can do or what these groups of choirs have already done in Japan. They have become little ambassadors for their country to the world. They have already developed really great habits of setting goals, understanding the value of delayed gratification, and investing in something because you believe that you can truly be great.

These are all the lessons that I think our children need. If you come across one day somebody on the street or sitting next to you on the bus, and somehow you strike up a conversation and start talking about your kids and the other person says to you, “Well, my child, niece, or nephew doesn’t know what they want to do with their life,” maybe you want to encourage them with, “Have you ever considered music lessons? Have you ever considered art lessons?” These are wonderful tools for children to develop great habits, become great masters themselves, and in the process experience the divine.

I have often thought that a religious life is very much like that of a true artist. It takes daily care, daily nurture, and daily effort to live the correct way of life. I know many times life is difficult, and God puts many obstacles in our way to give us an opportunity to overcome them victoriously and learn something new.

When I was a little girl, I used to always walk around with a little notebook where I put down my thoughts, my feelings, and the things that I noticed. One day I remember sitting on a rock near the tennis courts at East Garden, where we grew up. The sky was so blue, with almost no clouds, and I was thinking, “What kind of a person do I want to be when I grow up?” I wrote down in this little notebook of mine, “I want to be a wise mother.” That was my life’s purpose. I was conversing with my brain, asking myself, “How do I define what a wise person is?”

Then I started looking at my father in my mind. I think of my dad and my mom as a wise man and a wise woman. What is it about my dad that truly makes him wise? Maybe because I come from another country, learning English, what I love to do with the alphabet is take it apart, move it around, and play to see if I can formulate a new word.

On this day I thought, “Let’s look at WISE as an acronym.” So in my mind I understood the word wise to mean, when I thought about my father and mother, he or she who loves the World (W) with Integrity (I), Service (S), and Excellence (E). So, for a little girl back then, that’s what being wise meant, and that’s how I saw my father and my mother.

I have often been impressed to look at this man’s life. He is a man of integrity, meaning he is a man of character. Not a day goes by when he doesn’t start buttoning his shirt from the top down. He has specific rules; the right foot goes inside the sock first, and then the left. Even when he gets up from the chair, the right foot goes first. I remember when I was little, I had enough nerve to tell my father, “Father, that’s really restrictive. Why do you always do that?” Then he said, “This is my way of reminding myself to be a man of integrity, to be a man of character, to always remember God first, and to remember that in every action and every energy in motion -- emotion -- I am thinking about God.”

Why service? He has been living for the sake of others for his whole life. He has always been giving of himself to the whole world, to the whole movement, never thinking about himself. Can you please point out to me someone who has spent over $2 billion alone to build and support the Washington Times because he believed it was an important tool to fight communism? I don’t believe I know anyone else who would do that. So he’s not only a man who says what he says, but he is a man who does what he does.

And he is a man who’s always striving for excellence. I don’t know how many times he pushed his sons and daughters, including myself, to be the best students, the best art students, the best that we can be in a chosen field of study or chosen area. Don’t be satisfied with mediocrity. Try to be more than what you thought you could do.

A lot of people can say that they know someone who is true, but what is the test of something being true? If you put a true person in Case Study A, he will still be true. If you put this person in Case Study B, he will still be true. If you put this person in Case Study C, he will still be true No matter where you place this man or woman, he or she will still and always be true. That’s what it means to be a true man or a true woman.

When I was going to school, a lot of kids would say, “Oh, you’re a Moonie. Your father’s a businessman. He has so much money. You guys live in a mansion.” And I would often reply, “If you had 14 children, you would need something a little bigger than a cottage. And my father is always thinking about other people, too.” It wasn’t just the children who were living there; there were brothers and sisters living there together with us. If that’s not one family, I don’t know what is. But maybe by some people’s standards it was a mansion, it was high living. But then if my father is really true, then he will be true no matter where he is.

Brothers and sisters, this is a man who not only lives in a big house but who has been in and out of prison six times in his life just because he wanted to preach the word of God. And the sixth time, when he was thrown into prison at Danbury, Connecticut, it was just because he was trying to teach the American people the importance of having moral values, the importance of having a solid family unit that a good society can be built on.

I remember I was 18 years old when my father was incarcerated in Danbury, Connecticut. My 18th year of life is literally a blur for me because when my father went to jail, he said, “In Jin, I want you to work with the distinguished leaders of the civil rights movement and the luminaries of the American clergy and together create a religious freedom coalition so that we together, as ministers of God, can fight this injustice that the American government is putting upon your father.”

I remember working with people like Dr. Lowery and Dr. Abernathy, so many wonderful clergy. They literally took me under their wing; I became like their adopted daughter. I learned so much about how incredible these people were, and I heard their stories about how they were called by God to enter into ministry.

But one of the most profound things for me as a daughter to witness was to go and visit my father in prison, to see him as a prisoner, in prison garb. We had only a limited number of hours to see our father. I remember he was always making sure that the other prisoners went out to see their visitors first, always making sure that the other families who came to see them had water and a place to sit.

The other five times that my father was in prison were before I was born, but this time I saw it with my own eyes. I’ve heard stories about my father being in a concentration camp in North Korea, thrown there by the communist regime because communists don’t believe in God and my dad was preaching the word of God. I remember stories that my father would be in a place where there was just a concrete block wall with one urinal, a bucket, and nobody wanted to sit next to the bucket.

Everyone would fight to be the furthest away. But I’ve heard stories that my father, because he was thinking about the discomfort of other prisoners, volunteered to sleep next to the bucket, making more room so that people would not fight. I heard stories about my father giving up his little bowl of rice, what they call rice balls in Korea. They gave out only one a day, made out of very tough, nearly inedible barley. People fought over these rice balls. When somebody died mid-bite, another prisoner would scoop it out of the dead man’s mouth and eat it. I remember stories about my father many times going hungry because he had given his rice ball to somebody who was weak or sick, day after day.

I remember stories about my father scrubbing the urinal with a little brush he found somewhere or rolling his prison clothes into a ball and scrubbing the area as clean as he could because he was thinking of the other people. If that’s not a true man, I don’t know what is. The communist prison officials realized that this man was true. They thought they were sentencing him to death because nobody survived these camps. Hungnam in particular was known for being a place where people went in but never came out. But my father persevered for three years. He was liberated by the UN forces, by the American soldiers, when he was scheduled for execution. Thus, he has huge gratitude to this country of America.

People began to realize that if you put Reverend Moon in jail, not only will he not die, but he will come out with a whole new congregation. Because Koreans are a very stubborn bunch of people, they had to stick him in prison five times before they realized that every time they sentenced the man to death, he kept coming out with a new congregation. The American government tried the same thing. They stuck my father in Danbury. Within a year, as predictable as day and night, he came out with a new congregation.

There is something incredibly unique about this man. I was having dinner with one of our movement’s leaders, and he said, “Sometimes it’s very difficult to understand your father, but one thing I must admit is that there has been no one like him before, and there will probably be another man like him in years to come. He is a singular phenomenon. He was quite unique. He must be a gift from God.” I said to this leader, “I am so glad to hear you say that.”

We don’t always fully comprehend the significance of this incredible new providential push that my father is making. Of all the places that he could choose in the United States! Why not the Appalachian mountains, or Yosemite National Park, one of all these beautiful places that show the grandeur, power, and divinity of God? But my father has chosen Las Vegas as the place to invite people to have conferences on building families. I remember my siblings and I were joking that this is kind of strange. Why Las Vegas? Then we thought, before we can understand why, we can pray about it.

My father asked me to be the keynote speaker at the conference to kick off this Las Vegas providence. I really had to pray about it because in my mind there was a dynamic going on, thinking, “Okay, Father wants it, it’s got to be. But why?” Then it dawned on me. I thought, Las Vegas is like a metaphor for life. Las Vegas was built in the middle of a desert, almost like a mirage when you catch sight of all these hotels and casinos rising up from the dust of the desert. Isn’t the desert waiting for that wonderfully refreshing rainfall? The rainfall, the eternal spring of life, if you will, that comes with God’s word and understanding of God’s love?

I thought, that’s really poetic. Father wants us to be the spring of life, to give new life and meaning to this desert called Las Vegas. Then I was thinking, why is it that so many people refer to Las Vegas as Sin City? It’s Sin City because things are done in the dark, things you wouldn’t do in front of your wife or husband. It’s interesting how the running commercial for the city is, “Whatever you do in Las Vegas stays in Las Vegas.” That’s the understanding Americans have of what Las Vegas is, so a lot of people refer to it as Sin City.

If you put Father somewhere many thousands of years ago in the proximity of what is considered an example of Sin City, let’s say, Sodom and Gomorrah, you know what my father would do? He would go straight into the center of the city, probably with a bucket and some cleaning agent, and scrub the toilets and the floors, preparing the city for its spiritual cleansing by tackling the external cleansing first. This is what my father would do.

Characteristically for my father, he picked the city in America called Sin City to start as the place where he wants to begin scrubbing the toilets and the floors to prepare the city for the spiritual nourishment that is to come, when people realize how incredible it is to understand God, to experience love, and to realize that they are living in this blessed country called America. It’s not something that we should just take for granted and enjoy for ourselves, but bring to the rest of the world.

I thought, what Heavenly Father wants to do is take the noun sin, something that’s dark that you want to hide, and insert a little bit of heaven by adding the letter and turning the noun into a verb by adding "ing." He wants to turn the Sin City into a shining city of God. A shining city on a hill, which our forefathers dreamt about when they first came to this country, is what our Heavenly Parent and what our Father and Mother are asking us to realize in our lifetime, by turning Sin City into a shining city of God, a shining city of light where things are no longer dark but are illuminated in the light of the Lord. In the light of our Heavenly Parent, and in our True Parents, we can become proud Americans and share the importance of family values with the rest of the world.

Etymology was my little hobby in high school. When you take out the “ing” that makes “shining” into a transitive verb, you have shin. So here you have the word that was originally sin injected with a little bit of heaven by adding the H. But the interesting thing is, you know what the shin is on your body? It’s this wonderful bone in our leg that helps us walk, move on, move along. But shin in Korean can mean “you,” and it can also mean “faith.” The name that everyone in the third generation of my family shares is Shin, meaning “faith,” just like the second generation of my family share the name Jin, meaning “to march forward.”

Implicit in this beautiful language of English, God is giving us a clue. Sin City can be transformed into a shining city of God and a shining city of light when it starts walking with this new faith that God is offering us. God is signaling to us that this is not just about our generation. This is about the first three generations. Each generation seems to love naming its own -- Generation X, then Generation Y, Generation Z. Now we’re up to the millennials, which basically is the “show me the money” generation. But why not raise up a new generation of young people that is going to inherit this true love of God that wants to turn the Sin City of Las Vegas into the Shining City of Las Vegas and carry forth with the new faith, determination, and diligence required to make each of us an incredible work of art? I think that’s what God is asking us to do, brothers and sisters.

This is an incredibly exciting and at the same time challenging time, when my father is always saying, “Next we have to do this; next we have to do that.” My father is conceiving all these things that need to be done to meet the providential time line. The only thing we need to do is to believe. It’s in the belief of a young child, of practicing each day that same 8:00 o’clock-sharp discipline, that same 8:00 o’clock-sharp determination, that same 8:00 o’clock-sharp effort that is going to turn this child into one of the greatest artists that the world has ever known. It is going to be our faith, each and every day that reminds us that we are here for something other than ourselves and that we are here to make this nation great. We are here to wake up this nation, to remind itself of its true heritage, which is God, our Heavenly Parent.

Recently there was pandemonium in New York City when some people arranged to take a picture of Air Force One against the backdrop of the Statue of Liberty. They wanted to spend a great deal of money capturing that image. So you had Air Force One flying around the air space of New York City, and the people who saw it were literally going crazy. They thought it was another terrorist attack. People were vacating office buildings in New Jersey. When I saw this I could only close my eyes with the realization that New York City and America are still suffering from the post-traumatic stress syndrome of 9/11 happening on our shores.

We thought something like that could never happen. We became too complacent. Maybe we became too arrogant in our external minds. Maybe we didn’t realize that true might and power come from God, our Heavenly Parent. When I saw this knee-jerk reaction by New Yorkers, turning almost into scared rabbits because they saw a plane circling in their airspace, looking as though it was going to hit different buildings in the city, I realized that something like this could happen again. If we don’t recognize that’s where our true power comes from and that our duty as a nation is to unite all religions together as one family, then 9/11 can happen again.

If we want to raise a generation of peace that is going to usher in a new millennium, we cannot be idle. We have to educate our children to think of more than themselves. We have to educate them that living for the sake of others is a good thing, that respecting others’ faiths, families, and cultural heritage is a beautiful thing. In that way the young people of the world can come together and say, “No more do I want to see wars and fighting and mothers, brothers, and children dying on the streets because we cannot coexist.”

We need to be more than a world that merely coexists. We must be a world that loves each other and truly cares for one another. It starts from us as parents, but we also need the help of the young people. Together, the First, Second, and Third Generations can create wonderful families of our own, but also do something for our country by helping turn Sin City into the Shining City and thus claim our true internal power that makes us divine in the eyes of God.

Brothers and sisters, I hope you can join me on this wonderful Sunday morning in remembering God, our Heavenly Parent, in remembering our True Parents, and really asking ourselves, “Let’s be wise people.” Let us truly be wise. Let us decide today to be those human beings who love the world with integrity, service, and excellence.

Interestingly, many years ago the man that I consider to be the Renaissance Man, Leonardo da Vinci, scribbled in his notebook series that he called the Milanese letters that he was thinking about a figure called Katarina. Some have thought that she might have been a house servant that worked in his home for three years, or his widowed mother, who came to live with him in her later years. When he was in one of his thoughtful moods, he jotted down, “Wisdom is the daughter of experience.”

If a life well lived, full of wonderful, difficult, hard and joyous experience, can really turn a person into a wise person, then I want to be a woman who possesses wisdom. Brothers and sisters, let’s remember that being wise is not about ourselves, about sucking in knowledge, but is in the beauty of experience, the beauty of sharing. It’s the process that makes us truly wise.

I hope that you can go on from this Sunday morning, live a wise life by serving the world with integrity, service, and excellence, and become part of a community that can be an example to the world. Maybe my father might call some of you to help in Las Vegas to help him inject a little bit of heaven, so that selfish leisure can be turned into family leisure and family entertainment, something you don’t have to hide, something you can enjoy together with the family. How wonderful would that be!

So, God bless. Thank you, New Jerusalem and West Rock, for joining us. Have a blessed day.